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Subject: "eva mendes says sweats are the #1 cause of divorce in america"

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Binlahab
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"eva mendes says sweats are the #1 cause of divorce in america"

http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/eva-mendes-calls-sweatpants-number-divorce/story?id=29750363

....

this CLEARLY illustrates the difference between white people and Black people because aint much sexier than a big booty gal in some sweats (if you have access to her vagina)

walking around the kitchen with that thang on sway?! *bites knuckle*

my caucasians, however, apparently think this is HELLA unsexy.

weird.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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Subject	Author	Message Date	ID
I read this 5x trying to make it mean something different...	Brew	Mar 20th 2015	1
lol...something can happen where the baby won't sleep and therefore	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	3
Haha ah - OK. It was just written/said terribly.	Brew	Mar 20th 2015	11
bleh...i can think of plenty things more sexy than sweats.	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	2
no shit, genius. but if your gal is IN sweats...is that a turn off to yo...	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	6
if my wife is in sweats, it means we are not having sex tonight	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	14
i honestly did not know that. im not being funny here.	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	16
yeah, i saw that you posted that below.	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	20
Sweats are the American Red Tent	T Reynolds	Mar 20th 2015	21
lol this too.	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	24
i've heard this too.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	34
RE: i honestly did not know that.	KiloMcG	Mar 20th 2015	41
nah in our drawls.	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	44
we letting the womenfolk assemble our furniture now fam?	T Reynolds	Mar 20th 2015	54
she like that type of thing and if it gets assembled wrong, she only mad	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	57
this is why she is in sweats fam	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	60
i already said that in post 44.	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	62
smart man	T Reynolds	Mar 20th 2015	64
whut?	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	19
if my wife putting on sweats before bedtime, she either bout to do some	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	22
true for bedtime...	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	39
she ain't caucasian	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	4
#minuswell be....thats who shes appealing to SOOO	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	9
oh you ain't see training day I see	T Reynolds	Mar 20th 2015	13
That was a movie, son.	spades	Mar 20th 2015	72
honestly	lfresh	Mar 20th 2015	55
Why are people pretending that they think she's serious?	Monkey Genius	Mar 20th 2015	5
apparently when women wear sweats it means there will be no sex	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	7
She stole that joke from Knocked Up.	Monkey Genius	Mar 20th 2015	8
again...difference in culture here.	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	10
haha smh	KiloMcG	Mar 20th 2015	12
http://i.imgur.com/kamV6Im.jpg	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	18
What's blacker than single motherhood?	Monkey Genius	Mar 20th 2015	66
lol i thought it was from Extract	Mynoriti	Mar 20th 2015	108
Shit, it might be Extract.	Monkey Genius	Mar 20th 2015	111
She's saying that if you want to keep your man, put that work in	8-bit	Mar 20th 2015	15
but sweats are hot tho. literally & figuratively.	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	17
depends on the sweats too tho. its some raggedy ass sweats	mikediggz	Mar 20th 2015	23
First comes the sweatpants. Next the white Tee. Then the silk scarf...	8-bit	Mar 20th 2015	27
it ain't just the sweats.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	28
when my dick starts to care about all this, it might be time to get a ne...	placee_22	Mar 20th 2015	30
just keep living.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	31
hey man, I signed up for the lifetime membership.	placee_22	Mar 20th 2015	32
right on.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	33
these new cats is scared of the power U fam	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	43
I think it's more the difference of options between marrieds & unmarried	8-bit	Mar 20th 2015	61
no	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	89
heres the issues i need your opinion on:	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	40
feel free to keep up this act, player.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	91
Slobs tolerate slobs, so if you like sweatpants, it's telling...	stattic	Mar 20th 2015	25
lol damn	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	26
^^^^^wears a tux to cook hamburger helper in	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	36
Never had hamburger helper, is that the sweatpants of food?	stattic	Mar 20th 2015	45
please take your lying ass elsewhere	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	50
Whatever you say, Chef Boyardee	stattic	Mar 20th 2015	53
I'm definitely stealing "the sweatpants of food"	KosherSam	Mar 20th 2015	59
yeah that was good	KiloMcG	Mar 20th 2015	74
It was a solid funny	dafriquan	Mar 20th 2015	75
It's the Reply Of The Week.	Numba_33	Mar 20th 2015	105
I think we need to clear up what kind of sweats Bin is talking about	placee_22	Mar 20th 2015	29
these new cats are the reason women scooping up women	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	42
No, you really don't.	stattic	Mar 20th 2015	47
Binlahab waiting for velour sweatsuits to make a comeback	Amritsar	Mar 20th 2015	35
