My guy friend said he just saw me on tinder and I was like "Why are you still on there? You have a girlfriend."

His response was "I like swiping"

Edit: he says he doesn't talk to anyone just swipes and I said why and he said "Mini ego boost. When I'm having a bad day I can go at least some stranger thinks I'm cute"

Poll result (12 votes) Yes (11 votes) Vote No (1 votes) Vote

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what they look like. what they do. if their bio is funny.

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i see your point but homeboy said "i like swiping" like he just has a desire to be on a smart phone swiping screens.

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What you think now?

we can all use a boost like that sometimes

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i have friends w/sig others who are on various hook-up sites b/c they're nosy. they never meet anyone let alone hook-up w/anyone from the sites. so i wouldn't trip just b/c my man is on one of them.

then again i'm not a fan of monogamy so even if he's on there hooking up i wouldn't necessarily mind.

fuck you.

but I don't want to have that conversation

here for dis.

1 week of Tinder swiping

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I still got OKCupid emails until last year, because I was too lazy to unsubscribe
I still get emails for some matchmaking service called Tagged
I still get emails for Philly parties and I haven't lived there in 3 years

but I haven't been active in weeks, maybe months

here for dis.

~Experience is the currency of the soul.

i need to have a certain "oneness" with my partner.
he has to be my world, and i have to be his so,
actively logging into dating sites doesn't work
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"Roll me further bitch"

I mean, maybe they're about that swinger/poly life and I just don't know? But I always feel a lil uneasy seeing those I know who are either boo'd up or married and the cogs in my mind start turning...

Personally I made myself non-discoverable and deleted the app while I was in a relationship. I think that's a reasonable expectation of a mate.

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Just tryna do the best that I can with what it is I have...

"friend" from way back that always seems to be around.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

are we cool, or not?
are you faithful, or not?
do you respect our relationship, or not?

if i think the answer to either
of these questions is "no,"
or even "maybe not,"

it doesn't matter how
clean you are on paper,
how many dating profiles you delete, or how much you reassure me.

i will never believe that you aren't full of shit and setting
me up for the okeydoke.

so why am i with you?

if i don't trust you now I never will.

so it's best to keep you at arms legnth.

that's me though.


had a SO ever "earned" your trust
enough that you no longer concern yourself
with their activities that don't
involve you?


>"friend" from way back that always seems to be around.
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>"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then
>they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
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>"One of the most important things in life is what Judge
>Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to
>whether you're

but if I met someone on a dating app and we agree to be exclusive and you still got yours up? Nah...

its like a married person who always goes to singles night.

ppl try to be logical about this but you can't.

my guy now, i trust him.
i can point to reasons I trust him, but ultimately, I can't KNOW what's in his heart.

he could be plottig anything, for all I know.

but once I decided he was in the inner circle, that's where he will stay until he gives me a reason to question my decision.


trust, or trust not.

i can't halfway love you.

i have let go of the idea of
being able to prevent heartbreak
by keeping tabs on folks.

shit works until it don't.


>but if I met someone on a dating app and we agree to be
>exclusive and you still got yours up? Nah...
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>its like a married person who always goes to singles night.
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there is no more use for it so if you continue to swipe I'm thinking she is still searching or keeping her options open.

Doesn't mean I won't trust her at all but I will definitely prepare myself for the Tinder 2 step if she is still on the site.

Your decision on whether you trust someone you are dating is completely made up on Day 1?

You won't have a better idea as to whether you can trust someone on Day 467?


That doesn't even make any sense.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

>Your decision on whether you trust someone you are dating is
>completely made up on Day 1?
>
>You won't have a better idea as to whether you can trust
>someone on Day 467?

my track record I pretty good with this actually.

only one person in my inner circle has actually fucked me over.

and even then, it wasn't a surprise because he had given
me indications that he had changed before it happened.

I didn't have to snoop for those
indicators, it was clear.



my guy now, i didn't always know
that i'd want to be with him,
but it was clear to me that he was trust worthy. he has given no indication that I should question my decision to trust him.

perhaps i should state that I
generally don't trust anybody for shit,

so if i am considering dating you, you managed to not set off
my spidey sense, which is hard to do.

i frequently tell my friends that somebody ain't trust worthy.

they have learned to listen,
based on how accurate my readings of ppl tend to be.





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>That doesn't even make any sense.
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>"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then
>they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
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>"One of the most important things in life is what Judge
>Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to
>whether you're

whats so fucking hard about not being on tinder? lol is it that serious?

why isnt protecting their relationship more important?

me and my dude met on tinder and both got off after date 1. altho i tend to get back on when im insecure about where things are going. but thats the thing. it makes me feel better to know that there are other options out there. and i think its unhealthy to a relationship when ppl focus too much on the idea that there's a sea of options out there. fuckers are going to be swiping forever.

so..

WHY IS IT SO HARD NIKA?

still when on when insecure.

Real talk, ain't no way I'm getting off of Tinder after 1 date tho...

"anything that can rouse suspicion of unfaithfulness is unacceptable"

Cause that reads batshit cray cray.

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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

if youre in a relationship, you should not do shit that single people do to try to get into a relationship. its that simple to me.

DUH

that was a jokey joke

is implied.

she ALWAYS finds a reason to bail due to her suspicion and IMO most times it's shit she made up in her mind.

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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

sheesh

Yeah its really really bad. With the nature of the app its really easy for people to hollar and not need to shuffle around breaking the ice. The app itself is very nicely done. Whoever designed it did a great job. Wish I would of thought of the idea.

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why would my so want to do something that could/would hurt my feelings? that behavior in and of itself actually would hurt my feelings

suspect iono whatever i dont fool w people i have to suspect

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