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"Poll question: Banning Burkas, how we feel about that? "
Tue Dec-06-16 05:12 PM by Buddy_Gilapagos

  

          

While forcing women to wear bathing suits bothers me, I am having a hard time getting worked up about not allowing people to don full-face coverings in schools, court rooms, and administrative buildings.

https://anotherbeautifulday.files.wordpress.com/2010/01/burka.jpg

It's funny I went to law school with a french girl who was shocked to see crucifix, yamakules, turbans and muslim garb in classrooms.


I get it religious freedom ya ya ya but is that unconditional? What if your religious tradition is rooted in sexism and misogyny? No one has an issue with banning female mutilation as part of religious ceremonies right?


There is a line, and it is somewhat arbitrary but where do you draw it?


I am just thinking out loud and can be convinced otherwise with a good argument, but right about now I can safely say you won't hear any outrage from me regarding this for now.

Edit: I should have mentioned that this post was inspired by the ban proposed in Germany so I get the constitutional issues here in the states.

http://www.vox.com/world/2016/12/6/13854214/germany-angela-merkel-burqa-ban

Poll result (23 votes)
It's wrong to impinge on those people's religious freedom. (18 votes)Vote
Govt. has a limited right to ban certain religious practices antithetical to our values. (4 votes)Vote
I don't care either way. (1 votes)Vote

  

  

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plenty women wear those by their own choice.
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Not here. Other places. Like Germany.
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      i think it's an awful practice anywhere.
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           You allowed to wear SandM gear in court?
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                *pats head*
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                     Also if these white ppl care about women being mistreated via burkas
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                          Impossible to enforce.
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                               Ive seen public school teachers wear religious garb.
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                               Muslim people DESPISE burkas more than liberals.
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                                    Yes Muslim ppl can be Islamophobic.
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                                         Muslim countries have banned burkas too.
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                                              Not cool if the women are the ones penalized.
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                                                   What needs to be flushed out is your understanding of the burka
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                                                   You want to let the bad acting men off the hook and punish the innocent ...
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                                                        Teachers might want to give the paper bag test in school.
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                                                             It would be cool if white people would stop trying to make comparisons
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                                                                  bruh... they can't help it.
Dec 07th 2016
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                                                                       bruh...Hitikuro is not black
Dec 09th 2016
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                                                                            how the fuck you figure I'm not black?
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                                                                                 Perhaps I confused you for someone else.
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                                                                                 Muhfucka said "perhaps"
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                                                                                 perhaps... lmao, they can't help it
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                                                   I think you are making the best argument against banning burkas
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                               They can wear whatever they want
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trying to control what women can/can't wear is wrong
Dec 06th 2016
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lol
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It's wrong, at least in the US.
Dec 06th 2016
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It's pretty fucked up.
Dec 06th 2016
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Is the issue really that burkas & hijabs are rooted in sexism/misogyny??
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Sure but when Islamphobia dukes it out with sexism/misogyny...
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but then we're back to SoWhat's point.
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      plus the thing is that hijab is NOT the problem
Dec 06th 2016
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      Burkas though.
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           Yeah we aren't talking Hijabs, we talking Burkas
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           I don't think it's a slippery slope.
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                Why? it's only one step past what nuns wear
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           We talking Burkas, Hijabs, or Niqabs?
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                I think you may be confused.
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      To play devil's advocate....
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      Sure there are women who will tell you that they choose it
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           And there are women who will say they choose to change their surname
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                So a woman can decide to ban the Burka and it's cool?
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                     No, I'm not saying Merkle should do a damn thing.
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                          If you are offending you probably didn't understand my point.
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                               You thinking I'm arguing 'for the burka' shows how little you understand
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                                    No. You are missing my point that the notion that women are
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                                         Oh Germany ain't the west?
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                                         You are very ignorant about this.
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                                         Here we go. A white man decrying the R word.
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                                              You are an intellectual disgrace.
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                                                   what shit have i posted?
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                                         Again i don't know what you are talking about but it's clear you don't
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                                              You don't know what I'm talking about because you keep waffling
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                                         I've concluded that people simply don't understand what a burka is
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                                              The Burka ban in Germany is completely about Islam
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                                                   THis concept of 'the people involved should self-police'
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                                                        self-police?
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                                                             You certainly have made that argument:
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                                                                  I'm the intellectual disgrace here?
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                                                                       I wonder how much Syrian refugees are hip to that.
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                                                                            "I tried to reeeeeach it away... just don't call me the R word"
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no...
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It's right up there with pee next to me
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I wonder how common burkas are in other people's cities.
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I see them regularly in my neighborhood.
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Have you seen them publically demeaned by their husbands?
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So that means all of the millions of women wearing burkas are doing so b...
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if that's your theory, you could project that beyond Islam
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      True....
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           You lost me, I thought we were talking about the USA
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                I don't want to outright ban the burka
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                     And you want to punish the women you say are victimized
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                          Teachers aren't allowed to wear KKK outfits either.
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Yooo, please tell me you have other images of her in a Burka
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      I found one of the whole Jackson 5:
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      Blanket prolly looking at Janet like "aunt always stealing daddy's style...
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I see women wearing burqas everyday
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Every time I see think I think of Ninjas. I honestly dont care, I wont-
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RE: Banning Burkas, how we feel about that?
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^ That
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Was this people you know?
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      I've met some late converts in passing.
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           Ok but to be clear, we are talking Burkas, not Hijabs.
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                Naqibs... add a little lace to the slit and it's a burka...
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                     ahh no.
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Re: civil servants, it's simple
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RE: Re: civil servants, it's simple
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You can't fight women being forced to dress a certain way.
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just hustling all the way backwards
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That's a misguided of over-simplification as when Chief Justice
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      I live in a predominantly Muslim area of London.
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           mini skirts, thigh high boots and certainly bikinis would be deemed
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           It's the "while driving or participating in a demonstration" that raises...
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                agreed
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           I hear you but a couple of things.
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                Certainly I've spoken to my next door neighbour about it.
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                     RE: Certainly I've spoken to my next door neighbour about it.
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That's how it starts
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How it ends
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It's pandering to Islamophobia at best.
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I agree and it's designed to do exactly what progressive people are doin...
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      and this is why no one should even reply to this post
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      Not sure what you mean here:
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           Exactly
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                that this is not in any way true hasn't stopped you from saying it
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                haven't read the whole tread, but what about this :
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                Nope.
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                     Not one for complexity eh?
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                          I see patronizing is just in your character. Good luck with that.
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If they ban them they got to ban everything
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You don't though. Governments make value judgements all the time.
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      FGM is not Islamic
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           Didn't say it was islamic.
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           Didn't say it was islamic.
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blue
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what SoWhat said.
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religion just seems so nonsensical to me even at the best of times
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SoWhat
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1. "plenty women wear those by their own choice."
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Tue Dec-06-16 04:59 PM by SoWhat