its coming, player! the 90s revival is in full swing	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	37
Man, have you tried to buy some sweats recently?	Fishgrease	Mar 20th 2015	38
fuck these joggers man	LES	Mar 20th 2015	76
write a thinkpiece about it	Government Name	Mar 20th 2015	46
Eva fine as hell. that's my crush right there	teefiveten	Mar 20th 2015	48
I also think there's a difference between a chick you've never seen nake...	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	49
smh. i hope i still find my wife hot in sweats.	Binlahab	Mar 20th 2015	52
Relationship Expert Eva Mendes or Sociologist Eva Mendes?	B9	Mar 20th 2015
I swear older latinas have the worst relationship related theories/adage...	micMajestic	Mar 20th 2015	51
pretty much	lfresh	Mar 20th 2015	56
she got that crazy eye in that pic too	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	58
She's lunchin sweatpants and wife beaters wit no bra on is sexy as hell	Kim Jong Trill	Mar 20th 2015	63
amen amen amen.	Monkey Genius	Mar 20th 2015	67
i have a divorced cousin who used to wear sweats all the time	NikaMandela	Mar 20th 2015	65
i'm sure that woulda saved the marriage.	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	68
lol	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	69
Iont even know if Eva is married yet but if so...	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	70
hahahah	initiationofplato	Mar 20th 2015	90
its the mentality that goes with it	NikaMandela	Mar 20th 2015	97
exactly.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	98
exactly...why are people acting like they don't get this?	Dstl1	Mar 20th 2015	107
because chilling around the house in sweats is NORMAL	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	112
my god.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	114
good lord	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	122
that's what her point is.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	124
no, no, nooooo	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	117
it is NOT about the fucking sweats.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	121
sure bro, it means all that because you said it does... you so smart	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	123
$ kills more marriages than anything else.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	125
nigga	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	127
we agree.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	129
WOW,	spades	Mar 21st 2015	145
She fucked the game up by not breaking the monotony	Kim Jong Trill	Mar 20th 2015	71
depends on the sweats, nothing is sexy about those Russel type sweats	Binladen	Mar 20th 2015	73
word cause these shits are way better right:	T Reynolds	Mar 20th 2015	77
All that outfit is missing is a pack of Newports & knockoff handbag	8-bit	Mar 20th 2015	80
and a headscarf	double negative	Mar 20th 2015	110
men have a lot less maintenance than women	GirlChild	Mar 20th 2015	78
but of course we still have to roll outta bed like IWOKEUPLIKEDIS	BabySoulRebel	Mar 20th 2015	95
POLK HIGH! 4 TDs IN ONE GAME!!!	Riot	Mar 20th 2015	106
RE: eva mendes says sweats are the #1 cause of divorce in america	Tiggerific	Mar 20th 2015	79
Men be looking sexy in sweats too, and yes girls with big booties look	blkprinceMD05	Mar 20th 2015	81
3 second violation - get out the post	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	82
lol	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	85
Reply makes u uncomfy huh	blkprinceMD05	Mar 20th 2015	92
laugh at my joke nigga	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	99
Sweats mean one or both of us are commando	JFrost1117	Mar 20th 2015	83
yoga pants ftw	janey	Mar 20th 2015	84
I'm wearing sweats and a husband-beater right now about to go home	Phenomenality	Mar 20th 2015	86
you know what she's talking about too.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	93
RE: you know what she's talking about too.	double 0	Mar 20th 2015	94
lol	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	96
u stupid	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	100
Stop making sense!!!	J_Stew	Mar 20th 2015	109
blk couple version of this is the headscarf/bonnet	Riot	Mar 20th 2015	87
^^^TRUTH^^^	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	88
Basically	RexLongfellow	Mar 20th 2015	101
RE: Basically	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	103
Ugh. That Southern belle crap.	Sepia.	Mar 20th 2015	113
do you ever do or wear something your man finds sexy?	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	116
you might want to back down off	lfresh	Mar 20th 2015	118
?	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	120
I'd still be really easy on this topic	lfresh	Mar 20th 2015	131
only to idiots.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	133
Be easy on yourself then lol	lfresh	Mar 20th 2015	139
i'm fine w/that.	SoWhat	Mar 21st 2015	142
exactly...	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	126
no, i am not.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	128
Agreed	lfresh	Mar 20th 2015	132
ppl get divorced like this.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	134
ole "dress like you love me or I'm leaving you" ass nigga	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	136
I sure would want out.	SoWhat	Mar 20th 2015	137
Oh you've made that more than clear	lfresh	Mar 20th 2015	140
lol	SoWhat	Mar 21st 2015	144
yup	legsdiamond	Mar 20th 2015	135
Yes, but the difference	Sepia.	Mar 20th 2015	138
Yeah you know she didnt	lfresh	Mar 20th 2015	141
RE: Yes, but the difference	SoWhat	Mar 21st 2015	143
Pretty much	lfresh	Mar 20th 2015	119
Why did I read that as SWEETS	Deacon Blues	Mar 20th 2015	102
safe to say bin's perspective is the same.	Cenario	Mar 20th 2015	104
them baggy sweats have never been sexy. she right.	BrooklynWHAT	Mar 20th 2015	115
I guess Ryan Gosling's pimp hand is strong	gumz	Mar 20th 2015	130
lol... she is older than him, latina and just had a baby.	legsdiamond	Mar 21st 2015	146

