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mikediggz
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"up next...Malik Yoba"


  

          

he tried to do something good...

https://gossiponthis.com/2019/09/01/malik-yoba-attracted-trans-women-heterosexual/

but then this happened..

https://gossiponthis.com/2019/09/02/mariah-lopez-ebony-malik-yoba-trans-woman-paid-sex-13-years-old/

damn homey.

  

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why are we rushing to believe either account
Sep 03rd 2019
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RE: why are we rushing to believe either account
Sep 03rd 2019
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NYC just changed the statute of limitations IRT sexual assualt
Sep 03rd 2019
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I haven't looked deeply, but I assumed he was trying to get out in
Sep 03rd 2019
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yeah he may have been trying to control the narrative but ole gal didnt
Sep 03rd 2019
5
What's hilarious is the glowing article that BET published before the
Sep 03rd 2019
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yeah it looked like he had hit a home run
Sep 03rd 2019
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Now his wife is putting him on blast
Sep 03rd 2019
8
yeah bro is def in the hot seat. gonna be interesting to see how this
Sep 03rd 2019
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      Dude had his finger over the return button like a nuke detonator
Sep 04th 2019
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           RE: Dude had his finger over the return button like a nuke detonator
Sep 04th 2019
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                I was going to say this earlier, but I'll say it now.
Sep 04th 2019
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                Anyone 30+, black, in northern BK has a Malik Yoba story.
Sep 04th 2019
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                Lol what does all that have to do with anything
Sep 04th 2019
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                     RE: Lol what does all that have to do with anything
Sep 04th 2019
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                I sat right next to him at Ola in FG.
Sep 04th 2019
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That video he posted on his IG is quite sad tho.
Sep 04th 2019
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Like getting mad because someone doesn’t like a certain food
Sep 04th 2019
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easy Legs, you wandering into murky waters my ninja lol.
Sep 04th 2019
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I’m joking but you know...
Sep 04th 2019
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      no doubt. we aint gotta agree with every fuckin thg
Sep 04th 2019
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what happened to having no opinion at all
Sep 04th 2019
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      This is the thought policing shit that drives oldt heads crazy
Sep 05th 2019
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      this thing where you say what "we" do because you're unable
Sep 05th 2019
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      That thing where the world’s most reactively toxic person
Sep 05th 2019
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      imagine being this much of a loser
Sep 05th 2019
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      Again.
Sep 05th 2019
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      sorry man. if the topic is transgender love, I have no opinion
Sep 05th 2019
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           I mean, my opinion is live and let live.
Sep 05th 2019
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           move goalposts if that'll keep the conversation going
Sep 05th 2019
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           Their is no goal post moving, the conversation is judging ppl silently.
Sep 05th 2019
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           That nigga lying. He remembers seeing 2 dudes kissing 9 years ago
Sep 05th 2019
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           lmao...
Sep 05th 2019
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           I don't think about transgender love nor do I judge it
Sep 05th 2019
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           So much bitch in you I see why you claim not to judge
Sep 05th 2019
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           lol
Sep 05th 2019
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           you put Bey over MJ and Prince?
Sep 05th 2019
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           obviously you're lying, buddy said we all have opinions and buddy
Sep 05th 2019
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      Having no opinion at all is like not not seeing color
Sep 05th 2019
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           I don't know why Im bothering at this point
Sep 05th 2019
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                Obviously doing nothing at all is the best option
Sep 05th 2019
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                     "what happened to just being a non violent bigot?"
Sep 05th 2019
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                          You can’t control peoples thoughts
Sep 05th 2019
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                               we're talking about you suggesting silent disapproval is a good option
Sep 05th 2019
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                                    compared to chasing someone down and assaulting them?
Sep 05th 2019
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                                    pretty wild that you cant arrive at "people should mind their business"
Sep 06th 2019
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                                         Baby steps
Sep 06th 2019
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                                              You two...
Sep 12th 2019
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                                    It's a natural response and not one people can control.
Sep 06th 2019
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                                         How the fuck would one even know someone has silent judgements?
Sep 06th 2019
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                                         word, you think you're better than what you imagine about other people
Sep 06th 2019
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                                         RE: word, you think you're better than what you imagine about other peop...
Sep 06th 2019
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                                              Dude been following you around like you got treats
Sep 06th 2019
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                                                   mans can't stop saying silly shit
Sep 10th 2019
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                                         if "people loving trannies* disgusts me" is a natural response
Sep 06th 2019
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                                              This is some “I had a dream” type wishing.
Sep 06th 2019
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                                              "Im okay with white people scowling at me. just dont call me nigger"
