"ever been the only black friend of another black person?"
or you at least strongly suspect you're the only other black connection this person has outside of their family?
how's that going/how'd that go?
was it no big deal, or a super big deal? did your friend "hate themselves" or was it just an unintended result of social/work/geographical circumstances? did you ever try to be some kind of "mentor"? did you get sick of that person and stop fucking with them?
just curious.
-- the untold want by life and land ne'er granted now voyager sail thou forth to seek and find
1. "I've been the first black boyfriend of a few black women" In response to Reply # 0
several times
pattern is this:
1. "ive never dated a black person...but you, you are different"
2. "look at that...our skin matches..this is sexy"
3. "you just GET me"
4. "FUCK THESE CRACKA ASS CRACKAS, HOW DARE THESE OFAYS SAY THAT SHIT ON TV, YOUR MIND IS LIKE A GUN AND YOU WANT TO LOAD IT WITH ITTY BITTY BULLETS OF KNOWLEDGE. KNOWLEDGE OF SELF GOD."
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79555 posts
Sat Jul-11-15 01:54 PM
2. "Nah, I refuse to be a mascot" In response to Reply # 0
and I didnt like seeing how uncomfortable they got when my other Black friends showed up.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*