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blkprinceMD05
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"Poll question: Str8 black dudes who date white girls: r u down to date a black girl too..."


  

          

I just see a few of u over the years how u post and some of y'all are clearly on some white is right shit and it's sad.

Poll result (53 votes)
Yes, it's not about race for me just as long as they are hot (18 votes)Vote
No, only date white girls (32 votes)Vote
I'm open to Asians and Latinas too just no Black girls (3 votes)Vote

  

  

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Subject Author Message Date ID
LoL
Nov 15th 2015
1
NO.
Nov 15th 2015
2
who are these 11 that voted yes tho?
Nov 15th 2015
3
nah. unfortunately, these niggas are shameless.
Nov 15th 2015
4
Almost, they still can hide behind the anonymity of the poll
Nov 15th 2015
5
Or they're being honest. They just ain't feeling the sistas like that.
Nov 15th 2015
6
      Nevermind. Ppl can wallow in their own issues
Nov 15th 2015
7
      say, brother - we just went through a whole week of cleansing.
Nov 15th 2015
8
           I kinda want them to accept they have issues
Nov 15th 2015
9
                what kinda issues do you have? you should offer those up as a sign
Nov 15th 2015
10
                i got a real good buddy whos on that 'white girl only' but wont admit it...
Nov 15th 2015
11
                Those dudes don't even rank white women.
Nov 16th 2015
18
                They won't admit it
Nov 16th 2015
16
                     LMAO
Nov 16th 2015
37
      true
Nov 16th 2015
33
don't you mean the folks who voted "No"?
Nov 16th 2015
99
Black women are not collectively pining over these men...
Nov 15th 2015
12
I think they messin with you on the poll options
Nov 16th 2015
13
The vice versa happens more than people want to talk about...
Nov 16th 2015
14
One can only hope
Nov 16th 2015
15
Damnit, Did I fall asleep in that time machine again?
Nov 16th 2015
17
Is that Yaya in your avy?
Nov 16th 2015
19
And yet here you are...
Nov 16th 2015
20
      Yep *waves hi*
Nov 16th 2015
21
Yep, you came back to 2015 where race is still very much an issue
Nov 16th 2015
22
this shit is a ricki lake episode
Nov 16th 2015
26
      or montel williams
Nov 16th 2015
27
           or richard bey
Nov 16th 2015
28
                *googles richard bey
Nov 16th 2015
31
                The show was a thing of trash magic. Ratchet before there was a word
Nov 16th 2015
32
                lol dont forget O.G. Phil Donahue
Nov 16th 2015
60
i am an equal opportunity brotha... i love women.
Nov 16th 2015
23
is she fine or cute as hell? Yes? Then I'm down
Nov 16th 2015
24
This is a great post for a monday
Nov 16th 2015
25
Hold up, how you gonna have a problem with someones dating preference
Nov 16th 2015
29
I was waiting for someone to write this...my sexuality isn't a dating
Nov 16th 2015
41
      huh?
Nov 16th 2015
44
      not a preference as in a choice. now, if he had said he only dates
Nov 16th 2015
45
           Disagreed.
Nov 16th 2015
53
                you're getting into the "do people choose to be gay" discussion,
Nov 16th 2015
62
                     No I'm not.
Nov 16th 2015
64
                          seen
Nov 16th 2015
68
      Doesn't matter, its still who they choose or want to be with. For what-
Nov 16th 2015
48
Why do you believe this to be true?
Nov 16th 2015
30
unless you ask them, how do you know it's all they date?
Nov 16th 2015
34
Niggas talk
Nov 16th 2015
35
is this about that Miley post?
Nov 16th 2015
36
LOL. I don't know man. Some people like, 'slutty' people
Nov 16th 2015
39
i mean I understand the frustration.
Nov 16th 2015
40
Oh, man. That was mind-boggling
Nov 16th 2015
83
This will be a showdown between the humorless and the IDGAF clowns
Nov 16th 2015
38
lmao you had to know this was gonna get trolled.
Nov 16th 2015
42
Yeah, OKP ain't about the swirl; mainly just the woman hating
Nov 16th 2015
43
probably not answering because they are too sad to type right now
Nov 16th 2015
46
Too sad? what happened?
Nov 16th 2015
47
      no idea, I'm just going off of the og post
Nov 16th 2015
49
I Haven't Dated a Black girl since High school. White Girls are
Nov 16th 2015
50
Serious question
Nov 16th 2015
51
I've dated Plenty of First Timers LOL 4 Me White is Right.
Nov 16th 2015
52
Ahh. Mine was a question more on how you say your skills dont work
Nov 16th 2015
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SInce I'm not being Genuine My skills come across corny to sisters
Nov 16th 2015
63
      so ummm...exacty how u pull white girls fam?
Nov 16th 2015
75
           dog, i got you.
Nov 16th 2015
77
           welp
Nov 16th 2015
82
           lmao @ take the hunger out of your eyes
Nov 16th 2015
84
           fellow scientist
Nov 16th 2015
87
           you are a damn fool, lol
Nov 16th 2015
136
           I'm crying.
Nov 17th 2015
150
           Pretty straight forward approach. Once you sense interest
Nov 16th 2015
80
           lmao...
Nov 16th 2015
81
           LMAO.....ok...so just like on TV....gotcha...lol
Nov 16th 2015
85
           With white chicks being your self and respectful is all you need.
Nov 16th 2015
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                total opposite for me lol...complete and total opposite
Nov 16th 2015
97
                Basically they're easier for you to get.
Nov 16th 2015
107
                     Easier for me yes. BUt what's wrong with that?
Nov 17th 2015
153
           lmao!
Nov 16th 2015
90
           ... and now. your hysteria is showing.
Nov 16th 2015
126
           bruh, yes they are, but it's part of the convo
Nov 16th 2015
139
                not believing it. he hasn't approached a black woman in decades.
Nov 17th 2015
147
           Hermain Cain smile
Nov 16th 2015
137
           my goodness this is so funny but not funny at all
Nov 19th 2015
157
           I really hope you're kidding
Nov 16th 2015
88
                keep hope alive
Nov 16th 2015
89
Lawd
Nov 16th 2015
55
this doesn't hurt anyone, IMO.
Nov 16th 2015
56
if you love the skin you're in, why don't you understand it's the same
Nov 16th 2015
57
I get what he's saying strangely
Nov 16th 2015
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Serious question: How specifically?
Nov 16th 2015
59
his behavior causes the fabric to rip.
Nov 16th 2015
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      Online Dating sites I say I prefer white women. Sisters hate that.
Nov 16th 2015
69
      white woman aint nicer. they're doped up on nerve pills.
Nov 16th 2015
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      RE: white woman aint nicer. they're doped up on nerve pills.
Nov 18th 2015
155
      Just a couple of things...
Nov 16th 2015
92
           I Agree with everything you said below. But my Dills likes white P*ssy
Nov 16th 2015
100
                RE: I Agree with everything you said below. But my Dills likes white P*s...
Nov 16th 2015
106
                theater of the hilarisad absurd at its finest
Nov 16th 2015
140
                Lol!!
Nov 16th 2015
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                You said your dills don't see color tho...
Nov 17th 2015
145
      Thanks for the answer.
Nov 16th 2015
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Apples and Oranges. I lvoe being black But I love my women white
Nov 16th 2015
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      youor environment failed you.
Nov 16th 2015
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      Deep
Nov 16th 2015
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      GOT IT...I'm Flawed we all are In some capacity.
Nov 16th 2015
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      i also got to remember you're on a pussy-mission after pussy-mission
Nov 16th 2015
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      lol yep
Nov 16th 2015
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      You are welcome :-) Silver Lining indeed
Nov 16th 2015
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      But you also in White Frat to right?
Nov 16th 2015
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           Yep, All White HS, then I pledeged an Italian Fraternity
Nov 16th 2015
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                So are Black women not 'just women' to you. U seem to associate them
Nov 16th 2015
102
                     are we even sure that any woman is a "person" to this man?
Nov 16th 2015
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                     RE: are we even sure that any woman is a "person" to this man?
Nov 18th 2015
156
                     Yes all women are just women. But I prefer the white ones.
Nov 16th 2015
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                          ^posts on : http://whitewomenblackmen.com/
Nov 16th 2015
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I know what you went through growing up
Nov 16th 2015
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      You see it then. As I aged i was in predominantly white environments
Nov 16th 2015
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           Yeah, I seen it and lived it
Nov 16th 2015
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                I feel ya homie. Thanks for the feedback....
Nov 16th 2015
128
                     It's all good, bruh
Nov 16th 2015
134
the game has to be adjusted for each group of women a bit
Nov 16th 2015
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      My numbers are significantly better with black girls
Nov 16th 2015
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           if u hold those notions about White women doesn't sound like u even
Nov 16th 2015
113
           Man... you sound just like Black dudes who only date whute women...
Nov 16th 2015
117
                I don't want to be babied.
Nov 16th 2015
123
                     I'd wager that it's puzzling because...
Nov 16th 2015
127
                     awww looks like this case had some modern relevancy after all :-)
Nov 16th 2015
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                     For some folks, it clearly does lol.
Nov 16th 2015
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                     These words don't define the white women i date at all.
Nov 16th 2015
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                     right. here's your list:
Nov 16th 2015
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                     Lmao
Nov 16th 2015
135
                     YOu don't know me homie or my chicks so stop projecting
Nov 17th 2015
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                     Some black guys describe black women that way is my point...
Nov 16th 2015
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                          RE: Some black guys describe black women that way is my point...
Nov 17th 2015
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                               lets get Denny and you in a room and y'all can sell each other
Nov 17th 2015
154
                     *attributing lol
Nov 16th 2015
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                     Why does it puzzle you?
Nov 16th 2015
143
every man has their demographic...
Nov 16th 2015
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lol i always love the poll responses
Nov 16th 2015
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yall must really live around some accepting ass white people.
Nov 16th 2015
91
Sooo but for that you'd be on that White Chocolate?
Nov 16th 2015
95
i came to the same conclusion...lol
Nov 16th 2015
108
i mean i hit off beckies like the rest of yall
Nov 16th 2015
109
no shots, i thought you were a woman for some reason
Nov 16th 2015
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      lol
Nov 17th 2015
149
Yes
Nov 16th 2015
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I like women period.
Nov 16th 2015
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I had black women not dating me because my jewish mom
Nov 16th 2015
110
Aubrey started from the bottom now the whole team here
Nov 16th 2015
112
We all under the Sammy D movement playa
Nov 16th 2015
114
...white name?
Nov 16th 2015
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      more so,
Nov 16th 2015
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           If you lived on the same block it wasnt the name
Nov 16th 2015
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                you right, they were not accepting to my white mom
Nov 16th 2015
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Some comments in this post tho lol. Is the struggle that real??
Nov 16th 2015
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Lol ppl wanna he he ha ha about the poll results being trolled but
Nov 16th 2015
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      how do you feel about the way whites are discussed on okp?
Nov 17th 2015
148
as some one who has been in long terms with both
Nov 16th 2015
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eclipsedInI
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1. "LoL"
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2. "NO."
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J/K I haven't dated a white girl since the two in high school.
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3. "who are these 11 that voted yes tho?"
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Gotta be a joke right?

