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BabySoulRebel
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"Poll question: How much intelligence do you require in a potential SO?"


  

          

there is this woman I'm interested in
I think she's so cute and she's very sweet
but the more interact with her, the more I see that she would never be mistaken for a neurosurgeon or a political news correspondent in any way, shape or form. Not I would either by any means but I'm known to be very diehard "you gotta be smart to get the drawz".

maybe I'm confusing intelligent with being intellectual?
Help me out GD.

Poll result (39 votes)
I like them as dumb as a doorknob, easier to keep the upper hand. (2 votes)Vote
I like them to be able to at least hold most of a conversation. (3 votes)Vote
I like them to be articulate and well-versed on a variety of topics. (27 votes)Vote
Go Mensa or go home, bitch. (7 votes)Vote

  

  

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Smart enough to hold her own in any room
Apr 10th 2015
1
A person can be charming, charismatic and not that smart.
Apr 10th 2015
3
      when you put it like that
Apr 10th 2015
5
      ive never met this mythical person
Apr 11th 2015
63
I think everyone needs a constellation of people in their lives
Apr 10th 2015
2
at least 600 on the math and 650 on the verbal on the SATs
Apr 10th 2015
4
I'll settle for 580 math, but 650-725 verbal
Apr 10th 2015
14
True. but you definitely don't want higher than 600 in math
Apr 10th 2015
16
      Good point tho
Apr 10th 2015
20
           CRINE.
Apr 10th 2015
25
                lawdt
Apr 10th 2015
46
i need one subscore in the 700s. the other >600
Apr 10th 2015
22
      Why would I wife her if I wouldn't employ her yadadadamean?
Apr 10th 2015
36
she gotta be able to prove me wrong at least once a week.
Apr 10th 2015
6
so anyone with a pulse?
Apr 10th 2015
9
you tried.
Apr 10th 2015
17
that's women's job on planet earth
Apr 10th 2015
10
      true. but she gotta -prove- that shit.
Apr 10th 2015
18
re: intelligent vs being intellectual
Apr 10th 2015
7
see #6
Apr 10th 2015
8
      i meant to say #5
Apr 10th 2015
31
just don't say dumb shit that makes the room go "oh wow"
Apr 10th 2015
11
there are also brain surgeons and lawyers that are ditzy as shit
Apr 10th 2015
13
      Yes I've seen CEOs and chairpeople do the same kind of thing
Apr 10th 2015
28
      no doubt
Apr 10th 2015
29
      I dated this doctor who was ditzy as shit
Apr 10th 2015
32
      I kinda sorta dated a person studying to be a doctor in college
Apr 10th 2015
39
      yep
Apr 10th 2015
47
      And this is the worst combo EVER
Apr 10th 2015
51
      and it never works the other way either!
Apr 10th 2015
60
      Truth.
Apr 11th 2015
64
Somewhere between "we'll never end up on Maury" and
Apr 10th 2015
12
Not too fast, but not too slow, cause I don’t have it all my damn self
Apr 10th 2015
15
pretty much
Apr 10th 2015
19
halfway between yellow and green
Apr 10th 2015
21
*browses post*
Apr 10th 2015
23
I think for me it is more about having a love for learning
Apr 10th 2015
24
this is a very good point
Apr 10th 2015
30
this post is funny
Apr 10th 2015
26
green. i need a woman who can check me on things sometimes n/m
Apr 10th 2015
27
I come from an education snob background, sort of;
Apr 10th 2015
33
I Know My Ass Is Dumb, But I'm No Dumbass (c) Sam Jax
Apr 10th 2015
34
we need to be able to challenge each other
Apr 10th 2015
35
i need them to be smart. i want to challenge and be challenged
Apr 10th 2015
37
sounds backhanded to me
Apr 10th 2015
43
      considering how respect is more important to her
Apr 10th 2015
45
           some Mr and Mrs Smith going on
Apr 10th 2015
48
           i laughed out loud
Apr 10th 2015
62
           ^^knows me very well
Apr 10th 2015
50
           I wonder if she said thanks and he was like.. uhh, ur welcome?
Apr 10th 2015
52
                i said 'really?' and kinda thought about it and said 'ok!'
Apr 10th 2015
53
the only thing worse than a ding bat female
Apr 10th 2015
38
I need a brilliant man... and I have one.
Apr 10th 2015
40
if i turn on 'jeopardy' and she wanna watch 'family feud'...
Apr 10th 2015
41
my wife prefers FF but she is a beast at Jeopardy
Apr 10th 2015
44
I was going to make a post about this.
Apr 10th 2015
42
i don't like a know it all
Apr 10th 2015
49
agreed
Apr 11th 2015
65
This. I need a lifetime learner
Apr 11th 2015
68
idiot savant: dumb enough to date me, really smart at other things
Apr 10th 2015
54
L-O-L
Apr 10th 2015
55
"God, why did you make woman so beautiful?"
Apr 10th 2015
56
^^^^^^^ stealing this!!!!!!!!!!
Apr 10th 2015
58
^^winner
Apr 10th 2015
57
the question should change to, you tryna cuff or fuck?
Apr 10th 2015
59
Emotional intelligence is FAR more important to me.
Apr 10th 2015
61
they gotta be smart, but not necessarily book smart
Apr 11th 2015
66
this question hits so close to home right now
Apr 11th 2015
67
they need to smart enough to see that i'm always right...
Apr 11th 2015
69
*breaks 4th wall*
Apr 11th 2015
70
Living Single Theme Song: https://youtu.be/n5P-Qgfl7Sc
Apr 11th 2015
71
i don't know.
Apr 11th 2015
72

