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Trinity444
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Mon May-23-16 08:34 AM

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"I was wondering if we could keep in touch..."


  

          

While at the store
a guy introduced himself and hit me with that line
thought it was pretty damn good
I love a man with courage...

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how was your weekend?
mine was kid free
I shopped all day Saturday
and cleaned and studied all day Sunday

I still ain't got no friends :-/

  

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Subject Author Message Date ID
so did he get them digits?
May 23rd 2016
1
nah, I'm not ready...
May 23rd 2016
2
nope. its hard out here in Charlotte
May 23rd 2016
3
      thats what I hear...
May 23rd 2016
5
Sounds like he did everything right and still got turnt down lol
May 23rd 2016
4
right...
May 23rd 2016
6
      but....you were interested.
May 23rd 2016
7
      ill think about it lol
May 23rd 2016
10
      RE: right...
May 23rd 2016
9
Hmmm. I wonder if He left too much room for you to lie...lol
May 23rd 2016
8
that may have worked...
May 23rd 2016
11
sideline phone app Trin
May 23rd 2016
12
what makes a woman unapproachable?
May 23rd 2016
13
no woman is unapproachable.
May 23rd 2016
14
Research on the subject says there are signals
May 23rd 2016
15
My bad, I misread the question in a rush
May 24th 2016
20
that resting face...
May 23rd 2016
16
Understood
May 24th 2016
17
thats pretty smooth.. might have to steal that
May 24th 2016
18
I'm wondering why he would want to do such a thing
May 24th 2016
19

KiloMcG
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Mon May-23-16 08:37 AM

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1. "so did he get them digits?"
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my weekend was good. looking forward to a break in the rain this week.

  

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Trinity444
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Mon May-23-16 08:46 AM

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2. "nah, I'm not ready..."
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I lied too
(that 10% of me)
told him I was seeing someone...
I suppose I could have been honest but I was in a hurry

/
I came home and told the children I saw some apartments that doesn't allow kids
told them I was moving there
the eldest - with his smart behind goes, " that's impossible"


  

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legsdiamond
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Mon May-23-16 08:47 AM

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3. "nope. its hard out here in Charlotte"
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what a nigga gotta do?

i watched the baby all day saturday and worked Sat. night and Sunday.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Trinity444
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Mon May-23-16 08:55 AM

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5. "thats what I hear..."
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I saw a really dark man dressed it all white
and royal blue shoes
hated it....

  

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Boogie Stimuli
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Mon May-23-16 08:52 AM

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4. "Sounds like he did everything right and still got turnt down lol"
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The holla game sucks sometimes *sigh*

>how was your weekend?

Worked overtime, so I didn't have much of a weekend.
Spent what little time I had reading and watching
superhero shows lol... then I washed clothes.
Boring to many but just right for me. Long weekend
coming up this weekend. I'll either travel
or do some creating... or both.

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Days like this I miss Sha Mecca

  

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Trinity444
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Mon May-23-16 08:58 AM

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6. "right..."
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I feel bad..

which would you rather?
the lie or getting my number and then telling you I'm not interested...

  

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KiloMcG
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Mon May-23-16 09:09 AM

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7. "but....you were interested."
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cmon, trin. a date or something would probably be good for you. even if it doesn't lead to anything romantic, could be your first friend.

  

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Trinity444
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Mon May-23-16 09:32 AM

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10. "ill think about it lol"
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Boogie Stimuli
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Mon May-23-16 09:19 AM

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9. "RE: right..."
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Mon May-23-16 09:23 AM by Boogie Stimuli

          

>I feel bad..
>
>which would you rather?
>the lie or getting my number and then telling you I'm not
>interested...


Ideally, I'd prefer you to say "I'll take your number"
(this is generally considered a rejection, but it gives you
room to change your mind, since he did make a good impression)
or
just tell the bare truth that you really liked my approach
and find me attractive, but you're just not ready to get to know
anyone right now. (lie about the 'attractive' part if you have
to LOL)



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Days like this I miss Sha Mecca

  

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Seven
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Mon May-23-16 09:10 AM

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8. "Hmmm. I wonder if He left too much room for you to lie...lol"
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He could've said. "I want to stay in touch." Give you his number and leave it at that. Would you have called him tho?
It's hard in these single streets lol

Weekend was good.
Had a busy day Saturday. DJ'd Saturday night and stayed out way too late.
Stayed in bed most of yesterday then hung out with an old friend who's in town for work last night.
Watched game of thrones before I passed out last night.

I'm ready for the week ahead. A couple big work meetings I'm a bit nervous about but I'll be fine.

Have a good one

  

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Trinity444
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Mon May-23-16 09:40 AM

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11. "that may have worked..."
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since I'm not an off cuff speaker
it would have given me time to digest it

well played

good luck at the meeting...

  

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legsdiamond
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Mon May-23-16 10:01 AM

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12. "sideline phone app Trin"
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****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Trinity444
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13. "what makes a woman unapproachable? "
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is it her or his lack of confidence...

  

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tariqhu
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Mon May-23-16 01:26 PM

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14. "no woman is unapproachable."
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that's likely a man's issue if he sees a woman that way. with that said, she may give off signs of not wanting people to talk to her. like a mean mugg or simply being in a hurry. timing is everything.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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Boogie Stimuli
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Mon May-23-16 01:38 PM

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15. "Research on the subject says there are signals"
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Among those signals are...
Eye contact, her body facing yours a bit more, smiling at you,
hair tossing and other "girly" stuff like that.

Kinda think about what you'd do to let a guy know you
*weren't* interested (avoiding eye contact, not smiling
at all, etc)... it's kinda the opposite.

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Days like this I miss Sha Mecca

  

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Boogie Stimuli
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20. "My bad, I misread the question in a rush"
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I'd read it as "What makes a woman approachable"

Many men won't be able to read the signs that make you
unapproachable... especially if they aren't used to getting the approachable signals.

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legsdiamond
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Mon May-23-16 01:47 PM

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16. "that resting face..."
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anytime a dude makes eye contact they roll their eyes or do thr beat box.

looking like they got a walk in closet filled with issues

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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BabyYoda
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Tue May-24-16 12:23 AM

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17. "Understood"
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Seems like you appreciated his approach, but you are just not ready to mingle(yet). I get it.

Perhaps the next woman he approaches will give him some cooperation.

  

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Amritsar
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Tue May-24-16 12:29 AM

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18. "thats pretty smooth.. might have to steal that "
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finessing the holla

  

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Beezo
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Tue May-24-16 05:51 AM

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19. "I'm wondering why he would want to do such a thing"
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lol

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Fuck a sig, my presence is enough.

  

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