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4. "nah. unfortunately, these niggas are shameless."
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5. "Almost, they still can hide behind the anonymity of the poll"
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Some are gonna try to chalk it up to trolling and tryna be funny but u see it from the replies that this is a true frame of mind. Sad

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believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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6. "Or they're being honest. They just ain't feeling the sistas like that."
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Rest In Peace, Bad News Brown

  

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blkprinceMD05
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7. "Nevermind. Ppl can wallow in their own issues "
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Sun Nov-15-15 11:15 PM by blkprinceMD05

  

          

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believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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Kwesi
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8. "say, brother - we just went through a whole week of cleansing."
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why not let these men have their way?

we all know they wack as shit, so why are we fighting to keep them on our side?

or better yet, share the story of what sparked this reactionary post?

  

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9. "I kinda want them to accept they have issues "
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Sun Nov-15-15 11:19 PM by blkprinceMD05

  

          

Or at least challenge their views of Black women, who like other groups are very diverse

Open to dating all races, find. Refusing to date ur own race is on some Dave chapelle black guy in a kkk hood shit-I want them to realize that and heal

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stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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10. "what kinda issues do you have? you should offer those up as a sign"
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of decent intentions.

  

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11. "i got a real good buddy whos on that 'white girl only' but wont admit it..."
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he'll claim that he's open to them all, and finds the most success/comfort/experience with the white ones.

i think-he thinks black girls dont think he's cool.

i think some do think he's cool, but he don't give those ones the 'time of day'.

i think, at the base of it, he thinks that a white '6' is better than a black '6'.

or, he'd choose an average white over and average black.

that's something to think about.

...

but at the end of it all. he's a really good friend of mine, who may or may not be fucked up in the head - and for more reasons than who he decides to date, im sure.

and maybe i can remind him of this every time i see him, but im sure that would get tired.

i just shake my head and think 'nobody's perfect' ...

  

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18. "Those dudes don't even rank white women."
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White is automatically a 10 to them. That's why you see so many with marshmallow women
while a sista gotta be slim, hourglass figure, everything in cartoon perfection form to
even get a "she look aite" from them. They're brainwashed and a non-factor.
Fuck 'em.