Sep 06th 2019
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                                                   Turns head in different direction... problem solved
Sep 10th 2019
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                                                   Scowling at someone is taking an action but otherwise, I really don't
Sep 10th 2019
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                                                        I don't even think you're keeping track of the discussion
Sep 10th 2019
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                                                             No. I am just way more cynical than you.
Sep 10th 2019
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                                                                  Im just talking right and wrong
Sep 10th 2019
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                                                                       Now who is moving the goalpost?
Sep 10th 2019
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                                                                            *Erykah Badu voice* certainly not me
Sep 11th 2019
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                                                                                 You went from you have no opinion and you don't judge...
Sep 11th 2019
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                                                                                 yes, I came around to seeing your point a little bit
Sep 11th 2019
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                                              It's ironic that you are the only one in here using that slur
Sep 10th 2019
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                                                   you're playing dumb to keep a discussion going
Sep 10th 2019
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                                                        You really didn't have to say the word or use direct quotes to make the
Sep 10th 2019
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                                                             when people use quotes to use epitaphs...
Sep 11th 2019
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Haven't heard the term "therl" (sp) in YEARS
Sep 04th 2019
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      Ohhhhh they gonna get you for this
Sep 05th 2019
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this place is a cesspool
Sep 10th 2019
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its a perfect sample of the human race, at this point
Sep 10th 2019
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but isnt it great to be back tho?
Sep 10th 2019
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Quit judging bro
Sep 10th 2019
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      nothing is cute about this
Sep 10th 2019
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      He's lying to himself.
Sep 11th 2019
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           "anyone okay with the LGBT community is lying to themselves"
Sep 11th 2019
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                Man, just open the door
Sep 13th 2019
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                     Step up, don’t step out
Sep 13th 2019
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                     I watched the breakfast club interview and it was comical, he claims...
Sep 13th 2019
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                     "anyone who's okay with the LGBT community is a closeted homosexual"
Sep 15th 2019
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I mean, if you wanna Hire Trans Sex Workers that's fine and
Sep 10th 2019
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Malik Yoba on Breakfast Club
Sep 11th 2019
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Just watched
Sep 11th 2019
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Is dude trying to deny he is what he is?
Sep 11th 2019
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he freely speaks about dating trans women
Sep 11th 2019
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      Haha.. whatever gets him thru the day
Sep 11th 2019
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      the labels are confusing.
Sep 11th 2019
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           but a proclivity for a woman with penises
Sep 11th 2019
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           not disagreeing with you
Sep 11th 2019
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           I'm a same sex loving black man = nigga, you gay.
Sep 11th 2019
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                good Lord. cisgender is not a pejorative term
Sep 11th 2019
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                They're intentionally conflating gender and sexuality
Sep 11th 2019
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                     cant say I didn't try
Sep 12th 2019
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                     Apply your logic to Dolezal
Sep 12th 2019
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                          True board had some explanation for why Rachel was different
Sep 12th 2019
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                          one case vs. thousands of cases
Sep 12th 2019
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                               You don't see the irony in your dismissal of that example...
Sep 13th 2019
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                     If a man has sex with a woman who has a dick and balls..
Sep 12th 2019
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                #iLaughed
Sep 16th 2019
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      Yeah his rejection of the queer label was kinda odd to me
Sep 12th 2019
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He must have conditioned the interview on them not asking about
Sep 11th 2019
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      Malik, what would you call an adult that has sex with minors
Sep 11th 2019
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           She identified as an adult? FOH Yoba
Sep 12th 2019
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                I'm weak
Sep 12th 2019
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                LOL
Sep 12th 2019
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                     I could have sworn I read years ago that his father got it from
Sep 12th 2019
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This shit was terrible
Sep 15th 2019
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Where's the white, Korean, Chinese, and equivalent of Malik Yoba?
Sep 12th 2019
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you know good and damn well they ain't bout that life, lol
Sep 12th 2019
102
Malik Yoba talks a whole lot.
Sep 12th 2019
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Widow talked a lot too when he got exposed.
Sep 12th 2019
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      Widow? Wtf.. that was supposed to say Eddie
Sep 17th 2019
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o_O
Sep 13th 2019
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1. "why are we rushing to believe either account"
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my immediate reaction to his coming out was "dope but this could be a publicity stunt", then I thought "maybe it's real and someone is trying to blackmail him"

