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Nvncible1
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"I'm deathly afraid I don't have "IT""


  

          

That "IT" factor.

That certain something that carries people where they want to go. ( success,etc)

Sometimes it seems to me that no matter how hard you work. Or how good some say you are If you don't have that THING. You won't get over.

You can kick, scream, rehearse, perfect, and master all you want. But if you don't have that LIGHT inside of you that attracts people to you...it won't matter.

Sucks.


Nah I'm not emo today. Just sharing a fear I deal with.




Just notice there's always a few people around that seem to get by on sheer charisma and personality. Sometimes I wish....

  

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Don't fall for it. Fuck "it". Grind beats "It" everyday.
Mar 30th 2015
1
"IT" is a "who"
Mar 30th 2015
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This is true too. Can't be trying to do it on your own.
Mar 30th 2015
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      gotta have a team...
Mar 30th 2015
11
listen to those guys^^^^
Mar 30th 2015
4
there's a lid for every garbage can
Mar 30th 2015
5
seems like the 'it' you describe seems more like
Mar 30th 2015
6
I made the mistake of following Vashtie on Instagram.
Mar 30th 2015
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      RE: I made the mistake of following Vashtie on Instagram.
Mar 30th 2015
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      i can't speak on her DJing but she does work hard
Mar 30th 2015
9
      yea...no
Mar 30th 2015
13
nah... but I think you need to be honest with yourself
Mar 30th 2015
10
And what if that were true? What would that mean for you?
Mar 30th 2015
12

Buddy_Gilapagos
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Mon Mar-30-15 12:08 PM

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1. "Don't fall for it. Fuck "it". Grind beats "It" everyday. "
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Mon Mar-30-15 12:31 PM by Buddy_Gilapagos

  

          

We've been programed to believe that some people have It and all the world's doors open up for the people with it. Those are the people we celebrate most often.

But "it" is bullshit. "It" is either tremendous luck or not seeing the work people are doing in the background.

Think about a dude like Larry Wilmore. That dude has been grinding forever and just now people are getting to know his work.

grind, grind, grind. And when you are done doing that grind, grind, grind some more.

If it were easy everyone would be doing it.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

  

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LAbeathustla
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Mon Mar-30-15 12:13 PM

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2. ""IT" is a "who""
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as in who you know..you make the right connects u get "it"

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be about it or be without it

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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3. "This is true too. Can't be trying to do it on your own. "
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Mon Mar-30-15 12:17 PM by Buddy_Gilapagos

  

          

Need to be finding as many people on the right path to connect with as possible.


I read this book about the history of the business of hip-hop and the writer was surprised to discover that what Russell Simmons "does" for a living was get on the phone and just connect with as many people as possible on a daily basis. Just calls to keep in touch, see what's up and get the lead on what's poppin and gossip. His whole goal was to be in the know.



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson


"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

  

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legsdiamond
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Mon Mar-30-15 01:05 PM

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11. "gotta have a team... "
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and be willing to admit you may not be the LEADER on that team but if you are on that team.. you are in the game.

  

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SHAstayhighalways
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Mon Mar-30-15 12:19 PM

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4. "listen to those guys^^^^"
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atruhead
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5. "there's a lid for every garbage can"
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meaning, someone will be into whatever you may have to offer

now if what you're offering is more niche and less universal it may take longer to find your audience

but it all starts with getting those self-defeating thoughts out of your head

I completely lack any sort of it factor but I've made peace with that

  

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teefiveten
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Mon Mar-30-15 12:23 PM

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6. "seems like the 'it' you describe seems more like"
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a cool element
or attractiveness

which definitely helps but no one is cool forever

when i think about the kind of DJ i want to be
the kind of DJ career i want to have

the folks that come to mind are not popular
well known, yes
and they have longevity

but they aren't on anyone's "top" list or "it" list

and i'd be fine with that b/c i'm too old to be in someone's magazine. lol.

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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7. "I made the mistake of following Vashtie on Instagram. "
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I'd think I'd still like her if I only saw the occasional shot of her behind a turntable.

But seeing her post selfie's daily I am like "oh, her career is all about her being cute". SMH

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson


"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

  

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8. "RE: I made the mistake of following Vashtie on Instagram. "
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Nah..

She works her ass off.

Sure there was "right place/right time" elements.. but that is literally everyone who "makes it"

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teefiveten
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9. "i can't speak on her DJing but she does work hard"
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designing and doing film stuff. i'd actually like to see her do more film.

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MiracleRic
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13. "yea...no"
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she cute as shit...

but it's clear she out there grinding

her attractiveness definitely helps but yea...dont confuse the chicken for the egg

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legsdiamond
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10. "nah... but I think you need to be honest with yourself"
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do/ca/will you humble yourself and work with people you don't like if it means you advance in your field?

Are you willing to rub elbows and kiss ass with people you may not like to get ahead?

I think these are things people do to make it to that next level.

Can you admit that someone who is less talented works harder than you and this is the reason they are where you want to be?

I remember a friend of mine was on FB and one of our DJ's from back in the say was calling him a sell out and saying he was pimping himself and producing trash and it was something he could NEVER do. My friend was like..

"well, this is why I'm here and you are there"

  

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SuiteLady
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Mon Mar-30-15 01:06 PM

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12. "And what if that were true? What would that mean for you?"
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♥ Inescapably Me ♥

"Love is never any better than the lover" Toni Morrison (The Bluest Eye)

  

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