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16. "They won't admit it"
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Michael Jackson and James Brown are cool, but you ain't seen footwork 'til you
see these niggas dance around their self-hate issues.
It's just gonna be excuse after excuse... or "you ain't got a sense of humor".

People don't like admitting their issues in general tho.

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37. "LMAO"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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33. "true"
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but I can't front...

I hate when I hear sistas who say they only date white men so I get the frustration

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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99. "don't you mean the folks who voted "No"?"
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why would you have an issue with the red votes?

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12. "Black women are not collectively pining over these men..."
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...and if a few vocal minority are, I'd say the issues THEY have are linked to/similar in nature to the issues of the men this post is directed at.

  

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13. "I think they messin with you on the poll options"
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Picking only white girls just to fuck around. Some of em prob asleep next to a black woman right now.

Me tho, I'm gonna mess with whoever is down with me. Black, White, Other. Don't matter. You cool as shit plus you look good then we can kick it. There has to be a serious connection tho.

Like, no way I'd pick a fucked up white chick over a cool as black chick. Wouldn't make sense, although some people do this. Or vice versa.

Totally depends on the person to me.

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14. "The vice versa happens more than people want to talk about..."
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>Like, no way I'd pick a fucked up white chick over a cool as
>black chick. Wouldn't make sense, although some people do
>this. Or vice versa.


...and I find that just as sad.

  

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15. "One can only hope "
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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17. "Damnit, Did I fall asleep in that time machine again?"
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19. "Is that Yaya in your avy?"
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And yeah... This *gestures around* feels dated.

  

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20. "And yet here you are..."
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>And yeah... This *gestures around* feels dated.

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Moonlit_Force
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21. "Yep *waves hi*"
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22. "Yep, you came back to 2015 where race is still very much an issue"
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Not sure where you came from where it's not, but welcome

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26. "this shit is a ricki lake episode"
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27. "or montel williams "
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https://soundcloud.com/swageyph/yph-die-with-me

  

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28. "or richard bey"
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31. "*googles richard bey"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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32. "The show was a thing of trash magic. Ratchet before there was a word "
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60. "lol dont forget O.G. Phil Donahue "
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23. "i am an equal opportunity brotha... i love women."
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24. "is she fine or cute as hell? Yes? Then I'm down"
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I gives naan fuck on what race or ethnicity a chick is. If she looks good and we vibe, then I'm with it.

IIRC I've written about this on here in the past too.

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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

  

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25. "This is a great post for a monday"
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29. "Hold up, how you gonna have a problem with someones dating preference"
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when you're a man who only dates men?
And how is his dating preference affecting you or your loved ones?

  

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41. "I was waiting for someone to write this...my sexuality isn't a dating "
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Preference.

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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44. "huh?"
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45. "not a preference as in a choice. now, if he had said he only dates"
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white dudes, then there would be a discussion.

  

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53. "Disagreed."
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Orientation certainly IS a preference. If we don't recognize that we fall into a very over-simplified construction of sexuality. EVERYTHING is preference. That's why people tend to eff whoever the hell is available when given a limited amount of options. Ie jail, deserted islands, war.

I should fess up to my angle on this. Prince has a problem with interracial relationships. I know that from previous posts though. In anycase....this is a disguise for his rather intolerant and judgemental views. The fact is.....he doesn't date black women either. And I would never criticize or judge him for that. Too bad he can't extend the same tolerance and acceptance to others.

  

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62. "you're getting into the "do people choose to be gay" discussion, "
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and i'm not gonna do that.

  

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64. "No I'm not."
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because people don't 'choose' what their preferences are. Orientation is a preference because sexuality is fluid. This is why a black man who 'prefers' black woman doesn't become asexual when he moves to Iceland. His preferences adjust and adapt to what surrounds him.

People like to eff. How and who they eff is the domain of preference. We don't simply choose our preferences.....they are a result of a very complex combination of nature, nurture and environment. And that's an extremely good reason not to judge anyone for them. Our judgements should stay out of each other's bedrooms. Full stop.

  

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68. "seen"
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48. "Doesn't matter, its still who they choose or want to be with. For what-"
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ever reason it may be.
Also, wow exactly is it affecting you?

  

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30. "Why do you believe this to be true? "
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That a Black man who dates a white woman does so because he believes white is right? How come the nigga can't date her because she is cooperating or better yet she may be taking care of him financially, sexually in addition to giving him emotional support like any woman would do for a man they are interested in or love?

What trips me out about these types of threads is they myths people chose to believe. Besides, people gonna do what they wanna d at the end of the day, like it or not.

  

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34. "unless you ask them, how do you know it's all they date?"
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35. "Niggas talk "
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36. "is this about that Miley post?"
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Bc if so I understand.

fuck you.

  

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39. "LOL. I don't know man. Some people like, 'slutty' people"
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I don't know if its a case of white is right because there's been some 'would you hit' posts that had the black ratchet equivalent of Cyrus and dudes were happily going on the 'I would' line.

  

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40. "i mean I understand the frustration."
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Not that I agree with the sentiment whatsoever. But seeing her sexiness praised is kinda off-putting and I feel bad for being so put off by it. I'm glad she's out there doing too much as long as she's in control and wants to do too much. I ain't gotta see it though. But still - I understand feeling like "Dudes only like her bc she white" bc she's just not...my cup of tea. Which is whatever - who am I? Lol

fuck you.

  

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83. "Oh, man. That was mind-boggling"
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38. "This will be a showdown between the humorless and the IDGAF clowns"
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In other words, highly entertaining.


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

Five Star - https://goo.gl/jBHbVv
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42. "lmao you had to know this was gonna get trolled."
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<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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43. "Yeah, OKP ain't about the swirl; mainly just the woman hating"
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46. "probably not answering because they are too sad to type right now"
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“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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47. "Too sad? what happened?"
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49. "no idea, I'm just going off of the og post"
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“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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50. "I Haven't Dated a Black girl since High school. White Girls are"
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my preference. Why? Because I know them better when it comes to dating and wooing. My skills fall flat on Black Chicks. Or maybe I'm not putting in enough effort or failing to seem genuine whilst pursuing. I think It's the latter. Cause I am really not into black chicks at all.

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Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
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51. "Serious question"
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>my preference. Why? Because I know them better when it comes
>to dating and wooing. My skills fall flat on Black Chicks. Or
>maybe I'm not putting in enough effort or failing to seem
>genuine whilst pursuing. I think It's the latter. Cause I am
>really not into black chicks at all.

Do you think its because you tend to like white chicks who like black dudes so you already have an 'in'. Just surprised you say your skills don't work on black women.

