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Buddy_Gilapagos
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"OKCreatives: Ever make a work that made someone upset?"


  

          

So I have been on a bit of a writing streak lately and as a general matter I think my best material comes from real life inspiration. I take stories that happen to me or friends, add a lot of dramatic flair and hopefully come up with something new and interesting.

It's created tension with my SO when I've written stories about old girlfriends and it actually got me into a lot of trouble once because a friend started beefing with me because he said the story I used for a short film to much resembled his relationship and cause static with him and his ex-girl. We've actually have'nt been the same since.

I've been weary of doing stuff like that since but I just heard a story from a friend that is sooo perfect for a creative work that I feel compelled to use it. I am pretty sure if my friend saw it probably would damage our friendship and might do some harm to his marriage.

I feel like if I were a committed artist I would say f the friendship and create the work.


Anyway, anyone else ever been in a position like this?


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Hey hey hey hey hey whatchu say...GET DIS MONEY....
Mar 24th 2015
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I've gotten *strangers* mad at me.
Mar 24th 2015
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do you use their names? WTF?
Mar 24th 2015
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I actually did. The thing is the dude was involved with it.
Mar 24th 2015
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      change the names, problem solved.
Mar 24th 2015
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           It was a film. couldn't do that.
Mar 24th 2015
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                what do you mean?
Mar 24th 2015
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                     yup.
Mar 24th 2015
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                          don't you think that was messy?
Mar 24th 2015
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You on that "Best Man" my dude?
Mar 24th 2015
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See as a creative, the best man always bothered me.
Mar 24th 2015
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wrote a song about my ex
Mar 24th 2015
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I drew really sexual images of one of my ex's
Mar 24th 2015
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Took similar issue with my ex
Mar 24th 2015
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      It was honestly just practice for me.
Mar 24th 2015
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my comedic reinterpretation of the bible offended some.
Mar 24th 2015
14

FLUIDJ
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Tue Mar-24-15 10:25 AM

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1. "Hey hey hey hey hey whatchu say...GET DIS MONEY...."
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Tue Mar-24-15 10:26 AM by FLUIDJ

  

          

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-oLqMwzvBY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgJ8l5KJeOI&feature=youtu.be&t=25

  

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Monkey Genius
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2. "I've gotten *strangers* mad at me."
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I've had girls ask, 'Is that supposed to be me?' and I've lied and told them no.

But I've never experienced any personal beef over anything I've ever written based on anyone.

Then again, I don't ever show anyone my shit who isn't going to come upon it by themselves.

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legsdiamond
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Tue Mar-24-15 10:29 AM

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3. "do you use their names? WTF? "
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Buddy_Gilapagos
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5. "I actually did. The thing is the dude was involved with it. "
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And he didn't beef with it, until the girl started beefing with it.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

  

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legsdiamond
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9. "change the names, problem solved. "
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Buddy_Gilapagos
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10. "It was a film. couldn't do that. "
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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson


"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

  

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dafriquan
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11. "what do you mean?"
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like the film is out already with his real name in it?


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>"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then
>they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
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>"One of the most important things in life is what Judge
>Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to
>whether you're

  

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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15. "yup. "
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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson


"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

  

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legsdiamond
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16. "don't you think that was messy? "
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Tue Mar-24-15 01:05 PM by legsdiamond

          

was it a documentary?


damn, you really are like this IRL. LOL...j/k

  

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4. "You on that "Best Man" my dude?"
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I've never had anyone get upset at anything I've created, other than my jokes which can run a little dark sometimes. I'm not a comedian tho, so it's not a big thing.

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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6. "See as a creative, the best man always bothered me. "
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Because you can have characters and stories inspired by real people and events, but a writer will add their own twist and creative elements to make it their own work.

So I could have a character based off you and your girl, but if the character based on me ends up f'ing your girl that doesn't really mean anything (and certainly doesn't mean I f'd your girl). It just means that is what the story dictated.


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dafriquan
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7. "wrote a song about my ex"
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Tue Mar-24-15 11:00 AM by dafriquan

  

          

while we were still together.
she was a bit upset but she got over it...after we broke up

you'll never be a great writer if you have to keep stopping to censor yourself
in case somebody sees a bit of themselves in it and gets their panties in a bunch

it should be common sense by now
if you hang with a writer/artist, you might find a piece of you or your life in their work
where do they think we get the good stuff from?


your mistake is sharing it with them in advance
when the time comes, just send 'em in an invite to sundance

p.s. come to think of it. when i used to write more, i had some unflattering stuff about my family in there. they were a bit amused or mildly irritated but never requested that i pull it. maybe because it was clear within that work that there was alot of love there. so i would say just shoot for a "fair and balanced" portrayal. if a friend genuinely has no redeeming features...well you shouldn't be hanging out with straight up villains anyway.




  

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initiationofplato
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Tue Mar-24-15 10:58 AM

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8. "I drew really sexual images of one of my ex's"
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We were studying the human form with gesture drawings in studio. I drew her sitting in a puddle of water naked, diving into a swimming pool, etc. I was fully intending of submitting them as I thought they were excellent.

She was livid. Had me tear those shits out and tear them up immediately.

~Experience is the currency of the soul.

  

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Sepia.
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Tue Mar-24-15 11:50 AM

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12. "Took similar issue with my ex"
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but I didn't make him destroy them or anything.

I just wanted to know why I was always naked when I never posed naked for him.

  

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initiationofplato
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13. "It was honestly just practice for me."
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I wasn't trying to be cheeky or anything, no pun intended.

~Experience is the currency of the soul.

  

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Joe Corn Mo
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Tue Mar-24-15 12:41 PM

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14. "my comedic reinterpretation of the bible offended some. "
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my sister said it was good writing,
but said it wae blasphemy.

i corrected her, noting that technically,
it was heresy.

she said that didn't make it better.

  

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