then when the next story came out, I thought "if this has been an open secret for years, why did this woman wait until he said it to make a Facebook post"

I have a hard time trusting little name gossip sites. I just need more to go off of here

  

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mikediggz
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2. "RE: why are we rushing to believe either account"
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if you do a google search the coming out post is all over, BET.com etc. but regardless whether its true or not here is another brother jammed up

  

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3. "NYC just changed the statute of limitations IRT sexual assualt"
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Your rationale works both ways

He could be making these statements as damage control ahead of charges being filed

If it is true, we'll probably see more accusers come forward and court proceedings to follow

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4. "I haven't looked deeply, but I assumed he was trying to get out in "
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front of the accusation. I couldn't figure out why he would choose this moment to come out, so I figured he was about to get in trouble for something.

  

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mikediggz
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5. "yeah he may have been trying to control the narrative but ole gal didnt "
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waste any time blasting him

  

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6. "What's hilarious is the glowing article that BET published before the"
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accusations.

Doesn't age well.

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mikediggz
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7. "yeah it looked like he had hit a home run"
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#metoo not really trying to hear it

  

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8. "Now his wife is putting him on blast"
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for not telling his kids even tho he has been crafting his IG statement for months.

She basically said they have an “arrangement” and implied dude been dating them for a looooong time.

shut up already, damn

  

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mikediggz
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9. "yeah bro is def in the hot seat. gonna be interesting to see how this"
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Tue Sep-03-19 06:27 PM by mikediggz

  

          

one plays out, esp if more underaged victims come fwd

  

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10. "Dude had his finger over the return button like a nuke detonator"
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for a month....

NY Undercovers ass nigga.

shut up already, damn

  

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11. "RE: Dude had his finger over the return button like a nuke detonator"
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I can make it even crazier.

So the joke around here is that you use to always run into this dude out here in fort greene so much that it ain't even worth pointing out when you see him.

I have a home girl who has at one time bragged about getting with old boy. A spoken for home girl at that. We aren't cool anymore but wondering what her weekend has been like.


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12. "I was going to say this earlier, but I'll say it now."
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He was dating a girl I went to college with (about ten years after we graduated) and I saw them at that hookuh bar on Broadway in Williamsburg back in 2012. She was a top five black girl at my school during my time there, but that's beside the point, I guess. She moved on from him maybe 3 years after that and wound up having a baby with another dude we went to college with.

  

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13. "Anyone 30+, black, in northern BK has a Malik Yoba story."
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Both he and Romany Malco live (lived?) in FG and there are many, many, many stories.

  

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15. "Lol what does all that have to do with anything"
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@geahuwine

  

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17. "RE: Lol what does all that have to do with anything"
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It's not only his wife but there are all sorts of people across the spectrum who might be worried about dealing with that grimey d*ck dude.



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16. "I sat right next to him at Ola in FG. "
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shut up already, damn

  

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14. "That video he posted on his IG is quite sad tho."
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I'd read the story but I hadn't seen the video.
https://www.instagram.com/p/B1oNm2SD6CY/

If you're completely hetero, that's fine, but ain't no need or sense in harassing somebody about their sexuality. Then on the flipside, we got people harassing Ginuwine for not wanting to kiss transgender woman, calling THAT toxic. The only toxicity present in all of this is those who can't live and let others have their preferences without harassment imo.

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18. "Like getting mad because someone doesn’t like a certain food"
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Not saying I haven’t done it before because I have but harassing and chasing someone down the street over it?