  

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52. "I've dated Plenty of First Timers LOL 4 Me White is Right. "
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Specially being an OG. Other women tend to lose all their hang ups after 35 years old or so. But Most of my women have dated black before.

The Obvious reason I prefer White women is that I'm ultimately attracted to white women visually no matter their size. Thin to BBW. As long as she is pretty in the face, has some curves and sexy I'm all in. LOL

The Long term reason is that I grew up in the 70s and 80s where being dark skinned was even a problem within the black community. White is right was blasted all over the TV. So I'm sure that had an influence. Seeing my mom pick sh*tty men didn't help issue. That def made me look at WOMEN especially Black Women in a whole another light. And not in a good way. Unlike most I'll admit that part of my preference is based on conditioning. And some is just based on experience.

Before yall go on that He hates himself, He hates being black rants. That is far from the case. I love the skin I'm in.

Any other questions?

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Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
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54. "Ahh. Mine was a question more on how you say your skills dont work"
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>Specially being an OG. Other women tend to lose all their
>hang ups after 35 years old or so.

Just because at the age range you're dating id be surprised that people were still carrying those "I need a man to fit XXXX stereotype" that they had in their teens and 20's which people bring up when they say they cant pull black women

  

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63. "SInce I'm not being Genuine My skills come across corny to sisters"
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I can't fake it really. THat being said I can flirt with the best of them and get a whole lot of numbers. But the followup be lame as hell on my end. ANd they can usually tell and then I just fade to black.

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Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
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75. "so ummm...exacty how u pull white girls fam?"
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I'm like your polar opposite....lol

do u (gotta) use the interview voice?

say something corny like 'hey howsitgoin...u come here often'?

do u gotta constantly smile and put on that 'I'm non-threatening' look?

any other symbols to recognize if they down wit the swirl other than short hair and nails did?

like do you just go hard like Eddie Murphy in 48hrs and walk into your local honkytonk ....record scratch...and shoot the J?



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Coolin...

  

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77. "dog, i got you."
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to pull a white woman you gotta:

-take the hungry look out of your eyes.
-roll no more than three deep.
-be in the white part of town.
-be okay with having to repeat yourself if you're talking too low or with heavy slang.
-open up and and talk about yourself more than you usually would.
-act like it's something you do all the time.

  

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82. "welp"
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-take the hungry look out of your eyes.
****I never have one...so I'm good****

-roll no more than three deep.
****I can do that****

-be in the white part of town.
****I can do that****

-be okay with having to repeat yourself if you're talking too low or with heavy slang.
****I talk low and gotta deep ass voice so I always gotta repeat myself anyways....slang might be an issue****

-open up and and talk about yourself more than you usually would.
****get's off the bus here....****

-act like it's something you do all the time.
****oh well...that was fun****

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Coolin...

  

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84. "lmao @ take the hunger out of your eyes"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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87. "fellow scientist"
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sad thing is this is pretty much sound advice for going at any "Other" type of holler

Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

Building repetoires (c) spm since 1983

  

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136. "you are a damn fool, lol"
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there's truthiness, in your speak tho, old skywalker

  

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150. "I'm crying. "
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http://soundcloud.com/djshinobishaw
http://www.rareformnyc.com
http://twitter.com/DJShinobiShaw
https://twitter.com/RareFormNYC
PSN: ShinobiShaw

"Arm Leg Leg Arm How you doin?" (c)T510

  

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80. "Pretty straight forward approach. Once you sense interest"
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Me - Hello, my name is Jay. You are very pretty. Are you single?
Her - Thanks. Yes I am single.
Me - Would love to cook you dinner one night or go out for drinks. What's your number?
Her - Oh that would be nice. 609-123-4567
Me - Cool will call or text you later. Nice meeting you

Send a few text. Setup a date.
It's a wrap.

Same scenario with a Black Woman.
Me - Hello, my name is Jay. You are very pretty. Are you single?
Her - Thanks. Yes I am single.
Me - Would love to cook you dinner one night or go out for drinks. What's your number?
Her - How I look giving you my number and we just met?!!! You think I'm crazy enough to go to your house and I don't know you???!!! WHy, you sound like a white guy?
Me - o_0 AH forget it... Peace

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Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
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81. "lmao... "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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85. "LMAO.....ok...so just like on TV....gotcha...lol"
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Coolin...

  

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96. "With white chicks being your self and respectful is all you need. "
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With black chicks there seems to be some angle that is necessary for them to take you seriously. I don't have an angle. I'm just me.And being just me works on white chicks.


That simple five sentence conversation is all I need to get in the door. Either she is feeling me Physically or she aint. Once she is a simple hello will do in most instances. I'm tall dark and handsome and I have a way with words. I put women at ease with a simple smile and a hello.

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97. "total opposite for me lol...complete and total opposite"
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funny world we live in


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107. "Basically they're easier for you to get. "
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And then at that you target a specific type of white chick that you know will be down with shits with little to no effort.

Your childhood experiences explain a lot and I ain't mad atcha. It makes sense.

  

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153. "Easier for me yes. BUt what's wrong with that? "
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But I've wifed up some challenging women as well.
You never know who your gonna fall for ultimately.
I navigate each relationship as it comes.

SOme were laid back and cool
Others were moody and high maintenance.

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90. "lmao! "
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>Me - Hello, my name is Jay. You are very pretty. Are you
>single?
>Her - Thanks. Yes I am single.
>Me - Would love to cook you dinner one night or go out for
>drinks. What's your number?
>Her - Oh that would be nice. 609-123-4567
>Me - Cool will call or text you later. Nice meeting you
>
>Send a few text. Setup a date.
>It's a wrap.
>
>Same scenario with a Black Woman.
>Me - Hello, my name is Jay. You are very pretty. Are you
>single?
>Her - Thanks. Yes I am single.
>Me - Would love to cook you dinner one night or go out for
>drinks. What's your number?
>Her - How I look giving you my number and we just met?!!! You
>think I'm crazy enough to go to your house and I don't know
>you???!!! WHy, you sound like a white guy?
>Me - o_0 AH forget it... Peace
>
>

  

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126. "... and now. your hysteria is showing. "
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this is, for sure, a conversation you had in grade school.

black women are not out here slicing niggas down like this.

you're clearly out of touch.

  

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139. "bruh, yes they are, but it's part of the convo"
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if he gives up after that of course they aint gunna fuck with him

he hit 'em with a joke after the "i don't know you like that". that ice will become a small smile and you continue

  

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147. "not believing it. he hasn't approached a black woman in decades."
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137. "Hermain Cain smile"
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157. "my goodness this is so funny but not funny at all "
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and in my experience exactly how all white-only pple think
LOL
LOL
LOL
UNLOL


>Her - How I look giving you my number and we just met?!!! You
>think I'm crazy enough to go to your house and I don't know
>you???!!! WHy, you sound like a white guy?
>

i dont know if it's the slang or the extra quotation marks?
nah, it's the last sentence
yall need a healing.

but from my years of posting and seeing all the black woman hating, just business as usual still up in here i see.