Brew
Member since Nov 23rd 2002
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:24 AM

1. "I read this 5x trying to make it mean something different..."
In response to Reply # 0
Fri Mar-20-15 08:24 AM by Brew

Someone please help me understand what it is that is going over my head.

"Mendes, 41, said that her her daughter with actor Ryan Gosling has begun sleeping through the night, though "something random can happen," and that they will be shot."

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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:27 AM

3. "lol...something can happen where the baby won't sleep and therefore"
In response to Reply # 1

they didnt' sleep through the night either, and therefore will be
shot/tired in the morning

either that or its a warning to intruders tryna break in the crib

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Brew
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:38 AM

11. "Haha ah - OK. It was just written/said terribly."
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I was sitting here in awe like, what the fuck is she talking about?!?

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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:24 AM

2. "bleh...i can think of plenty things more sexy than sweats."
In response to Reply # 0

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:29 AM

6. "no shit, genius. but if your gal is IN sweats...is that a turn off to yo..."
In response to Reply # 2

to the point where if she wears em enough you'd be like gee...i dont want to have sex w/ this one anymore & put her on waivers?

no.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:46 AM

14. "if my wife is in sweats, it means we are not having sex tonight "
In response to Reply # 6

regardless of what i want to do.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:51 AM

16. "i honestly did not know that. im not being funny here."
In response to Reply # 14

i did not know this unspoken rule between men and women.

really shocking.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:55 AM

20. "yeah, i saw that you posted that below."
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I mean its not a hard and fast rule, but alot of women wearing sweats to be comfortable. Even if you think she look sexy in sweats, she not putting them on bc she thinking about you. Don't mean you def ain't getting none, but you might wanna get her glass of wine first no cosby-o

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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T Reynolds
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:58 AM

21. "Sweats are the American Red Tent"
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means menstruation time.

