-DJ R-Tistic- Member since Nov 06th 2008 51986 posts
Tue Aug-25-15 12:30 PM
"Poll question: OKP Marrieds...going into the Wedding, what made you more nervous?"
Leading up to your Wedding, within those 1-2 weeks before hand...what would you say made you more nervous?
Was it the Wedding itself? Hoping the day would go perfect? The anxiety of being around all those people, and having to be in a great mood in order to speak to everyone? Hoping the families would get along? Hoping the DJ would be on point? Hoping the cake wouldn't fall over?
Or...was it thinking about the fact that you were about to be Married, and that it was a huge, major step in your life? Thinking "what if this miiiight not work out?" Wondering if you would still be just as much in love in 10-20 years as you were at that point?
And looking back, how was it dealt with? Did anything you were worried about ever actually affect you?
1. "i voted red but i was moreso concerned how my wife was gonna be after" In response to Reply # 0
As in she put so much time, effort, money into the wedding I was slightly concerned that she was more looking forward to the wedding than being married. So i thought there might have been some let down after. She assured me she wasn't and she was right.
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2. "so many different types of people" In response to Reply # 0
my best man, my boys from FAMU and her family that were groomsmen were all totally different. some of them barely interacted
the *biggest* concern though was that I wasnt employed the day we got married. I busted my ass to make it happen and I've been at this job 10 months now though
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Tue Aug-25-15 12:58 PM
5. "my biggest fear was the weather" In response to Reply # 0
it was outside and on the coast during hurrican season.
my FIL flew in and he was sotto mg next to the dude from the Weather Channel who likes to film in storms.
The day of the wedding it rained sideways.. I cursed the heavens... then an hour before our wedding the skies opened up and it was like it never rained.
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6. "Blue didnt have a wedding. n/m" In response to Reply # 0
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9. "being the center of attention made me nervous" In response to Reply # 0
I am an outgoing person. But I am also low key. I dont like to be the center of attention or the life of the party. Going into this giant celebration and it being all about us. All the pictures and greeting people and ceremony just made me nervous.
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11. "I wasn't nervous, just ready to get it over" In response to Reply # 0
I used to hear all the time people getting nervous leading up to the wedding and the infinite things that could happen to make it go wrong. Looking back I never got nervous cause I just wanted it all to just be over cause my wife was stressing too much. Nothing bothered me cause I guess I knew everything wasn't gonna go smoothly so I just went into it with that mindstate. Turned out awesome though.
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