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88. "I really hope you're kidding"
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89. "keep hope alive"
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55. "Lawd"
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56. "this doesn't hurt anyone, IMO."
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Mon Nov-16-15 12:59 PM by SoWhat

  

          

if you're happy w/it then it's all good, i guess. it has no bearing on me or mine and it doesn't seem like it's hurting anyone, really.

fuck you.

  

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57. "if you love the skin you're in, why don't you understand it's the same"
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skin that your 'sisters' are in.

that leads many to believe that you, in fact, don't love the skin you're in - you're just exploiting the hell out of it so white women of all sizes can show you their orgasm face.

i get it. but it's definitely fucking up the fabric of 'our' community.

  

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58. "I get what he's saying strangely"
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aint no changing that nigga tho

@geahuwine

  

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59. "Serious question: How specifically?"
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> it's definitely fucking up the fabric of 'our'
>community.

Given his self-proclaimed issues with black women I'd imagine him and
those who share his opinions would be more damaging to 'our' community
by pursuing black women.

  

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66. "his behavior causes the fabric to rip."
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while the black women he's actively snubbing don't necessarily want to 'be with him', it sends a message to black women (as whole) that they aren't worthy of their natural counterpart's love time and affection.

that's devastating to the shunned and notshunned black woman, especially if her self esteem isn't all the way fortified.

it makes them ask the question - 'fuck, well should i be dating white?'

and that's a reaction, because i think naturally, many of them want to date their natural counterpart - but when we exist like crisco is existing - they lose a bit of faith in us.

they're forced to wonder dumb shit like: 'am i good enough?', 'a white guy might not be so bad'

and the worst one: 'do all niggas feel like this?'

and worst worst, they sometimes really do believe we all feel like crisco.

  

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69. "Online Dating sites I say I prefer white women. Sisters hate that. "
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>while the black women he's actively snubbing don't
>necessarily want to 'be with him', it sends a message to black
>women (as whole) that they aren't worthy of their natural
>counterpart's love time and affection.
>

I get inboxes on my dating sites asking, Well what's wrong with sisters? I never know how to answer that without coming across like an asshole. I usually say it's because I went to an all whit eHigh School.



>and that's a reaction, because i think naturally, many of them
>want to date their natural counterpart - but when we exist
>like crisco is existing - they lose a bit of faith in us.
>
Then they get defensive. Oh you just can't handle a sister. We to strong minded for you. Blah Blah Blah,.

Hey I can handle a sister like any other chick. BUt White girls tend to be less Stressed out and NICER overall.


>and worst worst, they sometimes really do believe we all feel
>like crisco.

THere's a good amount of College educated professional Black Males that only date white women. Could be from being around these women in the professional setting or college setting more than sisters and seeing that women are women. May as well be with one I won't have to fist fight on occassion. LOL Sisters come with life baggage that shit is hard to deal with on a regular basis. White chicks let most shit fall off thier shoulders. How can I make your life less stressful vs What can you do for me N*gga!!!

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79. "white woman aint nicer. they're doped up on nerve pills."
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all of em!

  

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155. "RE: white woman aint nicer. they're doped up on nerve pills."
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Not all
At all
But there definitely a subculture where's it okay for a friend to give you their uppers/downers

I was like 0_o
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92. "Just a couple of things..."
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>Hey I can handle a sister like any other chick. BUt White
>girls tend to be less Stressed out and NICER overall.



Of course. Black women deal with racism AND sexism. They have the hardest life
of anyone in America. Not ALL of them are just super stressed out, but it makes
sense that many of them will be reflective of their experience.
If it's anybody's responsibility to love Black women, is it not the men they give birth
to? The men who partially share their experience? The men who look like them?

When Kwesi says this damages our community, he's right when negros are out here
saying shit like "Black women too stressed out". Damn man.
I know you don't care, and you don't feel the responsibility to love the women who
share your experience. You said that you've been accused of being too weak to
handle a Black woman, and you just admitted that you are.

You said "they have too much baggage", so you'd rather deal with the great-granddaughters
of the men to raped and tortured your ancestors and continue to kill us in the streets,
because they're not stressed out. How could they be? They reap the benefits of our
murder and mistreatment. But of course, you don't hear me and you don't care.



>
>>and worst worst, they sometimes really do believe we all
>feel
>>like crisco



If any Black women are reading this, please don't think we all feel like Crisco lol



>THere's a good amount of College educated professional Black
>Males that only date white women.


Yeah, because in a white-centered society, alot of the education we receive serves
to make us white-centered in our thinking from false, lopsided history to art to the
very language we speak. All of it serves to impress upon us that "white is right".




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100. "I Agree with everything you said below. But my Dills likes white P*ssy"
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>>Hey I can handle a sister like any other chick. BUt White
>>girls tend to be less Stressed out and NICER overall.
>
>
>
>Of course. Black women deal with racism AND sexism. They
>have the hardest life
>of anyone in America. Not ALL of them are just super stressed
>out, but it makes
>sense that many of them will be reflective of their
>experience.
>If it's anybody's responsibility to love Black women, is it
>not the men they give birth
>to? The men who partially share their experience? The men
>who look like them?
>

All that is true. I've been threw the same obstacles. I don't put that onto my significant others. I try my best to be happy and positive despite any past transgressions. I'm also a man so I don't have the emotional baggage women have. So I get it.

>When Kwesi says this damages our community, he's right when
>negros are out here
>saying shit like "Black women too stressed out". Damn man.
>I know you don't care, and you don't feel the responsibility
>to love the women who
>share your experience. You said that you've been accused of
>being too weak to
>handle a Black woman, and you just admitted that you are.
>

for me it's not about feeling the responsibility to to love black women. Its about dating someone I get along with Most of the time and being happy in a relationship.


>You said "they have too much baggage", so you'd rather deal
>with the great-granddaughters
>of the men to raped and tortured your ancestors and continue
>to kill us in the streets,

I kinda get off on that though. Knowing I'm running up in a jawn whose pops probably thinks i'm a n*gger...LOL Take that pops MOney shot to your daughter Forehead. Pie OWWWW!!! NO not really I not that sadistic. I don't really see color when I'm in a relationship. SO Slavery histroy doesn't even matter to me. I deal with today and the future. Aint got time for the past.


