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Case_One
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"QOD: Do you believe in gender roles; yes or no and why/why not?"


          


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Yes
Apr 27th 2015
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Not really.
Apr 27th 2015
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^^pretty much
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word
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i dont even know what believing/not believing in them would mean
Apr 27th 2015
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men are being nerf'd like a once powerful street fighter character
Apr 27th 2015
5
One day all the male characters will be Dan
Apr 27th 2015
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      lmao
Apr 27th 2015
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      LOL
Apr 27th 2015
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Nah, get in where you fit in.
Apr 27th 2015
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no
Apr 27th 2015
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They have boggled my mind
Apr 27th 2015
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im not cool wit a woman digging out her car & shoveling snow wit an able
Apr 27th 2015
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whatever works for you and yours...
Apr 27th 2015
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Traits? Tentative yes. Roles? No.
Apr 27th 2015
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i dont "believe in" them, but i like them for myself
Apr 27th 2015
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I don't believe we need to adhere to them
Apr 27th 2015
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I like them.
Apr 27th 2015
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Yes.whatever dynamic works for people is cool..but me?...yes
Apr 27th 2015
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i judge the shit outta dudes@gas stations laidback in the passenger seat
Apr 27th 2015
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me too. Drives me nuts
Apr 27th 2015
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yup
Apr 27th 2015
25
In 2015, the shit is so tricky to me.
Apr 27th 2015
20
To a point
Apr 27th 2015
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hell yeah...
Apr 27th 2015
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gender roles hurts the black community
Apr 27th 2015
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yeah that's it
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?
Apr 27th 2015
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So how is the current one benefiting the Black community
Apr 27th 2015
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Only that as a man I should be able to support and protect his family...
Apr 28th 2015
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Atillah Moor
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1. "Yes"
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There are things women are naturally better at and vice versa.

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SoWhat
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2. "Not really."
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I don't believe they're necessary. I think it's fine if a few ppl aren't adherent considering the overwhelming majority ARE adherent. The few who reject them are and will be fine.

fuck you.

  

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3. "^^pretty much"
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23. "word"
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4. "i dont even know what believing/not believing in them would mean"
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gender roles vary by generation, region, race, religion etc. so much that im not sure its even possible to believe in a universal set of roles. as far as relationships go, whatever works for that couple works for them

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Lach
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5. "men are being nerf'd like a once powerful street fighter character"
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I mean, if that's what people want, go for it. It's just not for me and my house.

  

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Atillah Moor
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6. "One day all the male characters will be Dan"
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Everything looks like Oprah kissing Harvey Weinstein these days

  

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8. "lmao"
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Lach
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9. "LOL "
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Cocobrotha2
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7. "Nah, get in where you fit in. "
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Utamaroho
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10. "no"
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just another social construct bound to ebb and flow like the tides. yes, they "exist", but more in the way that 56k modems exist. eventually you change and do something better/different.

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DaHeathenOne76
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11. "They have boggled my mind"
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since I've become conscious of the concept way back in the day.

Since I was born with a uterus, vagina and protruding breasts, I am better at certain things?? Estrogen is like midi-chlorian and shit.

I aint trying to debate because yall gon bring up stuff like breastfeeding and pushing out babies and THAT is not what I am talking about. LOL

  

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BigJazz
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12. "im not cool wit a woman digging out her car & shoveling snow wit an able"
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Mon Apr-27-15 10:02 AM by BigJazz

  

          

bodied man sitting in the house.

and i expect men to give up their seats for women on subway trains...unless it's so packed that there is no place to move so you can't give it up.

  

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gumz
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13. "whatever works for you and yours..."
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my wife and i are definitely traditional in some ways but go against the grain in others...we just do what comes naturally though.

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TheAlbionist
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14. "Traits? Tentative yes. Roles? No."
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>kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful." ~ 2 Tim 2:4

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NikaMandela
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15. "i dont "believe in" them, but i like them for myself"
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they feel very natural to me so of course I'm with them. but i know there are lots of women who aren't as traditionally feminine as me and lots of men who aren't very masculine and whatever systems they build their lives around aren't any better or worse than mine.

  

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16. "I don't believe we need to adhere to them"
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especially those that create a power differential.

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17. "I like them."
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18. "Yes.whatever dynamic works for people is cool..but me?...yes"
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19. "i judge the shit outta dudes@gas stations laidback in the passenger seat"
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while their girl pays for the gas & then pumps it...

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21. "me too. Drives me nuts"
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25. "yup"
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20. "In 2015, the shit is so tricky to me."
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I think a lot of us tend to be confused, because on surface, plenty men feel like feminism = no gender roles. But I still think it's completely separate, and can work on both sides. It's really all about the couple involved.

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22. "To a point"
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I'd like to teach a future son how to throw a spiral, proper bathroom etiquette, how to dress, what have you. But at the same time, I'm perfectly suited to cook him a meal or wash clothes or whatever. To even out the workload, it would be good to have a mate who took on certain things, but sometimes it seems to me as if a good bit of the heavy lifting is considered to fall into the man's bucket. For example, I'd rather not be in charge of finances or planning absolutely everything because I'd get burned out. Sometimes I question if these gender roles and "letting you be the man" are just an excuse for some women to take their hands off the wheel.

Streets won't let me chill.

  

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24. "hell yeah..."
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26. "gender roles hurts the black community"
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far more than its given credit

  

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27. "yeah that's it"
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28. "?"
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29. "So how is the current one benefiting the Black community"
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with men outta the picture?

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30. "Only that as a man I should be able to support and protect his family..."
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All else is up for grabs for me. And that only applies to me. What other people makes me no difference.

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