he tried to do something good...

https://gossiponthis.com/2019/09/01/malik-yoba-attracted-trans-women-heterosexual/

but then this happened..

https://gossiponthis.com/2019/09/02/mariah-lopez-ebony-malik-yoba-trans-woman-paid-sex-13-years-old/

damn homey.

my immediate reaction to his coming out was "dope but this could be a publicity stunt", then I thought "maybe it's real and someone is trying to blackmail him"

then when the next story came out, I thought "if this has been an open secret for years, why did this woman wait until he said it to make a Facebook post"

I have a hard time trusting little name gossip sites. I just need more to go off of here

if you do a google search the coming out post is all over, BET.com etc. but regardless whether its true or not here is another brother jammed up

Your rationale works both ways

He could be making these statements as damage control ahead of charges being filed

If it is true, we'll probably see more accusers come forward and court proceedings to follow

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If you can't understand it without an explanation

you can't understand it with an explanation

front of the accusation. I couldn't figure out why he would choose this moment to come out, so I figured he was about to get in trouble for something.

waste any time blasting him

accusations.

Doesn't age well.

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

#metoo not really trying to hear it

for not telling his kids even tho he has been crafting his IG statement for months.

She basically said they have an “arrangement” and implied dude been dating them for a looooong time.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

one plays out, esp if more underaged victims come fwd

for a month....

NY Undercovers ass nigga.

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I can make it even crazier.

So the joke around here is that you use to always run into this dude out here in fort greene so much that it ain't even worth pointing out when you see him.

I have a home girl who has at one time bragged about getting with old boy. A spoken for home girl at that. We aren't cool anymore but wondering what her weekend has been like.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

He was dating a girl I went to college with (about ten years after we graduated) and I saw them at that hookuh bar on Broadway in Williamsburg back in 2012. She was a top five black girl at my school during my time there, but that's beside the point, I guess. She moved on from him maybe 3 years after that and wound up having a baby with another dude we went to college with.

Both he and Romany Malco live (lived?) in FG and there are many, many, many stories.

@geahuwine

It's not only his wife but there are all sorts of people across the spectrum who might be worried about dealing with that grimey d*ck dude.



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

I'd read the story but I hadn't seen the video.
https://www.instagram.com/p/B1oNm2SD6CY/

If you're completely hetero, that's fine, but ain't no need or sense in harassing somebody about their sexuality. Then on the flipside, we got people harassing Ginuwine for not wanting to kiss transgender woman, calling THAT toxic. The only toxicity present in all of this is those who can't live and let others have their preferences without harassment imo.

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Days like this I miss Sha Mecca

Not saying I haven’t done it before because I have but harassing and chasing someone down the street over it?

What happened to shaking your head and a few times or having the sad/mad face for a sec and then going about your day?

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

>What happened to shaking your head and a few times or having
>the sad/mad face for a sec and then going about your day?

why can’t folks just say eww in their heads and kim?

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

>What happened to shaking your head and a few times or having
>the sad/mad face for a sec and then going about your day?

It's not good enough to treat everyone fairly and equally, you got to have "no opinion" as well?

That's just doesn't seem realistic and folks seem full of BS to say otherwise. People are constantly forming opinions and judging others, it's what we do.



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

not do it

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

Implies they have total mastery over their opinions of others in some narrow PC contexts.

That’s rich.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

https://gph.is/22gAXI9

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

I have thoughts on R Kelly (horrible person)
I have thoughts on Beyonce (greatest live performer of all time)
I can assess cisgender women I would and wouldn't fuck

transgender relations should only be processed three ways
- yes please
- no thanks (where I stand)
- maybe I'd be open to it

someone said "why not just be sad/mad and make a face at men liking transgender women?", I reply "why not just mind your business" and it's thought policing, this place is nuts

And if my boy came to me and say he was in love with a transgendered person I'd be like do what makes you happy.

But if my boy were to show up at the function with Lebron James with a wig and a fashion nova dress, it would take some effort to suppress a look of, "wow that looks crazy".

I think that's a natural reaction and only the smug hypocrite would try to judge people for having that instinctive internal reaction.



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

the initial conversation wasnt "my friend shows up and catches me off guard"

a scumbag said "why harass people, just judge them silently and keep it moving", as if that made his mindset superior to hecklers

9 years ago I was on a date in New York and saw two men making out in public, my only reaction was "wow that was unexpected", I was 30 at this point. For me personally, life is about growth and evolution though

Maybe I didn't go far enough. I wasn't just talking about catching people off gaurd. I am talking about your boy showing up with Lebron James in a skirt and a wig and it would do more than catch most people off gaurd. I think most people would see that and think, that dude looks crazy. I think that's a natural response folks shouldn't be judged for. Better people will keep that sentiment to sentiment to themselves or only share with the missus or close friends. I think not great people will say something mean to the friend or the transwoman.

I think the disagreement I am having with you is that you equate the person who thinks the thoughts with the person who says something mean to the person.

I guess I am also disagreeing with you if your saying thinking the bad thoughts makes you a bad person.




>the initial conversation wasnt "my friend shows up and
>catches me off guard"
>
>a scumbag said "why harass people, just judge them silently
>and keep it moving", as if that made his mindset superior to
>hecklers
>
>9 years ago I was on a date in New York and saw two men making
>out in public, my only reaction was "wow that was unexpected",
>I was 30 at this point. For me personally, life is about
>growth and evolution though
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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

While claiming to be on a date.. lol

This is the same dude who got upset because people abbreviated Happy Birthday on his Facebook timeline.

