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Trinity444
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"I hit on a guy today..."


  

          

He replied, "I'm seeing someone".

damn..

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Anyone going to the Cincinnati music festival?

  

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good post.
Jul 21st 2015
1
You didn't reply with "What your girl got to do wit me?"?
Jul 21st 2015
2
^^
Jul 21st 2015
4
nah, I don't step on toes
Jul 21st 2015
10
did it make you want him more?
Jul 21st 2015
12
      neither...
Jul 21st 2015
17
legitimately spit my sweet tea on the keyboard
Jul 21st 2015
21
one of you need to explain why that would be ok....
Jul 21st 2015
25
      Because it would continue the glorious tradition handed down
Jul 21st 2015
29
      ^^^ the gentleman, the rapper.
Jul 21st 2015
36
      who gives a damn if they boo'd? you aint trying to marry em
Jul 21st 2015
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           Bin...I'm old now.
Jul 21st 2015
35
A girl really hit me with that a month and some ago
Jul 21st 2015
33
:-(
Jul 21st 2015
3
:-(
Jul 21st 2015
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      :-( :-(
Jul 21st 2015
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How'd you hollar? Just curious.
Jul 21st 2015
5
yeah, any tips??
Jul 21st 2015
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I can only give tips as to how I like to be hollared at.
Jul 21st 2015
9
do it matter?
Jul 21st 2015
7
Doesn't matter at all. Just curious which approach she took.
Jul 21st 2015
8
would you like to go out?
Jul 21st 2015
15
      grown n sexy.
Jul 21st 2015
24
hell yeah, keep swinging
Jul 21st 2015
13
^^^
Jul 21st 2015
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Yup. And at least he gave you the heads up.
Jul 21st 2015
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lol
Jul 21st 2015
18
keep trying.
Jul 21st 2015
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Did he give any impression he was interested in you?
Jul 21st 2015
22
HA!
Jul 21st 2015
23
      if we give u all that, usually u got a pretty good shot...dnt sweat it.
Jul 21st 2015
28
      oh, he wants to... he just cant.
Jul 21st 2015
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           Yeah sounds like he's interested.
Jul 21st 2015
34
Sorry he was taken, but I certainly commend your efforts,
Jul 21st 2015
26
he couldn't come to the wedding nohow...
Jul 21st 2015
27
that thang dead...
Jul 21st 2015
38
      cremated? or just deceased?
Jul 21st 2015
40
           cremated...
Jul 21st 2015
44
                don't do it. that's how you'll get roped in. i refuse to get on FB.
Jul 21st 2015
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I'ma be nice and sit this one out
Jul 21st 2015
32
lol
Jul 21st 2015
37
yeah...
Jul 21st 2015
39
say it ain't so....all the good ones are taken...
Jul 21st 2015
42
      not all of em apparently...
Jul 21st 2015
47
Street harassment. I bet you told that nigga to smile too, didn't you?
Jul 21st 2015
41
hahaha
Jul 21st 2015
43
he's just not that into you
Jul 21st 2015
45

Kwesi
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1. "good post."
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2. "You didn't reply with "What your girl got to do wit me?"?"
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4. "^^"
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Trinity444
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10. "nah, I don't step on toes"
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I figure if there was opportunity he wouldn't have mentioned it
Right?

  

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Kwesi
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12. "did it make you want him more?"
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or was the turn-down an immediate turn off?

  

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Trinity444
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17. "neither..."
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I respect and appreciate his honesty, yet the rejection feels the worst...

  

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21. "legitimately spit my sweet tea on the keyboard"
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HELL YEAH

she fumbled that oop for real


does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

  

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Trinity444
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25. "one of you need to explain why that would be ok...."
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29. "Because it would continue the glorious tradition handed down"
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to us by Positive K.

  

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36. "^^^ the gentleman, the rapper. "
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i swear, there's a rap lyric for every life situation.


peace & blessings,

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30. "who gives a damn if they boo'd? you aint trying to marry em"
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or take him from his gal. you trying to see what that mouth do. or whatever. you dont owe her or him shit. its THEIR job to keep their relationship on point. not yours. so by saying "AND?!" you are saying 'get over yourself, fool. i didnt ask you if you got a woman or not. i said you looking tight & right, lemme get your number.'

let him walk if hes scared, but you going hard for what you want


does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

  

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35. "Bin...I'm old now."
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I wanna settle down



  

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33. "A girl really hit me with that a month and some ago"
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Girl I was dating was like six feet away from the DJ Booth. Girl came on me dancing, and talkin about "you know you're bae right?" I said, "what if I already have a bae?" and she said "what that gotta do with me?"

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KiloMcG
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3. ":-("
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i guess things with you and your (ex?)lover didn't work out, eh?

  

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11. ":-("
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20. ":-( :-("
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head's up, lady. you shouldn't have any trouble finding a suitor.

  

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5. "How'd you hollar? Just curious."
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6. "yeah, any tips??"
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♥ Inescapably Me ♥

"Love is never any better than the lover" Toni Morrison (The Bluest Eye)

  

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9. "I can only give tips as to how I like to be hollared at."
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Tue Jul-21-15 12:01 PM by Moonlit_Force

  

          

Some guys don't respond to women making "forward advances" at all and that may very well have been the case with the OP.

I prefer direct, honest communication above all else. Coyness and mixed signals generally annoy me.

  

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7. "do it matter?"
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he could be married.

him only giving up 'seeing someone' could be as far as he could stretch himself.

bless everybody's heart involved.

  

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8. "Doesn't matter at all. Just curious which approach she took."
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15. "would you like to go out?"
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24. "grown n sexy."
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13. "hell yeah, keep swinging"
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even the best batters strike out.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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14. "^^^"
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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

  

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16. "Yup. And at least he gave you the heads up. "
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18. "lol"
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**finger guns**

  

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19. "keep trying."
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jordan missed shots too.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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22. "Did he give any impression he was interested in you?"
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My rule is don't bother unless I get strong buying signals-- otherwise I'm wasting time and energy.

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23. "HA!"
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Well, he was friendly
He smiled a lot
and stared a lot ....

  

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28. "if we give u all that, usually u got a pretty good shot...dnt sweat it."
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31. "oh, he wants to... he just cant. "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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34. "Yeah sounds like he's interested."
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You might have even caught him off guard and that was his fight or flight response kicking in.

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26. "Sorry he was taken, but I certainly commend your efforts, "
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mama!

It takes all kinds to make up a world, son. -My pops

I just live for the comments -Da wiz

  

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27. "he couldn't come to the wedding nohow..."
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hey, girl.
get on facebook so i can see ya everyday. ♡

  

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38. "that thang dead..."
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seriously...

What's an alternative to Facebook for you and me?
its too intrusive

  

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40. "cremated? or just deceased? "
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just createa page and don't add no friends but me :-P

  

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44. "cremated..."
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You can do that

  

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46. "don't do it. that's how you'll get roped in. i refuse to get on FB."
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32. "I'ma be nice and sit this one out"
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*smh*

<---
Fuck a sig, my presence is enough.

  

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37. "lol"
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39. "yeah..."
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I woulda answered the same...

  

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42. "say it ain't so....all the good ones are taken..."
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**lays head on shoulder**

  

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47. "not all of em apparently..."
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*pointing atchu*

  

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41. "Street harassment. I bet you told that nigga to smile too, didn't you? "
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43. "hahaha"
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45. "he's just not that into you"
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his reply was an excuse

  

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