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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:59 AM

24. "lol this too."
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:18 AM

34. "i've heard this too."
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fuck you.

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KiloMcG
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:27 AM

41. "RE: i honestly did not know that."
In response to Reply # 16

nor did I. shit, we both put on sweats pretty much the minute we get home. i have a uniform that i'd be wearing probably 9/10 anyone ever sees me at home. we like being comfortable.

i mean, are people lounging around the house still fully clothed? like in jeans/slacks, a skirt/dress or whatever you wore to work?

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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:32 AM

44. "nah in our drawls. "
In response to Reply # 41

If i'm doing something in the house, then i'll probably have on bball shorts and she will likely have on some around the house shorts or tights or sweats. The sweats just mean she ain't thinking bout me or she bout to put together a bookcase.

>
>i mean, are people lounging around the house still fully
>clothed? like in jeans/slacks, a skirt/dress or whatever you
>wore to work?

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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T Reynolds
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:58 AM

54. "we letting the womenfolk assemble our furniture now fam?"
In response to Reply # 44

>The sweats just mean she
>ain't thinking bout me or she bout to put together a
>bookcase.

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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:00 AM

57. "she like that type of thing and if it gets assembled wrong, she only mad"
In response to Reply # 54

at herself.

It works for her, so it works for me.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:02 AM

60. "this is why she is in sweats fam"
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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:04 AM

62. "i already said that in post 44. "
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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T Reynolds
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:20 AM

64. "smart man"
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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:55 AM

19. "whut? "
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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:59 AM

22. "if my wife putting on sweats before bedtime, she either bout to do some"
In response to Reply # 19

housework, read a book or someone bout to stop by the house.

If she putting on sweats and getting in the bed, then she don't want me to keep her warm

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:25 AM

39. "true for bedtime..."
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but if she comes home and puts them on and walks around the house...

I still got a shot.

they slide off easy too...

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:27 AM

4. "she ain't caucasian"
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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:31 AM

9. "#minuswell be....thats who shes appealing to SOOO"
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ryan gosling obviously told her hes not feeling her in sweats or she got it from SOMEwhere sooo

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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T Reynolds
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:45 AM

13. "oh you ain't see training day I see"
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spades
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:38 AM

72. "That was a movie, son."
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lfresh
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:58 AM

55. "honestly"
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>ryan gosling obviously told her hes not feeling her in sweats
>or she got it from SOMEwhere sooo

i wouldn't blame ryan
women we take on our own shakles when it comes to these things
and ryan seems laid back
nothing about him seems of feels like he cares that intensely about appearance

and she's latina to boot
its like being a southern black woman
appearance is EVERYTHING
i'd blame her upbringing and heritage and gender a lot faster in this case

and you know i'm waiting to blame men for shit
#misogyny
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Monkey Genius
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:29 AM

5. "Why are people pretending that they think she's serious?"
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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:30 AM

7. "apparently when women wear sweats it means there will be no sex"
In response to Reply # 5

i honestly didnt know that.

so i think this is a multifaceted thing here

not just a straight forward wear sweats, get divorced thing

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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Monkey Genius
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:31 AM

8. "She stole that joke from Knocked Up."
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:32 AM by Monkey Genius

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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:32 AM

10. "again...difference in culture here."
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you watch shit like knocked up.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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KiloMcG
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:42 AM

12. "haha smh"
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:53 AM

18. "http://i.imgur.com/kamV6Im.jpg"
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http://i.imgur.com/kamV6Im.jpg

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Monkey Genius
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:24 AM

66. "What's blacker than single motherhood?"
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Fri Mar-20-15 02:26 PM

108. "lol i thought it was from Extract"
In response to Reply # 8

the had the thing where if Bateman doesn't get home before wifey puts them on, its a wrap.

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Monkey Genius
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:10 PM

111. "Shit, it might be Extract."
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I'm confusing my Leslie Manns with my Kristen Wiigs.

