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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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Sat Apr-25-15 01:51 PM

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"So he tells me he's been going through my phone, wait what??"
Sat Apr-25-15 01:53 PM by ThisIs_ATruthThang

  

          

I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO LIVID right now...


I am SINGLE. We had* an understanding, he was very aware of this and the fact that I see other people. Now *I* chose to only be with him romantically because that's how I like to keep things. 1 at a time.

He'd previously asked me one night had I saw anyone else during a time I was mad at him. I told the truth, no I hadn't but I asked him why would he ask me that because I can see who I want. I told him THEN that I talk to other people and if I wanted to go out with anyone that I would, it has nothing to do with him! He said he understood that.


Flashback to this morning... I'm getting questioned back to back. "Are you seeing anybody else, have you ever lied to me, have you ever slept with anyone else?" Whoa whoa, where is all this coming from??

"Whose _________?" Oh so you're going through my phone??

Now look, I am a VERY honest person but if I'm just dating someone and you ask me specifically what am I doing and who I'm with? I'm not going to tell you when I'm out with another man. That's just stupid and awkward to me. So I told him I was with my friend.

So now I'm a liar and I'm sleeping with this guy I just met 3 weeks ago... RIGHT But hold up, you went through my phone?

Like I'm laughing at the idea of him accusing me of sleeping with dude because I didn't but I want to. Lol I'm not but I want to. I'm single. I have the right to change my mind too.

But he yelling back to me my text messages like he's found gold. This enrages me! That's violating my privacy and is really disrespectful. If you don't trust me? Fall back leave me alone. Don't go through my phone. Now if you're my man, then you ask to go through my phone, go ahead. Have at it.

He tells me this isn't his first time... I was contemplating on forgiving him but nah. He's crazy. I really think he is.

Now he's apologizing til he's blue in the face. Saying he was in his feelings but I don't care. I don't play that shit. I'm MAD!



**Vent over**

But lol @ him yelling, "You telling this nigga to have a good day n shit!" and "Why was he singing to you?!?"... I did start laughing




Somebody's lying...

@Atruelady Twitter/ @Sweetesttaboos Instagram

  

