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"Mother ignores child's tantrum...curiosity steps in next...(WSHH LINK)"


  

          

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"how I look letting another woman take care of my son?"
Mar 25th 2015
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Real men don't have mommys, what I look like being fed?
Mar 25th 2015
10
"you breastfeeding your babies? Can you give breasts to your son?"
Mar 25th 2015
12
We live in a society of laws, I obey the laws and pay taxes.
Mar 25th 2015
13
Lord
Mar 25th 2015
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TYPICAL NEW YORKER (C) tokpr
Mar 25th 2015
3
Two wrongs make crazy.
Mar 25th 2015
4
Entitlement oozin all over that video. Let that interloper had been blac...
Mar 25th 2015
5
basically
Mar 25th 2015
18
the stranger just sat down at the table? what a dick.
Mar 25th 2015
6
i'm riding with the mom in principle, but they're both awful.
Mar 25th 2015
7
RE: i'm riding with the mom in principle, but they're both awful.
Mar 25th 2015
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unless abuse is happening....stay out of it when it comes to tantrums
Mar 25th 2015
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kids cry.
Mar 25th 2015
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      kids cry, women cry. men don't.
Mar 25th 2015
42
fuck the bitch with the crying ass kid
Mar 25th 2015
11
Sometimes you gotta let them cry.
Mar 25th 2015
14
I agree with this
Mar 25th 2015
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Yes and no. Sometimes you have to not respond at all.
Mar 25th 2015
20
if you know your child has meltdowns leave them at home
Mar 25th 2015
23
Then eat at a bar, nice restaurant, sushi place, etc
Mar 25th 2015
24
people take their kids to "nice" joints too.
Mar 25th 2015
30
      TGI Fridays isn't that nice Mr. Bubba Chuck
Mar 25th 2015
32
sometimes you have to ignore the tantrum
Mar 25th 2015
37
all that theoretical stuff
Mar 25th 2015
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      I agree.
Mar 25th 2015
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           RE: I agree.
Mar 25th 2015
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BINGO
Mar 25th 2015
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do that shit at home, not in public. Nobody wants to hear that
Mar 25th 2015
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sure, but take 'em away when you let 'em cry.
Mar 25th 2015
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      And associate the negative behavior with a positive response?
Mar 25th 2015
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           you can do all that shit at home.. but in public.
Mar 25th 2015
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           RE: you can do all that shit at home.. but in public.
Mar 25th 2015
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                many of us older folks were TRAINED how to behave in public
Mar 25th 2015
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                     And we're dysfunctional as fuck
Mar 25th 2015
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                          speak for yourself.
Mar 25th 2015
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                               Man okp is the haven for and from broken people
Mar 25th 2015
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                                    tantrums are healthy at home.
Mar 25th 2015
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                                         ^^^ I don't know why so many people can't understand this
Mar 25th 2015
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           that's not a positive response necessarily
Mar 25th 2015
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that's cool, but sitting down at the table next to the kid is a nice
Mar 25th 2015
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MySpace
Mar 25th 2015
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How do two people who can't fight start shit?
Mar 25th 2015
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She was a heavy weight though.
Mar 25th 2015
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      She was a mauler in denim for sure
Mar 25th 2015
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           She studied with Butterbean
Mar 25th 2015
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they both suck
Mar 25th 2015
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Can't call it.
Mar 25th 2015
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she shld've had more restraint, but that's a shitty position to b put in...
Mar 25th 2015
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she's still on myspace
Mar 25th 2015
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RE: Mother ignores child's tantrum...curiosity steps in next...(WSHH LIN...
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I'm totally with the mom. I felt for her too cause she was in a sea
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Mr. ManC
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1. ""how I look letting another woman take care of my son?""
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"he may as well be calling you Mommy!" #damedamedash

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10. "Real men don't have mommys, what I look like being fed?"
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#babedamedash

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12. ""you breastfeeding your babies? Can you give breasts to your son?""
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13. "We live in a society of laws, I obey the laws and pay taxes. "
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Will someone please call security that my tax dollars go to. #whitedamedash

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2. "Lord"
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Go rescue a puppy or something. Probably was trying to scheme on an extra meal. Thinking she could run them off and then eat their food.

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3. "TYPICAL NEW YORKER (C) tokpr"
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4. "Two wrongs make crazy. "
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5. "Entitlement oozin all over that video. Let that interloper had been blac..."
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Fuck them dudes on the play-by-play too.

  

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18. "basically "
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6. "the stranger just sat down at the table? what a dick."
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7. "i'm riding with the mom in principle, but they're both awful."
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9. "RE: i'm riding with the mom in principle, but they're both awful."
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word. The onlooking commentary really showed a lot too. They 1. want police for some shit that can be easily squashed unless someone wants to "go there" 2. I'm sure they would be like "where's security/the cops?" if they saw Trayvon out and walking in his neighborhood.

This dependency on police and how quick they look to run to it for protection is like the direct opposite of how most Black people deal with police.

