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Trinity444
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"when a guy can't tell you why he's interested in you..."


  

          

what does that mean?

  

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He likes you, but he doesn't like you like you,
Jan 21st 2016
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mind explaining a bit?
Jan 21st 2016
2
It means that you have to SHOW him what to be interested in
Jan 21st 2016
3
theres something about u, but he cant quite put it into words
Jan 21st 2016
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It means you're asking too many questions....JETS fam
Jan 21st 2016
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It's mainly because he thinks you look good.
Jan 21st 2016
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I don't think being able to articulate why you like someone doesn't have
Jan 21st 2016
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it could mean way too many things.
Jan 21st 2016
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perhaps he is a gentleman
Jan 21st 2016
9
he wants to hit and isn't a quick thinker.
Jan 21st 2016
10
wrong spot
Jan 21st 2016
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LOL
Jan 21st 2016
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      lol right.
Jan 21st 2016
28
it means he likes you...
Jan 21st 2016
12
He forgot... #SmokingThatKind
Jan 21st 2016
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he wants to hit
Jan 21st 2016
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*smh*
Jan 21st 2016
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lol
Jan 21st 2016
40
That you should get what you can out of him now b/c clock bout to run
Jan 21st 2016
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lol. I'm sure he is offering to give the D
Jan 21st 2016
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He's tired of you askin dumb ass questions
Jan 21st 2016
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because "'Cause you got a fat booty and titties and you cute" is crass
Jan 21st 2016
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I had a dude once tell me he likes me cause of my DNA ..
Jan 21st 2016
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quit lying, I said T&A
Jan 21st 2016
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RE: quit lying, I said T&A <--LOL I would e prefered that
Jan 21st 2016
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lmao wth... dude sneaked a hair sample
Jan 21st 2016
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Listen...
Jan 21st 2016
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This ....
Jan 21st 2016
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Sliiiiightly OT....but women gotta realize y'all lay things out differen...
Jan 21st 2016
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these women need this shit tho..
Jan 21st 2016
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some do...
Jan 21st 2016
37
why you dating suckas?
Jan 21st 2016
55
Man that would be garbage. I don't think I've had it used against me
Jan 21st 2016
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if she needs it there's a reason..low self esteem, she's concerned
Jan 21st 2016
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so eloquently put...
Jan 21st 2016
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Dude and I were watching TV and the girl on TV asked that ?
Jan 21st 2016
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      Ohhhh, that's hella cute LOL. It all depends, but it can catch us
Jan 21st 2016
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honest question for ladies. Is this something you're asking dudes regul...
Jan 21st 2016
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I generally don't ask but if a dude goes on and on about how he
Jan 21st 2016
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lol
Jan 21st 2016
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RE: I generally don't ask but if a dude goes on and on about how he
Jan 21st 2016
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      go right on ahead.. I think I posted about that portion of my life
Jan 21st 2016
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yes...
Jan 21st 2016
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nah, of course it doesn't make you crazy...
Jan 21st 2016
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c'mon though, you really don't have an honest answer???
Jan 21st 2016
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      right on...I see what you saying....
Jan 21st 2016
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           lol i feel you in a sense. Especially if ya'll are already vibing, its l...
Jan 21st 2016
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is this something you ask any dude that shows interest or if you'd been
Jan 21st 2016
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      any...
Jan 21st 2016
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           damn
Jan 21st 2016
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           damn
Jan 21st 2016
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           You should already know.
Jan 21st 2016
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           what you mean?
Jan 21st 2016
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                You know what you have to offer.
Jan 21st 2016
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                     its not a matter of self esteem...
Jan 22nd 2016
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                          Ok.
Jan 22nd 2016
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                               i definitely think its fishing for compliments
Jan 22nd 2016
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                                    stop being a bastard lol
Jan 22nd 2016
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           yeah, you might be a little teeny weeny bit
Jan 21st 2016
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No, and it's a bad idea to ask that.
Jan 22nd 2016
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it means he needs a little more skin for his skin suit
Jan 21st 2016
31
damn
Jan 21st 2016
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Worms, gimme some more...
Jan 21st 2016
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      what if hes a stutterer?
Jan 21st 2016
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           I'd chance it....
Jan 21st 2016
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                i burned my dick at the family christmas party.
Jan 21st 2016
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He may have communication issues
Jan 21st 2016
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Real talk. He's only looking for sex. KIM
Jan 21st 2016
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hes stupid....
Jan 21st 2016
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Atillah Moor
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1. "He likes you, but he doesn't like you like you, "
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Everything looks like Oprah kissing Harvey Weinstein these days