>because they're not stressed out. How could they be? They
>reap the benefits of our
>murder and mistreatment. But of course, you don't hear me and
>you don't care.


ALl people of every color have stress and issues. How you convery those to others is what matters to me.



>>THere's a good amount of College educated professional Black
>>Males that only date white women.
>
>
>Yeah, because in a white-centered society, alot of the
>education we receive serves
>to make us white-centered in our thinking from false, lopsided
>history to art to the
>very language we speak. All of it serves to impress upon us
>that "white is right".

True.

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106. "RE: I Agree with everything you said below. But my Dills likes white P*s..."
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lmao

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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140. "theater of the hilarisad absurd at its finest"
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138. "Lol!!"
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@GetoutTheroom
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145. "You said your dills don't see color tho..."
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>All that is true. I've been threw the same obstacles.


No, you haven't, because you only deal with racism, not sexism.



>for me it's not about feeling the responsibility to to love
>black women. Its about dating someone I get along with Most of
>the time and being happy in a relationship.



I realize that... yet when you date white women BECAUSE you realize that Black
women are "more stressed out" from the crap they endure in this society, that is
willfully abandoning your own. It's a responsibility that you forfeit whether you own
it or not.



>I don't really see color when I'm
>in a relationship. SO Slavery histroy doesn't even matter to
>me. I deal with today and the future. Aint got time for the
>past.



Yet the "Black women are more stressed out" comment is steeped in the present
effects of both the present and the past. The past created this. We are all very
much a product of it.




>ALl people of every color have stress and issues. How you
>convery those to others is what matters to me.



And many of us have more stress and issues BECAUSE of what color we are.
You know this though.




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70. "Thanks for the answer. "
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I ain't buying alladat but I appreciate the response.

  

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65. "Apples and Oranges. I lvoe being black But I love my women white"
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What' that got to do with Black Women Loving themselves. He when I was trying to get at black women in my Middle School days I would get shot down left and right. You to dark for me, etc....

I was like ok, on to the non black women. I was also attracted to them too. Now at times just Being Black iN general was why I would get shot down. Somehow that was a easier pill to swallow. Versus a black girl telling me I'm to dark. How I'm to black for a black girl. LOL

Anyways, So After dating white girls thru High School, which happened to be 99% white High School, I then continued my training at College which we all know is usually 90% white too. Hence I've honed all my skills on white girls.

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67. "youor environment failed you."
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it's all destructive.

the young black girls that rejected you for being to dark were under their own spell.

and now you're the product of rejection from a place that didn't celebrate being black.

this is why we gotta celebrate being black.

get it?

  

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72. "Deep"
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>it's all destructive.
>
>the young black girls that rejected you for being to dark were
>under their own spell.
>
>and now you're the product of rejection from a place that
>didn't celebrate being black.
>
>this is why we gotta celebrate being black.
>
>get it?

  

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76. "GOT IT...I'm Flawed we all are In some capacity."
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>it's all destructive.
>
>the young black girls that rejected you for being to dark were
>under their own spell.
>
>and now you're the product of rejection from a place that
>didn't celebrate being black.
>
>this is why we gotta celebrate being black.
>
>get it?


It what it is at this point. I'm 45 years old.


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71. "i also got to remember you're on a pussy-mission after pussy-mission"
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that behavior isn't exedmplary, and i'd argue it has no place in 'our' community.

...

so a piece of me is relieved that you're doing all this bamma shit to non-black women.

i think they call that a silver lining.

  

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73. "lol yep"
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>i think they call that a silver lining.

  

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78. "You are welcome :-) Silver Lining indeed"
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When I get the rolled eyes from sisters when out with a white girl, in my head I'm thinking "Girl, you would have thrown hot grits on me two weeks into our courtship. Becky here is taking one for the team"

LOL

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94. "But you also in White Frat to right?"
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You got black guy friends?



>What' that got to do with Black Women Loving themselves. He
>when I was trying to get at black women in my Middle School
>days I would get shot down left and right. You to dark for me,
>etc....
>
>I was like ok, on to the non black women. I was also attracted
>to them too. Now at times just Being Black iN general was why
>I would get shot down. Somehow that was a easier pill to
>swallow. Versus a black girl telling me I'm to dark. How I'm
>to black for a black girl. LOL
>
>Anyways, So After dating white girls thru High School, which
>happened to be 99% white High School, I then continued my
>training at College which we all know is usually 90% white
>too. Hence I've honed all my skills on white girls.
>
>


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101. "Yep, All White HS, then I pledeged an Italian Fraternity "
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So white women are nothing new to me. It's been my life since I started dating and smashing. they just women to me. Truly a norm in my life.

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102. "So are Black women not 'just women' to you. U seem to associate them"
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With some ideas that make them see as other than 'just women'

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104. "are we even sure that any woman is a "person" to this man?"
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i mean....

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156. "RE: are we even sure that any woman is a "person" to this man?"
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>i mean....

Ding!
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105. "Yes all women are just women. But I prefer the white ones. "
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I love me some white girls, man.....
Always have even when I dabbled in black girls.

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111. "^posts on : http://whitewomenblackmen.com/"
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120. "I know what you went through growing up"
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Mon Nov-16-15 07:22 PM by BabyYoda

  

          

>
>The Long term reason is that I grew up in the 70s and 80s
>where being dark skinned was even a problem within the black
>community. White is right was blasted all over the TV. So I'm
>sure that had an influence. Seeing my mom pick sh*tty men
>didn't help issue. That def made me look at WOMEN especially
>Black Women in a whole another light. And not in a good way.
>Unlike most I'll admit that part of my preference is based on
>conditioning. And some is just based on experience.
>
>Before yall go on that He hates himself, He hates being black
>rants. That is far from the case. I love the skin I'm in.
>

We are around the same age and grew up on opposite sides of the country, but went through the same bullshit when it comes to complexion acceptance. The late 70s, early 80s up to the late 80s as a mofo. I can confirm that being dark skinned was not the business with some Black people to the point where you feel that you have no other choice but to open up to others just to feel accepted.

Now, I am not on some white woman only shit like yourself, but there was a period in my life where I preferred non-Black women based on my experiences with Black women. Now being older and wiser, I simply date whoever I find attractive as well as someone whose personality, moral compass, etc. matches or compliment my own.

In all, I have dated white and other non-Black women before as well as Black women, but I would never limit myself to one ethnic demographic for as long as I live. Not mad at those who prefer endogamy, but I am not mad at those who prefer exogamy.

  

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121. "You see it then. As I aged i was in predominantly white environments"
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So dating white girls meant since. There was about 6 black chicks in my High School. I smashed 3 of them LOL...But I also dated white girls at the same time. eventually realizing I preferred the white ones. I tended to date redbones if I dated sisters.

