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https://twitter.com/carmenmmachado/status/992318598398992384
During his tour for THIS IS HOW YOU LOSE HER, Junot Díaz did a Q&A at the grad program I'd just graduated from. When I made the mistake of asking him a question about his protagonist's unhealthy, pathological relationship with women, he went off for me for twenty minutes.
Carmen Maria Machado added, zinziclemmons @zinziclemmons As a grad student, I invited Junot Diaz to speak to a workshop on issues of representation in literature. I was an unknown wide-eyed 26 yo, and he used it as an opportunity to corner and forcibly kiss me. I'm far from the only one he's done this 2, I refuse to be silent anymore. 33 replies 887 retweets 1,398 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
He asked me to back up my claim with evidence. I cited several passages from the book in front of me. He raised his voice, paced, implied I was a prude who didn't know how to read or draw reasonable conclusions from text. 5 replies 59 retweets 276 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
When I suggested that maybe my question had been answered, and he move on to someone else's question, he refused. He told me he was leaning on me to explain myself, which is what he did with his students. (Never mind that I wasn't his student, or a student at all.) 1 reply 45 retweets 281 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
Every time he asked me a question, I answered it, and he became freshly enraged when I refused to capitulate. This went on and on and on and on until he finally ran out of steam. 1 reply 47 retweets 272 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
And this happened in a room full of people! There's a recording! He was not embarrassed about his behavior at all. A friend of mine was so stressed out from the whole interaction that she texted me saying she'd have to leave so she could go home and take a Xanax. 1 reply 42 retweets 303 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
And I'll never forget: his male handlers (presumably from the university? I don't know) were sitting directly in front of me, and every time he spoke they nodded enthusiastically and in unison, and every time I spoke, they froze. When I think about those men I want to scream. 1 reply 60 retweets 569 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
That night, I went to his reading at a local venue. When he got up after his introduction, he said, "Today, someone complained that there was too much cheating in this book. This is for them." Then he read the stories/passages I'd cited hours earlier. 2 replies 40 retweets 264 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
I'd obviously struck a nerve, though I didn't understand precisely how. Because even if his book contained autobiographical material, I knew that reacting to a reader's criticism this way—confusing yourself for the character—was amateur hour. I knew it even then. 2 replies 43 retweets 487 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
But what really struck me was how quickly his veneer of progressivism and geniality fell away; how easily he slid into bullying and misogyny when the endless waves of praise and adoration ceased for a second. 2 replies 110 retweets 730 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
And, like, I was raised with weird Latinx gender shit that I'm still trying to unload and unpack. I know what it looks like. Nothing that I'm describing is particularly novel or unusual. It's just how certain men assert their power. 1 reply 36 retweets 388 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
In the intervening years, I've heard easily a dozen stories about fucked-up sexual misconduct on his part and felt weirdly lucky that all ("all") I got was a blast of misogynist rage and public humiliation. 1 reply 55 retweets 380 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
So, Junot Díaz can talk all he wants about writing books that interrogate masculinity, but that's all it is: talk. His books are misogynist trash and folks either don't see it (which disturbs me) or won't acknowledge it (which disturbs me for different reasons). 5 replies 164 retweets 722 likes Carmen Maria Machado Verified account @carmenmmachado 6h6 hours ago
And it sucks for a very particular reason: people of color are so underrepresented in publishing, we have deep attachments to those who succeed. People are defensive about JD because there are so few high-profile Latinx authors. I get it. That doesn't change the facts. 4 replies 102 retweets 564 likes
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Junot Díaz is a widely lauded, utterly beloved misogynist. His books are regressive and sexist. He has treated women horrifically in every way possible. And the #MeToo stories are just starting. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 9:22 AM - 4 May 2018
https://www.facebook.com/monicabyrne13/posts/10105748635455288 Monica Byrne 5 hrs ·
I’ve been waiting for this one to come out for a long time.
Here’s my story about Junot Díaz. It’s corroborated by my journal entry the next morning; emails to family, friends, and colleagues shortly thereafter; and my date, who was sitting beside me:
I was 32. I was invited to a dinner after a talk Díaz had given about “the importance of love” at the NC Literary Festival, Friday, April 4th, 2014. The restaurant was 18 Seaboard. My debut novel was due to come out the next month, and I'd brought an advance copy to give Mr. Díaz as a gift, understanding him to be both a genre fiction fan and a feminist. I sat next to him. The table struck up a light conversation about the significance of statistics in publishing. I made a point emphasizing how personal narrative is important in empowering the marginalized. He said (and this is my memory, so I’m not including quotation marks), Well, I don’t know if you know how statistics work, but that’s like saying, Oh, I haven’t been RAPED, so RAPE must not exist.
His voice had risen to a shout. He literally shouted the word “rape” in my face. This is after knowing me for maybe ten minutes. His response was completely bizarre, disproportionate, and violent. I was speechless and felt sick. I would have, anyway, but this was also only two weeks after I’d been sexually assaulted in Belize.
The dinner just got worse from there. I’ve never experienced such virulent misogyny in my adult life. Every point I made—ABOUT issues women face in publishing—he made a point of talking over me, cutting me off, ignoring me to talk to the other famous (male) writer at the table, who happily participated in the erasure (congratulations, Peter Straub, you were also awful that night). What’s so ironic is that I remember trying to make a point about how a piece of mine had just been rejected by The New Yorker, and I’d never be able to tell whether it was bc of bias or not, given their dismal VIDA statistics. This is the same New Yorker that, just last month, paid Díaz to write his long “I know #metoo is coming for me so I’d better get ahead of it” essay. I read that piece and thought: did his editor not think to ask him what “I hurt people” might mean? Fucking really? In this era? I am sorry what happened to him. I truly am. But millions of people experience sexual trauma, including as children, without then choosing to turn around and replicate it on others’ bodies.
Díaz didn’t physically assault me. But shouting the word “rape” in my face is absolutely verbal sexual assault. Moreover, I was struck by the total disconnect between his public persona of a progressive literary idol and how he actually treated women. I left that dinner halfway through. I did not give him the advance reader copy of my novel. And I’d sat down so excited to meet one of my literary heroes.
Ever since, I’ve kept an ear out for stories about him that were similar to mine.
There are many, and they are worse. This is one.
If you have one about Junot Díaz, get in touch: monica@monicabyrne.org.
**UPDATE: Here is the thread by fellow writer Carmen Maria Machado about her experience with Díaz: https://twitter.com/carmenmmacha…/status/992318598398992384…
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There are other women on Twitter corroborating with their own stories and what they've been told by others about his shitty sexual behaviour.
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