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>The parent's lack of involvement is a symptom of that symptom = why i stated my position on this but i guess you needed to type it out anyway its timeout for the why's
>Yes there are outliers and super-parents, but I think poverty >correlates across racial lines this issue in schools. i never brought up race, so why are you? no one said this is a blacks only problem. being attentive to your childs education is NOT being a super parent, stop the madness these same lazy ass parents you bleed for manage very well to be super parents with football super parents with dance super parents with basketball but when it comes to education its just too much gatdamn work
>And the OP is BS, grade-shaming won't work long term. Short >term, it could depending on the students. Long term it could >have negative, unintended outcomes. uhh, no shit. which is why i said parents are the answer and specifically pointed out grades arent the answer
>I'm a teacher by the way. At one of the poorest middle schools >in my city. im a parent by the way who spends 1-2 days every two weeks in my childs classroom where its painfully clear what these parents make time for im also a product of a poor environment, mine and my wife so i personally get the up close and intimate details of our (still poor) family's issues with education. and guess what? they can make time for football, basketball, and dance, and only look at education when it jepordizes playing time. all while wondering why their kids are behind. one cousin husband went to the NBA (briefly) so of course, everything is sports, sports, sports, sports, sports their 2nd grader had 'good grades' flunked had to take summer school to pass oh but he got 'good grades' is all you'd hear because they werent involved at all unless there was a problem
> >Grades do matter, but these kids and their parents are dealing >with so much shit That I've learned to never take their >actions personally. yeah well you do that. you keep crutch propped up for them. go luck with that.
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