  

          

and yes banning them is unconstitutional.

fuck you.

  

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4. "Not here. Other places. Like Germany. "
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>and yes banning them is unconstitutional.
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16. "i think it's an awful practice anywhere."
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if those white ppl are actually concerned w/women being mistreated by being forced to wear __ then they should offer those women help in a manner that won't jeopardize the women's safety.

but otherwise they're doing the same thing they're decrying - controlling what women wear.

fuck you.

  

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18. "You allowed to wear SandM gear in court?"
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We already DO control what people wear.

  

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20. "*pats head*"
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try to keep up.

the ppl who want to ban burkas often say they want to do so out of concern for women's clothing being controlled by men. but by banning burkas those ppl are doing the same thing they claim to decry.

see it?

fuck you.

  

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21. "Also if these white ppl care about women being mistreated via burkas"
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it makes NO sense to expose the WOMEN to criminal liability. Instead the ppl who are allegedly forcing women to wear burkas should face criminal liability.

fuck you.

  

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23. "Impossible to enforce."
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Tue Dec-06-16 06:18 PM by denny

          

This is about our public institutions...wherein we already enforce dress-codes. Teachers aren't allowed to wear all sorts of different clothes in the classroom....bikinis, s and m gear, hobo outfits, the list could be endless. Adding burkas to that is not some sort of infringement of religious expression. A public school probably wouldn't let a male teacher dress up like the pope neither.

  

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24. "Ive seen public school teachers wear religious garb."
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I had more than one who wore a yarmulke.

This is not about public institution respect its about fear of and intolerance toward Muslim practitioners - especially Muslim women. Own that shit.

fuck you.

  

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27. "Muslim people DESPISE burkas more than liberals."
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Tue Dec-06-16 06:26 PM by denny

          

They islamaphobic too?

In fact...even associating burkas with islam is highly problematic. How many muslim people have you talked about burkas with?

  

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28. "Yes Muslim ppl can be Islamophobic."
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Again - the women wearing burkas shouldn't be penalized. If you white ppl are that concerned then offer HELP.

fuck you.

  

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30. "Muslim countries have banned burkas too."
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Not because they hate muslims. They ARE muslims. They've done it to try to crackdown on the oppression of women.

  

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31. "Not cool if the women are the ones penalized."
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Especially if those women have been forced to wear the burka.

fuck you.

  

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35. "What needs to be flushed out is your understanding of the burka"
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Tue Dec-06-16 07:26 PM by denny

          

and it's origins.

If you are suggesting above that muslims who don't like the burka are 'self-hating' or somehow ignoring their own traditions than you really need to learn more about it. That would be like saying black people who don't do the paper bag test are self-hating and ignoring their own ancestral traditions. Both false and highly offensive.

That analogy works because the burka is new. It's not some sort of ancestral tradition. Also...it has no place in the lives of the vast majority of muslims.

  

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38. "You want to let the bad acting men off the hook and punish the innocent ..."
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k.

fuck you.

  

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43. "Teachers might want to give the paper bag test in school."
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Would we be 'punishing' them by disallowing it?

  

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49. "It would be cool if white people would stop trying to make comparisons"
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that they can never understand.
You don't know what that shit means to us. You don't know what that shit means to them. You're not us. Stop it.

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78. "bruh... they can't help it. "
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makes me wonder how people in IR deal with these types of conversations.

Can't imagine my wife bringing up the paper bag test at Thanksgiving.

Take yo ass to the kids table...lol

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97. "bruh...Hitikuro is not black"
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and has made at least 3 tour apologies for saying shit that was clearly not his place to say. I don't make tour apologies.

I made that analogy to show people that the Burka is not some sort of ancient muslim tradition. It's a new, modern practice that is considered to be regressive amongst the LARGE majority of muslims. Much like the paper bag test is for black people. Criticizing the burka is no more islamaphobic as criticizing the paper-bag test is anti-black. And that needed to be said here because the liberal confusion is being caused by an ignorance about the cultural meaning and context of the burka.

  

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100. "how the fuck you figure I'm not black?"
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foh.
the fuck is a tour apology?
you clearly think i'm someone else.

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105. "Perhaps I confused you for someone else."
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I don't apologize for my analogy. I hope my analogy might give some people who don't live amongst muslims some perspective.

  

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108. "Muhfucka said "perhaps""
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Nah, jackass, obviously.
You need jump on that Cranes in the Sky remix though
"I whitesplain it away... when I offend people of color..."

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111. "perhaps... lmao, they can't help it"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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72. "I think you are making the best argument against banning burkas"
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It places the burden of limiting an oppressive sexist practice on the back of the oppressed women and not the men who are doing the oppression.

I think you are right the right first step would be allow blocking men from making women to wear burkas and supporting women who attempt to use this law to get away from oppressive men.

The other arugments in this post are trash.


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85. "They can wear whatever they want"
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They will lose their job if its against the dress code of the school. They will not go to jail for it however and they can get another job.