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Fri Mar-20-15 08:47 AM

15. "She's saying that if you want to keep your man, put that work in"
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:49 AM by 8-bit

Sweatpants = some lazy shit.

It's a joke, but it's some real shit. There are a lot of comfortable "around the house" -type clothes that still look good on someone. And there are a lot of single folks rocking raggedy shit around the crib wondering why they can't stay someone's #1.

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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:53 AM

17. "but sweats are hot tho. literally & figuratively."
In response to Reply # 15

obviously is shes laying down IN the sweats...thats one thing.

but if shes just walking around in sweats...? ass jiggling?! cmon.

must be just me

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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mikediggz
Member since Dec 02nd 2003
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:59 AM

23. "depends on the sweats too tho. its some raggedy ass sweats"
In response to Reply # 17

out there bro.

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8-bit
Member since Jan 12th 2010
10841 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 09:05 AM

27. "First comes the sweatpants. Next the white Tee. Then the silk scarf..."
In response to Reply # 17

Nah, man. I tried, but I just don't see anything sexy about these:

https://www.google.com/search?q=black+woman+sweatpants&es_sm=93&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=QigMVcylG8LZsATF6oGwCw&ved=0CAgQ_AUoAg&biw=1366&bih=677

Maybe if I'm watching her jog in front of me at the track all sweaty, but not in the crib at bedtime.

Search "lingerie" under google images (if you can at the gig) and feel the drastic difference in how you respond biologically, lol.

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:06 AM

28. "it ain't just the sweats."
In response to Reply # 17
Fri Mar-20-15 09:06 AM by SoWhat

along w/the sweats comes hair that's not done, teeth that aren't brushed, ass that's unwashed, legs unshaved, et al.

it's the lack of maintenance. that's the issue. the failure to keep up one's appearance in an effort to be physically attractive to one's spouse.

but you're only acting brand new. you know exactly what she's saying and are trying to make a funny about white ppl like THIS v black ppl like THAT. we see it.

go on.

fuck you.

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placee_22
Member since Sep 30th 2002
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:11 AM

30. "when my dick starts to care about all this, it might be time to get a ne..."
In response to Reply # 28

>along w/the sweats comes hair that's not done, teeth that
>aren't brushed, ass that's unwashed, legs unshaved, et al.
>
>it's the lack of maintenance. that's the issue. the failure
>to keep up one's appearance in an effort to be physically
>attractive to one's spouse.
>

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:12 AM

31. "just keep living."
In response to Reply # 30

fuck you.

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placee_22
Member since Sep 30th 2002
12956 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 09:16 AM

32. "hey man, I signed up for the lifetime membership. "
In response to Reply # 31

some days you just gotta take it as is. I'm good w/ that.

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:17 AM

33. "right on."
In response to Reply # 32

fuck you.

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:32 AM

43. "these new cats is scared of the power U fam"
In response to Reply # 32

making up excuses to run for the hills.

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8-bit
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:03 AM

61. "I think it's more the difference of options between marrieds & unmarried"
In response to Reply # 43

Married dudes are kinda stuck with that. Men that aren't married have a little more leverage about these things.

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:29 PM

89. "no"
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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:26 AM

40. "heres the issues i need your opinion on:"
In response to Reply # 28

disco
house
the inherent cornballness of chicago as a city
beating ones kids

everything else?

youre dismissed

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:33 PM

91. "feel free to keep up this act, player."
In response to Reply # 40

b/c i KNOW you are not this dense. you are just pretending for lulz.

if you are actually this stupid i'm shocked you can put your shoes on the correct feet. and you can so i know you're not as dumb as you pretend to be in the OP. you want the lulz. i see it.

fuck you.