  

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2. "mind explaining a bit?"
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flipnile
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3. "It means that you have to SHOW him what to be interested in"
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Right now he's interested in pussy and/or companionship. Show him exactly what else he should be interested in (besides the pussy and companionship).

  

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4. "theres something about u, but he cant quite put it into words"
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5. "It means you're asking too many questions....JETS fam"
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"Get ready..for your blessing..."

  

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6. "It's mainly because he thinks you look good."
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But he knows he's not supposed to say that.

  

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7. "I don't think being able to articulate why you like someone doesn't have"
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anything to do with like someone.

It can be like trying to explain why you like a song. Who knows you just do.


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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8. "it could mean way too many things."
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i've been on both sides of it. there's no definitive answer.

fuck you.

  

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Selah
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9. "perhaps he is a gentleman"
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perhaps its lust and he doesn't want to say for fear of offending you

(as stated: could be anything)

  

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10. "he wants to hit and isn't a quick thinker."
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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11. "wrong spot"
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Thu Jan-21-16 12:21 PM by legsdiamond

          

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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20. "LOL"
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My thoughts exactly


I can write an on the spot favorable annual HR review for just about any broad I'm Tryin to fuck

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28. "lol right."
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who can't make something up on the spot as to why they are interested?

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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legsdiamond
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12. "it means he likes you... "
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and if you like him, don't fuck it up by asking too many questions or he will have a reason why he doesnt like you

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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flipnile
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13. "He forgot... #SmokingThatKind"
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14. "he wants to hit"
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most likely

  

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15. "*smh*"
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Fuck a sig, my presence is enough.

  

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40. "lol"
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16. "That you should get what you can out of him now b/c clock bout to run "
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out on the free giveaways. And if he's not already giving you stuff?...Moveon.org

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18. "lol. I'm sure he is offering to give the D"
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Thu Jan-21-16 01:12 PM by legsdiamond

          

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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17. "He's tired of you askin dumb ass questions"
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19. "because "'Cause you got a fat booty and titties and you cute" is crass"
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maybe that's it, maybe not. Could be dude is not good at articulating his feelings. Could be any number of reasons.


How long have y'all been seeing each other?

  

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21. "I had a dude once tell me he likes me cause of my DNA .."
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I would've prefered a simple "I don't know I just do"

  

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22. "quit lying, I said T&A"
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What dude would say if he was in here^^^

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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45. "RE: quit lying, I said T&A <--LOL I would e prefered that "
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24. "lmao wth... dude sneaked a hair sample"
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"Until you get outta my way, I don't wanna hear what you say aye aye"

  

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23. "Listen..."
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Like others have said, it could mean a lot of things, but one
very IMPORTANT thing it means is that he's not very self-aware.
It's important that YOU know why he's interested, and until he figures
it out or you can see through him, you'd be trusting someone else's
confusion to move into anything with him.

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"Until you get outta my way, I don't wanna hear what you say aye aye"

  

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64. "This .... "
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Thu Jan-21-16 10:00 PM by ndibs

          

>Like others have said, it could mean a lot of things, but
>one
>very IMPORTANT thing it means is that he's not very
>self-aware.
>It's important that YOU know why he's interested, and until he
>figures
>it out or you can see through him, you'd be trusting someone
>else's
>confusion to move into anything with him.


