"why stay w/a significant other who has called police on you more than on..." Fri Oct-23-15 03:37 PM by SoWhat
maybe i just haven't been in love or whatever to the point where'd i'd stay w/someone after they've lied to the police and had me jailed and criminally charged. 'it ain't enough love in the world', as my grandmother used to say. so i don't get it.
have you been in this spot? or known someone who has? what gives?
1. "Nope, had it happen once" In response to Reply # 0
1 time and you get a pass, and honestly that's ONLY because the love is there. Anything less and I'm out. I think if a woman calls the beast into your home as a Blackman, you gotta really look at the situation on some am I really supposed to be here. By the time that second situation is going down it's officially over.
9. "have a couple of examples" In response to Reply # 0
but I am just gonna give you the one that makes sense.
Homeboy was trying to get his green card. Chick was bat shit crazy. he stuck it out, spent a couple of nights in the cling and some on my couch just to get away from it all.
I remember the one time the cops came I was there, the one cop said why you with this cray broad, we've responded to calls to this residents 5 times in the past 2 months,I know you a good dude but I gotta take you in. _____________________________________________________ miserable niggas yo cant let nobody have nothing "god save the queen pip pip cheerio tea time princess di" ass niggas (c)white desus
11. "some people enjoy the thrill of toxic relationships" In response to Reply # 0
maybe it's what they grew up around maybe other internal factors contribute to a clear lack of self-love maybe they're too loyal for their own good, hoping things will improve love is emotional, for some people that includes insanity and sticking around through it
I say this as someone who has had the cops contacted (she wanted to hammer the point home that we were through, I called her 1 time too many trying to work it out) and dated my share of women with emotional issues
I try to empathize and hope people free themselves from these types of situations.
12. "RE: I called on her." In response to Reply # 0
The marriage was over and I was trying to get my things out of the house and she was doing stuff like blocking the doorways and shoving me when I tried to get past.
Cops came and told her to leave while I cleared my things out.
She was fun like that a lot. Which is why I left.
I think back on it now, and it's like why did I stick around for so long? Young and stupid. Thought I could change the world, I guess. I don't know.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Fri Oct-23-15 09:29 PM
13. "I told a story about a crazy broad on here... " In response to Reply # 0
She used to beat her mans ass.. she loved drama. Dude called the cops on her and she never forgave him. He paid all of her bills and treated her like a queen but she was like "nah... I can fight, get beat up, etc... but once you call the cops its over."
He even put her on his life insurance policy...
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
14. "I'm guilty of it." In response to Reply # 0 Sat Oct-24-15 06:20 PM by denny
15 years ago though. I've come to realize that I was recreating my relationship with my mom in being allured to partners who would beat me. Also, I felt trapped because we had a baby.
She tried to use the police on me. I feel really lucky I got out of all that relatively unscathed. She's done it to more than just me. It still just trips me out that she has NEVER suffered tangible consequences for what she's done to her male partners. That movie 'Dear Zachary' hits really close to home for me. Maybe you can suggest your friend to watch it.....circumstances might be different but I think it could open his eyes a little wider.
He's not in the exact same type of danger that a female is typically in with an abusive male partner. But he's still at risk and probably doesn't realize the extent of the risk. She might not be able to physically hurt him...but she could have him living under a bridge or in jail.
18. "so she was calling his buddies?" In response to Reply # 16
on some, 'call tryone' ish?
. http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/ i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.
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