>In all, I have dated white and other non-Black women before as
>well as Black women, but I would never limit myself to one
>ethnic demographic for as long as I live. Not mad at those who
>prefer endogamy, but I am not mad at those who prefer exogamy.
>
>

Not sure what endogamy and exogamy mean.

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124. "Yeah, I seen it and lived it"
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>So dating white girls meant since. There was about 6 black
>chicks in my High School. I smashed 3 of them LOL...But I also
>dated white girls at the same time. eventually realizing I
>preferred the white ones. I tended to date redbones if I dated
>sisters.
>
>>In all, I have dated white and other non-Black women before
>as
>>well as Black women, but I would never limit myself to one
>>ethnic demographic for as long as I live. Not mad at those
>who
>>prefer endogamy, but I am not mad at those who prefer
>exogamy.
>>
>>
>
>Not sure what endogamy and exogamy mean.

I may be the same complexion as you and caught hell for it. The thing is that some Black people on this site may not understand how damaging it is to go through being rejected, made fun of and disrespected for something that you have no control over. That color shit is real and it goes deeper than white folks treating you a certain way. To deal with whites doing it and Black folks does affect the psyche. Plus, it isn't just some Jr. High and high school shit either. To this day, there are Black folks still on that colorism bullshit, but folks don't want to admit it.

So, I want you to know is that I know how you felt growing up. I understand dealing with people who may not share your ethnic background in certain social situations but chose to deal with you because they were the only ones at that time willing to do it.

In closing, it isn't about color or it is deeper than color. It is about dealing with individuals in a personal level and just because someone may share the same ethnic and cultural background as yourself does not mean they will accept you for who you are as a person. I know this to be actual and factual. You having a preference for white women doesn't affect me because I can't do for you what those woman can do for you. Be happy, do what you do and if any woman has an issue with how you treat them, then they can go somewhere else. Same goes for the so called pro Black revolutionaries.

1

Oh yeah, endogamy means sticking with your own kind and exogamy means the opposite. Big word shit. Lol

  

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128. "I feel ya homie. Thanks for the feedback...."
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>
>I may be the same complexion as you and caught hell for it.
>The thing is that some Black people on this site may not
>understand how damaging it is to go through being rejected,
>made fun of and disrespected for something that you have no
>control over. That color shit is real and it goes deeper than
>white folks treating you a certain way. To deal with whites
>doing it and Black folks does affect the psyche. Plus, it
>isn't just some Jr. High and high school shit either. To this
>day, there are Black folks still on that colorism bullshit,
>but folks don't want to admit it.
>
>So, I want you to know is that I know how you felt growing up.
>I understand dealing with people who may not share your ethnic
>background in certain social situations but chose to deal with
>you because they were the only ones at that time willing to do
>it.
>
>In closing, it isn't about color or it is deeper than color.
>It is about dealing with individuals in a personal level and
>just because someone may share the same ethnic and cultural
>background as yourself does not mean they will accept you for
>who you are as a person. I know this to be actual and factual.
>You having a preference for white women doesn't affect me
>because I can't do for you what those woman can do for you. Be
>happy, do what you do and if any woman has an issue with how
>you treat them, then they can go somewhere else. Same goes for
>the so called pro Black revolutionaries.
>
>1
>
>Oh yeah, endogamy means sticking with your own kind and
>exogamy means the opposite. Big word shit. Lol

It's weird how I went from not appreciating my dark complexion to loving it over time. Feels good to love who you are. Those formative years of rejection were no joke. Luckily, I've always been confident and outgoing and got girls by any means necessary. Aint nobody's perspective gonna cramp my style ever. Peace

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134. "It's all good, bruh"
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>
>>
>>I may be the same complexion as you and caught hell for it.
>>The thing is that some Black people on this site may not
>>understand how damaging it is to go through being rejected,
>>made fun of and disrespected for something that you have no
>>control over. That color shit is real and it goes deeper
>than
>>white folks treating you a certain way. To deal with whites
>>doing it and Black folks does affect the psyche. Plus, it
>>isn't just some Jr. High and high school shit either. To
>this
>>day, there are Black folks still on that colorism bullshit,
>>but folks don't want to admit it.
>>
>>So, I want you to know is that I know how you felt growing
>up.
>>I understand dealing with people who may not share your
>ethnic
>>background in certain social situations but chose to deal
>with
>>you because they were the only ones at that time willing to
>do
>>it.
>>
>>In closing, it isn't about color or it is deeper than color.
>>It is about dealing with individuals in a personal level and
>>just because someone may share the same ethnic and cultural
>>background as yourself does not mean they will accept you
>for
>>who you are as a person. I know this to be actual and
>factual.
>>You having a preference for white women doesn't affect me
>>because I can't do for you what those woman can do for you.
>Be
>>happy, do what you do and if any woman has an issue with how
>>you treat them, then they can go somewhere else. Same goes
>for
>>the so called pro Black revolutionaries.
>>
>>1
>>
>>Oh yeah, endogamy means sticking with your own kind and
>>exogamy means the opposite. Big word shit. Lol
>
>It's weird how I went from not appreciating my dark complexion
>to loving it over time. Feels good to love who you are. Those
>formative years of rejection were no joke. Luckily, I've
>always been confident and outgoing and got girls by any means
>necessary. Aint nobody's perspective gonna cramp my style
>ever. Peace

You grew to appreciate your being because you grew up, not to mention experienced women appreciating you for your looks, complexion included. It comes down to individuals choosing to accept you or not. In the end, you fuck with those who fuck with you, literally and figuratively.

My thing with you is to never let people on this site or offsite tell you who you should or shouldn't date, fuck, love or like. If they ain't trying to deal with you in a persona level, then their "opinions" means nada! You know I never came at you a certain way over how you deal with your ladies because I don't give a fuck! I don't cape nor simp for broads I ain't dealing with on a personal level. People have choices and you have every right to pick and choose your partners like everyone else. Stay tall, Cuzzo! 1

  

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74. "the game has to be adjusted for each group of women a bit"
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just a bit


people are individuals for sure but in the general sense there are a few differences
nothing bad, nothing positive either, the approach just has to be adjusted

i have a lane I play in that is universally found across the spectrum, I still have to make a few adjustments for success.


and I totally understand why there are differences its all a reflection of the way the world works and how privilege shapes outlook





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98. "My numbers are significantly better with black girls "
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and I have no idea why. I get the feeling that I benefit from a sort of novelty aspect at the offset.

And since we're being honest....I have a prejudice against white girls kinda. For whatever reason....I feel like relationships with black girls feels more like a team. Like if i get fired or something they will be supportive and have my back. My experience....white girls leave you as soon as times get tuff. Plus they cash you in as soon as they think they can get someone with more relationship bargaining power. ie men with more money and status. I get that this is all anecdotal though.

