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Somnus
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"you ever abruptly and w/o explanation stop talking to a close friend..."
Tue Nov-10-15 06:33 PM by Somnus

  

          

a friend you practically grew up with, due to certain political views or religions/lifestyles they've adopted?

How did you feel about that decision?

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RE: you ever abruptly and w/o explanation stop talking to a close friend...
Nov 10th 2015
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do you think it was something specific about your belief that was--
Nov 10th 2015
3
      That I know of...
Nov 16th 2015
29
had a homeboy go to jail...he was embarassed
Nov 10th 2015
2
huh? hmm *scatches head* Are you assuming it was because he was
Nov 10th 2015
4
not quite but its more "i dont fuck with you" status
Nov 10th 2015
5
^ I almost got into a fight in Detroit bc I talked like that.
Nov 10th 2015
6
damn dude, you were in the building and feeling yourself
Nov 10th 2015
18
damn you're a hater.
Nov 10th 2015
7
you got me. im bleeding fucks. im going to die without a fuck
Nov 10th 2015
16
lol your friend sounds obnoxious as shit
Nov 10th 2015
8
deeply. i have stories for days
Nov 10th 2015
17
Damn, yo. We couldn't be friends.
Nov 11th 2015
20
RE: I have.
Nov 10th 2015
9
I dig it and hear ya.
Nov 10th 2015
11
Once, but not over political views/religion/lifestyles choices...
Nov 10th 2015
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RE: sorta similar to my reason...
Nov 10th 2015
14
They went on a racist facebook tirade....
Nov 10th 2015
12
damn, you was gonna push his wig back IN church, fam?
Nov 10th 2015
13
It's a matter of principle.
Nov 11th 2015
25
yeah man, I can't deal w/ grand sweeping indictments...have your views
Nov 10th 2015
15
"catch these paws, now catch these bandaids, now catch this bible"
Nov 10th 2015
19
you went to church with white people?
Nov 11th 2015
21
he's Mormon
Nov 11th 2015
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      Kira is a Black Mormon?
Nov 11th 2015
27
           indeed
Nov 11th 2015
28
Aint you a mormon? Thats a common belief amongst them
Nov 11th 2015
22
      right? until 1978 apparently, but i think that was only at face value.
Nov 11th 2015
24
      I'd like to think that as people we've moved away from whatever BS
Nov 11th 2015
26
Yup. He beat up his child's aunt.
Nov 16th 2015
30

Selassie I God
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1. "RE: you ever abruptly and w/o explanation stop talking to a close friend..."
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> a friend you practically grew up with, due to certain
>political views or religions/lifestyles they've adopted?
>


I haven't done it, but it has been done to me, over religion for the most part. I try not to judge, and if we are friends, unless you do something that directly affects me, your opinions are yours and we are cool. The people that left my life, they did what they had to do...a couple times it hurt me, but *shrug*

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They will tell you that they need you but they've got an ulterior motive - Personal gain

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Somnus
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3. "do you think it was something specific about your belief that was--"
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offputting to them or was it just them not seeing eye to eye with you with regards to your faith in general?

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Selassie I God
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29. "That I know of..."
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it was on some "You're not a christian, you're now a heathen" type foolishness (at least that what I was told second hand, since they no longer speak to me). It's kind of retarded IMO, because we have mutual friends that have no religious affiliation, and of course the same people have no issue with Jewish people or Catholics. *shrug*.

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Some will tell you that they love you but they've got an ulterior motive - Oh what a shame
They will tell you that they need you but they've got an ulterior motive - Personal gain

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2. "had a homeboy go to jail...he was embarassed"
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wouldnt return letters

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Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
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Somnus
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4. "huh? hmm *scatches head* Are you assuming it was because he was"
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embarrassed or did he tell you that was the reason?

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5. "not quite but its more "i dont fuck with you" status"
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have a friend who I have seen punched in the face at least 4 times in the 10 years ive known him

he just has a mouth on him when he gets drunk

he's not "I'll fucking kick your ass"

he's more "your girl wants to fuck me and you are jealous because I'm better looking than you....you know its true man, its cool, I would fuck me if I could...I mean, you are looking at me a bit, i mean its cool if you are gay, I'm not but I get it, I'm kind of good looking"


matter of fact and old girlfriend clocked the shit out of him once. that was beautiful.

wait...what was I talking about?

oh yeah, I just stopped calling him. We will kick it about 3 or 4 times a year but for the most part its understood that I dont fuck with him like we used to back in the day

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6. "^ I almost got into a fight in Detroit bc I talked like that."
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I had to be dragged out of Numbers (an afterhours joint) bc I pointed out that I'm better looking than this dude's boyfriend who heard me and wanted to fight. My ppl rushed me out instead when I basically said I was ready to throw down.

fuck you.