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you may just want to cut your loses now...and walk away with
Apr 25th 2015
1
Oh it's over. Sad because I REALLY love dude.
Apr 25th 2015
2
      I'm curious to know why you two aren't together if the
Apr 27th 2015
264
           He lives a careless ass lifestyle. Smokes and drinks damn there everyday
Apr 27th 2015
276
crazy af
Apr 25th 2015
3
Yea I could have forgiven one time but he's been going thru it... nah
Apr 25th 2015
5
      i somehow glossed over the fact that he used your pw...
Apr 25th 2015
8
           Premeditated creeping...
Apr 25th 2015
11
                was password the password?
Apr 25th 2015
12
                     No and No! Lol
Apr 25th 2015
13
                          does that make him craaaaazay?
Apr 25th 2015
14
                               You tell me!
Apr 25th 2015
15
Somebody's lying...
Apr 25th 2015
4
I wish...
Apr 25th 2015
6
time to lock that phone
Apr 25th 2015
7
I got an iPhone; I use my fingerprint but I still use a pass code for ba...
Apr 25th 2015
9
could someone take a photo of you and open you phone with it?
Apr 25th 2015
16
      True, I know my brother's son can unlock his phone bc they're twins
Apr 25th 2015
26
      true facial requires an eyeblink
Apr 25th 2015
27
           never knew it required an eye blink
Apr 25th 2015
42
sucker shit
Apr 25th 2015
10
eh I'v done it
Apr 25th 2015
17
lmao
Apr 25th 2015
18
Eh, what is there to fade to black about?
Apr 25th 2015
25
True.
Apr 25th 2015
29
      You need to read the post. lol
Apr 25th 2015
31
           I know what the post said
Apr 25th 2015
41
                3 including him but one don't count. We only text.
Apr 25th 2015
55
                one doesnt count, we only text... lol, that sounds like some bullshit
Apr 25th 2015
79
                you sound like you bout to check her phone next lmao
Apr 25th 2015
78
                     Lmfao. Show up at her door like...
Apr 26th 2015
125
LOL @ the bs justification. nah nigga, thats the shit YOU be on
Apr 25th 2015
34
I feel like I haven't checked a phone since 2005 or before.
Apr 27th 2015
195
RE:damb you dumn
Apr 25th 2015
36
or maybe you just ain't never really deal with women.
Apr 25th 2015
39
      these things go better if your retorts refute opposing points
Apr 25th 2015
51
           lol
Apr 25th 2015
52
           I was just stating the obvious.
Apr 26th 2015
110
                mission accomplished, I assure you
Apr 26th 2015
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                     you even reply like your dick been dry for years.
Apr 26th 2015
143
                          Still covering up those insecurities, eh?
Apr 26th 2015
156
How old are you?
Apr 26th 2015
162
not cool bruh
Apr 27th 2015
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http://i.imgur.com/IM4KnS8.png
Apr 25th 2015
19
you win at the Internet
Apr 25th 2015
20
If only I could've done a drunk and cut up one.
Apr 27th 2015
196
LOL yo
Apr 25th 2015
22
Wow! Really lol I'm dying
Apr 25th 2015
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lol
Apr 25th 2015
38
LOL
Apr 25th 2015
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i love this place.
Apr 27th 2015
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That was a very confusing read.
Apr 25th 2015
21
What was confusing? and that's not nice either. Do I know you?
Apr 25th 2015
24
      its not confusing to me... dude caught feelings and couldnt hide it.
Apr 25th 2015
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           It wasn't really a fuck buddy but yea I thought I had the perfect setup
Apr 25th 2015
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           Tell his family to come get him
Apr 25th 2015
59
           stop being sensational...
Apr 25th 2015
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                #56 "drinking all day, talking crazy, and he hurt himself"
Apr 25th 2015
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           you don't need this.
Apr 25th 2015
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           Yikes. Yeah, scratch that last reply bruh this is code red.
Apr 25th 2015
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           RE: It wasn't really a fuck buddy <---- Holup
Apr 26th 2015
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           message.
Apr 26th 2015
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If yall were just casually dating
Apr 25th 2015
28
i wish my old lady did tell someone to 'have a good day'
Apr 25th 2015
30
them good morning text too
Apr 25th 2015
40
haha, i knew at least one of yall thought this was a relationship.
Apr 25th 2015
32
Sun fuckin wit da wrong one,.....Ninja betta watch his denim!
Apr 25th 2015
33
yeah he's way wrong
Apr 25th 2015
35
if that's you in your avatar...
Apr 25th 2015
37
aint no such thing as casual fucking... someone always catches feelings
Apr 25th 2015
44
      Exactly lol. "Casual" is always temporary.
Apr 25th 2015
67
      I guess my 8 year booty call is the exception
Apr 25th 2015
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           either it was trash booty, ugly chicks or horrible dick game... or all 3
Apr 26th 2015
120
                lol im in shock how proud he is about it.
Apr 26th 2015
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                and why wouldn't i be?!
Apr 26th 2015
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                zero feelings...
Apr 26th 2015
155
                     if they aint catching feelings, you aint fucking them right
Apr 26th 2015
166
                          You are too old to be this naive.
Apr 26th 2015
182
                               jealous^^
Apr 26th 2015
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                                    Delusional^^
Apr 26th 2015
187
REAL crazy woulda been calling them niggas up from your phone.
Apr 25th 2015
45
EXTREMELY fragile..... and women KNOW this and still believe us
Apr 25th 2015
46
RE: all facts, lol
Apr 25th 2015
47
Well stop saying that bullshit
Apr 26th 2015
164
I don't want to be with him. Love him but he lives a crazy life
Apr 25th 2015
60
poor guy. don't mind me. i want love for everybody.
Apr 25th 2015
72
you are intimate with someone you dont want to be with?
Apr 26th 2015
132
^^^^^^me
Apr 25th 2015
61
Oh shit! Lolol Well I think he knew if he did that?
Apr 25th 2015
64
      he's not crazy...he's just in love and heart broken.
Apr 25th 2015
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           lol
Apr 25th 2015
80
           and he's right there with the person who broke his heart
Apr 25th 2015
82
                whe he shows up at the bar in slippers while she is on a date
Apr 25th 2015
88
                     You don't know my life! n/m
Apr 26th 2015
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                          wooohah!!
Apr 26th 2015
176
my Ex did this, he called everyone in my damn phone one night...
Apr 25th 2015
81
i think the dude just wanted to have the 'exclusive' conversation
Apr 25th 2015
48
Eh, I'm not denying lying.... And I wouldn't have had sex with dude
Apr 25th 2015
62
man I swear in my 20s dudes always made women
Apr 25th 2015
49
been there. BEEN there.
Apr 25th 2015
50
Red flags for insecurity
Apr 25th 2015
53
OMG so he shows up to my house drunk and bleeding...
Apr 25th 2015
54
yikes.
Apr 25th 2015
57
Lol are you sure?
Apr 25th 2015
70
Ummm... I think you're gonna have to move soon
Apr 25th 2015
73
*reshelves cookware* -- yeah -- that nigga throwed.
Apr 25th 2015
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I'm taking action on whether or not
Apr 25th 2015
92
why you even go to the hospital with him?
Apr 26th 2015
109
Because he was drunk and bleeding everywhere
Apr 26th 2015
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      he acted crazy and it worked...
Apr 26th 2015
117
      he knows how to get your attention now. be careful.
Apr 26th 2015
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      emotional manipulation
Apr 26th 2015
146
Yall go together now. I can't even cartoon that one.
Apr 26th 2015
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RE: So he tells me he's been going through my phone, wait what??
Apr 25th 2015
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My girl said its his cry for help. I want to help him but...
Apr 25th 2015
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      RE: My girl said its his cry for help. I want to help him but...
Apr 26th 2015
108
Amount of dumb shit in this entire post is sad yo...
Apr 25th 2015
68
cut him off
Apr 25th 2015
71
I don't think I have a choice anymore. He went too far
Apr 25th 2015
76
I'm just waiting on him to show up in this post and
Apr 25th 2015
83
some of you dudes in here are also crazy.
Apr 25th 2015
84
anyone who has been dickmatized or pussy whipped has acted crazy...
Apr 25th 2015
86
nah.
Apr 25th 2015
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that what dickmitized/pussy whipped people
Apr 25th 2015
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      Dexter Morgan had his moment too... he just didnt tell you.
Apr 25th 2015
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           sure maybe when I was 15
Apr 25th 2015
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                nah, alcohol and puberty are necessary for the meltdown
Apr 25th 2015
97
welp
Apr 25th 2015
106
get away from him unless you're the type who likes drama
Apr 25th 2015
87
I dont know her to say she does like drama, however
Apr 25th 2015
94
did u just mention you thought you had the perfect set up???
Apr 25th 2015
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wonder how many of y'all dudes defending dude would be defending
Apr 25th 2015
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80% of facebook posts are abt a woman going thru her man's phone.
Apr 25th 2015
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LOL at default setting
Apr 25th 2015
100
you are corny.
Apr 25th 2015
103
ssshhh. dont fight the truth, girl. embrace it.
Apr 26th 2015
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      corny.
Apr 26th 2015
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           and unashamed.
Apr 26th 2015
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                YA HEARD!
Apr 26th 2015
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                     RE: lol. sig-worthy.
Apr 26th 2015
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                          nah, they rather play cool at all times...
Apr 26th 2015
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Ninja tossed a jewel-shuriken from outta nowhere den vanished in smoke.
Apr 25th 2015
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      *updates database*
Apr 26th 2015
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keyed his car is where you lost me.
Apr 25th 2015
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k
Apr 25th 2015
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If the roles were reversed we'd call dude out for running game and
Apr 26th 2015
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ikr... I aint saying dude is right for going thru the phone
Apr 26th 2015
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      MY POINT: He wouldn't have known had he not gone in my phone
Apr 26th 2015
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           but he DID have a reason...
Apr 26th 2015
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           RE: MY POINT: He wouldn't have known had he not gone in my phone
Apr 26th 2015
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you see it
Apr 27th 2015
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Have you ever has sex with him?
Apr 25th 2015
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of course they had sex. people dont act like this unless they had sex...
Apr 26th 2015
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      Exactly... So then she already knows what's wrong.
Apr 26th 2015
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don't be a Cancerian about this
Apr 26th 2015
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you see it
Apr 26th 2015
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      well, that's not what I meant
Apr 26th 2015
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      Wrong! I hate drama. I'm a runner not a keeper.
Apr 26th 2015
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           I hope this isnt the one you decide to give another chance...
Apr 26th 2015
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           RE: Wrong! I hate drama. I'm a runner not a keeper.
Apr 26th 2015
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                Everybody that's how I was raised
Apr 26th 2015
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I dont get compartmentalizing guys at all
Apr 26th 2015
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*meanwhile niggas invented this shit*
Apr 26th 2015
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did you get a high school GED?
Apr 26th 2015
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RE: did you get a high school GED?
Apr 26th 2015
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      if you're still debating after this, you're slow
Apr 26th 2015
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      RE: if you're still debating after this, you're slow
Apr 26th 2015
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      he aint saying none of that tho...
Apr 26th 2015
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*shrugs* the players change but the game remains the same
Apr 26th 2015
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      RE: *shrugs* the players change but the game remains the same
Apr 26th 2015
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           I think he can relate... he is just coming from a guys perspective
Apr 26th 2015
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                lol no doubt @ met your match.
Apr 26th 2015
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                     we have no idea what type of glory truethang has between her legs
Apr 26th 2015
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                          I wasnt gonna go there but
Apr 26th 2015
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                               yezzir
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....
Apr 26th 2015
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okay then dont be surprised by possessive messiness
Apr 26th 2015
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      ikr.. people arent robots. you can lay out the rules, get them to sign a...
Apr 26th 2015
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      lol so this has never happened to you
Apr 26th 2015
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           Avengers comes out on May 1st nigga
Apr 26th 2015
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           your logic: niggas cheat, why cant she be manipulative?
Apr 26th 2015
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                She said she told him from the top she didn't want to be monogamous
Apr 26th 2015
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                     all this is true... he wasnt built for it.
Apr 26th 2015
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                     There are tons of poly people in nyc
Apr 26th 2015
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                     poly people be fuckong up the rules too
Apr 26th 2015
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                          true...
Apr 26th 2015
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                     Lol!! So wrong to laugh at this...
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                     *dead*
Apr 27th 2015
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                     LOL
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                     omg....lol!!
Apr 27th 2015
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                     she said that and her actions said otherwise
Apr 26th 2015
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                          You can love some one and not want to forsake all others
Apr 26th 2015
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                               no you can't...
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                                    i dont know but ppl use this stance quite a bit
Apr 27th 2015
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                                         yeah.. I used to use it all the time
Apr 27th 2015
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                                              ultimately, even as involved as he was
Apr 27th 2015
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Eh I've had successful situations like this in the past **shrugs**
Apr 27th 2015
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      you've repeatedly fuckbuddy-zoned men u LOVE?
Apr 27th 2015
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sounds of wackness. That clown would be dead to me after that
Apr 26th 2015
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Soundrack for this post?
Apr 26th 2015
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how do you cut your ass? this nigga good...
Apr 26th 2015
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Monica, I blame you for ignoring all the crazy moments this nigga showed...
Apr 26th 2015
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like knowing he would walk thru a snow storm if she needed a hug...
Apr 26th 2015
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He cant handle that type of setting
Apr 26th 2015
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I've been in a situation similar to yours before
Apr 26th 2015
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u lost me w/ Black men without fathers or uncaring mothers...
Apr 27th 2015
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      I know. You can't relate. And that's ok.
Apr 27th 2015
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Sex for fun usually reeks of dysfunction is some way or another...
Apr 26th 2015
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What is wrong with you people?? lol
Apr 27th 2015
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I'd ask the same about some of yall, but the issues are pretty clear.
Apr 27th 2015
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hanh?
Apr 27th 2015
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      I don't even know why you'd question that.
Apr 27th 2015
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did you really throw tug love into the mix?
Apr 27th 2015
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slippery slope
Apr 27th 2015
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LOL
Apr 27th 2015
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      LMAO
Apr 27th 2015
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           it's probably more about my porn addiction (c) Case
Apr 27th 2015
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           yeah... these new age lovers are a trip
Apr 27th 2015
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                Say what you will, but I have had friends that I chill with and have sex...
Apr 27th 2015
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                     I bet YOU didn't... lol
Apr 27th 2015
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                          Didn't what?
Apr 27th 2015
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                               didn't find it difficult
Apr 27th 2015
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He was wrong for going through your shit but youre also playing him
Apr 27th 2015
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#180
Apr 27th 2015
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lots of people only have sides
Apr 27th 2015
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If I SAY I"M SINGLE AND SEEING OTHER PEOPLE?!?!?!?
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      period.
Apr 27th 2015
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      it's never that simple.
Apr 27th 2015
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      Bullshit, no one got strung along and like I said I've been here and don...
Apr 27th 2015
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      there's a lack of accountability here.
Apr 27th 2015
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           I didn't know he was sprung until he went through my phone
Apr 27th 2015
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                wooooooooooooow (c) mos def
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                lol
Apr 27th 2015
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                but he prolly would pay your rent, give you walk around $$$
Apr 27th 2015
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      The Crisco thing is interesting
Apr 27th 2015
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      he could have just as easily walked away if he didnt like the arrangemen...
Apr 27th 2015
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      he tripped over some glass while he was walkin away
Apr 27th 2015
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      Except he's not trying to walk away...
Apr 27th 2015
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           have a fucking heart..
Apr 27th 2015
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                blah he shoulda kept his heart if he gon' make awwll the bad decisions
Apr 27th 2015
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                her ass wasn't calling the ambulance
Apr 27th 2015
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                yeah you gotta cut him off
Apr 27th 2015
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      basically
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           There are and were no contradictions. Spin it how you like
Apr 27th 2015
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           how you treated him made him feel otherwise
Apr 27th 2015
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                Man not really... but iight... I guess.
Apr 27th 2015
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           dude
Apr 27th 2015
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      Not quite Crisco admits he SELLS THE DREAM
Apr 27th 2015
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           THE DREAM of D a few times a month...
Apr 27th 2015
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                Naw Crisco used boyfriend and girlfriend
Apr 27th 2015
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                     yeah, I was trippin'
Apr 27th 2015
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      yup
Apr 27th 2015
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drop.that.nigga.NOW.
Apr 27th 2015
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I honestly don't get how I played him or my fucking self for that matter
Apr 27th 2015
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consider it 80/20 or 90/10
Apr 27th 2015
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He wasn't any type of person but a good person prior to this.
Apr 27th 2015
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      its makes them incompatible
Apr 27th 2015
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      ^^^listen^^^
Apr 27th 2015
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      pretty much. she can't help that he caught em
Apr 27th 2015
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           yep and going forward
Apr 27th 2015
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      I feel like you are being a little shady with this angle
Apr 27th 2015
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charge it to the game boo
Apr 27th 2015
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goin thru phones is called Quality Control
Apr 27th 2015
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That's obvious however my post is about him being wrong in doing so
Apr 27th 2015
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      Oh i totally agree....but it happens...and its wrong...and u have
Apr 27th 2015
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      RE: That's obvious however my post is about him being wrong in doing so
Apr 27th 2015
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welcome to my world, 2 weeks ago.
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um
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http://38.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0ghi83q1W1qii6tmo1_500.gif
Apr 27th 2015
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That's definitely a violation. I feel sorry for him, though.
Apr 27th 2015
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yup... he needs to know the rules of the game.
Apr 27th 2015
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whole situation was a bundle of childishness
Apr 27th 2015
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I love it when people lie to themselves
Apr 27th 2015
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Umm yea... Lol Maybe I'm a different type of person
Apr 27th 2015
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it helps to have fuck buddies that you dont really like
Apr 27th 2015
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do they cuddle after sex? punch each other in the arm?
Apr 27th 2015
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That's why I was fucking him, because I don't want to be with him!
Apr 27th 2015
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RE: That's why I was fucking him, because I don't want to be with him!
Apr 27th 2015
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lol everything changes once you start bussin IN her and not ON her
Apr 27th 2015
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molly, you in danger, girl.
Apr 27th 2015
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I swear Fishgrease had some wise words before this even happened
Apr 27th 2015
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she said she be fuckin her male friends on occasion...
Apr 27th 2015
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Noooooo!!! Don't twist my words crazy man
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Most people respond badly to being bookmarks.
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Fishgrease
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1. "you may just want to cut your loses now...and walk away with "
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a peace of mind and sanity.