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stattic
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:01 AM

25. "Slobs tolerate slobs, so if you like sweatpants, it's telling..."
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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:03 AM

26. "lol damn"
In response to Reply # 25

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:21 AM

36. "^^^^^wears a tux to cook hamburger helper in"
In response to Reply # 25

hoe sit down

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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stattic
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:35 AM

45. "Never had hamburger helper, is that the sweatpants of food?"
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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:44 AM

50. "please take your lying ass elsewhere"
In response to Reply # 45

you never had hamburger helper, sir?! GO AWAY ROGER

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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stattic
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:55 AM

53. "Whatever you say, Chef Boyardee"
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KosherSam
Member since Mar 18th 2004
70132 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 10:02 AM

59. "I'm definitely stealing "the sweatpants of food""
In response to Reply # 45

*Jews you*

"this is okp tho, reading is completely optional" (c) desus

Proceed with caution. I am overtly racist.

<-- In Pigpen we trust

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KiloMcG
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27561 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 10:56 AM

74. "yeah that was good"
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dafriquan
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:59 AM

75. "It was a solid funny"
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Numba_33
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Fri Mar-20-15 02:05 PM

105. "It's the Reply Of The Week."
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placee_22
Member since Sep 30th 2002
12956 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 09:07 AM

29. "I think we need to clear up what kind of sweats Bin is talking about"
In response to Reply # 0
Fri Mar-20-15 09:17 AM by placee_22

because I think they're way different than what everyone else is thinking.

I feel you tho, Bin.

I don't know these new cats or how they think.

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
79586 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 09:29 AM

42. "these new cats are the reason women scooping up women"
In response to Reply # 29

in record numbers...

niggas so quick to give up on the quest for ass...

ole "tap out before the bell rings" ass niggas

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stattic
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:38 AM

47. "No, you really don't. "
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Amritsar
Member since Jan 18th 2008
32093 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 09:19 AM

35. "Binlahab waiting for velour sweatsuits to make a comeback"
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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:23 AM

37. "its coming, player! the 90s revival is in full swing"
In response to Reply # 35

only a matter of time before its 00s turn & thats when ALLL these damn mitchell & ness jerseys are gonna help pay for my kids college

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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Fishgrease
Member since Feb 13th 2006
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:24 AM

38. "Man, have you tried to buy some sweats recently? "
In response to Reply # 0

all them sh*ts is cut like stirrups with the straps cut off.

They're like male yoga pants and sh*t. sweat pants should be loose and baggy but naw, they cut like leotards and hammerpants.

All that is fine for women...but as a man, i need nut breavin room.

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LES
Member since Oct 17th 2006
4533 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 11:12 AM

76. "fuck these joggers man"
In response to Reply # 38

too tall and skinny for that crap

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Government Name
Member since Dec 16th 2005
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:36 AM

46. "write a thinkpiece about it"
In response to Reply # 0

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teefiveten
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:41 AM

48. "Eva fine as hell. that's my crush right there"
In response to Reply # 0

*************************************
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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:43 AM

49. "I also think there's a difference between a chick you've never seen nake..."
In response to Reply # 0

or been with for a little while in sweatpants (or anything) and your wife of X amount of years in sweats.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Binlahab
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:45 AM

52. "smh. i hope i still find my wife hot in sweats."
In response to Reply # 49

thats sad.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

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B9
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:44 AM

"Relationship Expert Eva Mendes or Sociologist Eva Mendes? "

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micMajestic
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:44 AM

51. "I swear older latinas have the worst relationship related theories/adage..."
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lfresh
Member since Jun 18th 2002
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:59 AM

56. "pretty much"
In response to Reply # 51

so much internalized crap
~~~~
When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
~~~~
You cannot hate people for their own good.

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
79586 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 10:01 AM

58. "she got that crazy eye in that pic too"
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Kim Jong Trill
Member since Jan 31st 2012
548 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 10:10 AM

63. "She's lunchin sweatpants and wife beaters wit no bra on is sexy as hell"
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Monkey Genius
Member since Mar 04th 2005
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:27 AM

67. "amen amen amen."
In response to Reply # 63

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NikaMandela
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:23 AM

65. "i have a divorced cousin who used to wear sweats all the time"
In response to Reply # 0

in front of her hubby.

and it was not sexy. it was basically baggy sweats and a t-shirt everyday. even walking outside in that with a baseball cap on.

i think leggings and a camisol are a better idea.