What happened to shaking your head and a few times or having the sad/mad face for a sec and then going about your day?

shut up already, damn

  

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19. "easy Legs, you wandering into murky waters my ninja lol."
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>What happened to shaking your head and a few times or having
>the sad/mad face for a sec and then going about your day?

  

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21. "I’m joking but you know... "
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why can’t folks just say eww in their heads and kim?

shut up already, damn

  

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23. "no doubt. we aint gotta agree with every fuckin thg"
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22. "what happened to having no opinion at all"
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>What happened to shaking your head and a few times or having
>the sad/mad face for a sec and then going about your day?

  

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24. "This is the thought policing shit that drives oldt heads crazy"
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It's not good enough to treat everyone fairly and equally, you got to have "no opinion" as well?

That's just doesn't seem realistic and folks seem full of BS to say otherwise. People are constantly forming opinions and judging others, it's what we do.



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26. "this thing where you say what "we" do because you're unable"
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not do it

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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27. "That thing where the world’s most reactively toxic person"
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Thu Sep-05-19 08:44 AM by Stringer Bell

          

Implies they have total mastery over their opinions of others in some narrow PC contexts.

That’s rich.

  

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44. "imagine being this much of a loser"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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31. "Again. "
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https://gph.is/22gAXI9

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28. "sorry man. if the topic is transgender love, I have no opinion"
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I have thoughts on R Kelly (horrible person)
I have thoughts on Beyonce (greatest live performer of all time)
I can assess cisgender women I would and wouldn't fuck

transgender relations should only be processed three ways
- yes please
- no thanks (where I stand)
- maybe I'd be open to it

someone said "why not just be sad/mad and make a face at men liking transgender women?", I reply "why not just mind your business" and it's thought policing, this place is nuts

  

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30. "I mean, my opinion is live and let live. "
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And if my boy came to me and say he was in love with a transgendered person I'd be like do what makes you happy.

But if my boy were to show up at the function with Lebron James with a wig and a fashion nova dress, it would take some effort to suppress a look of, "wow that looks crazy".

I think that's a natural reaction and only the smug hypocrite would try to judge people for having that instinctive internal reaction.



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32. "move goalposts if that'll keep the conversation going"
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Thu Sep-05-19 10:30 AM by atruhead

  

          

the initial conversation wasnt "my friend shows up and catches me off guard"

a scumbag said "why harass people, just judge them silently and keep it moving", as if that made his mindset superior to hecklers

9 years ago I was on a date in New York and saw two men making out in public, my only reaction was "wow that was unexpected", I was 30 at this point. For me personally, life is about growth and evolution though

  

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35. "Their is no goal post moving, the conversation is judging ppl silently. "
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Maybe I didn't go far enough. I wasn't just talking about catching people off gaurd. I am talking about your boy showing up with Lebron James in a skirt and a wig and it would do more than catch most people off gaurd. I think most people would see that and think, that dude looks crazy. I think that's a natural response folks shouldn't be judged for. Better people will keep that sentiment to sentiment to themselves or only share with the missus or close friends. I think not great people will say something mean to the friend or the transwoman.

I think the disagreement I am having with you is that you equate the person who thinks the thoughts with the person who says something mean to the person.

I guess I am also disagreeing with you if your saying thinking the bad thoughts makes you a bad person.




>the initial conversation wasnt "my friend shows up and
>catches me off guard"
>
>a scumbag said "why harass people, just judge them silently
>and keep it moving", as if that made his mindset superior to
>hecklers
>
>9 years ago I was on a date in New York and saw two men making
>out in public, my only reaction was "wow that was unexpected",
>I was 30 at this point. For me personally, life is about
>growth and evolution though
>
>


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37. "That nigga lying. He remembers seeing 2 dudes kissing 9 years ago "
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While claiming to be on a date.. lol

This is the same dude who got upset because people abbreviated Happy Birthday on his Facebook timeline.

For 9 years that shit has been seared into his memory.

shut up already, damn

  

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41. "lmao..."
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>While claiming to be on a date.. lol
>
>This is the same dude who got upset because people abbreviated
>Happy Birthday on his Facebook timeline.
>
>For 9 years that shit has been seared into his memory.