Jealousy never wanes or diminishes. It only increases and brings about even mo' crazy.

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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Sat Apr-25-15 01:56 PM

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2. "Oh it's over. Sad because I REALLY love dude. "
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I just couldn't be with him in a relationship. He was good to me though. That's just crazy.




Somebody's lying...

@Atruelady Twitter/ @Sweetesttaboos Instagram

  

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MzOnyxVI
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264. "I'm curious to know why you two aren't together if the "
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love is there?

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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276. "He lives a careless ass lifestyle. Smokes and drinks damn there everyday"
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He doesn't have a good job and he's not trying to keep it. He doesn't have long term goals.

But he's cool and has a good heart. He's funny, he's cute, and likes the same stuff I do... Just not a career, a house, or kids.




Somebody's lying...

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3. "crazy af"
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and insecure af too.

smh

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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5. "Yea I could have forgiven one time but he's been going thru it... nah"
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He says he was in his feelings and it was hard for him, huh? How is it hard is it to NOT go through my phone? So much for my password...

I'm very disappointed. It's all so stupid but serious enough that I have to keep it moving.




Somebody's lying...

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guru0509
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8. "i somehow glossed over the fact that he used your pw..."
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i thought you left it out and unlocked and he just went thru it (not that it makes it any less creepy)

but the fact that he used the pw...ridic.

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the brown figures on the walls of my apart-a-ment...

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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11. "Premeditated creeping..."
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Now I'm sad...




Somebody's lying...

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12. "was password the password?"
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Did you give it to him?

  

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13. "No and No! Lol "
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I'm just like, why did you do that?!?!?!?! Grrr....




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legsdiamond
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14. "does that make him craaaaazay? "
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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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15. "You tell me!"
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Somebody's lying...

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4. "Somebody's lying..."
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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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6. "I wish..."
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Like I told him, we both lose. Not how I planned my Saturday.




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7. "time to lock that phone"
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with facial recognition.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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9. "I got an iPhone; I use my fingerprint but I still use a pass code for ba..."
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@Atruelady Twitter/ @Sweetesttaboos Instagram

  

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16. "could someone take a photo of you and open you phone with it? "
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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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26. "True, I know my brother's son can unlock his phone bc they're twins"
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27. "true facial requires an eyeblink"
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Photos don't blink



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legsdiamond
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42. "never knew it required an eye blink"
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SHAstayhighalways
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10. "sucker shit"
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DJPoke
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17. "eh I'v done it"
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If a dude ain't checking your shit he don't really fuck with you.

He was a lame by confronting you about it. I would've saw the shit and just faded to black on you. Or just relegated you to jumpoff status.

  

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SHAstayhighalways
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18. "lmao "
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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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25. "Eh, what is there to fade to black about? "
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I am single! lolol He's still lame.




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DJPoke
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29. "True."
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How many dudes you currently fuckin with?

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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31. "You need to read the post. lol "
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DJPoke
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41. "I know what the post said"
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I'm asking YOU.

  

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55. "3 including him but one don't count. We only text."
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legsdiamond
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79. "one doesnt count, we only text... lol, that sounds like some bullshit"
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No wonder dude is drunk and cut the fuck up.

2 mo niggas??

  

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SHAstayhighalways
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78. "you sound like you bout to check her phone next lmao"
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www.royallegacy.org

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Boogie Stimuli
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125. "Lmfao. Show up at her door like..."
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"I know what u typed on OKP, but how many niggas??"

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34. "LOL @ the bs justification. nah nigga, thats the shit YOU be on"
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MEAT
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195. "I feel like I haven't checked a phone since 2005 or before. "
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If I get that nosey I need to dip out.

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36. "RE:damb you dumn"
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CHOP-THESE-BITCHES!!!!
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DJPoke
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39. "or maybe you just ain't never really deal with women."
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51. "these things go better if your retorts refute opposing points"
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instead of offering up evidence of them being unequivocal.

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guru0509
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52. "lol"
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I wanna go to where the martyrs went
the brown figures on the walls of my apart-a-ment...

  

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110. "I was just stating the obvious."
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113. "mission accomplished, I assure you"
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If your "stating of the obvious" was to showcase how insecurely daft you are with a female.
Keep the train going, though. I don't mind helping you play yourself out, if you need the assistance.

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DJPoke
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143. "you even reply like your dick been dry for years."
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Smh.

  

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156. "Still covering up those insecurities, eh?"
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There's the rub, good sir.

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DaHeathenOne76
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162. "How old are you? "
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What the hell?
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http://www.iamsharandajones.org/help

  

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194. "not cool bruh"
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"i wanna hug all u idiotic bastards & then set you all on fire" -Bin

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19. "http://i.imgur.com/IM4KnS8.png"
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http://i.imgur.com/IM4KnS8.png

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20. "you win at the Internet"
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>http://i.imgur.com/IM4KnS8.png


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forcing myself to actually respond to you is like bathing in ebola virus. - Binlahab

Like there is stupid, and then there is you, and then there is dead. - VAsBestBBW

R.I.P. Disco D

  

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196. "If only I could've done a drunk and cut up one. "
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SHAstayhighalways
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22. "LOL yo"
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www.royallegacy.org

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23. "Wow! Really lol I'm dying"
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Somebody's lying...

@Atruelady Twitter/ @Sweetesttaboos Instagram

  

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38. "lol"
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Y'all foolish

  

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85. "LOL"
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206. "i love this place. "
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peace & blessings,

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focus on working hard you end up making someone else rich and
not having much to show for it. (c) mad

  

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21. "That was a very confusing read."
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Sounds like you two deserve each other tho, I hope all goes well.

"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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24. "What was confusing? and that's not nice either. Do I know you?"
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Somebody's lying...

@Atruelady Twitter/ @Sweetesttaboos Instagram

  

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legsdiamond
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43. "its not confusing to me... dude caught feelings and couldnt hide it. "
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I think being "single" while having a fuck buddy will always end up with the guys being "craaaazy"


No dude who is over 25 wants a fuck buddy even if they claim they do. Once they find out you are dating/seeing other dudes it automatically goes to "is yall fucking?"

Why? Cause every dude thats out there dating is trying to fuck and you even admitted you want to...

So while dude is lame for going through your phone you know good and gotdamn well he smelled what was cooking.

He is a fool for fucking with you and thinking his felling wouldnt get in the way.

You a fool for acting like he doesnt have feelings to get in the way.

Yall too gotdamn grown to play this game. Someone always catches feelings.

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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56. "It wasn't really a fuck buddy but yea I thought I had the perfect setup "
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And well that's over... Sigh I just hate that I feel like I hurt him.

Now he's been drinking all day, talking crazy, and he hurt himself.




Somebody's lying...

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59. "Tell his family to come get him"
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Only option at this point.

Excessive drinking and hurting himself is like two steps from.........

  

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66. "stop being sensational... "
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69. "#56 "drinking all day, talking crazy, and he hurt himself""
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Any public health service person would say this is institutionalization time.

  

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SHAstayhighalways
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63. "you don't need this."
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www.royallegacy.org

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Brotha Sun
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65. "Yikes. Yeah, scratch that last reply bruh this is code red."
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Be safe out here.