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2. "trying to control what women can/can't wear is wrong"
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I'd say people, but it's usually just directed at women.

I do wonder what they'll do if muslim women start walking the streets in JNCOs and oversized hoodies tho

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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3. "lol"
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>I do wonder what they'll do if muslim women start walking the
>streets in JNCOs and oversized hoodies tho

  

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5. "It's wrong, at least in the US."
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6. "It's pretty fucked up. "
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I can understand at pools or topless/nude beaches but otherwise nah

  

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7. "Is the issue really that burkas & hijabs are rooted in sexism/misogyny??"
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Because I'm pretty sure it's about islamophobia

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8. "Sure but when Islamphobia dukes it out with sexism/misogyny..."
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whose side is the right side to be on? Kind of why I am indifferent.



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9. "but then we're back to SoWhat's point."
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What do you do with women who cover-up by choice? You can find many muslim women who will tell you that it's their choice to cover. You can find many women who have converted to Islam and choose to cover. Isn't telling them how they can and can't dress also sexism/misogyny?

We should be against institutions (like Islam in this instance) forcing women to cover and/or punishing them if they choose not to. But we should also be for the right of those same women to choose the way they practice their religion, not letting an institution (in this instance the German government) choose for them.

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10. "plus the thing is that hijab is NOT the problem"
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If there is sexism and misogyny, THAT is the problem. Hijab may be voluntary even in a misogynistic society/religion/relationship.

I agree that it's about Islamophobia.

I also abhor FGM, but after reading Alice Walker's book The Temple of My Familiars, I'm less self-satisfied by my moral position. If that makes sense.

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12. "Burkas though."
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15. "Yeah we aren't talking Hijabs, we talking Burkas"
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And I get it is a matter of degrees but degrees matter.

I mean look how you moved the goal post, which I don't blame you. It's way easier to defend Hijabs versus Burkas but Hijabs aren't the issue (unless you make a slippery slope argument).


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17. "I don't think it's a slippery slope."
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Hijabs don't cover your face. Burkas do. I don't care if my kid's teacher wears a toque or a baseball cap or a hijab. I care if they wear a human tent with nothing but an airhole where their mouth is.

  

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55. "Why? it's only one step past what nuns wear"
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46. "We talking Burkas, Hijabs, or Niqabs?"
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Because there's no difference between a Burka and a habit. Or Amish dress, or Orthodox Jewish dress.

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58. "I think you may be confused. "
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https://www.channel4.com/news/from-hijab-to-burqa-a-guide-to-muslim-headwear

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11. "To play devil's advocate...."
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Do you have any problem if your daughter's teacher wears a full burka while teaching class?

  

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14. "Sure there are women who will tell you that they choose it"
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but it's a choice that is rooted in sexism/misogyny.

I'd like to hear the explanation for Burkas that is not rooted in sexism/misogyny.

So sure it would be impinging on someone's right to choose, but I am not sure limiting that right to choose in this instance is an example of sexism just because it only affects women.

The more extreme example. If you read plenty about human trafficking you would see that when you try to "free" many of them don't want to leave the prostitution they were forced into because of shame or other reasons. Are they really choosing or feeling the weight of the sexism that put them in their position in the first place. Is not allowing them to return to sex work sexism?

Also, I am sure you would find many women involved with the practice of genitalia mutilation so banning the practice would affect women's rights (granted children choosing GM doesn't have much legal or moral weight), could it be sexist to ban GM?






>What do you do with women who cover-up by choice? You can
>find many muslim women who will tell you that it's their
>choice to cover. You can find many women who have converted to
>Islam and choose to cover. Isn't telling them how they can and
>can't dress also sexism/misogyny?
>
>We should be against institutions (like Islam in this
>instance) forcing women to cover and/or punishing them if they
>choose not to, but we should also be for the right of those
>same women to choose the way they practice their religion.


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36. "And there are women who will say they choose to change their surname"
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with marriage.
That's also a choice that is rooted in sexism/misogyny/patriarchy.
Does that mean they shouldn't be able to make that choice?

As men, we don't get to decide what's best for women. The end.

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39. "So a woman can decide to ban the Burka and it's cool?"
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>As men, we don't get to decide what's best for women. The
>end.

So then you are down with Merkel's support of banning Burkas?

Or a woman choosing FGM? or choosing for her daughter?

My point is I think it's silly to make a man versus woman issue because you'd easily have the same result of a burka ban if only the women of the US, France or Germany or other Western culture were allowed to vote for their respective homelands.

It is an issue of the right of religious minorities to practice customs that are grounded in sexism and misogyny.

Of course there are plenty of practices grounded in sexism that we don't ban (surname) but there are plenty we do (owning and beating your wife, ritual killings, etc.).

The question is where does this practice fall on the continuum.

Does this practice fall on the side where minority religious freedom outweighs societal values or the minority religious rights outweighs the societal values?



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48. "No, I'm not saying Merkle should do a damn thing."
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She's a single, non-muslim, white woman; surrounded by other non-muslim white men and women. If this were an issue to be decided, it should be by muslim women.

Nothing about us without us (is for us).

And this whole shit right here offends me "minority religious freedom outweighs societal values or the minority religious rights outweighs the societal values"

"Societal values" should not be set in stone. They should be constantly be in negotiation as the people, times, knowledge, and understanding move and change. Unless you're advocating that we should just have slavery because we did before or you're a xenophobe.

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52. "If you are offending you probably didn't understand my point. "
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>She's a single, non-muslim, white woman; surrounded by other
>non-muslim white men and women. If this were an issue to be
>decided, it should be by muslim women.


That all sounds lovely in theory but that's not how any of this works. Women in societies where they wear burkas are the most oppressed women in the world so they don't get to vote as a block to determine whether they have to wear burkas. If you go to a society dominated by women wearing burkas, you can be assured that it was men who decided that they should be wearing burkas.

