-DJ R-Tistic- Member since Nov 06th 2008 51986 posts
Fri Oct-02-15 11:38 AM
"Poll question: Do you invite everyone to your Wedding that invited you to theirs?" Fri Oct-02-15 11:39 AM by -DJ R-Tistic-
Random question for everyone who's married, is getting married, or hopes to get married.
I am starting to realize how many Weddings I've been invited to, and I'm only 30, and I'm still nowhere near marriage. But I just wonder if all of those folks will expect me to invite them to theirs.
Also, I am only speaking about those who you still get along with. Of course, if you've had a falling out with them since their Wedding, you wouldn't worry about it.
-DJ R-Tistic- Member since Nov 06th 2008 51986 posts
Fri Oct-02-15 12:07 PM
2. "I wouldn't even say it's that they don't "matter" " In response to Reply # 1
Just that the might place me higher on their friends list than I place them on mine. Like, I might have a full convo with 15-20 people a day, while some of them may only talk to 2-4, and I'll be one of them.
With birthdays, it's similar, because I receive a few birthday invites almost every weekend. It's part of the reason I always make my birthdays huge to where everyone can come, and I'll have a separate one for my close-close folks.
3. "The wedding list can be such a moving snapshot of your life. " In response to Reply # 0
Beyond your family and NFLs. There are a ton of people who I invited who've almost haven't seen since and there are a few people who I am close to now that I am like, dang how come I didn't invite them to my wedding?
Generally though if I went to your wedding and got you a gift, I am invited you and am looking for my gift back.
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5. "It holds weight, but it's not a definite" In response to Reply # 0
I can think of two guys in general who I invited to my wedding four years ago. One of them got married last year, but we hadn't really been close since I moved (right before I got married), plus they had a tight budget, so I totally understood why he didn't invite me.
I had been cool w/ the other guy longer and, though we weren't that close around the time I got married, he was pressed for an invite ... that said, I heard through a mutual friend that he was engaged, and I felt some type of way about not getting an invite, but I get it.
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