happy have kids have good jobs or chose to stay at home
are friends on FB. well, one dropped off FB but I don't know if it's because of the election.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
10. "I have three. (caveat: I don't want marriage or children)" In response to Reply # 0 Tue Nov-15-16 02:13 PM by astralblak
first: 2+yrs (puppy love) - Lives in Mendicino. Works as a cook and involved in local politics. She is a relationship and seems happy.
-we cheated on each other, forgave each other, we talk randomly.
second: 4+ yrs (deep insane crazy love) - lives in LA County. has a corporate gig. she is engaged to a muscled up pisa. they are having a kid together, that is due soon. she actually cheated on him with me last Decemeber.
- we were non-monogomous, but committed. we were both too jealous for the "polyamory" to work. didn't want marriage or children. after we split she claimed she wanted both from me. we still cool
third: 3 yrs (most adult and true love) - making 100k in LA. living a good ass life. says niggas in LA aint shit, and in retrospect should've compromised a bit on who I was. she DEF WANTED marriage and children. I wasn't ready, BUT I wanted both WITH HER.
- we were monogomous, but she caught me in the process of trying to cheat. she's one of the funniest and happy people I've ever met. Her pop was a Black republican. we still talk and fuck around here and there
14. "all over the place: married, cat lady, old chick in the club, a doctor....." In response to Reply # 0
I only have like 4 exes on FB, we don't talk or anything, but I see em on there
ex 1: my first love, HS sweethearts. She's a Navy chief now, made it a career, married 3x but seems this last one's the charm. Seems happy (then again everyone's happy on fb so what do I know). No kids.
ex 2: twenties love, we met at an Ultra festival. She's upper 30's now and still in the scene. Single, never married, no kids either. Lives for the party, still goes out every weekend. If there's a stigma against being the old chick in the club like there is for dudes she DGAF.
ex 3: 20's as well, she was a brainiac and now a pediatric doctor, but typical successful caked up cat lady.
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