"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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128. "RE: It wasn't really a fuck buddy <---- Holup"
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How would you describe him?

An intimacy buddy?


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130. "message."
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>So while dude is lame for going through your phone you know
>good and gotdamn well he smelled what was cooking.
>
>He is a fool for fucking with you and thinking his felling
>wouldnt get in the way.
>
>You a fool for acting like he doesnt have feelings to get in
>the way.
>
>Yall too gotdamn grown to play this game. Someone always
>catches feelings.
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Sarah_Bellum
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28. "If yall were just casually dating"
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Meaning you're both free to date whomever, quit him right away. If he wanted to be http://zap2it.tmsimg.com/tvbanners/h5/AllPhotos/184748/p184748_b_h3_aa.jpg, this is not the way to go about it.

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30. "i wish my old lady did tell someone to 'have a good day'"
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the fuck for?

  

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40. "them good morning text too"
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Naw.

  

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32. "haha, i knew at least one of yall thought this was a relationship."
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obviously it was him.

but, i'd have to quote Geah on this one. that kinda shit?

AC. QUIT. TAL.

gon' head and eff the homie that ya want to now since you like to keep that with one at a time. i have no doubt he'd oblige.

  

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33. "Sun fuckin wit da wrong one,.....Ninja betta watch his denim!"
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https://chriswind.bandcamp.com/track/massage

"You can take an African out of Africa, but you can't take Africa out of the African"
Afro-Americana/Afro-Caribbana/Afro-Latino unite. We are ALL Black!

  

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35. "yeah he's way wrong"
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that's not cool even if you are exclusive.

“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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37. "if that's you in your avatar..."
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then I could imagine how a less secure man, or rather a man who doesn't have multiple great options would react that way...

however I'll tell you like I tell cats in the barbershop, it's on you. he's showed you what he wants from you so if you continue to interacting with him then be silent and charge that shit to the game

happiness is a mediocre standard for a middle class existence - S. Williams

I don't not like you because you have dumb ideas about the world, I don't like you because you have other people's dumb ideas about the world. - Rjcc

  

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44. "aint no such thing as casual fucking... someone always catches feelings"
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I dont feel sorry for either party.









  

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67. "Exactly lol. "Casual" is always temporary."
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"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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90. "I guess my 8 year booty call is the exception"
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problem is it would be an exception for a few people I know

happiness is a mediocre standard for a middle class existence - S. Williams

I don't not like you because you have dumb ideas about the world, I don't like you because you have other people's dumb ideas about the world. - Rjcc

  

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120. "either it was trash booty, ugly chicks or horrible dick game... or all 3"
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Aint no way you go 8 years with booty calls and no one catches feelings.

8 years of fucking and you couldnt get any of those women to stand in the rain outside your door?

that isnt something to brag about

  

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123. "lol im in shock how proud he is about it."
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"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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154. "and why wouldn't i be?!"
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we both stayed in our lane...plus, unlike most pussy, I haven't grown tired of it

happiness is a mediocre standard for a middle class existence - S. Williams

I don't not like you because you have dumb ideas about the world, I don't like you because you have other people's dumb ideas about the world. - Rjcc

  

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155. "zero feelings..."
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and if there are some she's done a beautiful job at supression.

happiness is a mediocre standard for a middle class existence - S. Williams

I don't not like you because you have dumb ideas about the world, I don't like you because you have other people's dumb ideas about the world. - Rjcc

  

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166. "if they aint catching feelings, you aint fucking them right"
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I mean, thats how I was raised.

Zero feelings means you aint hit that spot.

That never happened in my world. I may have come up short in other areas but this dick will make you love me.

  

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182. "You are too old to be this naive."
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185. "jealous^^"
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187. "Delusional^^"
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2.tears.in.a.bucket
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45. "REAL crazy woulda been calling them niggas up from your phone."
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he may very well be crazy, but i'd need more evidence.

crazy? nah. sound like you put that root on him is all.

if u really love dude i'm sure he can sense it, even if its unspoken.

he probably just salty that he wasn't enough to keep you from entertaining other male company. the male ego fragile as hell, lol.

♚♚♚♚

#BYLUG >>> https://goo.gl/1ooFp6

♚♚♚♚

screamin' mothafuck a 12 /
bitches ain't shit /
cops ain't neither /
they huntin' my people /

- i. rashad

♚♚♚♚

  

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legsdiamond
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46. "EXTREMELY fragile..... and women KNOW this and still believe us"
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When we say its cool, we can deal with casually dating while fucking.

That only works when the girl is ugly.

...and even then we start seeing the inner beauooty if the botty is good.

  

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47. "RE: all facts, lol"
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>When we say its cool, we can deal with casually dating while
>fucking.
>
>That only works when the girl is ugly.
>
>...and even then we start seeing the inner beauooty if the
>botty is good.

♚♚♚♚

#BYLUG >>> https://goo.gl/1ooFp6

♚♚♚♚

screamin' mothafuck a 12 /
bitches ain't shit /
cops ain't neither /
they huntin' my people /

- i. rashad

♚♚♚♚

  

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164. "Well stop saying that bullshit "
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Sorry I'm flashing back to my circular dating days.
*****************************************
http://www.iamsharandajones.org/help

  

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60. "I don't want to be with him. Love him but he lives a crazy life"
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I'm too grown for it. But he has a wonderful heart and has held me down. I can't take that from him. If I needed a hug in the middle of the day in a snow storm he'd be there.




Somebody's lying...

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72. "poor guy. don't mind me. i want love for everybody."
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.

♚♚♚♚

#BYLUG >>> https://goo.gl/1ooFp6

♚♚♚♚

screamin' mothafuck a 12 /
bitches ain't shit /
cops ain't neither /
they huntin' my people /

- i. rashad

♚♚♚♚

  

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132. "you are intimate with someone you dont want to be with?"
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That's confusing...

You cant look good and get away with that shit.

Trust me, I tried... lol.

  

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61. "^^^^^^me"
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Fuck what you heard, who is James? Never mind I got his math, I'll call him myself

  

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64. "Oh shit! Lolol Well I think he knew if he did that? "
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I'd be gone for GOOD! He still wants us to be how we were so I REALLY don't see his point for going through my phone? Tell me you went through my phone just to check me? But I'm not your woman. I'm going to think you're crazy and keep it moving...




Somebody's lying...

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legsdiamond
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77. "he's not crazy...he's just in love and heart broken."
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SHAstayhighalways
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80. "lol "
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www.royallegacy.org

For Real (Official Video):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBRoCPO8esE

  

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82. "and he's right there with the person who broke his heart"
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while he's still drunk.

How do you envision him acting when he's not let in to her place (like he is right now)?


More drinking? More crazy talk?


What is the sign to you that he needs real help?

  

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88. "whe he shows up at the bar in slippers while she is on a date"
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175. "You don't know my life! n/m"
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legsdiamond
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176. "wooohah!! "
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81. "my Ex did this, he called everyone in my damn phone one night..."
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even my god brother and was bitching to him and my god brother said to leave him and ain't listen but he was right.

  

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48. "i think the dude just wanted to have the 'exclusive' conversation"
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but brought it up the wrong way.

also, you was lying to cuz. im sure you was eventually gonna fuck other dude, and not tell this dude nothing.

and yes. THATS YOUR BUSINESS.

  

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62. "Eh, I'm not denying lying.... And I wouldn't have had sex with dude"
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I have self control. I know that the other guy might just be testing me. If things went well with him, then I would've put him on ice and fell back to start something new. I don't want to be in a relationship right now. I'm just having fun and trying to be happy. If I'm getting good dick from one that's great, the other guy has better conversation and is in a more stable position. Didn't see why I couldn't have both...




Somebody's lying...

@Atruelady Twitter/ @Sweetesttaboos Instagram

  

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49. "man I swear in my 20s dudes always made women"
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out to be needy and jealous ans insecure.

But then when niggas be turning 30 they turn into the needy, jealous, insecure type.

....on second thought I'm lying, niggas been mad insecure.

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50. "been there. BEEN there."
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oh well

if you cant deal, bail.


does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

  

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53. "Red flags for insecurity "
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And a sign for what's on the road ahead to come of you decide to continue to date him.

  

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54. "OMG so he shows up to my house drunk and bleeding... "
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I can't believe this right now... Just got home from the ER. He fell some how on a beer bottle and cut the tip of his finger off, cut his back and ass. He's still drunk and loaded with stitches.

I'm super frustrated right now. REALLY frustrated... Omg

He's got to go man, this is not my life. I'm single!!!




Somebody's lying...

@Atruelady Twitter/ @Sweetesttaboos Instagram

  

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57. "yikes."
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www.royallegacy.org

For Real (Official Video):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBRoCPO8esE

  

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70. "Lol are you sure?"
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>
>He's got to go man, this is not my life. I'm single!!!

"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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73. "Ummm... I think you're gonna have to move soon"
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Molly you in danger!!!!

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74. "*reshelves cookware* -- yeah -- that nigga throwed."
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.