John Forte
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1. "Smart enough to hold her own in any room"
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3. "A person can be charming, charismatic and not that smart. "
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In fact I would say I'd value a person being able to hold their own in any room over being smart.


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5. "when you put it like that"
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maybe I need to edit now
because there are several different types of intelligence
social
emotional
cognitive
kinetic

Thinking now I'm probably referring to solely the latter when other forms of intelligence as just as important.
Thanks!

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63. "ive never met this mythical person"
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WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

  

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2. "I think everyone needs a constellation of people in their lives"
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Fri Apr-10-15 10:42 AM by Buddy_Gilapagos

  

          

And the SO doesn't necessarily have to be the brain surgeon. If they are sweet kind, homemaker and don't impede your intellectual needs AND they challenge me in other ways, that can work if you have other intellectual outlets.

If they dumb as bricks and hold you back, that's a problem.

Guess I am saying it's not a deal breaker under the right circumstances.



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4. "at least 600 on the math and 650 on the verbal on the SATs"
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14. "I'll settle for 580 math, but 650-725 verbal "
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Anything over 725 mean she can put me down with words I don't understand

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16. "True. but you definitely don't want higher than 600 in math"
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cause you don't want her counting your money

  

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20. "Good point tho"
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25. "CRINE."
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here for dis.

  

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46. "lawdt"
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i'm damned either way

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22. "i need one subscore in the 700s. the other >600"
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WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

  

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36. "Why would I wife her if I wouldn't employ her yadadadamean?"
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6. "she gotta be able to prove me wrong at least once a week."
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9. "so anyone with a pulse? "
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17. "you tried."
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10. "that's women's job on planet earth"
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test man's resolve

  

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18. "true. but she gotta -prove- that shit."
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7. "re: intelligent vs being intellectual"
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what are your thoughts on that?


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8. "see #6"
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i think i did indeed confuse the two
while they can work hand in hand, they aren't the same thing.
For example: I recognize that while I'm cognitively/intellectually quite intelligent and I've made great strides in developing my emotional intellgence, my kinetic intelligence is horrible because my hand-eye coordination is very weak.

here for dis.

  

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31. "i meant to say #5"
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here for dis.

  

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11. "just don't say dumb shit that makes the room go "oh wow""
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girl from cali was fine as wine..

asked me if she could drive to VA in a few hours. smh

she was fine enough to forgive tho.

  

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13. "there are also brain surgeons and lawyers that are ditzy as shit"
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who would ask the same question

  

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28. "Yes I've seen CEOs and chairpeople do the same kind of thing"
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here for dis.

  

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29. "no doubt"
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32. "I dated this doctor who was ditzy as shit"
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Before that I naively thought all doctors were brilliant

Turns out some were just willing to study harder than other people

  

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39. "I kinda sorta dated a person studying to be a doctor in college"
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she was ditzy as shit...

but talk about anything science related and she was top notch.





  

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47. "yep"
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social intelligence
emotional intelligence

theres levels to this
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51. "And this is the worst combo EVER"
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Especially when some of them are still arrogant because of their title/position, but then can't answer dumb shit, and always settle for the "so what if I don't know 3 + 8....I got dis degree/position!! What do YOU have?"

I've only met a few like this in my life, but man...wanted to give them the five fingers to the face treatment

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60. "and it never works the other way either!"
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you can't say 'oh, who cares i don't know *insert medically/scientifically specific shit here* but I can tell you all about abstract expressionism!'

  

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64. "Truth."
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12. "Somewhere between "we'll never end up on Maury" and "
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I'm not too busy saving the world from a deadly disease to hang out.

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15. "Not too fast, but not too slow, cause I don’t have it all my damn self"
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19. "pretty much"
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21. "halfway between yellow and green"
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WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

  

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23. "*browses post*"
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24. "I think for me it is more about having a love for learning"
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Like I LOVE learning new things and can't imagine myself with someone who doesn't have a similar love of learning.

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it's doing something arduous and
creating something of value and then
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30. "this is a very good point"
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I don't need you to be another Albert Einstein but I do need you to be open to new ideas.

here for dis.

  

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26. "this post is funny"
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33. "I come from an education snob background, sort of;"
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the kind that doesn't think of itself as judgmental but always judges based on the school attended or something similar. So it took me a while to figure out that the quality of someone's education is not necessarily reflective of his or her intelligence.