  

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38. "I don't think about transgender love nor do I judge it"
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you're playing devil's advocate for one of the worst people posting on here

  

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36. "So much bitch in you I see why you claim not to judge "
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shut up already, damn

  

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33. "lol"
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>it would take some effort to suppress a look of, "wow that looks crazy"


  

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34. "you put Bey over MJ and Prince?"
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>I have thoughts on Beyonce (greatest live performer of all
>time)


  

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45. "obviously you're lying, buddy said we all have opinions and buddy"
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must know what's on your mind

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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29. "Having no opinion at all is like not not seeing color "
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It’s impossible. Even if your opinion is “doesn’t bother me” it’s still an opinion

However my post was directed at those who chase people down and want to fight them because they don’t agree with other peoples choices.

shut up already, damn

  

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39. "I don't know why Im bothering at this point"
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>It’s impossible. Even if your opinion is “doesn’t
>bother me” it’s still an opinion

me saying "what happened to having no opinion at all" implied negative views on how people choose to love aren't cool. but sure "that's perfectly fine" is a more acceptable opinion

congratulations if you believe you won here



>However my post was directed at those who chase people down
>and want to fight them because they don’t agree with other
>peoples choices.


your idea that they should just scowl and shake their head is counterproductive, I hope this discussion can end here

  

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40. "Obviously doing nothing at all is the best option"
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But I’m talking about people who give chase and fight others over this shit like in the video.

I think asking them to be righteous non-judgmental perfect humans is a tough ask.

shut up already, damn

  

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42. ""what happened to just being a non violent bigot?""
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43. "You can’t control peoples thoughts"
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shut up already, damn

  

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46. "we're talking about you suggesting silent disapproval is a good option"
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47. "compared to chasing someone down and assaulting them? "
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It’s a great fucking option.

shut up already, damn

  

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48. "pretty wild that you cant arrive at "people should mind their business""
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it seems important that people disapprove of this even if it isn't physical or verbal confrontation

  

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49. "Baby steps"
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shut up already, damn

  

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104. "You two..."
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Need a podcast or something. And don't blur out the fist fights lol I love your arguments!

I'm a lurker. What you have just posted must have been that awesome!

  

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50. "It's a natural response and not one people can control. "
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Me personally, I think the person who has judgemental thoughts isn't as nearly a bad or judgemental a person as the person who thinks it's wrong to have judgemental thoughts.





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51. "How the fuck would one even know someone has silent judgements?"
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Shit is crazy.

shut up already, damn

  

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52. "word, you think you're better than what you imagine about other people"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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53. "RE: word, you think you're better than what you imagine about other peop..."
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https://media.giphy.com/media/zGZOcFgBDrrBC/giphy.gif

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54. "Dude been following you around like you got treats"
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shut up already, damn

  

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58. "mans can't stop saying silly shit"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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55. "if "people loving trannies* disgusts me" is a natural response"
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(*im well aware this is a slur, this is how bigots talk)

at some point anyone viewing the world that way needs to do self-reflection and decide if these are thoughts they're okay with carrying around.


>Me personally, I think the person who has judgemental
>thoughts isn't as nearly a bad or judgemental a person as the
>person who thinks it's wrong to have judgemental thoughts.

Eminem once said "You find me offensive, I find you offensive for finding me offensive" in a comedic rap song

if that's the logic you want to employ here, cool

but "being toxic isn't as bad as thinking it's wrong to be toxic" doesnt fly in the real world the way it sounds cute riding the fence on message boards. It's okay to just take right/wrong stances about things

  

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56. "This is some “I had a dream” type wishing. "
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Dreams are cool but reality is we live in America.

It would be awesome if racism and bigotry didn’t exist but it does...

So I prefer if those folks just think it and stfu instead of acting on it.

shut up already, damn

  

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57. ""Im okay with white people scowling at me. just dont call me nigger""
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59. "Turns head in different direction... problem solved"
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shut up already, damn

  

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63. "Scowling at someone is taking an action but otherwise, I really don't "
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care what someone thinks about me, I just want you to treat me fairly.