♚♚♚♚

#BYLUG >>> https://goo.gl/1ooFp6

♚♚♚♚

screamin' mothafuck a 12 /
bitches ain't shit /
cops ain't neither /
they huntin' my people /

- i. rashad

♚♚♚♚

  

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92. "I'm taking action on whether or not"
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she will still be fucking dude this time next month

happiness is a mediocre standard for a middle class existence - S. Williams

I don't not like you because you have dumb ideas about the world, I don't like you because you have other people's dumb ideas about the world. - Rjcc

  

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109. "why you even go to the hospital with him? "
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116. "Because he was drunk and bleeding everywhere "
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I'm not that type of person, it's not like he's a stranger or a person I don't care about. Though it was very annoying, I didn't want to, and I was angry? I had to make sure he was okay. You don't do people like that.




Somebody's lying...

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117. "he acted crazy and it worked..."
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He will do this again

  

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DJPoke
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141. "he knows how to get your attention now. be careful. "
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He don't seem to be wrapped too tight. He skipped a few steps in the relationship brwakdown. I ain't make a drunk visit to my girl until she kept my son from me for a month. and I wasn't cut up and bleeding.

  

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146. "emotional manipulation"
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he came to your place bleeding when he could've sought medical care? he's doing it to make you pity and feel sorry for him.

i would've called an ambulance and let him go to the hospital alone cause this is a setup to take him back.

if you felt that you MUST go, then cut him off right after you make sure he's in good medical hands. no need to keep in contact with him unless you like drama, difficult, complicated relationships.

  

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183. "Yall go together now. I can't even cartoon that one."
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You need help picking out rings?

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58. "RE: So he tells me he's been going through my phone, wait what??"
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I truly don't understand why dudes act like this, going through a woman's cell phone? Either your trust or you don't and the bottom line is if someone wants to see someone else they will and there is nothing you can do about it. Violating someones privacy and going through their phone while making accusations doesn't endear you to that person. He sounds like someone who ultimately wants to control you. Thing is if y'all had an agreement then he messed up.

If I'm dating someone and we have that agreement then whats the problem, perhaps dude thought the other folks you were hanging with would fade away eventually..I've dated women who had male friends, if she wanna hang out with them, no big deal. If we had an agreement that they are only friends, I have no problem with that. Whatever agreement was made in the beginning everyone needs to stick to that, if things change everyone needs to be updated.. seems easy.. shrug



Insecurity: wrecking relationships since the dawn of time..


The showing up drunk and bleeding sounds like a sympathy ploy.. mess!

  

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75. "My girl said its his cry for help. I want to help him but... "
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I don't think I can.

Things were about as perfect as it could be for the situation besides his occasional asking too many questions (Now I know why) and he likes to be under me. He's not hard to get rid of tho when I do want to go out on a date.

Now he's still drunk ((right beside me as I type)) but I have the feeling just to keep me around he'll agree to anything I say. It's just funny how 12 hours changes things. I just want him away from my phone and to stop drinking.




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108. "RE: My girl said its his cry for help. I want to help him but... "
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alcohol is never a good mix in this sort of emotionally fueled situation... neither is him showing up cut up, self inflicted ? Be careful!

  

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68. "Amount of dumb shit in this entire post is sad yo..."
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Back to The Lesson.

  

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71. "cut him off"
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he's shown you his crazy
you either want to deal with it or you don't

i'd head for the hills

  

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76. "I don't think I have a choice anymore. He went too far "
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Showing up drunk and cut the fuck up




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83. "I'm just waiting on him to show up in this post and "
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give us his side of the story. LOL. This ain't funny but I've been there. Dudes crazy is so different that woman's crazy

  

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84. "some of you dudes in here are also crazy."
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own it.

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86. "anyone who has been dickmatized or pussy whipped has acted crazy..."
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If you havent, then you prolly havent been fucked the proper way.

  

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89. "nah."
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91. "that what dickmitized/pussy whipped people"
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like to tell themselves.

I grew given the playbook by other dudes. Don't matter how fine you are, how good your pussy is that ALONE aint gonna get me to abandon the code.

shoutout to Dexter Morgan

happiness is a mediocre standard for a middle class existence - S. Williams

I don't not like you because you have dumb ideas about the world, I don't like you because you have other people's dumb ideas about the world. - Rjcc

  

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95. "Dexter Morgan had his moment too... he just didnt tell you."
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Its all part of the game.

Even the best basketball players get dunked on...

Anyone who hasnt been exposed aint really played that game at a high level.

and being pussy whipped is never pussy ALONE.

  

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96. "sure maybe when I was 15"
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the pussy I was getting at 15 aint seeing the post college pussy and I have been whipped

happiness is a mediocre standard for a middle class existence - S. Williams

I don't not like you because you have dumb ideas about the world, I don't like you because you have other people's dumb ideas about the world. - Rjcc

  

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97. "nah, alcohol and puberty are necessary for the meltdown"
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106. "welp"
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87. "get away from him unless you're the type who likes drama"
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94. "I dont know her to say she does like drama, however"
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she has too much emtion wrapped up in this to be the person that is actually done with him.

chances are she's convinced herself she likes being single. She's been doing it for so long she forgot she aint built for the single life.

not to say that dude is what she wants, but I am saying she aint through with dude.

In other words..she's terrible at being single and managing her team

I could be wrong...except I'm not

happiness is a mediocre standard for a middle class existence - S. Williams

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93. "did u just mention you thought you had the perfect set up???"
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thats game...

even if u thought it ..you shoulda never said it

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98. "wonder how many of y'all dudes defending dude would be defending "
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and saying 'aw homegirl is just in love'
if the roles were reversed and homegirl went through his phone all crazy
came through drunk and keyed his car or something.

lol

just because you can relate don't make the shit normal or ok.

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99. "80% of facebook posts are abt a woman going thru her man's phone. "
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crazy is a woman's default setting

unless ur getting hot grits tossed on u / your dick chopped off - won't get much sympathy.

♚♚♚♚

#BYLUG >>> https://goo.gl/1ooFp6

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screamin' mothafuck a 12 /
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100. "LOL at default setting"
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103. "you are corny."
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www.royallegacy.org

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111. "ssshhh. dont fight the truth, girl. embrace it."
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#BYLUG >>> https://goo.gl/1ooFp6

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screamin' mothafuck a 12 /
bitches ain't shit /
cops ain't neither /
they huntin' my people /

- i. rashad

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112. "corny."
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www.royallegacy.org

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114. "and unashamed."
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.

♚♚♚♚

#BYLUG >>> https://goo.gl/1ooFp6

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screamin' mothafuck a 12 /
bitches ain't shit /
cops ain't neither /
they huntin' my people /

- i. rashad

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118. "YA HEARD!"
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accept the corniness, it will set you free

  

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119. "RE: lol. sig-worthy."
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>accept the corniness, it will set you free
>
>

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screamin' mothafuck a 12 /
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121. "nah, they rather play cool at all times..."
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105. "Ninja tossed a jewel-shuriken from outta nowhere den vanished in smoke."
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https://chriswind.bandcamp.com/track/massage

"You can take an African out of Africa, but you can't take Africa out of the African"
Afro-Americana/Afro-Caribbana/Afro-Latino unite. We are ALL Black!

  

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107. "*updates database*"
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www.royallegacy.org

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101. "keyed his car is where you lost me. "
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Dude didnt damage any of her belongings...

and you are right, crazy is on the table but thats what happenes when you run game.

  

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104. "k"
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www.royallegacy.org

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124. "If the roles were reversed we'd call dude out for running game and "
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feigning naivety as well.

"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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127. "ikr... I aint saying dude is right for going thru the phone"
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and he may be crazy but that nigga aint dumb.

He knows that dude is a dick in a glass box and it was only a matter of time before she broke the seal on it.




  

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137. "MY POINT: He wouldn't have known had he not gone in my phone "
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And like I told him, he was getting what he wanted! I've only seen dude TWICE! I see him all the fucking time. He had NO RIGHT and no GOOD reason to go through my phone!

I've only been talking to dude 3 weeks, he supposedly "knows" me so why is he worried? He was being NOSEY and paranoid. Now it's over because of a nobody.

I want to have sex with dude simply because the chemistry was there but hell our schedules never match and he lives far. I may not even be talking to him much longer. But now I don't want to talk to you!

Great job!




Somebody's lying...

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142. "but he DID have a reason... "
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Something you did tipped him off and his instincts were right...

Now, he is wrong for going through your phone but some people are nosey and messy.

Hell, sounds like he did both of yall a favor.


  

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181. "RE: MY POINT: He wouldn't have known had he not gone in my phone "
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Clearly he can't handle the situation so........

  

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216. "you see it"
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102. "Have you ever has sex with him?"
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Why do I ask? Because sex complicates everything.


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"And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful." ~ 2 Tim 2:4

  

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115. "of course they had sex. people dont act like this unless they had sex..."
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Now if they didnt... he is truly crazy.

  

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145. "Exactly... So then she already knows what's wrong."
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"And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful." ~ 2 Tim 2:4

  

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122. "don't be a Cancerian about this "
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this nigga crazy and drama-filled.


I don't care how sweet he is when he's sober... he's also going thru your phone when he's sober too.


  

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126. "you see it"
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cancers love this type of drama

I went to SXSW and dude brought his "assistant" who he was knocking off but kept screaming "I'm single.. do you"

until she went out and "did her" and brought some dude around the crew.