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8. "unless abuse is happening....stay out of it when it comes to tantrums"
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and how a parent handles them....
bottom line.
if you DO decide to involve yourself...be prepared for drama.



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19. "kids cry."
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i have more of a problem with nosey bitches.

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42. "kids cry, women cry. men don't."
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can your give a woman to your child? #damedamedash

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11. "fuck the bitch with the crying ass kid"
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I HATE parents that just ignore their kid's screaming and shit.

  

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14. "Sometimes you gotta let them cry. "
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Child development states that tantrums are actually healthy up until around age four. The child's brain isn't fully developed and they're exper things that they may not have the proper knowledge to maturely express.

Ironically a slimiar thing happens during puberty.

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16. "I agree with this"
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but take the crying ass baby outside out of respect for other people.

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20. "Yes and no. Sometimes you have to not respond at all. "
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www.parenting.com/article/toddler-temper-tantrums

I don't know everything (closer to nill), and I don't have kids. But I am marrying a child psychologist so we talk and bounce back ideas against her training. All while monitoring the styles of friends with kids and having talks about them.

Children can be annoying as fuck. But that's part of the basket. I tend to excuse myself if I'm around annoying kids. Because those moments for kids are opportunities to develop that I can't take away because they're on my nerves.

The response of the parent is crucial and not allowing that growth and bond because of "public decorum" and in this case a public that's clearly against her; I can't ride with that.

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23. "if you know your child has meltdowns leave them at home"
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i dont give a shit what the books say to do. I dont want to hear others people kids throwing tantrums while I am enjoying my meal.

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24. "Then eat at a bar, nice restaurant, sushi place, etc"
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Don't go to McDonald's that has happy meals and play areas and pretend that you're the target demographic.

I can go weeks without seeing children without even trying. Probably months if I was actively trying to avoid them.

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30. "people take their kids to "nice" joints too."
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32. "TGI Fridays isn't that nice Mr. Bubba Chuck"
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37. "sometimes you have to ignore the tantrum"
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this was a classic power struggle between mom and kid.

When youre in a public place and its been going on, there are other ways you can still keep control and not ruin everyone else's dining or whatever theyre doing.


I think she had just gotten to a point where it was public and she had set her "im ignoring your tantrum" ultimatum publicly, so in that moment she couldnt bend because she wouldve felt weak in front of all the other patrons.

Been there myself. Ever had a crying ass kid on a packed train during rush hour?

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36. "all that theoretical stuff"
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Some of that goes out the door when youre in the situation


>www.parenting.com/article/toddler-temper-tantrums
>
>I don't know everything (closer to nill), and I don't have
>kids. But I am marrying a child psychologist so we talk and
>bounce back ideas against her training. All while monitoring
>the styles of friends with kids and having talks about them.
>
>Children can be annoying as fuck. But that's part of the
>basket. I tend to excuse myself if I'm around annoying kids.
>Because those moments for kids are opportunities to develop
>that I can't take away because they're on my nerves.
>
>The response of the parent is crucial and not allowing that
>growth and bond because of "public decorum" and in this case a
>public that's clearly against her; I can't ride with that.

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38. "I agree. "
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And I'm a person that finds whiny kids to be a nuisance.

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39. "RE: I agree. "
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I agree with you.

I think theres a time and place for holding your ground as a parent.
In this case I maybe woulda tried for 5 minutes max then we woulda been out.

Liek I said, from watching the video I think she just made her demands and orders public and she was embarrassed she would lose face in front of all those people if she backed down.

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48. "BINGO"
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17. "do that shit at home, not in public. Nobody wants to hear that"
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while they're trying to eat.

  

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22. "sure, but take 'em away when you let 'em cry."
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the rest of us don't need to hear that shit.


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25. "And associate the negative behavior with a positive response?"
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Might as well whoop em. And I'm the product of the belt personally. I'd just like to think about developing a child rather than reacting to one.

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28. "you can do all that shit at home.. but in public. "
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Get up, get out and do something

  

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31. "RE: you can do all that shit at home.. but in public. "
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Man come on. A small child is not a puppy or parrot. You can't just train them to behave how you want and keep them in the house until they do.

This isn't Pokemon. There's pages upon pages of behavioral science, anecdotal evidence, personal experience, and long term studies on children that counter most of this "keep your annoying children to yourself" message that's floating in this post.

And I say all this while ABHORING annoying kids, snot noses, bad parents and tantrums. So what I do, is stay the fuck away from them. Because as a free adult, I have the ability and general means not to occupy the same space as a toddler, teenagers, college kids, bros, bad bitches, bimbos, and anyone else that I don't like.

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40. "many of us older folks were TRAINED how to behave in public"
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this, of course, was when it was acceptable, if not expected, to whoop a kid's ass for acting up in public.