Even in the West you can not begin to make the assumption that the women wear burkas are doing so by choice. I think you will find that if a woman is wearing a burka she is probably submitting herself to the command of her husband.

Of course there will be women who tell you otherwise but I side eye any woman saying she is pro burqa of her own free will and not because of societal or familial pressure the same way I'd side eye a victim of Domestic violence who changes her mind about pressing charges against her husband.

But hey, provide me with one example of a pro-woman, pro-Burka muslim woman defending the practice free of male or societal pressure and I am all ears to hear from her.

Otherwise you are just some non-muslim dude arguing for the tool used to oppress alot of muslim women.


Your thinking on this is kind of like chalking up low women voter turnout after the passage of 19th Amendment to women choosing not to vote and not societal and familial pressure not to vote.



>
>Nothing about us without us (is for us).
>
>And this whole shit right here offends me "minority religious
>freedom outweighs societal values or the minority religious
>rights outweighs the societal values"
>
>"Societal values" should not be set in stone. They should be
>constantly be in negotiation as the people, times, knowledge,
>and understanding move and change. Unless you're advocating
>that we should just have slavery because we did before or
>you're a xenophobe.


I don't understand what offends you here. Maybe because you quoted part of it out of context. I never set societal values are set in stone (I think by definition they change). I don't know what the slavery or xenophobe line even means. Maybe you should read my statement again and understand it before shooting from the hip.



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53. "You thinking I'm arguing 'for the burka' shows how little you understand"
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what I'm saying.
Your argument is identical to that of an "pro-lifer."


Again: Nothing about us, without us (is for us).

Non-muslim men and women should not be creating rules that only affect muslim women. The end.

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59. "No. You are missing my point that the notion that women are "
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"choosing" to wear Burkas is full of shit. You should feel silly as a dude trying to make that argument.

You would be better off like I mentioned above by providing links to arguments made by muslim women who wear burkas and say they do so by choice and not societal or familial pressure.

But you haven't really addressed any questions or points I have made so far.

Your position is misguided because you are viewing this through the lens of modern western society where you have a relatively informed, free women with agency and the ability to freely make such decisions as to what to where, and not taking into context we are discussing oppressed women in a closed society with women with little options.

Let me put another way, if all the women in my neighborhood in Brooklyn, NY decided they didn't want to wear burkas anymore and stopped wearing them, do you think they would face consequences for that decisions? Think there husbands and families would be like "cool!"


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62. "Oh Germany ain't the west?"
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News to me.

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64. "You are very ignorant about this."
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Germany has more muslims than any other european country. They had over 5 million BEFORE they stepped up to the plate and decided to take on more Syrian refugees than any other country. Other western countries should LOOK UP to Germany's courage and tolerance....especially those that espouse tolerance. It's estimated they've taken in just less than half a million refugees in 2016 alone. The same refugees that are being turned away by other western nations and the same ones that even liberal Americans want endlessly screened for terrorism. Screenings that cause death. They don't HAVE time.

Merkel should be a fucking HERO to you if you care about religious tolerance. But she doesn't want the burka (a symbol of oppression for the vast majority of MUSLIMS) in schools and courtrooms...so she's racist. Unbelievable.

  

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92. "Here we go. A white man decrying the R word."
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that no one even used.

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98. "You are an intellectual disgrace."
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I've seen some shit you've posted here. You should be ashamed.

  

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101. "what shit have i posted?"
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dig it up.

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81. "Again i don't know what you are talking about but it's clear you don't"
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have any intention of addressing the issues and questions I have raised. Noted.


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93. "You don't know what I'm talking about because you keep waffling"
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between talking about western societies and muslim countries.

I've chosen not to address silly ass questions about FGM. And your other "questions" seem concerned with imposing rules upon the women affected the the patriarchy you're admonishing and not those who inflict said patriarchy upon them.

I agree that my perspective is that of a westerner... and we're talking about Germany. So... what's the issue?

If the question is about muslim countries, which is never was... then who is imposing this hypothetical ban? Outsiders?
Empower those affected. Educate them. Grant them subjectivity. Give them agency. You should not just be imposing rules because you think they're in their best interest (whether you're "right" or "wrong") meaningful change comes from the people.

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63. "I've concluded that people simply don't understand what a burka is"
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and what role they play in muslim society. They're arguing about something they don't know about....perhaps because they don't live near muslims or know them or haven't been exposed to this specific issue. So they're just retreating to what they think the liberal, tolerant argument is and they couldn't be more wrong. Calling the burka 'muslim' is like calling the KKK outfit 'Christian'. Criticizing the burka is NOT a critique of islam.

  

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91. "The Burka ban in Germany is completely about Islam"
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and has absolutely nothing to do with women's rights
Merkle herself mentioned it in relation to the violence of last summer as it they are at all related. Burka wearing women having nothing to do with those incidents. Nothing.

My point is simple, the people affected by a rule are the ones who should determine it. I don't know how often I need to type this out:

Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).
Nothing about us without us (is for us).

If you're not engaging muslim women about what they think, stfu.
Protect them. Empower them. Grant them agency and self determination.

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99. "THis concept of 'the people involved should self-police'"
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Well that merely goes against every principle that modern civilization is based on. We should let the southern white people self-police the KKK when they disallow integration in public schools?

No. We have central institutions that do that. Try again.

  

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103. "self-police?"
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how the fuck do you get that from what i'm talking about?
southern whites should self-police the kkk?
what?

your comprehension is way off.

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106. "You certainly have made that argument:"
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"Non-muslim men and women should not be creating rules that only affect muslim women. The end."

Whereby one can only deduce....the only people who should make rules about muslim people have to be muslim people. Self-police.

  

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107. "I'm the intellectual disgrace here?"
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Your comprehension levels are absurdly low.

