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Boogie Stimuli
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Sun Jul-12-15 06:17 PM

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"What does "success" mean to you?"


          

One of my friends w/ a disability said the following, and I just had to share with everyone.

"Success...my definition of it changes daily. Sometimes it's as simple as sitting up in
bed, struggling to get t-shirt over head, showering and exiting without
slipping...scratch that, many days. Smaller increments help mold my gratitude for
being and hold in higher esteem this form I've shown up in."

She's an amazing person.

What does success mean to you?


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Days like this I miss Sha Mecca

  

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Subject Author Message Date ID
liking what you do. liking who you are.
Jul 12th 2015
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slay your dragons, go for your dreams.
Jul 12th 2015
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Happiness.
Jul 13th 2015
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having options on how to spend my days
Jul 13th 2015
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My definition for it has changed a bit over the years...
Jul 13th 2015
5
Summer house in Carmel
Jul 13th 2015
6
achieving your goals
Jul 13th 2015
7
I roll with Ichiro on this one
Jul 13th 2015
8
Success is a mind state
Jul 13th 2015
9
It has changed a lot for me.
Jul 13th 2015
10

ndibs
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Sun Jul-12-15 06:45 PM

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1. "liking what you do. liking who you are."
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Sun Jul-12-15 06:46 PM by ndibs

          

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Madvillain 626
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Sun Jul-12-15 07:21 PM

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2. "slay your dragons, go for your dreams."
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even if you fail, you succeeded in life. you just didn't succeed at that particular thing.

but hella people die without ever going for what they truly love to do

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If life is stupendous one cannot also demand that it should be easy. - Robert Musil

  

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TheAlbionist
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Mon Jul-13-15 04:50 AM

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3. "Happiness."
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forever.

  

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godleeluv
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Mon Jul-13-15 06:20 AM

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4. "having options on how to spend my days"
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Music is almost everything.

  

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Moonlit_Force
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Mon Jul-13-15 06:58 AM

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5. "My definition for it has changed a bit over the years..."
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... but I generally equate personal success with contentment.
When I look back over periods where I consider myself
(or was considered by my peers and family) as successful,
three things seem to be consistent:

1.) Independence
2.) Routine/structure
3.) Accountability

When I'm able to maintain those three conditions, contentment
is not hard to come by and small successes tend to follow.

  

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Amritsar
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Mon Jul-13-15 07:04 AM

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6. "Summer house in Carmel"
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MizClayton
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Mon Jul-13-15 07:58 AM

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7. "achieving your goals"
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Mon Jul-13-15 08:01 AM by MizClayton

  

          

setting out to do something, and doing it

I just want freedom to do what I want when I want, with my bills paid and good food to eat, I want my fam and friends to know I love them

  

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KosherSam
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Mon Jul-13-15 08:02 AM

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8. "I roll with Ichiro on this one"
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Personally, I don't like the term 'success.' It's too arbitrary and too relative a thing. It's usually someone else's definition, not yours.

*Jews you*

"this is okp tho, reading is completely optional" (c) desus

Proceed with caution. I am overtly racist.

<-- In Pigpen we trust

  

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Kira
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Mon Jul-13-15 01:59 PM

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9. "Success is a mind state"
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Artist that sells 100 EPs a week for 10 years is successful in music terms because he/she has a dedicated fanbase that supports their music.

Individual working a 9-5 or doing the overnight grind is successful because they are saving up to move somewhere or buy something that enables them to better themselves.

As long as you're taking steps to improve in something somehow despite the odds then you are a success. Don't let anybody tell you different.

  

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Starbaby Jones
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Mon Jul-13-15 02:06 PM

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10. "It has changed a lot for me. "
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I'm not gonna lie and say it doesn't include material things like a nice, comfortable home, travel and the ability to have my simple splurges. However, the older I get, the more emphasis I'm starting to place on actually having time to enjoy life. So, it's kind of split between achieving my goals and having the time to enjoy my achievements. I guess success is all about finding the right balance in life for me.

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