Yes, you can train a child to act a certain way in public settings. The problem is that the bar for what has been deemed acceptable public behavior has been almost completely obliterated leaving us with legions of parents allowing their kids to act an ass without repercussions and the rest of us have to deal with the end result of that bullshit.

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41. "And we're dysfunctional as fuck"
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I'm 31 years old and still can't cry at appropriate times. Hell I barely emote when I should. All of those switches and belts helped the behavior but not the development.

And for those of us that got popped and still came out fucked up, then what? I got cousins that were taught to behave in public and still came out shitty. So I don't buy it.

My hope is to raise my kids with those same ideals, but different tactics.

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43. "speak for yourself."
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>I'm 31 years old and still can't cry at appropriate times.
>Hell I barely emote when I should. All of those switches and
>belts helped the behavior but not the development.
>
>And for those of us that got popped and still came out fucked
>up, then what? I got cousins that were taught to behave in
>public and still came out shitty. So I don't buy it.
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>My hope is to raise my kids with those same ideals, but
>different tactics.

if YOU'RE fucked up, then that's on you; go holler at a shrink or something.

Thing is, people NOT whoopin ass or training a kid how to act in public are churning out fucked up ass kids in droves. They're turning into whiny ass fucked up adults so it appears your solution ain't working either.

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44. "Man okp is the haven for and from broken people"
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Don't even take that personal. You gotta be a bit fucked up and dysfunctional to come here and find entertainment through relation on a day to day, year to year basis.

On top of that I'm not even advocating granola parenting. What I'm saying is to take it situation by situation and assess as is. And that there are times when tantrums are healthy.

Your opinion, my opinion, or whoevers doesn't dispute the science. And there's ways to bring ideals of the past to situations of the present.

We used to do non stop push-ups before we learned about calisthenics. We used to treat illnesses with cocaine. We practiced Freudian junk science before it was throughly debunked. There's tons of things we used to do, that we learned to improve upon and parenting isn't an exclusion.

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50. "tantrums are healthy at home. "
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letting a kid throw a tantrum in public when its obviously disturbing other people isnt healthy IMO.

pick the kid up, take them outside or to another area and deal with or let them cry it out.

  

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51. "^^^ I don't know why so many people can't understand this"
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take the kid away instead of imposing that shit on the rest of us.


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35. "that's not a positive response necessarily"
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and if your parenting tactics include punishing those around you...

u might need to rethink that shit a lil bit

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26. "that's cool, but sitting down at the table next to the kid is a nice"
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way to start some other sh*t

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15. "MySpace"
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21. "How do two people who can't fight start shit?"
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27. "She was a heavy weight though. "
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29. "She was a mauler in denim for sure"
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33. "She studied with Butterbean"
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Prolly tried to taste knuckle sweat for seasoning purposes.

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34. "they both suck"
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rather than sitting down and feigning concern for the child...why not just be all the way bold and just say "can you and that crying ass baby go somewhere else?!"

i'd be less mad at that tbh bc yea...nobody wants to hear that shit...

i dunno...bc i don't care how shitty the restaurant...nobody wants to have to tolerate other people's babies/kids

lose-lose for all involved

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45. "Can't call it."
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The do-gooder lady is out of line. If you think a child is being neglected/abused in public you should call the police. Not serious enough to call the police? Then mind your own business. That serves as a good litmus test. Something would have to be REALLY wrong with the parent to warrant interference via a call to police....and that's the way it should be.

Obviously, she's condescending, patronizing, offensive, judgemental and all that.

On the other hand.....spitting and punching someone in front of your baby puts the child in danger. The only time something like that is warranted if is the child were at risk. And in this case, the child wasn't. The fact that the mother was quick to throw down makes me doubt that she was utilizing the 'let the child cry it out' technique. She's just a shitty parent and most likely is negligent. Though not necessarily in an unlawful way. Just a shitty parent.

Mom should be charged with assault though. Can't do anything to the do-gooder but she should get off her high-horse.

  

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46. "she shld've had more restraint, but that's a shitty position to b put in..."
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as a parent.

FUCK.

*watches video again*

CORRECTION. she should've had ALOT more restraint.

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47. "she's still on myspace"
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I have a 400 year old chip on my shoulder.

  

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49. "RE: Mother ignores child's tantrum...curiosity steps in next...(WSHH LIN..."
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The hell is her child sitting at a table by itself to begin with ? keep your children with you. Wall to wall foolishness in this video, get your child, sit back down at your table.. done..


  

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52. "I'm totally with the mom. I felt for her too cause she was in a sea "
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Of annoying whiteness. The guys shooting the video were racist as fuck. That looked like a mall cafeteria. Hardly fine dining. I don't agree with ignoring tantrums, especially in public but that's not a crime and its a major violation for that woman to insert herself in that personal situation. And the lady was definitely trying to egg her on a certain point. She had plenty of opportunity to leave after the baby had stopped crying.

If that Latina woman had sat down at that White woman's table with her child she woulda been indignant. The Latina should not have hit her but I get it.

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