I'll let you worry about what other people think.



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67. "I don't even think you're keeping track of the discussion"
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a subliminally racist person wont treat you fairly

  

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69. "No. I am just way more cynical than you. "
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I think all white people are subliminally racist.

But I don't have to single white people out.

I think all men are subliminally sexist.

I think we all subliminally carry prejudices that we should be aware of. I don't think these thoughts makes us terrible people, a lot of it is instinctive or drilled into us through society.

I think the honest person acknowledges this and works to not let these thoughts govern how they treat other people.

I believe the hypocrites who try to convince you that they are above such prejudices who are the ones you have to watch and worry about.



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71. "Im just talking right and wrong"
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>I believe the hypocrites who try to convince you that they are
>above such prejudices who are the ones you have to watch and
>worry about.

right: everyone has the capacity to be prejudiced and thus should be mindful

wrong: it's okay to be prejudiced, just don't harass people. the people who call your prejudice into question are hypocrites and a bigger issue

  

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72. "Now who is moving the goalpost?"
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>right: everyone has the capacity to be prejudiced and thus
>should be mindful


You are saying now that this has been your point all along?mk.



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74. "*Erykah Badu voice* certainly not me"
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I have conceded that there are right and wrong ways to be "open minded" on this debate

  

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76. "You went from you have no opinion and you don't judge..."
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to everyone has the capacity to be prejudiced and thus
should be mindful.

I noticed the slick use of passive voice by the way. Let me ask you staight up, do you have prejudiced thoughts?





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88. "yes, I came around to seeing your point a little bit"
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that's how healthy conversations work. but you seem intent on making this into something else

  

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64. "It's ironic that you are the only one in here using that slur "
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It's like the white dude who thinks he is down with black people being the one who feels more entitled to say the N Word.

This isn't an Eminem lyric. Your whole point is against being judgemental, but you are being as judgemental as anyone in here. That's called being a hypocrite.

Because people say one thing and do another, I'd rather focus on what people do then concern myself with what they say or even think.



>(*im well aware this is a slur, this is how bigots talk)
>
>at some point anyone viewing the world that way needs to do
>self-reflection and decide if these are thoughts they're okay
>with carrying around.
>
>
>>Me personally, I think the person who has judgemental
>>thoughts isn't as nearly a bad or judgemental a person as
>the
>>person who thinks it's wrong to have judgemental thoughts.
>
>Eminem once said "You find me offensive, I find you offensive
>for finding me offensive" in a comedic rap song
>
>if that's the logic you want to employ here, cool
>
>but "being toxic isn't as bad as thinking it's wrong to be
>toxic" doesnt fly in the real world the way it sounds cute
>riding the fence on message boards. It's okay to just take
>right/wrong stances about things


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66. "you're playing dumb to keep a discussion going"
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plain as day, I rephrased his words to show extreme cases of how bigoted people think

  

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70. "You really didn't have to say the word or use direct quotes to make the "
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point.


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75. "when people use quotes to use epitaphs..."
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You already know why they do it.

shut up already, damn

  

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20. "Haven't heard the term "therl" (sp) in YEARS"
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Used to use that all the time as a kid in Philly.


A bunch of dudes harassing a dude because he's gay is wack-as-fuck.

  

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25. "Ohhhhh they gonna get you for this"
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>
>A bunch of dudes harassing a dude because he's gay is
>wack-as-fuck.

_______________________________________
You ain't the only one whose got problems. You ain't the only one who knows pain. Get up off your ass and just solve them. You still got a chance to try to change, try the shit again.
Devin tha Dude

  

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60. "this place is a cesspool"
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61. "its a perfect sample of the human race, at this point"
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and it really sucks

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62. "but isnt it great to be back tho? "
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man i missed this jawnt

  

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65. "Quit judging bro"
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shut up already, damn

  

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68. "nothing is cute about this"
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82. "He's lying to himself. "
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.
.