For 9 years that shit has been seared into his memory.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

>While claiming to be on a date.. lol
>
>This is the same dude who got upset because people abbreviated
>Happy Birthday on his Facebook timeline.
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>For 9 years that shit has been seared into his memory.

you're playing devil's advocate for one of the worst people posting on here

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

>it would take some effort to suppress a look of, "wow that looks crazy"

>I have thoughts on Beyonce (greatest live performer of all
>time)

must know what's on your mind

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

It’s impossible. Even if your opinion is “doesn’t bother me” it’s still an opinion

However my post was directed at those who chase people down and want to fight them because they don’t agree with other peoples choices.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

>It’s impossible. Even if your opinion is “doesn’t
>bother me” it’s still an opinion

me saying "what happened to having no opinion at all" implied negative views on how people choose to love aren't cool. but sure "that's perfectly fine" is a more acceptable opinion

congratulations if you believe you won here



>However my post was directed at those who chase people down
>and want to fight them because they don’t agree with other
>peoples choices.


your idea that they should just scowl and shake their head is counterproductive, I hope this discussion can end here

But I’m talking about people who give chase and fight others over this shit like in the video.

I think asking them to be righteous non-judgmental perfect humans is a tough ask.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

It’s a great fucking option.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

it seems important that people disapprove of this even if it isn't physical or verbal confrontation

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

Need a podcast or something. And don't blur out the fist fights lol I love your arguments!

I'm a lurker. What you have just posted must have been that awesome!

Me personally, I think the person who has judgemental thoughts isn't as nearly a bad or judgemental a person as the person who thinks it's wrong to have judgemental thoughts.





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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

Shit is crazy.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

https://media.giphy.com/media/zGZOcFgBDrrBC/giphy.gif

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

(*im well aware this is a slur, this is how bigots talk)

at some point anyone viewing the world that way needs to do self-reflection and decide if these are thoughts they're okay with carrying around.


>Me personally, I think the person who has judgemental
>thoughts isn't as nearly a bad or judgemental a person as the
>person who thinks it's wrong to have judgemental thoughts.

Eminem once said "You find me offensive, I find you offensive for finding me offensive" in a comedic rap song

if that's the logic you want to employ here, cool

but "being toxic isn't as bad as thinking it's wrong to be toxic" doesnt fly in the real world the way it sounds cute riding the fence on message boards. It's okay to just take right/wrong stances about things

Dreams are cool but reality is we live in America.

It would be awesome if racism and bigotry didn’t exist but it does...

So I prefer if those folks just think it and stfu instead of acting on it.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

care what someone thinks about me, I just want you to treat me fairly.


I'll let you worry about what other people think.



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

a subliminally racist person wont treat you fairly

I think all white people are subliminally racist.

But I don't have to single white people out.

I think all men are subliminally sexist.

I think we all subliminally carry prejudices that we should be aware of. I don't think these thoughts makes us terrible people, a lot of it is instinctive or drilled into us through society.

I think the honest person acknowledges this and works to not let these thoughts govern how they treat other people.

I believe the hypocrites who try to convince you that they are above such prejudices who are the ones you have to watch and worry about.



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

>I believe the hypocrites who try to convince you that they are
>above such prejudices who are the ones you have to watch and
>worry about.

right: everyone has the capacity to be prejudiced and thus should be mindful

wrong: it's okay to be prejudiced, just don't harass people. the people who call your prejudice into question are hypocrites and a bigger issue

>right: everyone has the capacity to be prejudiced and thus
>should be mindful


You are saying now that this has been your point all along?mk.



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

I have conceded that there are right and wrong ways to be "open minded" on this debate

to everyone has the capacity to be prejudiced and thus
should be mindful.

I noticed the slick use of passive voice by the way. Let me ask you staight up, do you have prejudiced thoughts?





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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

that's how healthy conversations work. but you seem intent on making this into something else

It's like the white dude who thinks he is down with black people being the one who feels more entitled to say the N Word.

This isn't an Eminem lyric. Your whole point is against being judgemental, but you are being as judgemental as anyone in here. That's called being a hypocrite.

Because people say one thing and do another, I'd rather focus on what people do then concern myself with what they say or even think.



>(*im well aware this is a slur, this is how bigots talk)
>
>at some point anyone viewing the world that way needs to do
>self-reflection and decide if these are thoughts they're okay
>with carrying around.
>
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>>Me personally, I think the person who has judgemental
>>thoughts isn't as nearly a bad or judgemental a person as
>the
>>person who thinks it's wrong to have judgemental thoughts.
>
>Eminem once said "You find me offensive, I find you offensive
>for finding me offensive" in a comedic rap song
>
>if that's the logic you want to employ here, cool
>
>but "being toxic isn't as bad as thinking it's wrong to be
>toxic" doesnt fly in the real world the way it sounds cute
>riding the fence on message boards. It's okay to just take
>right/wrong stances about things


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

plain as day, I rephrased his words to show extreme cases of how bigoted people think

point.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

You already know why they do it.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

Used to use that all the time as a kid in Philly.


A bunch of dudes harassing a dude because he's gay is wack-as-fuck.

>
>A bunch of dudes harassing a dude because he's gay is
>wack-as-fuck.

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and it really sucks

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man i missed this jawnt

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“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee Strobel, The Case for Christ

The Case for Christ Lecture: https://youtu.be/67uj2qvQi_k

Looking for Good News: https://www.goo

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“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee Strobel, The Case for Christ

The Case for Christ Lecture: https://youtu.be/67uj2qvQi_k

Looking for Good News: https://www.goo

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

to be a "supporter" of the LGBTQ+ community but doesn't want to be one of them

dandy

but if he was actually going after 13 Year old Girls that DOES deserve some heavy scorn

R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
Dec 29th 2009 - Dec 17th 2017