Maybe this will help. Maybe not. But it's the last thing I've got to say to you... unless of course you dig up the supposed shameful shit I've posted. I'm still waiting on that.

http://prepareinc.com/there-is-nothing-about-us-without-us/

“Nothing About Us Without Us!” (Latin: “Nihil de nobis, sine nobis”) is a slogan used to communicate the idea that no policy should be decided by any representative without the full and direct participation of members the group(s) affected by that policy. This involves national, ethnic, disability-based, or other groups that are often thought to be marginalized from political, social, and economic opportunities.”

It is not a new idea – as a political motto it has been used since 1505 in Poland and No Taxation without Representation was a familiar slogan of the American Revolutionary War. Yet this critical message is ignored time and time again, leaving out the voices of those who know best what their lived experiences are like, what their needs are, what is most important to them.


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109. "I wonder how much Syrian refugees are hip to that."
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Maybe you should 'westplain' to them.

  

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110. ""I tried to reeeeeach it away... just don't call me the R word""
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given that it's a 500 year old concept, I'm sure they catch on to it much quicker than your dense ass.

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56. "no..."
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https://thesocietypages.org/socimages/files/2008/12/1.png

'cause if you really think about it, women dressing in as little as they feel still benefits men moreso than women.

The ability to choose is an illusion.

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13. "It's right up there with pee next to me"
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= no foks given

that is, why is this an issue

and why are we devoting time and effort to it

with so many other important issues.

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19. "I wonder how common burkas are in other people's cities."
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I see them all the time. I think they're a disgrace. But I don't think people should be disallowed to wear them except for certain environments....similar to what Germany is proposing. Courtrooms, schools, passport offices, etc. The idea they are a 'choice' is so incredibly naïve and over-the-top cultural relativist. 'Some slaves were happy' too. We also have honour killings. Some muslim women agree with those too.

  

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22. "I see them regularly in my neighborhood."
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Women covered head to toe with just their eyes showing. Some have netting over their eyes too. They're out and about doing their thing. It doesn't bother me one bit.

I think your Islamophobia and xenophobia are showing.

As for choice - Janet Ms Jackson if you're Nasty wears the shit. By. Choice. The woman has more agency than most women in the world. But she covers up bc she converted to Islam and is married. Her choice. She's just one example. Plenty women choose to keep their physical beauty away from YOUR prying eyes. Get over yourself. They're not hurting you. Leave them be.

fuck you.

  

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25. "Have you seen them publically demeaned by their husbands?"
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I have. I'll refrain from calling you a defender of institutional sexism in order to make my point. And burkas are undoubtedly an institutional form of sexism.

  

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26. "So that means all of the millions of women wearing burkas are doing so b..."
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they're being mistreated? Including the woman I know who wears one and told me it was her choice? Okay.

I'll call you a misogynist and xenophobe, whitey.

Again - any man who forces a woman to wear a burka should be criminally penalized. But the women being forced to wear them should NOT be penalized.

fuck you.

  

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29. "if that's your theory, you could project that beyond Islam"
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plenty of religions require women to appear a certain way or wear certain attire

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33. "True...."
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And I'm aware that we might also characterize the bra or the hijab as being 'based on historical sexism'.

But the Burka is very new compared to those traditions. I would argue it has not been 'reclaimed' by women the way the bra or the hijab have. The fact is...you can correlate the amount of gender oppression that takes place in rural muslim areas with the popularity of the burka. We're playing dumb if we don't recognize that. I suppose it's a coincidence that the burka increases ten-fold after the Taliban takes over a territory?

  

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34. "You lost me, I thought we were talking about the USA"
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keeping it general, I think you can see the faiLure in your logic

if you want to ban garments because they are oppressive to women

why stop at the burka?

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37. "I don't want to outright ban the burka"
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and neither does Germany.

I believe in freedom. I also believe that we place limits on those freedoms within our public institutions. Normal civilians can dress like they want. Teachers can't.

The modern-day burka carries values with it. I don't want those values expressed in our public institutions. i don't want my kid's teacher teaching my child those values. They can express those values in public...but not in our institutions.

  

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40. "And you want to punish the women you say are victimized"
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and whose victimization harms your sacred institutions.

That's great logic.

fuck you.

  

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42. "Teachers aren't allowed to wear KKK outfits either."
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This is not a 'punishment'. This is a restriction of freedom in a public institution.

The KKK outfit carries values with it. So does the burka. We get to pick and choose which values are allowed to be expressed in our schools. If you want to know what gender values the burka represents....go find the places in the world where the burka is prominent and see what their gender values are.

Would it be punishing them if we insisted while in the classroom they be allowed to speak without being spoken too? Or if we insisted they supervise recess without a male chaperone to accompany them? Or is that punishing them too?

What if they insisted it was 'their choice' to follow those gender guidelines? Our refusal to accomodate them is 'punishment'?

  

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41. "Yooo, please tell me you have other images of her in a Burka"
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other than this.

http://english.alarabiya.net/en/variety/2016/10/27/Rumors-of-Janet-Jackson-converting-to-Islam-after-sporting-a-poncho-.html




>Women covered head to toe with just their eyes showing. Some
>have netting over their eyes too. They're out and about doing
>their thing. It doesn't bother me one bit.
>
>I think your Islamophobia and xenophobia are showing.
>
>As for choice - Janet Ms Jackson if you're Nasty wears the
>shit. By. Choice. The woman has more agency than most women in
>the world. But she covers up bc she converted to Islam and is
>married. Her choice. She's just one example. Plenty women
>choose to keep their physical beauty away from YOUR prying
>eyes. Get over yourself. They're not hurting you. Leave them
>be.