  

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113. "if u hold those notions about White women doesn't sound like u even "
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Perdue them to say ur numbers are better...at least u admit that it's a prejudice....but generalizing against ur own race is just as bad as generalizing against another...assuming U consider urself a progressive White person

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117. "Man... you sound just like Black dudes who only date whute women..."
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I wonder if some of that "team spirit" is just because your mate gives you more wiggle room due to viewing you the same way.

and by same way I mean "he doesnt give me a hard time, he wont shit on me if I get fired"


and sometimes I wonder if some of yall dudes are just the typical fuck ups who always have some shit going on and need a woman who will baby you instead of pushing you to be better.


No snark... I just think its odd how the description always involves getting fired and the woman not leaving you.

Is this some White Men Cant Jump shit? lol...

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123. "I don't want to be babied."
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I want to be supported. I was just putting those generalizations I've made out there being honest. I kinda realize that it's probably just my experience and that a small sample size of personal anecdotes doesn't carry much weight.

But it's not a desire to be babied in my case. I take the 'for better or worse' thing seriously. I do it for my partner and I deserve to get it back too.

And yah....I realize I sound like some black guys about black women. That's why I said it....it always puzzles me that I've found the exact opposite of what they say.

  

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127. "I'd wager that it's puzzling because..."
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...ya'll talking about the same types of women
(superficial, fair weather, gold digging) and
contributing those characteristics to race when
in reality those traits ain't got shit to do with
skin color.

  

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129. "awww looks like this case had some modern relevancy after all :-)"
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prototype

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133. "For some folks, it clearly does lol."
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130. "These words don't define the white women i date at all. "
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>...ya'll talking about the same types of women
> (superficial, fair weather, gold digging)

Its the exact opposite

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131. "right. here's your list:"
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-low self of steam
-low self esteem
-lack of self worth
-compromised self image while over-projecting
-pasty skin that hangs and flops.

  

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135. "Lmao"
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:-X

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152. "YOu don't know me homie or my chicks so stop projecting"
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Every woman I date is different.
There is one common denominator, They like me and I like them.

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132. "Some black guys describe black women that way is my point..."
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They're using the same rhetoric to justify not dating within their
race as some white guys (Denny for example) which explains why they
sound similar but have opposing view about the same women.

  

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151. "RE: Some black guys describe black women that way is my point..."
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>They're using the same rhetoric to justify not dating within
>their
>race as some white guys (Denny for example) which explains why
>they
>sound similar but have opposing view about the same women.

Ok, I got you now...

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154. "lets get Denny and you in a room and y'all can sell each other "
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on the greatness that is Black and White women respectively.

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144. "*attributing lol"
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143. "Why does it puzzle you?"
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>
>And yah....I realize I sound like some black guys about black
>women. That's why I said it....it always puzzles me that I've
>found the exact opposite of what they say.

Your white tho... the Black women you find prolly put white men on a pedestal and prefer white men because they are "nicer and more supportive" than Black men

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86. "every man has their demographic..."
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i definitely realized i had to color outside the lines a lil bit when it came to women...

but i definitely found age has helped me reach demographics that i wouldn't have fared well with in the past

but to be honest...by the time that happens you really should be out of pussyhound mode...but whenever you discover "your" demo...you gonna go in

it's the "nice guys finish last" theory with a lil more truth and the realization that "nice" isn't really all that nice and even if it was it doesn't go as far as whatever social currency gets you the farthest with various demographics

i haven't dated/sexed a white woman since i went to a PWI and was seen as an athlete

*message*

it's all about giving the right signals and some of us learn the wrong ones or try to fit square pegs in round holes

but some guys will gravitate towards their comfortable easy lane and others will chase their great whites and moby dicks

it's an intuitive science

Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

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Amritsar
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61. "lol i always love the poll responses"
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you had to know people were going to be voting blue to troll

had to

  

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now or never
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91. "yall must really live around some accepting ass white people."
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i grew up in NC and i've lived in LA for 8 years
spent sometime in NY too
and i have never EVER been comfortable enough to say that i would only date white girls if only for the simple fact that i know it's gonna be an issue at SOME point
like even if her and her fam is cool af, imma show up to thanksgiving and be the only nigga there
like all weekend long
when i know the alternative would be just her daddy and uncles lookin at me like "this skinny nigga" and that's pretty much it.
but yall prolly trollin tho.

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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95. "Sooo but for that you'd be on that White Chocolate?"
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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

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108. "i came to the same conclusion...lol"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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now or never
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109. "i mean i hit off beckies like the rest of yall"
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but i aint finna say white girls only
i fuck wit girls that fuck wit me.


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141. "no shots, i thought you were a woman for some reason"
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now or never
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149. "lol"
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soken
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93. "Yes"
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we keep it moving,

  

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103. "I like women period."
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White women have been quicker to give me access but I do hope to have relations with a Nubian gal before 2016 is over.

R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
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soken
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110. "I had black women not dating me because my jewish mom"
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Now I get black women who date me because I am not the typical "black thug guy" but during my childhood I had more acceptance with white and Asian women then black women since I had a

-white name
-white mom

we keep it moving,

  

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112. "Aubrey started from the bottom now the whole team here"
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soken
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114. "We all under the Sammy D movement playa"
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we keep it moving,

  

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115. "...white name? "
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Can you elaborate on that? Like are u saying u weren't getting play from Black chicks becuz ur name wasn't Tyrone or Demarcus ?

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believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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soken
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116. "more so,"
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I got that "Nigga, I aint talking to no black man with a white name, how am I supposed to explain that shit to my dad" yet we grew up on the same block. Since I didn't have the "black man traits" that they thought black men should have, most black women didn't F with me so I kept it pushing to the other colors

we keep it moving,

  

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118. "If you lived on the same block it wasnt the name"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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soken
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119. "you right, they were not accepting to my white mom"
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we keep it moving,

  

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122. "Some comments in this post tho lol. Is the struggle that real??"
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125. "Lol ppl wanna he he ha ha about the poll results being trolled but "
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These are real mindsets out here. If even a quarter of those blue votes is "real" that's too many IMO. Ppl want to throw their arms up and say this is just the way I am but it's really mind blowing

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148. "how do you feel about the way whites are discussed on okp?"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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142. "as some one who has been in long terms with both"
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and spent his early 20 chasing white cookie 'cause it came really easy to me, "this white girls better" shit is big ol' NAW. I'm low key mad at myself that I didn't set my only Black and Latina women standards earlier.

Black and Brown women are infinitely better than gringas for so many reasons

BUT a fine women is a fine women. the end

  

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146. "><"
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