  

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135. "well, that's not what I meant "
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I meant don't be sweet and nice and give this dude a second chance...

cut off contact with him


  

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138. "Wrong! I hate drama. I'm a runner not a keeper. "
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I am NOTORIOUS for just deleting and blocking people. That may be my biggest issue. I can develope soft spots for people but it's rare. I'm working on giving people a chance not keeping people around and entertaining drama.




Somebody's lying...

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139. "I hope this isnt the one you decide to give another chance... "
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but if you do, please post about it cause this shit is A+

  

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dew drops
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147. "RE: Wrong! I hate drama. I'm a runner not a keeper. "
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"I am NOTORIOUS for just deleting and blocking people. "

does this mean for men you're dating/dated, friends/coworkers/etc, or people in general? cause if it's mostly people you've had non-romantic relationship with, then that statement isn't credible.

  

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153. "Everybody that's how I was raised "
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Somebody's lying...

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129. "I dont get compartmentalizing guys at all "
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guys are either looking for something serious or just to mess around, we're simple

being "into" one guy while "dating" someone else is messy

going through your phone was wrong but I get his sense of possessiveness, especially if you've been intimate

  

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133. "*meanwhile niggas invented this shit*"
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What's the male equivalent of a mistress?

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134. "did you get a high school GED?"
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a man having a mistress is not the equivalent of a woman saying "we can fuck and I love you but Im still single"

  

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150. "RE: did you get a high school GED?"
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Yes I got my GED, good enough degree. Only took me 7 years too. However, my blind brother, in this regard I am not referring to her and dude's relationship as a "mistress" situation. It was to your point of compartmentalizing men. So a man can have a wife, with a side piece he's just fucking, but you can fathom a scenario where a woman is dating a guy with benefits, but it's noncommittal to where though she's single she still is sexually exclusive?

So basically a dude can stick his dick in thing and there is some logic to be found in it. But a woman having an interest in TWO men? At the same time?! *clutches pearls*

Stop acting brand new bruh.

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158. "if you're still debating after this, you're slow"
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>Yes I got my GED, good enough degree. Only took me 7 years
>too. However, my blind brother, in this regard I am not
>referring to her and dude's relationship as a "mistress"
>situation. It was to your point of compartmentalizing men. So
>a man can have a wife, with a side piece he's just fucking,
>but you can fathom a scenario where a woman is dating a guy
>with benefits, but it's noncommittal to where though she's
>single she still is sexually exclusive?

side pieces aren't out in the open
"Im fucking you and I care about you but I'll entertain other guys" is mixed signals

  

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173. "RE: if you're still debating after this, you're slow"
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How is a declarative statement mixed signals? She put everything upfront. Its on dude to be emotionally mature enough to hold up to what he signed up for.

Now if he has a change of heart afterwards then cool, thats a human thing. Do it responsibly. But do t go thru her phone then come at her sideways when she told you that shit from jump. Were the roles reversed this would be an everyday occurrence.

All I'm saying is the only one game goofy and simping in this regard is dude, not TruthThing.



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159. "he aint saying none of that tho... "
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Well, at least I dont think he is...

What I'm saying is dudes who have a wife/SO and a side piece have to deal with a slashed tires, keyed cars, crank phone calls etc.

You want her to be free of the drama and most of us are saying that aint how the game works.

Welcome to our world. We make it sound fun, exciting and free of drama but its the exact opposite.

I know a good 5 or 6 married dudes who played that game and ALL them niggas are separated or divorced.

We invented the game and its a fucked up game to play and it hardly ever works out.

  

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136. "*shrugs* the players change but the game remains the same"
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Flipping the script just means a woman has to deal with the same shit men deal with..

Aint no get out of drama card cause men invented it.

Women usually find out men can be just as bad if not worse when they see shit is real.



  

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151. "RE: *shrugs* the players change but the game remains the same"
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You're right. In equality everything should be equal. Game for game and drama for drama. Which is why I said what I did to Atruhead. He's acting brand new as if he couldn't relate, but it's the same game, no? Why should it change because of the players?

In regards to TruthThing she came on here to vent cause dude was acting wild and stepped out of line. Had any man made a post about the woman he was casually seeing going through his phone would that be unrelateable? Should dudes stop compartmentalizing women in the same regard?

Or nah? Atru was acting brand new just because she's a woman? She aint even give other dude no skins! Niggas be the most sensitive (crazy dude, not Atru).



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163. "I think he can relate... he is just coming from a guys perspective"
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I dont want to speak for him tho...

This is where I'm coming from... I played the game, played it well, then I met my match and I was standing in the rain. I went home to visit and all the women I grew up with were like "damn nigga, not you.. we aint never seen you like this"

Fucking VA women yo... had to recalinrate my game.

Maybe that dude is legit crazy or maybe he just met his match.

..amd c'mon, while she didnt give up the ghost she admitted she was headed in that direction.

The nigga was singing yo... and obviously he hit enough notes to let crazy nigga know shit was really real.

  

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174. "lol no doubt @ met your match."
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Thats the thing tho. To me that's pretty universal. And when it happens, YOU are the one caught out there with your nose open. Not the person that ran game. You gotta stay woke. But in her case it is totally on dude. She didn't cheat or anything out of the scope of their relationship. He acting like he has ownership over her cause they got physical? It was known from jump. In this regard, its totally on him.

I don't equate this with a side piece or mistress, I only brought that up because 1. Dudes invented that shit so we could have cakes and smang them too. 2. What she did aint even at the level of some mistress shit, and we see that scenario all day long. So she shouldn't get flack for venting when a crazy person goes crazy. Dude wasn't emotionally mature enough to deal with that. A bro like myself wouldn't have been so insecure to spazz like that, but everybody's different. Just saying it's all fair game, fair or foul. Such is life.

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178. "we have no idea what type of glory truethang has between her legs"
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Niggas always swear it wouldnt happen to them... until it happens.

Im sure dude didnt go into this thinking he would crack.

She is free to vent but this is OKP.


  

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184. "I wasnt gonna go there but"
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Base true @ all the above.

He still the simp anf she still the pimp either way, haha

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186. "yezzir"
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140. "...."
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just because you love some one doesn't mean you automatically want to be completely exclusive.


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144. "okay then dont be surprised by possessive messiness"
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people complicate these things out of fear or baggage

you can casually date whoever or you can call yourself having feelings for (multiple) people

trying to do both is pretty contradictory and confusing

not copping pleas for dude going through her phone but he was probably driven to his wits end trying to figure their situation out while she's like "lol Im single", thinking that was supposed to fly

  

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148. "ikr.. people arent robots. you can lay out the rules, get them to sign a..."
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but once you lay down with them all that shit "usually" goes out the window.

most people swear they can go along with the rules but feelings get in the way.

Dude held her down and would walk thru a snow storm for a hug...well, he isnt doing all those things to be casual friends.

This is how you wind up sitting next to a drunk dude with cuts all over his body.

When dudes tell me about how a woman caught feelings and overstepped I always hit them with a "wow... thats fucked up, but umm.. what did you think was going to happen?"

  

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152. "lol so this has never happened to you"
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Or a homie you know?

Shit I know married niggas with side relays who be kike "I love you but I am leaving my wife....and dont tell her about our baby" etc.

What TruthThing said aint even scratching the surface of levels that exist in compartmentalizing relationships. All she did was vent. Folx should at LEAST be allowed to do that.

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157. "Avengers comes out on May 1st nigga"
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Dont be a hero

  

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160. "your logic: niggas cheat, why cant she be manipulative?"
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161. "She said she told him from the top she didn't want to be monogamous "
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That she would date others etc. He signed on the roster knowing that and then threw a tantrum as a contract negotiation when he didn't get his way.
He's not built for it. He should move on.
There are plenty of people who monogamy is not the goal in life.

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165. "all this is true... he wasnt built for it. "
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But most people arent built for it. A nigga will agree to damn near anything to get some ass...

He lost his way... she lives in NYC and prolly doesnt have a car so he keyed himself.

Only thing she did wrong was think this dude was built for it.

He showed his crazy... now its her move.

  

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167. "There are tons of poly people in nyc"
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Too many in fact. She should hook up with some.
She should find one.
My guess is both of these people are in their 30's...and I would feel bad for homeboy if he was younger but at 30+ you should know if you have a seafood allergy... And therefore not to order the shrimp. I have no sympathy and I've been on the other side of the game.
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169. "poly people be fuckong up the rules too"
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172. "true..."
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But there are those that have it worked out...

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188. "Lol!! So wrong to laugh at this..."
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>He lost his way... she lives in NYC and prolly doesnt have a
>car so he keyed himself.

  

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209. "*dead*"
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>He lost his way... she lives in NYC and prolly doesnt have a
>car so he keyed himself.
>
>

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215. "LOL"
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>He lost his way... she lives in NYC and prolly doesnt have a
>car so he keyed himself.


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257. "omg....lol!!"
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>He lost his way... she lives in NYC and prolly doesnt have a
>car so he keyed himself.

  

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170. "she said that and her actions said otherwise "
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she admitted in this post to loving dude

men's minds are simple "we care about each other, why are you still dating?"
women's minds are just as simple "we care about each other, why are you still fucking other women?"

it's all messed up. if you dont want to commit, dont blur the lines

  

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171. "You can love some one and not want to forsake all others"
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This whole concept that fuckbuddies need to be treated at arms length with cold callous indifference is cool for some folks but others can love multiple people at once.