“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee Strobel, The Case for Christ

The Case for Christ Lecture: https://youtu.be/67uj2qvQi_k

Looking for Good News: https://www.goo

  

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89. ""anyone okay with the LGBT community is lying to themselves""
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108. "Man, just open the door"
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The Case for Christ Lecture: https://youtu.be/67uj2qvQi_k

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110. "Step up, don’t step out"
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shut up already, damn

  

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112. "I watched the breakfast club interview and it was comical, he claims..."
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to be a "supporter" of the LGBTQ+ community but doesn't want to be one of them

  

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114. ""anyone who's okay with the LGBT community is a closeted homosexual""
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73. "I mean, if you wanna Hire Trans Sex Workers that's fine and"
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dandy

but if he was actually going after 13 Year old Girls that DOES deserve some heavy scorn

R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
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77. "Malik Yoba on Breakfast Club"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pBAFhcDQmnA

whew

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78. "Just watched"
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So, his letter of that alphabet--which define his sexual preference--is 'Q'. But he doesn't accept that designation, or others common terms associated with the community for himself, like 'coming out'.

The Sigma/Zeta thing though is a bit surprising to hear.
On my campus I remember a large amount of both also being members of the LGBTQ community. I thought their apparent acceptance of that community was a reason why members gravitated to both of those orgs.

  

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79. "Is dude trying to deny he is what he is? "
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or walk that line?

shut up already, damn

  

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80. "he freely speaks about dating trans women"
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but still considers himself hetero anyway.
and instead of 'coming out', he's 'stepping up'.

  

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81. "Haha.. whatever gets him thru the day"
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Stepping up.

shut up already, damn

  

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83. "the labels are confusing."
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and seem to up to the individual. to each his/her own. hard to tell him he's wrong if he considers himself hetero. so my response is......ok.





you probably think you're cooler than me

  

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84. "but a proclivity for a woman with penises "
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suggests he does stuff with those penises.
and though he may still consider himself straight, because she considers herself a woman, their sexual encounters are certainly not heterosexual.
isn't that exactly how queer is defined, in this context?

  

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92. "not disagreeing with you"
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but everything seems to be getting redefined. not sure his definitions are valid for me.

I think the bigger deal is let people do what they want and not hold it against them for general life shit.

you probably think you're cooler than me

  

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85. "I'm a same sex loving black man = nigga, you gay."
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Got through about 20 minutes of that interview

...all they're doing is debating labels, gender identity, etc...

GTFOH

You born with a dick, you're a male...that's science.

Drs don't choose gender

Weird how they have absolutely no problem labeling everyone outside of their alphabet...cis

If I'm cis...nigga, you gay.

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90. "good Lord. cisgender is not a pejorative term"
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>Weird how they have absolutely no problem labeling everyone
>outside of their alphabet...cis
>
>If I'm cis...nigga, you gay.

you and I are cisgender males because we identify as what we were born
I dont assume anyone's orientation, but I'll go out on a limb and say you like women born female the way I do. if they continue to identify as women, it's a safe bet they're cisgender

if we're going to be respectful and see people as they wish (Caitlyn Jenner might be the most famous example, I just Googled and RuPaul is a drag queen identifying as a man), transgender people deserve to have their experiences respected and validated, which starts with simply labeling them how they've asked. it's not that difficult for a well functioning adult to do if it matters to them

so there are cisgender people (us) and transgender people born one gender who feel like they're the opposite within

I don't claim to understand or relate to how any of this works, especially not when cis men (like me and you) love transgender men (people born female who had a sex change), but it's really none of my business, and I know there are too many instances (a dramatized television show on FX, even) for me to cast doubt and call it bullshit like Rachel Dolezal claiming to be transracial

I feel like this is all falling on deaf ears, but I hope this helps

  

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91. "They're intentionally conflating gender and sexuality"
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There's no choice with gender.

No one assigns you a gender.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/cisgender

^^^ has nothing to do with sexuality.

IRT Dolezal, I actually think that is the perfect comparison

She's born a YT female

nothing she does in life will change that

marry a black man, birth biracial babies, head the local NAACP chapter

= still a YT female

I'm not letting people redefine pronouns for me.

You born with a dick...you're a male

Born with a pussy...you're a female

and I will address you accordingly.

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94. "cant say I didn't try"
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>There's no choice with gender.