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44. "I found one of the whole Jackson 5:"
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https://www.google.ca/search?q=burka+image&biw=1680&bih=915&tbm=isch&imgil=WpBBs88wHtLLwM%253A%253BvlVRZstbwGXlDM%253Bhttp%25253A%25252F%25252Fwww.ibtimes.co.uk%25252Fislamic-state-bans-burka-northern-iraq-after-veiled-woman-kills-2-jihadists-1579804&source=iu&pf=m&fir=WpBBs88wHtLLwM%253A%252CvlVRZstbwGXlDM%252C_&usg=__pvuyYzspp0th2wRlRUzAzBHvQM4%3D&ved=0ahUKEwjG7LWP9uDQAhVNx2MKHVhAA34QyjcIOQ&ei=zmRHWMbNFM2OjwPYgI3wBw#imgrc=WpBBs88wHtLLwM%3A

  

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75. "Blanket prolly looking at Janet like "aunt always stealing daddy's style..."
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67. "I see women wearing burqas everyday"
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The majority I see are Black American women that (I think) converted to Islam.

  

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32. "Every time I see think I think of Ninjas. I honestly dont care, I wont-"
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protest over it or anything. *shrugs*

  

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45. "RE: Banning Burkas, how we feel about that?"
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Why not make forcing a woman or man to wear religous garb against their will with physical, verbal, or kidnapping threats punishable by jail, then also make it easy for victims to report that crime.
If you've spent anytime in philly you'll see grown ass American born and bred women convert to Islam and willingly put on burkas midlife. I can't believe they are the only ones wearing them by choice. A ban deprives them of religious freedom. I think there are many women who are forced but the onus should on punishing the people forcing them to wear religious clothing, not the women.

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47. "^ That"
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50. "Was this people you know?"
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I guess I wonder how you know who is under a burka and their willingness to rock them unless they your peoples?







>Why not make forcing a woman or man to wear religous garb
>against their will with physical, verbal, or kidnapping
>threats punishable by jail, then also make it easy for victims
>to report that crime.

I would guess the same reason that in domestic violence calls the police still arrest the dude even if the woman changes their mind when the cops arrive, their is no practical way to determine who is doing so by choice and who is being forced to do so.






>If you've spent anytime in philly you'll see grown ass
>American born and bred women convert to Islam and willingly
>put on burkas midlife. I can't believe they are the only ones
>wearing them by choice. A ban deprives them of religious
>freedom. I think there are many women who are forced but the
>onus should on punishing the people forcing them to wear
>religious clothing, not the women.
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51. "I've met some late converts in passing."
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One day you see them like...
http://9502-presscdn-0-95.pagely.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/janet1.jpg

Next day it's...
http://bossip.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/janet-blackstreet.jpg%3Fw%3D98%26h%3D98%26crop%3D1

Wash, rinse, repeat.

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54. "Ok but to be clear, we are talking Burkas, not Hijabs."
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I know women who wear Hijabs. Burkas are on a whole nother level and you really don't see those women chatting it up with folks outside their set, they are usually two steps behind their husbands not saying nothing.




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57. "Naqibs... add a little lace to the slit and it's a burka..."
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Like this... http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/09/16/article-2421893-1BDAEB43000005DC-783_306x423.jpg


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102. "ahh no."
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IT may not seem different to you...and there might not be much actual difference in descriptions....but there is a big cultural difference between the burka and the niqab.

  

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60. "Re: civil servants, it's simple "
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There is an acceptable level of religious eccentricity by a minority sect that will be tolerated by society before it goes too far. ANY minority religious sect that caused its members to wear full facial coverings would be looked at askance, and the practice wouldn't be tolerated in professions where intelligibility/positive identification mattered.






  

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61. "RE: Re: civil servants, it's simple "
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65. "You can't fight women being forced to dress a certain way."
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By forcing them to dress a certain way.

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66. "just hustling all the way backwards"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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68. "That's a misguided of over-simplification as when Chief Justice"
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John Roberts struck down integration plan and diversity efforts in school by stating, ""The way to stop discrimination on the basis of race is to stop discriminating on the basis of race."

It tweets well, but its a gross simplification of a complex subject that ignores a lot of history and context.

But let me make my point by asking a question, "what percentage of women wearing burkas do you think are doing so by personal choice? And by personal choice I mean that they could decide to not wear burkas if they wanted, and they wouldn't face beatings, ostracisim or any negative consequences from their husbands, families or community?"




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70. "I live in a predominantly Muslim area of London."
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I can tell you without doubt that plenty of women wear the Burka (and Hijab for that matter) through choice... in fact many choose to find a similar feeling of "liberation" as girls that choose to wear bikinis... instead of a freedom from the shackles of cloth, it's a freedom from the feeling of every man's eyes on their bodies... from the pressure to be a sexualised being every second of every day.

Some are forced or coerced by family or religous leaders, absolutely, but then some are forced or coerced by pimps to wear skimpy clothes on street corners and we don't see fit to ban mini skirts and thigh high boots because we realise more women choose to dress like that as are forced.

You've got to let people make their own decisions.... and that includes the choice to cede their decisions to a religous practise if they so desire.

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74. "mini skirts, thigh high boots and certainly bikinis would be deemed"
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inappropriate by most judges in a court room, though, and they may not allow in the courtroom. isn't that what this argument is about?

i've no dog in this fight, but it doesn't sound like they have proposed an overall ban of the garments but in certain areas and circumstances.

  

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76. "It's the "while driving or participating in a demonstration" that raises..."
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There are valid arguments over school uniform, dress code in court or (less so) government functions, but there is no benefit to enforcing attire standards for drivers or demonstrators when people are free to drive in their underwear and the Slut Walk is widely seen (rightly so) as a valid form of protest.

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77. "agreed"
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80. "I hear you but a couple of things."
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>I can tell you without doubt that plenty of women wear the
>Burka (and Hijab for that matter) through choice... in fact
>many choose to find a similar feeling of "liberation" as girls
>that choose to wear bikinis... instead of a freedom from the
>shackles of cloth, it's a freedom from the feeling of every
>man's eyes on their bodies... from the pressure to be a
>sexualised being every second of every day.


Choosing to wear a burka to escape male gaze and harrasment is still clothing choice dictated or in reaction to men. That's not exactly freely choosing.

Also, how do you know without a doubt women in your nabe are wearing burkas by choice? You as a single man are having coversation with these women without the presence of men?