Is really the best case scenario.

  

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-DJ R-Tistic-
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25. "Sliiiiightly OT....but women gotta realize y'all lay things out differen..."
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I've had so many women ask similar questions, and the thing is...I just go off of a feel, or the cliche "connection, energy" more so than anything I can write a damn essay or Marvin Gaye type song about.

I've had a woman ask me, "name five things you like about me" and I literally responded, "is this a English paper? I just do, I don't have to verbalize it like that!"

It's actually easier for me to explain why I DON'T like a girl, versus why I do. Sometimes, it's really as simple as "I like your smile, and I can tolerate being around you for 8 hours without wanting to kick you out the house." It doesn't have to be "the tone of your voice when you are telling me about your life experiences," "the smell of your hair after it's been shampoo'd," "your level of intellect which is balanced by your willingness to learn more, mixed with your upbeat personality and unpredictable sense of humor" or any of that. If I'm into you, I just am.

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30. "these women need this shit tho.. "
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not sure why but they need dudes to tell them what makes them special and half the time they use that shit against you at a later date.

"oh, but you said you loved my sense of humor. I joke your finances and now you got an attitude"

"I thought you wanted a strong woman?"

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Trinity444
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37. "some do..."
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for some - it helps weed out the suckas lol

  

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55. "why you dating suckas? "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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-DJ R-Tistic-
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41. "Man that would be garbage. I don't think I've had it used against me"
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But at the same time, I rarely respond to that type question anyway.

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43. "if she needs it there's a reason..low self esteem, she's concerned"
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about how much you like her..she wonders if you're really into her or just buying time

This is different from want/like it cause that's just an interest and probably doesn't have "deeper" meaning

  

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35. "so eloquently put..."
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thank you

  

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52. "Dude and I were watching TV and the girl on TV asked that ?"
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Thu Jan-21-16 03:10 PM by MzOnyxVI

          

so, I turned to him and asked him what were three words he'd use to describe me

in the moment, he blew me all of the way off

told me I was being ridiculous

the next day or so, he sent me a text that said

"brilliant, beautiful, inspiring"

made my day

  

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62. "Ohhhh, that's hella cute LOL. It all depends, but it can catch us"
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way off guard at the time. And it just feels like we're making up shit.

I swear I've said shit to women, just to get a good reaction, and I had to ask myself, "wait....did I really mean that, or was that game?" Either way can scare us, especially if we actually do mean it.

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26. "honest question for ladies. Is this something you're asking dudes regul..."
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Why are you interested in me? LOL. Damn, what ever happened to just feelin a person's vibe? This some new 2016 line of questioning? Sheesh. *flips down Dwayne Wayne flip-up shades and walks away listening to Musiq -Just Friends*

...cleaned up my act, made a few violent songs...but, they wack like Glen Rice with New Balance on - Sean Price

  

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27. "I generally don't ask but if a dude goes on and on about how he"
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likes me.I'll semi-jokingly say "oh yea? Why?"
the responses are usually interesting
One dude said because I am a strong woman like his mother was..thing is..with this dude I was purposefully slick-mouthed and demanding with him..he loved it

  

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29. "lol"
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>One dude said because I am a strong woman like his mother was..thing is..with this dude I was purposefully slick-mouthed and demanding with him..he loved it

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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58. "RE: I generally don't ask but if a dude goes on and on about how he"
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>thing is..with this dude I was purposefully slick-mouthed
>and demanding with him..he loved it

Fascinating. I want to ask some questions, but I don't want to pry too much.

"Sean sparks like John Starks, nah, Sean ball like John Wall" - Rest In Power Forever Sean Price.

  

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Regina Rose
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63. "go right on ahead.. I think I posted about that portion of my life "
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before ..

  

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Trinity444
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33. "yes..."
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does that make me crazy?

its not a question men should fear....if you're honest



  

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Dstl1
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34. "nah, of course it doesn't make you crazy..."
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just something I've never heard before. What though, if there is no honest answer. Dude just feels something between you and him...and he thinks it's genuine?

