1. "I don't think I've ever sat around with my friends and discussed slurs" In response to Reply # 0
There was never a discussion about the "K" word or the "S" word, and whether or not we should say it. We never even use those slurs. Ironically, we only used (past tense) "the N word" among ourselves (we're all black), no other slurs.
4. "do we believe there are no such things as dumb ?s" In response to Reply # 0
one one hand, it's "c'mon b"
on the other there is a slight lean toward, "is it not - on some level - better that her little mind is considering the subject matter? how else is she gonna grow?"
mostly it's just sadness at we are at a place where she would, either legit or as a joke, post that publicly with no sense of how it might backfire and therefore not do it