I just start worrying!

---oh, he's not going to like me back
---he'll like me a little, but not that much
---I'm going to get hurt, because I'm the one who clearly likes him more than he likes me
---he's going to start the fade away in a month or two
---I'm low on his list of options

ugh

I hate liking someone!

How can I change this thinking?

That's really the only way

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and then end up liking them months later or something

but it never happens that way

And usually, I have to like them more than they like me....and hopefully we build to where it's even.

But then I've been single forever, so obviously the shit don't work regardless

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>That's really the only way

That you're aloof or unfriendly.

and omg i'm kind of intrigued by how little things have changed for me
including the butterflies, the nervousness, the overthinking & neurosis

so much about me has evolved and changed, but it's hilarious to me that this has not really changed

i love it though
i'm not nearly as jaded as my deadpan sarcasm leads me to believe

I just assume they will and dont get excited or enthusiastic or interested in anyone anymore.

>---oh, he's not going to like me back
>---he'll like me a little, but not that much
>---I'm going to get hurt, because I'm the one who clearly
>likes him more than he likes me
>---he's going to start the fade away in a month or two
>---I'm low on his list of options
>
>ugh
>
>I hate liking someone!
>
>How can I change this thinking?

I wish I knew...

>I just assume they will and dont get excited or enthusiastic
>or interested in anyone anymore.
>

shit is depressing... like you turned off your emotions.

I just know most first dates are last dates even if they go well enough that I'm told they want to see me again. Reality is people do have a lot of options. There's no point in getting excited about someone you've met once or twice or be preoccupied over whether or not they like you. On the flip side I'm pleasantly surprised if I ever hear from someone I've met again.

isnt that counterproductive to the whole idea
of finding someone you like

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>isnt that counterproductive to the whole idea
>of finding someone you like

Just because I went out on a date with a guy.

I'm talking about once you like someone do you show interest or play cool?

is it always about the next 1st date?

is it always a 1st date with a total stranger?

sorry but this sounds.... like a job.

>I'm talking about once you like someone do you show interest
>or play cool?
>
>is it always about the next 1st date?
>
>is it always a 1st date with a total stranger?
>
>sorry but this sounds.... like a job.

Yeah I'll show interest.
I go on dates a couple times a year so not really.
No they're not always strangers.

i just try to live in the moment enough to enjoy it for whatever it is or is going to be
all of those things you named aren't things i can control, so i just try to be myself and not worry about it too much
now that i have known heartbreak intimately, i know i can move on (wounded tho i may be) soooo

i really like you

that happens rarely

but when it does? beautiful

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Sometimes you have to look reality in the face and say 'No!'
-Ben (Reaper)

If you need any help, don't. Hesitate to ask.

Yea its rough, its as if that person has taken over your entire body and mind, a total loss of control. Though the older I get the less intense this feeling is, perhaps I'm slowly becoming immune to its effects. Only thing that really helps me function early on with someone is to put them in their place, meaning, when I'm with them I'm with them and when I'm not I focus 100% completely on something else.

You know you are truly alive when you feel so intensely and with so much hope. Try to enjoy it, and embrace the nervousness and see where it takes you. It's possible he is just as nervous as you are, you truly never know. Closing the gap with warmth is a unique and amazing experience. I hope it works out.

~Experience is the currency of the soul.

dating.

Who wants to date someone who doesn't give you butterflies?

I'd rather be nervous than bored.

Pressure is Privilege.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson


"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

dating.

Who wants to date someone who doesn't give you butterflies?

I'd rather be nervous than bored.

Pressure is Privilege.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson


"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

It's just kind of a waiting game.

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

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I wanna go to where the martyrs went
the brown figures on the walls of my apart-a-ment...

Meaning I'll just put it all out there to see if they're remotely on the same page. I can deal with rejection better than I can ambiguity and the anxiety of the unknown.

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Just tryna do the best that I can with what it is I have...

so when i start liking somebody
i dont even really act like i like them
i just kinda exist in their space and let them
exist in mine until something
good happens
i remember something you wrote on here
"just let life happen"
thats the best approach i can think of when dating

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touched like midas these bitch ass niggas they study and bite us.

That way when the bullshit starts and e erything crashes and burns you can be like....I knew it wasnt gonna last

Youre prepared in other words


does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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"And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful." ~ 2 Tim 2:4