In the end the only big intellectual turnoff for me was mental laziness, lack of curiosity. A prime example I've mentioned on here before was a girl who asked me in before our date to see pictures from her trip to Borneo. I asked her which country she'd visited, and she said 'uhhh... Borneo.'

It was a good sign that she'd been there; travel, especially to relatively undervisited (by Americans) parts of the world, is usually a great sign of curiosity. And I could easily forgive most people not knowing that Borneo is not a country, since it's not exactly on most people's radar. But to have been there and not even grasped what country she was in... not good. The date went downhill from there.

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34. "I Know My Ass Is Dumb, But I'm No Dumbass (c) Sam Jax"
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She should be the same way

  

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35. "we need to be able to challenge each other"
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37. "i need them to be smart. i want to challenge and be challenged"
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a potential (though more of a next lifetime type) suitor once called me "formidable"

one of the best compliments i've ever received. especially since it was coming from someone whose intelligence i ranked pretty high

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43. "sounds backhanded to me"
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like you are an enemy he respects

  

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45. "considering how respect is more important to her"
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than being desired, I think she would still take it if that was the case LOL

here for dis.

  

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48. "some Mr and Mrs Smith going on"
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boobie traps in the bedroom








boobie
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GET IT!?
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62. "i laughed out loud"
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we corny
lmao

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50. "^^knows me very well"
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lol. honestly i took it more as i can definitely level up w/ him intellectually but also he'd have to try very hard to get something past me, which i would hope to be true. i have many blonde moments. lol

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legsdiamond
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52. "I wonder if she said thanks and he was like.. uhh, ur welcome? "
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53. "i said 'really?' and kinda thought about it and said 'ok!'"
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lol.

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38. "the only thing worse than a ding bat female"
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are people that think that shit is cute

  

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40. "I need a brilliant man... and I have one."
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...

Vee is I and I am She

...

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41. "if i turn on 'jeopardy' and she wanna watch 'family feud'..."
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she gotta go LOL

  

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legsdiamond
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44. "my wife prefers FF but she is a beast at Jeopardy"
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so I let her watch FF.

She hurt my feelings in double jeopardy the last time we watched

  

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42. "I was going to make a post about this."
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Porsha Stewart is ridiculously hot and ridiculously dumb. If I could afford her lifestyle I still wouldnt be interested

  

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49. "i don't like a know it all"
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but i am a sapio sexual

i like someone willing to learn though as well
and willing to discover together

its fantastic if they are an expert in their field of knowledge

but you can be smart and also be boring and rigid

mental flexibility goes a longer way with me than a high IQ but no emotional/social skills

i gear towards interesting ala MIM more than strictly test taking smart
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65. "agreed"
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>

  

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68. "This. I need a lifetime learner"
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I dated one guy who was so smart, he was used to intimidating people.

At the time, I was so sheltered and green, I was just happy to learn things from him.
But as we progressed, I realized he wasn't really open to learning from me.
Like it made him insecure to not know everything for once.

I need a man who can learn from me and with me as well as teach me things.

  

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54. "idiot savant: dumb enough to date me, really smart at other things"
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55. "L-O-L"
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here for dis.

  

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56. ""God, why did you make woman so beautiful?""
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Man says to God: "God, why did you make woman so beautiful?"
God says: "So you would love her."
"But God," the man says, "why did you make her so dumb?"
God says: "So she would love you."

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58. "^^^^^^^ stealing this!!!!!!!!!!"
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I literally just LOL'd at my desk

here for dis.

  

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57. "^^winner"
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<-- Dave Thomas knows what's up...
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59. "the question should change to, you tryna cuff or fuck?"
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Cuz if you can't bring her along for good discourse wit the homies, you KNOW other folks gonna be side eyeing but....

if you don't give a fuck about all that, get your Dark Twisted fantasy on and when they mention she's a bird just be like "I know..."


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61. "Emotional intelligence is FAR more important to me."
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J305
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66. "they gotta be smart, but not necessarily book smart"
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I've only dated one or 2 women who weren't either book or street smart. Can't really do it.

My wife regularly outsmarts me or calls me out when I try to get over on her from time to time (stupid stuff, nothing serious, I'm not a creep lol).

peace

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67. "this question hits so close to home right now"
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:/

  

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69. "they need to smart enough to see that i'm always right..."
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i'm kidding. sort of. but ideally they're not very bright and accept i'm the smart one or they're smart enough to keep up and generally agree with me. men of average intelligence and that's most of them (90%) have no use for bright women. dumb men realize their life will be greatly improved by having someone brighter than them help them navigate the world and the very bright often enjoy an intellectual equal.

  

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70. "*breaks 4th wall*"
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WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

  

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71. "Living Single Theme Song: https://youtu.be/n5P-Qgfl7Sc"
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Living Single Theme Song: https://youtu.be/n5P-Qgfl7Sc

  

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72. "i don't know."
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-30-
You know it's drama, but it sound real good.

  

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