>
>Some are forced or coerced by family or religous leaders,
>absolutely, but then some are forced or coerced by pimps to
>wear skimpy clothes on street corners and we don't see fit to
>ban mini skirts and thigh high boots because we realise more
>women choose to dress like that as are forced.

Sure I follow this logic and I think in freer societies women we can get some comfort in the idea that women wearing burkas are doing so by free choice. That's why banning burkas make less sense in Western Countries than it does in Islamic States like Egypt that are trying to killed oppressive traditions within their country. If it were clear we reached the point where most women wearing burkas were doing it freely without concern from male repercussions, I could get behind it's a freedom of choice argument. But if most women wearing burkas aren't doing so by freedom of choice, it isn't a freedom of choice argument.


>You've got to let people make their own decisions.... and that
>includes the choice to cede their decisions to a religous
>practise if they so desire.


Does the same sentiment go for FGM? For grown women? For grown women to decide for their daughters?


Again, I am fine with people practicing their religions as they see fit, but alot of these religious practices compel women to behave a certain why do to oppressive cultural traditions.






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82. "Certainly I've spoken to my next door neighbour about it."
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We're quite close to her and my girlfriend (AfAm) isn't shy in coming forward with the questions. She's perfectly open about - though she wears Hijab rather than Burka, but didn't wear it as a girl and made the choice on her own in her 20s as a single woman. She has no issue with how my girlfriend dresses, but feels most comfortable with her "shape" obscured on the street.

My ex-girlfriend who was over-endowed in the torso used to cover her cleavage in order to mitigate cat calls on the street... it's a pretty universal experience... she didn't do it with shapeless black robes, but shapeless woolen jumpers. The cause and effect was much the same.

Obviously not all end up covering up via the same route, but not all end up exposing themselves in public through routes of freedom either.

The best we can do is not add EXTRA rules/pressures.

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83. "RE: Certainly I've spoken to my next door neighbour about it."
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Yeah, I think Sowhat made the best point on this topic is that the rule places the burden on the women, not the dudes that compel women to wear them for whatever reason.


Still not convinced it's a terrible idea to ban though as a matter of public policy.

And again I am only talking Burka. Not Hajib or other garments.



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69. "That's how it starts "
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I don't like the burqa/Naqaab.Its not part of my culture or religious identity.I feel nervous around veiled women especially from a security standpoint.
But these are my issues.I won't pretend to dislike then under the veil of protecting women's rights.
My secretary was hired as a normal Hijab wearing lady, then a year in she donned the Naqaab.I didn't like it but I understand and respect her choice to do so.
This is not fighting for women's rights as sowhat explained above but Islamaphobia.
Own that shit and it becomes easier to debate/discuss.

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71. "How it ends"
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Is Hijaab also being offensive, after all if a burqini is, why stop there?
I stand with my Niqabi sisters on this.

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73. "It's pandering to Islamophobia at best."
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If it were really about safety and communication, they could have simply made a few changes to existing bans of face coverings in government buildings, banks, etc.

But now we're drafting laws because there's a handful of women walking around in some stupid garment? At a time when fascist, anti-Muslim parties are gaining huge traction with the electorate? When people are getting attacked for just wearing hijab in public?

I'm generally cautiously positive about Merkel, but here's she's making the same stupid mistake that so many centrist parties are making: instead of taking a stand against Islamophobia and fascism, she's feeding both by legitimizing what should have been a political non-issue.

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86. "I agree and it's designed to do exactly what progressive people are doin..."
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finding themselves on the same side with the pro-burka oppressive muslim faction.

I get it folks aren't pro-burka but pro-women choice, but

Worldwide most muslim women don't support burkas, but yet you have hundreds of feminist and progressives writing thought pieces advocating a policy that would have the end result goal of more women wearing burkas.




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89. "and this is why no one should even reply to this post"
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94. "Not sure what you mean here:"
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>yet you have hundreds of feminist and progressives writing thought
>pieces advocating a policy that would have the end result goal
>of more women wearing burkas.

What policy are you referring to? Most of the feminists/progressives that I follow are against the ban, because they can hear the dog whistle and don't like it one bit.

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96. "Exactly"
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>What policy are you referring to? Most of the
>feminists/progressives that I follow are against the ban,
>because they can hear the dog whistle and don't like it one
>bit.

Exactly, most feminist are arguing against the ban (the policy in question) because they frame it as a woman's right to choose their clothing issue. My criticism is that that framework only works in a culture where women truly have the right to choose and doesn't work in the context of a society or culture where women are oppressed and truly don't have the right to choose because of pressure form husbands, family and their culture in general. So ultimately at the end of the day the feminist are advocating for a position that will have more women wearing burkas if they prevail.

Do this thought experiment: Suppose sex trafficked women were sold by virtue of putting them in red scarves on the street. Any time you saw a woman on the street with a red scarf, you knew she was for sale. Let's say the local government became aware of the practice and tried to combat it by banning red scarves to disrupt the sex trafficking. In this context it would be understandable why the government would ban an article of clothing AND it would be somewhat selfish to be against the ban just because you like to wear red scarves.


I know that people are against it because it is an issue driven by islamphobia but what people have to accept that either position you take you are going to end up siding with some deplorables. Either the islamphobia deplorables or the men who oppress women by making them wear burkas deplorables.

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104. "that this is not in any way true hasn't stopped you from saying it "
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>>I know that people are against it because it is an issue driven by islamphobia but what people have to accept that either position you take you are going to end up siding with some deplorables. Either the islamphobia deplorables or the men who oppress women by making them wear burkas deplorables.


it's really simple. ban = bad.

whatever you want to do to address any negative situations that are happening: don't require a ban, which wouldn't address the deeper issues anyway.

arguing against clothing bans doesn't put you on the side of deplorables.

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113. "haven't read the whole tread, but what about this :"
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the burka = the ban; let women choose how they dress, sexy or not. but do you really want women that only "really" exist "in" the household? i don't know, I don't like it.