You're not one of those people and that's ok, but everyone doesn't fit in that box neatly.
everyone is not so black and white.
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204. "no you can't..."
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you can claim to and even try that shit out for a few but someone is gonna love you back and it's usually the one you don't really want.

how the fuck you love someone and still want someone else?

niggas being greedy and get mad when the food gives them the bubble guts.

  

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219. "i dont know but ppl use this stance quite a bit"
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>how the fuck you love someone and still want someone else?
>

they love someone-but

they want to see other people
they aren't 'ready'
etc
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222. "yeah.. I used to use it all the time"
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now, I definitely had "love for them" but real talk..

it was all about me.

  

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229. "ultimately, even as involved as he was"
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he needed to step back

it's NOT EASY
and i can't say i've done this every time
but ultimately it came down to me

shit im in the middle of this right now. writing is on the wall. can't be keying myself (LMAO) and expecting homeboy to "show me love" which is basically just showing basic humanity (she was right to help homeboy out-even though he was being manipulative). you have to be strong and stand up for yourself and what you want/deserve and be out.


i've never gotten to that point like homeboy got w/ truth because im not crazy but still. you have to gather up that strenf.

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212. "Eh I've had successful situations like this in the past **shrugs**"
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When I get in a relationship then they fade to black...





Somebody's lying...

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265. "you've repeatedly fuckbuddy-zoned men u LOVE?"
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Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

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131. "sounds of wackness. That clown would be dead to me after that"
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149. "Soundrack for this post?"
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* loads Castlevania like grim reaper bells and obscure classical violin in mpc. Produces this track....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gp86bl0FfDk

  

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168. "how do you cut your ass? this nigga good..."
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177. "Monica, I blame you for ignoring all the crazy moments this nigga showed..."
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in the past. He always been crazy you just kept giving him a pass.

Crazy dudes are like roaches...hard to get rid of. Good luck
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180. "like knowing he would walk thru a snow storm if she needed a hug..."
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That is part of his crazy.

A normal nigga would be like... "its a snow storm, stay warm"

  

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179. "He cant handle that type of setting"
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you need to leave now if you dont see anything in the future...its not like he can go back to being casual. He's lost in the sauce. Once one of the people cross that line they never go back.


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Meadow
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189. "I've been in a situation similar to yours before"
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The guy in question tried to wrestle my cell phone out of my hands
because of a guy he assumed I was having sex with. I had to yell at him to get a grip, which turned into a long conversation full of I'm sorry, I really care about you... etc.

At the time I was a virgin. To this day we haven't had sex because I never wanted him in that way. I just really cared about him. And I had to learn that for certain Black men from broken homes, the type who did not have their father growing up and/or had mean uncaring mothers, that is enough for them to think that you're wifey.

The *other* guy was actually an acquaintance I helped get out of his foreclosure situation. Nothing more.

I know you typed earlier that you can cut off people quickly, no matter who it is.

However, given your feelings for the guy and the fact that he's clingy, cutting him off will be difficult if not impossible right now.

I had to set new rules/boundaries where if he ever stepped outside of those bounds, he would be totally cut off never to be spoken to on or offline again. I also spent less time with him and kept phone calls to how are you.

He learned.

Then again, he never tried to hurt himself for my attention. Yeah... our situations aren't similar. You need to write him a letter and let him down as softly and as clearly as possible. Get out and get out now.

  

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legsdiamond
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200. "u lost me w/ Black men without fathers or uncaring mothers..."
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nah...

  

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Meadow
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214. "I know. You can't relate. And that's ok."
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190. "Sex for fun usually reeks of dysfunction is some way or another..."
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particularly such a culture.

Reply 153 pretty much cemented that this situation is no different.

Not even a diss or anything. That's just the real.
I got my dysfunctions to work through as well.

You're never JUST using someone else's body to get a nut. You're using all of them...
and praying the rest of them doesn't fall for part or all of you.
Mufuckas swear sex is spiritual but then play with it, lol.

Yall don't hear me tho.





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192. "What is wrong with you people?? lol"
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Sex for fun is perfectly natural. Do you think that masturbation reeks of dysfunction too?

  

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Boogie Stimuli
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198. "I'd ask the same about some of yall, but the issues are pretty clear."
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Masturbation isn't sex.
It also doesn't require the use of another person.
Talking about culture mostly, as well.

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213. "hanh?"
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>Masturbation isn't sex.




some of y'all...
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243. "I don't even know why you'd question that."
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If someone tells you they haven't had sex in a year, do you assume they haven't masturbated?
Or is that an additional question you have to ask?
Or are you one of those "YOU HAD SEX WITCHO SELF!" people? lol


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legsdiamond
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201. "did you really throw tug love into the mix? "
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c'mon... our hands don't have emotions.

once you involve another HUMAN BEING with a heart, mind and feelings and shit.. it usually gets complicated.

sex is fun but its extremely rare for 2 parties to get busy repeatedly and walk away without one of them feeling some type of way.

  

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205. "slippery slope"
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I can see a one night stand in a drought or even hitting Tinder/Backpage for a quick fling

but there's some denial happening if two people sleep together for 6 months and dont acknowledge feelings on one end or the other. who wants to carry on that type of emptiness

  

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197. "LOL"
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we don't hear you b/c we know that's bullshit.

fuck you.

  

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199. "LMAO"
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You don't hear me because of your sexual addiction.

Foh lol

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202. "it's probably more about my porn addiction (c) Case"
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LOLLZIES!!!

fuck you.

  

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legsdiamond
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203. "yeah... these new age lovers are a trip"
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they are sexually free and can rock with anything..

but when the dust settles and the music stops they be on that Heavy D.

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217. "Say what you will, but I have had friends that I chill with and have sex..."
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I wouldn't even call either situation a fuck buddy or booty call. In both circumstances we were friends and could hang out with or without having sex.


I really didn't find it that difficult. Everyone is different.




Somebody's lying...

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224. "I bet YOU didn't... lol"
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226. "Didn't what?"
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If the other person did, they handled it how they should've handled it. Known their place and kept along with how it was going.




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230. "didn't find it difficult"
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I'm not knocking your style..

just saying I can see how it can get messy.

  

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191. "He was wrong for going through your shit but youre also playing him"
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How are you gonna shout "I'M SINGLE, I DO WHAT I WANT!" and tell him he's the only one you're smanging? You're talking out both sides of your mouth and this cat is obviously into you. He'll tell you to your face he accepts whatever because he wants to keep you, but really he is looking for signs that shit is escalating. You gave him that sign but hedged and then slammed a door in his face. Shit isn't working but the fact that you're so mad and side eyeing him like this shows you're maybe a little self-centered, naive or both. It's ok, most of us are.

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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207. "#180"
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you can't have someone like this on your roster and think you can keep them in a fancy little box.

He isn't doing all that shit to be her "friend"

how you gonna have a side piece when you don't have a main piece?

  

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210. "lots of people only have sides"
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208. "If I SAY I"M SINGLE AND SEEING OTHER PEOPLE?!?!?!?"
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He played himself!




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211. "period."
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218. "it's never that simple."
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humans have valid emotions and shouldnt be strung along if you cant honor them

you might not be fucking anyone else, but Crisco's posts have basically said "she's in love, I still give the dillz to other women and she cant control me", there's not much difference

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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223. "Bullshit, no one got strung along and like I said I've been here and don..."
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He's not the first person I've been cool with and had sex with. I'm not new to dating. I'm grown. It's not mandatory that people catch feelings, it's just not.

And again so what if he caught feelings, stay out my fucking phone!




Somebody's lying...

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255. "there's a lack of accountability here."
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>And again so what if he caught feelings, stay out my fucking
>phone!

if he never went through your phone and just ate his feelings, you would still feel there was nothing wrong with having him sprung while you pursue other people

  

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259. "I didn't know he was sprung until he went through my phone "
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Not like he was paying my rent or some shit




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262. "wooooooooooooow (c) mos def"
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I was gonna ask a question or two but that just told me all I needed to know.

Good luck to you both.

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281. "lol"
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"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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268. "but he prolly would pay your rent, give you walk around $$$"
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give you the big piece of chicken.

All the things that a woman says is "him being nice" usually is "him being sprung"

  

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227. "The Crisco thing is interesting"
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it's not exactly the same thing cause he smashing anything moving but he is honest and up front as well.

  

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228. "he could have just as easily walked away if he didnt like the arrangemen..."
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if someone knows yall arent exclusive and chooses to roll with it thats on them.

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231. "he tripped over some glass while he was walkin away"
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236. "Except he's not trying to walk away..."
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Somebody's lying...

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247. "have a fucking heart.. "
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trust me, no man wants to be where he is right now. You hit him with the love dart and now he is like ole girl with the flu shot.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qy_lwnx30Bg

he will keep coming back but trust me, if he could he would run from your ass.

  

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250. "blah he shoulda kept his heart if he gon' make awwll the bad decisions"
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only children throw tantrums

adults at least try to maintain some kind of composure

he's lucky she ain't call the cops instead of the ambulance


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256. "her ass wasn't calling the ambulance"
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adults in love throw tantrums all the fucking time.

shit happens.









  

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251. "yeah you gotta cut him off"
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for real. it's going to suck and he's probably not going to understand but ultimately, it's for the best.