  

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18. "damn dude, you were in the building and feeling yourself "
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7. "damn you're a hater. "
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it all makes sense.

  

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16. "you got me. im bleeding fucks. im going to die without a fuck "
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Somnus
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8. "lol your friend sounds obnoxious as shit"
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17. "deeply. i have stories for days"
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20. "Damn, yo. We couldn't be friends."
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I'm totally that guy.

  

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9. "RE: I have."
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There were two hot issues on the ballot, one for legalization of medical marijuana, the other for legalization of gay marriage.

He basically bragged to everyone that he voted FOR the marijuana one and AGAINST the gay marriage one.

I'm not saying if you like one, you have to like both or if you don't like one, you can't like the other. It just smacked of a certain bro-ishness that I found very obnoxious. Like, HELL YEAH WEED LET'S GET STONED BUT FUCK YOU FAGGOTS!! was how he was acting. Not exactly in those terms, but not far off.

So yeah, I just stopped returning calls/emails.



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11. "I dig it and hear ya."
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10. "Once, but not over political views/religion/lifestyles choices..."
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More like really annoying attitude issues.

Dude was my ace in high school and a few years afterwards. Like, when I'd come back to school for the summer, we'd kick it like two or tree times a week. Then senior year in college, we'd been in contact less just for whatever reason. Then he pulled some bullshit over some trivial shit when I came back for winter break, and I pretty much cut dude off. It was kinda dumb on my part in retrospect, but we weren't in the same place mentally for a while.

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14. "RE: sorta similar to my reason..."
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>It was kinda
>dumb on my part in retrospect, but we weren't in the same
>place mentally for a while.

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12. "They went on a racist facebook tirade...."
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and basically called all black people cursed. He declined an offer to catch the fade in church or outside of church. Needless to say this individual didn't was a quiet as a church mouse when we saw each other in church and wound up moving far, far, away later on.

  

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13. "damn, you was gonna push his wig back IN church, fam?"
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25. "It's a matter of principle."
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You not about to troll me for two weeks talking about some white people ain't riot when OJ lost but now black people are going to riot if Zimmerman is found innocent and not get a response. All I did was express disappointment in him but that wasn't enough because he's "smart" and everyone else is "ignorant" in his mind. TL;DR don't claim you live by Christ-like principles, say some unchrist-like shit, attack another person, and not expect/want to "come to a mutual understanding" especially when you see someone. Whatever happens is gon happen as a result of people just thinking the world is flat.

  

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15. "yeah man, I can't deal w/ grand sweeping indictments...have your views"
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even express them from time to time within the parameters of converse on said topic but chill with the constant barrage of bigoted hate speech every damn time i get on the phone with you...

It's like:

me: hello, a yo wuddup man.

homeboy: yo wus good bruh...yo these white muhfuckers are some damn devils I'm telling you, check this out...

me: *long sigh* a yo, lemme call you right back, I gotta take a shit.

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19. ""catch these paws, now catch these bandaids, now catch this bible""
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21. "you went to church with white people? "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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23. "he's Mormon"
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27. "Kira is a Black Mormon? "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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28. "indeed"
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22. "Aint you a mormon? Thats a common belief amongst them "
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"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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24. "right? until 1978 apparently, but i think that was only at face value. "
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26. "I'd like to think that as people we've moved away from whatever BS"
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people taught us. By us, I mean THOSE people not ME as them northest Ohio streets raised me with a great common sense and values. Plus, dude was in Illinois at the time. He could test out all of his racial profiling theories but he didn't want to do that for some strange reason...

  

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30. "Yup. He beat up his child's aunt. "
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Then I found out he'd been abusing her sister (his child's mother) for a while.
They pressed charges. He was facing jail time. I went to court on his court date out of solidarity and his ex told me her side of the story. Trial got delayed. We spoke shortly after that and he showed little remorse. Claimed they were fighting him spiritually.

Couldn't look at him the same again. We haven't spoken in years.

  

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