>No one assigns you a gender.


some people feel they were born the wrong way. neither of us understands how this works, however I choose to acknowledge it as a valid experience shared by lots of people


>I'm not letting people redefine pronouns for me.
>
>You born with a dick...you're a male
>
>Born with a pussy...you're a female
>
>and I will address you accordingly.

I look at it like being a black male in this country, Im concerned with how Im treated so I should extend the same to other marginalized populations

  

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97. "Apply your logic to Dolezal"
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again, married a black man, birthed black babies, head of the local NAACP chapter...

...you're saying she doesn't FEEL like a black woman inside...

?

So I should address her as a nubian queen, because that's how she feels inside

?

FOH.

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101. "True board had some explanation for why Rachel was different"
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but IMO it was a weak case.

Same folks telling dudes to be tolerant were quick to make sure Rachel didn’t take their spot as a Black woman.

Can’t have it both ways.

Fuck around and lose minority scholarships in a few years.

shut up already, damn

  

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105. "one case vs. thousands of cases"
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109. "You don't see the irony in your dismissal of that example..."
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...because it's in the minorty, while discussing LGBTQ issues

LOL&WTF

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95. "If a man has sex with a woman who has a dick and balls.. "
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but it’s 2019.

You ain’t gotta lie to kick it.

shut up already, damn

  

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115. "#iLaughed"
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>Weird how they have absolutely no problem labeling everyone
>outside of their alphabet...cis
>
>If I'm cis...nigga, you gay.


Anti-gentrification, cheap alcohol & trying to look pretty in our twilight posting years (c) Big Reg
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93. "Yeah his rejection of the queer label was kinda odd to me"
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With full respect and acceptance of his intimate preferences, he's definitely queer. It's like he hasn't fully accepted himself yet... wants to come out while talking like he's still in. I understand it's a process and all, but maybe this wasn't the time for coming out. Or maybe it'll help others understand their journey if he fully accepts it later and they're able to see him go through the stages... idk.

I know folks gonna say he deserves to be called whatever he wants, but it's like bungee jumping and wanting people to call it skydiving. Nah bro, there's a name for what you're doing.

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86. "He must have conditioned the interview on them not asking about"
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the child prostitution accusations.

  

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87. "Malik, what would you call an adult that has sex with minors"
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Yeah, they intentionally skipped over that part

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96. "She identified as an adult? FOH Yoba"
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shut up already, damn

  

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98. "I'm weak"
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99. "LOL"
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I'm also questioning his translation of Yoba

...last of the slaves, yadda yadda yadda...

I call bullshit.

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103. "I could have sworn I read years ago that his father got it from "
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reversing Nature Boy, but only keeping the Yob part and adding an A.

  

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113. "This shit was terrible"
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100. "Where's the white, Korean, Chinese, and equivalent of Malik Yoba?"
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SPOILER ALERT: This revelation was known and rumored for years.dl

We not about to turn this into a campaign to fight transphobia solely in the black community when the white community and other communities commit violence and leverage power to enforce policy. Clearly this is not a fight against transphobia...

I don't know if Malik's stepping out is natural or his way to get back into the good graces of Hollywood by aligning himself with the white LGBT community. I'm happy he's embraced his truth. If individuals from other communities do not step out as Malik put it with the same media campaign then this another attack by the white LGBT community.

I'm more concerned about tangible issues that have an effect on me like police brutality and the fight for reparations. Stop using my community to fight causes that further distract us while vilifying us at the same time. You not about to diss me then tell me to fix an issue to your benefit. Go fight transphobia in the white community if it's this real.

  

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102. "you know good and damn well they ain't bout that life, lol"
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and none of them would have a platform if they were

  

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106. "Malik Yoba talks a whole lot. "
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"Get ready....for your blessing....."
"Bury me by my Grand-Grand and when you can come follow me"

  

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107. "Widow talked a lot too when he got exposed. "
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Shit had me weak.

“She looked like she needed a ride, I offered her a ride... I didn’t know she was a man”

shut up already, damn

  

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116. "Widow? Wtf.. that was supposed to say Eddie"
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He must have bots on the web.

shut up already, damn

  

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111. "o_O"
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_____________________
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