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232. "basically"
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granted there are sometimes mixed signals but clearly if there's a contradiction in what someone says and what they do, ultimately what they're going to side with when shit hits the fan is what THEY want for THEMSELVES, which ain't you b/c they "have" you and are stringing you along or giving you less than what you deserve

lawd the timeliness of this thread in my life

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238. "There are and were no contradictions. Spin it how you like "
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But the proof is in the pudding.

I love him because he's a dope person. We bang but he's never been mislead that we were in a relationship or working towards one.




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240. "how you treated him made him feel otherwise"
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i don't think that was your intent. you're not a psychopath

but he likes you a lot

most people expect it to be more clear if it's just something not serious. i'm not blaming you but he saw a contradiction in what you said vs how you treated him not b/c you don't know what you want for yourself, but because he wanted more. it's a common thing people do when they're sprung. TRUST ME! lol

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242. "Man not really... but iight... I guess."
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Somebody's lying...

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252. "dude"
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...

*smh*



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233. "Not quite Crisco admits he SELLS THE DREAM"
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in this case she did not.
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249. "THE DREAM of D a few times a month..."
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what type of dream is that man really selling?

he isn't selling love, companionship.. just black D

  

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266. "Naw Crisco used boyfriend and girlfriend"
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Outside his wife

I used to tell him to STOP lying to those women.

And he mandated that they didnt have other suitors but him.. Who does that when you just smashin??
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269. "yeah, I was trippin' "
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of all the niggas in the world....

  

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220. "yup"
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193. "drop.that.nigga.NOW."
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from one single gal to another... no dick too bomb for all that


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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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221. "I honestly don't get how I played him or my fucking self for that matter"
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I'm grown, it was NO secret to anyone that I was dating other people. I specifically said I didn't want a relationship on NUMEROUS occasions. I don't! I asked him and made sure he understood that.


He was cool until he went through my phone! He had NO RIGHT to go through my phone, point blank period. If he had doubts or suspicions then he should have ASKED me or fell back if he no longer felt comfortable. You do not violate my privacy and on top of that question me about some shit I have the right to be doing!

I have no problems with him catching feelings, it happens. I'm pissed about him going through my phone and trying to check me. He fucked up. He's out. I never asked whether or not I should kick him to the curb because he made that decision for the both of us.


THIS is why I'm single right now.




Somebody's lying...

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lfresh
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234. "consider it 80/20 or 90/10"
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80-90 percent of that is his fault

but 10-20 percent of it is yours for not realizing or ignoring the type of person you were dealing with for whatever reason and trust those signs were there.

this isn't to excuse his behavior
thats childish man yes leave him alone
but going forward maybe try to make a better effort to minimize these results


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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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241. "He wasn't any type of person but a good person prior to this."
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I attract people who are good people. I have friends ((JUST FRIENDS)) who would do everything besides fuck me that he did.

I've had people I've never had sex with catch feelings for me. Just because people catch feelings doesn't make them or I wrong. PEOPLE catch feelings. He's wrong for going through my phone.




Somebody's lying...

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lfresh
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245. "its makes them incompatible"
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not catching feelings
but their process how handling their feelings
it might be time for you become better aware of what works for your circumstance and what does not

or maybe you are looking for a repeat occurence?

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bonitaapplebaum71481
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246. "^^^listen^^^"
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look for the traits

and then avoid

unless you love drama

then yes girl, keep POASTING


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teefiveten
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258. "pretty much. she can't help that he caught em"
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but being that he did and he flipped the eff out

she can't keep having that person in her life b/c theyre dope and she cares for them because she can't/won't/doesn't want to give him what he wants

and to continue knowing that is messed up. even if ultimately as an adult he needs to own up to his own ish and be strong enough to walk away, if he isn't, the she has to.

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lfresh
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260. "yep and going forward"
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people do tell you about themselves in many ways

observing and listening goes along way towards anticipating potential bad results
its work that many people are just not willing to do
thinking hey if i just say such and such
well thats that and its on them
and it is kinda
but at the same time you are also dealing with the fallout TruthThang

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legsdiamond
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271. "I feel like you are being a little shady with this angle"
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like, if we were face to face and you said this and I didn't respond, just looked you in the eye...

you would crack a smile and do a lite chuckle.

cause yall women know WTF is up.

  

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bonitaapplebaum71481
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244. "charge it to the game boo"
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something similar happened to me without the drunken crazy

your fire just a little too hot

but now you know

choose accordingly


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ambient1
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225. "goin thru phones is called Quality Control"
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lol


nah....

dude got drunk n some more shit @ ya crib

he basically fell in love and got all up in his feelings
irregardless of the understanding ya'll had

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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235. "That's obvious however my post is about him being wrong in doing so"
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You don't violate another person's privacy. ESPECIALLY when you're not in a relationship.




Somebody's lying...

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ambient1
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239. "Oh i totally agree....but it happens...and its wrong...and u have"
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ery right to carry it however


but it happens


he now lost twice

he lost his 'dignity' by goin there and lost u

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legsdiamond
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253. "RE: That's obvious however my post is about him being wrong in doing so"
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>You don't violate another person's privacy. ESPECIALLY when
>you're not in a relationship.

you aren't wrong.. but shit happens

  

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mochalox
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237. "welcome to my world, 2 weeks ago."
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I'm like, really dude? You worried about some'ol text messages? Srsly? Have we met? Do you know me at all?

We made up but I still get angry when I think about it.

How's swingers getting jealous over somm'ol text messages? Chile bye.

  

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bonitaapplebaum71481
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248. "um"
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>We made up but I still get angry when I think about it.


Chile bye.


LOL

I still love you though but you know recipes for disaster and shit



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254. "http://38.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0ghi83q1W1qii6tmo1_500.gif"
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http://38.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0ghi83q1W1qii6tmo1_500.gif

talkin bout we made up...

  

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chillinCHiEF
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261. "That's definitely a violation. I feel sorry for him, though. "
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I've been there before and it was all insecurity on my part. It's a sucky ass feeling.

Don't mean he deserves to be forgiven for that bs, tho. If anything, learning the hard way will be better for him in the long run.

  

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legsdiamond
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267. "yup... he needs to know the rules of the game. "
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MiracleRic
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263. "whole situation was a bundle of childishness"
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u love him but don't want to be with him but still entertain him?

and we get pegged as the only people who gaslight and lead people on with sex

dude crazy...

but so is this entire situation

Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

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legsdiamond
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272. "I love it when people lie to themselves"
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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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274. "Umm yea... Lol Maybe I'm a different type of person"
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He is not what I want to be with. What's so hard?




Somebody's lying...

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decaturpsalm
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270. "it helps to have fuck buddies that you dont really like"
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i have no clue what ppl call dating these days
but what you described doesnt sound like "dating" to me
it starts gettin messy when ur having sex
with someone and you dont wanna be with them

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273. "do they cuddle after sex? punch each other in the arm? "
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I did this shit in college and shortly after but I couldn't see doing this in my late 20's and expecting both parties to remain cool under fire.

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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275. "That's why I was fucking him, because I don't want to be with him!"
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He said he was cool, that he didn't want a relationship either!! Perfect! lol


Anyway, he was in his feelings but had no business in my phone. That's the only point.




Somebody's lying...

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legsdiamond
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284. "RE: That's why I was fucking him, because I don't want to be with him!"
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Sig worthy...sorry, I'm using this.

  

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283. "lol everything changes once you start bussin IN her and not ON her"
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277. "molly, you in danger, girl. "
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put that nigga faaaaar on the other side of your life.
not did he violate your privacy and trust, but he wants to hold you accountable for shit that ain't crimes.
no ma'am!!!

i dated a guy that would read my history on my computer
he joined Facebook like 2 years after i had and went back to my register date and read
every
post.
and questioned me about them!!!

they don't stop.
he'll feel entitled to be in your shit whenever he feels justified.
Run.

  

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blackrussian
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278. "I swear Fishgrease had some wise words before this even happened"
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something like 'if you're seeing each other every day for 3 months, you're in a relationship whether you say it or not'

i mean...he may well be crazy, but it also sounds like you're giving mixed signals.

  

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DJPoke
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279. "she said she be fuckin her male friends on occasion..."
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For the sake of what little sanity this dude has left...

Let him go.

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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280. "Noooooo!!! Don't twist my words crazy man "
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I said in the past I have had guys that I was friends with and we had sex too. Not occasionally! You said it like I'm rotating muthafukkas. Not the case. I recently got out of a shitty relationship and I don't want to get into another one.




Somebody's lying...

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Marla
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282. "Most people respond badly to being bookmarks."
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Maybe you told him you weren't interested in a relationship. It sounds like he had an inkling that what you meant was that you did not consider him to be someone worthy of having a relationship with you. Sure you were honest, to a point. Most people are going to catch feelings when they realize their role is only to fill the space of someone else's future girl/boyfriend but they have personally been judged as not good enough for that role.

People catch feelings when they have to train a replacement or someone with less seniority for a promotion they feel like they earned.

Maybe you feel like you were honest enough, but perhaps the position you were asking him to fill necessarily appealed to someone with self-esteem issues and some self-deprecating behavior. It's like you want to be treated like a queen by someone who deep down you don't feel is completely worthy of your time. People in general just don't react well to being treated like bookmarks or entertainment.

  

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