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I'm in my 30s and don't have kids |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 1
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my nightmare would be becoming a burden for someone |
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Oct 11th 2019 | 112
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I see a lot of childless folks still living out their 20s in their 30s/4... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 2
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i know my kids made me grow the fuck up.... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 3
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I also see this in people who had 1 kid early |
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Oct 10th 2019 | 110
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I've seen the opposite from the 'early kid' parents |
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Oct 21st 2019 | 116
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Are those the only 2 options? Either have kids or stay in the club... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 4
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when you not able to BE in the club...by default, you assume everyone th... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 6
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of course not. the spectrum is inifinite. |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 45
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Real talk: I see a path to happiness and contentment on both sides of th... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 5
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It could go either way.... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 7
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FWIW, I do this and more as a parent: |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 8
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FOH... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 13
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mans is lyyyyiiiiinggggg |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 22
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Lmao. I think it depends on the age of the kids |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 24
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Let me find out this dude a stay-at-home deadbeat dad and shit.... |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 25
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"stay-at-home deadbeat dad" like....how even? |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 46
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Daddy in the basement having daddy time |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 99
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I'm convinced that I'm the only true nerd left on this board |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 27
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Ionno fam....I was never really out them streets like that at all either... |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 29
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I got two cats and if I'm on the toilet too long |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 41
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This nigga said 2 cats. |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 100
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yes, that's what I said. |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 104
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you know what really fucks me up about all of what you just said? |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 47
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Word to this. I'm 35 w/out kids and for right now, perfectly content wit... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 10
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Yup. |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 16
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Same to you !! |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 18
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this part has little to do with kids.... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 9
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Correct. |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 11
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about the same age as you. married w/ no kids |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 12
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that dude was an asshole. |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 14
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I definitely feel like there's a little of that |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 15
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Definitely an asshole ! |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 20
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I feel like this dynamic is changing too... |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 17
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For sure. |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 21
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RE: about the same age as you. married w/ no kids |
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Oct 03rd 2019 | 19
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I used to get a some of this from my family... |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 28
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You really got past it? |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 92
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I know a few friends without kids |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 23
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Yes to all of this... |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 26
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I was lined up to follow this schedule |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 32
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RE: I was lined up to follow this schedule |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 35
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I think its different for different people, both of my sisters had kids.... |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 31
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RE: I know a few friends without kids |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 40
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I don't like it either |
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Oct 05th 2019 | 44
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My friends in their 40's have effectively settled down |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 30
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I feel like my friends that had kids young and those kids are grown are.... |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 33
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Oh for sure, they were on the sidelines! |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 36
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RE: Oh for sure, they were on the sidelines! |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 37
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I've seen this too. |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 52
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My brother. His son was 16 and about to leave for college |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 102
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I'm older than you and don't have kids but |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 34
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totally get it... lol... you know what else is a trip |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 38
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I'm in the middle with a 12yo @ 41, and I see both sides |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 39
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I can only think of one person my age who's like...still out there |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 42
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Childless Men vs Childless Woman? |
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Oct 04th 2019 | 43
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So...a thing I always think about, re: men vs. women |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 50
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Absolutely! Gendered Expectations |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 81
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Whoooooole lotta generalizing going on in here. |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 82
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my sisters had kids early |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 48
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I thought about this post. What I'm really trying to get at is this: |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 49
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But maybe that's just how she wanted it ? |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 51
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thats kind of goals |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 62
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LOL right ! |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 71
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RE: I thought about this post. What I'm really trying to get at is this: |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 53
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Haha right. It's their life/journey. If it doesn't impact you why should... |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 54
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I'm sayin' though. Simply existing for the sake of existing seems to |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 56
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Leave a legacy or die tryin? |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 58
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Lol I'm good |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 61
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you can't do nothing. |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 76
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hmm |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 55
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in his defense, he's still fleshing it out..... |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 60
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you're not wrong but that wasnt the point i was trying to make. |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 78
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I was with you until the last part about your friend |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 57
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Preach, man. |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 59
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its two ideas. |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 73
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Yeah. Some folks aren’t into the online thing |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 75
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this is her legacy |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 79
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I waited till 32 to have kids |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 63
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Any thought of getting back with their daddy? |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 66
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God no. I’d rather shoot myself |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 72
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Damn.. ok. Focus on them kids |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 74
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Hopefully. It will more than likely be a man with kids of his own |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 84
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Clarity --- KIDS or KID |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 64
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We got a 2 and a 4 year old |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 65
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I'm an only child... |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 67
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Haha.. word. |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 68
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Step parents: speak on it |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 69
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Way back in the day.. never again |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 70
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lol...would read again lol |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 80
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I'm about the age my stepdad was when he married my mom |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 77
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I mostly used to try to avoid dating chicks with kids but as you get... |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 88
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Good discussion in here - but it seems we view childless ppl as strange |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 83
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Yep. Furthermore, at least in the grand US of A, once a child is born ..... |
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Oct 07th 2019 | 85
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Yeah, I'd prefer people with children miss me with the value judgments |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 86
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Childless Ppl are not bad, but definitely different |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 94
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Childless people fund the elite? Wtf? |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 95
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yea that's a bit weird. I actually find the opposite to be more true |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 96
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my wife and I doubled our salary AFTER 2 kids |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 98
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party supplies for non holiday celebrations at school |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 101
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Our biggest bill is daycare. I’m looking forward to school uni’s |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 103
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Old coworker said he didn’t see the point of a marriage without kids |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 87
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right with the divorce rates and the current state of the country... |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 89
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An emphasis on child rearing in society would make the world better |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 90
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People who do not have nor want children = NOT STRANGE |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 93
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I think you nailed it. |
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Oct 09th 2019 | 108
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This sounds like yelping because the rocks hit: |
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Oct 21st 2019 | 115
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You can do all that WITH KIDS, or not. |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 91
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Ur Woman's Biological Clock is ticking better have them kids |
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Oct 08th 2019 | 97
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to me it seems like a lot of professional women single and married... |
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Oct 09th 2019 | 105
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Earliest I could have another kid would be 42yo. Means I'd be 60yo... |
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Oct 21st 2019 | 117
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i caught this to late n/m |
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Oct 09th 2019 | 106
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never. whats your perspective? |
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Oct 09th 2019 | 107
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time flys... |
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Oct 10th 2019 | 111
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shit i am kinda standing with one foot in all those three categories hah... |
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Oct 09th 2019 | 109
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I prefer the phrase “family non-conforming” |
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Oct 20th 2019 | 113
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I have a lot of friends who I am just now realizing that they are going ... |
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Oct 21st 2019 | 114
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lmao.. sadly, this is true too. |
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Oct 21st 2019 | 118
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Broke up with my high school sweetheart because she didnt want kids |
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Oct 21st 2019 | 119
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