  

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114. "Nope."
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>>What policy are you referring to? Most of the
>>feminists/progressives that I follow are against the ban,
>>because they can hear the dog whistle and don't like it one
>>bit.
>
>Exactly, most feminist are arguing against the ban (the policy
>in question) because they frame it as a woman's right to
>choose their clothing issue. My criticism is that that
>framework only works in a culture where women truly have the
>right to choose and doesn't work in the context of a society
>or culture where women are oppressed and truly don't have the
>right to choose because of pressure form husbands, family and
>their culture in general. So ultimately at the end of the day
>the feminist are advocating for a position that will have more
>women wearing burkas if they prevail.

Don't try to turn this around so feminists are suddenly to blame for a specific form of oppression. If women are forced to wear a burqa by their husbands, fining them for it isn't going to help them fight their oppression. If you want to help them, give them options for independence and punish the husbands for abusing their wives.

>Do this thought experiment:

No. I don't need far fetched "thought experiments" to analyze the situation.

>I know that people are against it because it is an issue
>driven by islamphobia but what people have to accept that
>either position you take you are going to end up siding with
>some deplorables. Either the islamphobia deplorables or the
>men who oppress women by making them wear burkas deplorables.

No again. Like I said, helping women isn't done by blanket bans of clothing items, because they *could* be worn against one's will. Some women are forced to wear hijab, would you ban that? How about the ankle-length skirts that conservative Christians make their wives and daughters wear in certain places in the Netherlands? Even longs sleeves are sometimes the result of religious pressure, am I siding with conservative Jewish men because I'm against a ban of sweaters?

Take on the men doing the oppressing, not the women wearing the clothing.

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115. "Not one for complexity eh?"
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Never said that feminist to blame for a specific form of oppression. Jus trying to get you dudes who don't do complexity well that no matter what side of the issue you choose, you are alligning yourselves with the interest of deplorable people.

If you are for the ban, you are taking a position that aligns yourself with you the Islamophobes.

If you are against the ban, you are aligning yourself with the burka enforcing husbands and clerics.

As an adult, you have to be willing to accept that there are few morally pure, consequence free choices that you make.



>Don't try to turn this around so feminists are suddenly to
>blame for a specific form of oppression. If women are forced
>to wear a burqa by their husbands, fining them for it isn't
>going to help them fight their oppression. If you want to help
>them, give them options for independence and punish the
>husbands for abusing their wives.
>
>>Do this thought experiment:
>
>No. I don't need far fetched "thought experiments" to analyze
>the situation.
>
>>I know that people are against it because it is an issue
>>driven by islamphobia but what people have to accept that
>>either position you take you are going to end up siding with
>>some deplorables. Either the islamphobia deplorables or the
>>men who oppress women by making them wear burkas deplorables.
>
>
>No again. Like I said, helping women isn't done by blanket
>bans of clothing items, because they *could* be worn against
>one's will. Some women are forced to wear hijab, would you ban
>that? How about the ankle-length skirts that conservative
>Christians make their wives and daughters wear in certain
>places in the Netherlands? Even longs sleeves are sometimes
>the result of religious pressure, am I siding with
>conservative Jewish men because I'm against a ban of
>sweaters?
>
>Take on the men doing the oppressing, not the women wearing
>the clothing.


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116. "I see patronizing is just in your character. Good luck with that."
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79. "If they ban them they got to ban everything"
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a secular republic that separates religion and state
has to enforce secularism in government
so no burkas no niqabs no yarmulkas no crosses no nuns habits no hasidic suits no nothing on official government business (passport office, DMV, courts, etc)

if only burkas are banned and everything else is allowed to fly
that's a violation of religious freedom and discrimination on basis of religion

  

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84. "You don't though. Governments make value judgements all the time. "
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We don't have an unconditional right of religious freedom. Religious freedoms are often balanced against societal goods.

We are comfortable banning FGM, but not banning the right to wear certain garments.

Also within the right to wear religious garments, it is possible to envision a law that bans wearing garments that completely obstruct a persons face.

We can ban KKK costumes and burkas, and not Hajibs. That rule isn't necessarily discriminatory.


I would add I am not a fan of slippery slope, all or nothing arguments.


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87. "FGM is not Islamic"
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Let's get that out of the way.
Even the most regressive of Salafis don't claim it as Sunnah.
That's a cultural practice that some non Muslim people carry out as well.
It's damaging, dangerous and performed on minors without consent for no good reason.
How you are comparing it to a woman choosing to wear anything is bizarre.

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"Didn't say it was islamic. "


  

          

but neither are burkas necessarily since only a small portion of muslims do it.

I mentioned it as a example and find them comparable because they are both cultural practices rooted in gender inequality and attempts to control women's sexuality.




>Let's get that out of the way.
>Even the most regressive of Salafis don't claim it as Sunnah.
>That's a cultural practice that some non Muslim people carry
>out as well.
>It's damaging, dangerous and performed on minors without
>consent for no good reason.
>How you are comparing it to a woman choosing to wear anything
>is bizarre.
>


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88. "Didn't say it was islamic. "
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but neither are burkas necessarily since only a small portion of muslims do it.

I mentioned it as a example and find them comparable because they are both cultural practices rooted in gender inequality and attempts to control women's sexuality.




>Let's get that out of the way.
>Even the most regressive of Salafis don't claim it as Sunnah.
>That's a cultural practice that some non Muslim people carry
>out as well.
>It's damaging, dangerous and performed on minors without
>consent for no good reason.
>How you are comparing it to a woman choosing to wear anything
>is bizarre.
>


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90. "blue"
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it's oppressing women.

and against western values.

can't even show your face to the world? foh. we will deal with your sexuality, and respect it.

  

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95. "what SoWhat said."
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and also what Backbone said.

  

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112. "religion just seems so nonsensical to me even at the best of times"
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But whatever, let people wear what they want to wear so long as it doesn't infringe on anyone else's freedoms.

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