...cleaned up my act, made a few violent songs...but, they wack like Glen Rice with New Balance on - Sean Price

  

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Cenario
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38. "c'mon though, you really don't have an honest answer???"
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like she either looks fine or you really enjoy her company or some combo of both.

Now whether or not you wanna tell her the honest answer, is a different point.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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Dstl1
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46. "right on...I see what you saying...."
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I guess it's just my inner neo-soul coming out...like...you and a person both know when shit feels right. That question might rub me the wrong way...like I'm being interviewed for a position.

...cleaned up my act, made a few violent songs...but, they wack like Glen Rice with New Balance on - Sean Price

  

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Cenario
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48. "lol i feel you in a sense. Especially if ya'll are already vibing, its l..."
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you already told her what you like about her right? like you would have volunteered it.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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Cenario
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36. "is this something you ask any dude that shows interest or if you'd been"
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with a guy for a couple of dates?

I guess to me i wonder if it comes from a lack of self confidence. Bc i've definitely been asked before. If it is a girl i really really like i take it as her being flirty and possibly wanting an ego stroke.

If its a girl i'm not that interested in really, i take it as her lacking self confidence and i got to work hard to find something nice to say that won't bite me later.

Perhaps in my experience, she was just picking up on my lack of non-interest vibe. But what does asking what i like about you solve??

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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Trinity444
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42. "any..."
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i need to know what brought you here...

  

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49. "damn"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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50. "damn"
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...cleaned up my act, made a few violent songs...but, they wack like Glen Rice with New Balance on - Sean Price

  

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51. "You should already know."
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You served it up.

fuck you.

  

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56. "what you mean?"
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61. "You know what you have to offer."
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So you should have a clue why homie likes you.

fuck you.

  

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65. "its not a matter of self esteem..."
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for me - it's a " getting to know you" question.

how you think...
your intentions...



  

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66. "Ok."
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I've always been annoyed by the question bc I feel like the person is fishing for a compliment possibly due to a lack of s/e. I haven't seen it as you do.

fuck you.

  

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67. "i definitely think its fishing for compliments"
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can't see how you get to know someone by asking for a list of reasons why they like you.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Trinity444
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68. "stop being a bastard lol"
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ain't nobody asking for a list...

by way of example, if a lady says she finds you interesting
wouldn't you be curious why?

I'm more than the sum of my body....

  

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53. "yeah, you might be a little teeny weeny bit"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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mochalox
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69. "No, and it's a bad idea to ask that."
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nm

  

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worms
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31. "it means he needs a little more skin for his skin suit"
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Ashy Achilles
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32. "damn"
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39. "Worms, gimme some more..."
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44. "what if hes a stutterer?"
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and hes spent all these years working on it to the point that it is not noticeable in most situations. but when you ask him what it is that he likes about you, there is a storm of words in his head, and he can feel the shame-inducing mish mash of sound thats about to come out. so he takes a second to compose - no i still go with potential murderer.

  

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47. "I'd chance it...."
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what's up?
your replies are always a pleasure

  

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54. "i burned my dick at the family christmas party."
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i made my famous bean dip which has as an ingredient, jalapenos. i made the bean dip. i went to the bathroom after. then my sister said she was going to the store and so i said that i would ride along with her.

on the way to the store my dick began to burn. oh, did it burn.

  

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BabyYoda
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57. "He may have communication issues"
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Some people struggle to articulate their thoughts about certain things. My question to the person asking the question is..

Depending on the answer given, if he was able to give an answer, would said answer be a deal breaker or deal maker?

  

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59. "Real talk. He's only looking for sex. KIM"
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60. "hes stupid...."
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Navem nu, cuando sol
Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
Vita em, no continous non
Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen

When the sun shades the ship
We sweat and life is not safe
To swim or to touch not
When we unite we hedge amen

  

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