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:31 AM

68. "i'm sure that woulda saved the marriage. "
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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:32 AM

69. "lol"
In response to Reply # 68

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:36 AM

70. "Iont even know if Eva is married yet but if so..."
In response to Reply # 69

she will be divorced in a year or 2 so take that advice with a grain of salt.

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initiationofplato
Member since Nov 06th 2013
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:30 PM

90. "hahahah"
In response to Reply # 68

~Experience is the currency of the soul.

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NikaMandela
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:50 PM

97. "its the mentality that goes with it"
In response to Reply # 68

its not just the sweats.

its the same mentality of a woman who cares more about *getting* married than maintaining an actual marriage.

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SoWhat
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154163 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 01:03 PM

98. "exactly."
In response to Reply # 97

fuck you.

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Dstl1
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Fri Mar-20-15 02:25 PM

107. "exactly...why are people acting like they don't get this?"
In response to Reply # 97
Fri Mar-20-15 02:25 PM by Dstl1

...I'm from the era when A.I. was the answer, now they think ai is the answer - Marlon Craft

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:26 PM

112. "because chilling around the house in sweats is NORMAL "
In response to Reply # 107

how many of yall cosigning this shit actually live with an SO?

Sweats and busted gear out in public.. sure, I get it. However, most people in here are talking about sweats around the house.

No one is a long term relationship is prancing around trying to keep it cute all the time.

That is a myth, a lie, a unicorn.

I'm all for keeping it intetesting and sexy but real relationships last when you chill the fuck out and stop acting like your mate needs to impress you at all times.

Maybe I'm jaded but it seems like people who have these rules are usually super single.

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:30 PM

114. "my god."
In response to Reply # 112

>how many of yall cosigning this shit actually live with an
>SO?

i do.

and her point is well taken - relationships can become strained when folks stop trying to be attractive for each other.

stop focusing on the sweats. it's not about the sweats. it's about the spouses remembering the importance of seduction.

her point w/the sweats was simple - many women wear them b/c they're comfortable w/o any thought about how attractive they appear. when married women stop thinking about trying to be sexy for their spouse it can create trouble. or it's a sign of existing trouble.

that's it. that's all she's saying, i think.

fuck you.

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:03 PM

122. "good lord"
In response to Reply # 114

>>how many of yall cosigning this shit actually live with an
>>SO?
>
>i do.
>
>and her point is well taken - relationships can become
>strained when folks stop trying to be attractive for each
>other.
>
>stop focusing on the sweats. it's not about the sweats. it's
>about the spouses remembering the importance of seduction.
>
>her point w/the sweats was simple - many women wear them b/c
>they're comfortable w/o any thought about how attractive they
>appear. when married women stop thinking about trying to be
>sexy for their spouse it can create trouble. or it's a sign
>of existing trouble.
>
>that's it. that's all she's saying, i think.
>

Nah...I think this is what YOU are saying, lol

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:14 PM

124. "that's what her point is."
In response to Reply # 122
Fri Mar-20-15 08:33 PM by SoWhat

it's key that she brought this up in the context of being a mom. b/c it's easy for marrieds w/children to put so much focus on the kids that they take each other for granted. her larger point is that it's dangerous for spouses to take each other for granted. in her world that sort of taking for granted is manifested in wearing sweats. in your world it takes some other form.

if you are actually married or if you've spent enough quality time around married ppl to develop some insight into their world then you should understand where she's coming from fairly easily.

of course, if you're more interested in a 'gotcha!' thing it's also pretty easy to take her statement out of context or to exaggerate the statement to serve some point she wasn't making.

she went wrong where she extrapolated som'n specific she does to make HER man happy and projected that on all wives. b/c plenty wives have spouses who don't mind them wearing comfy clothes around the house and some are even turned on by that. but her main point was uncontroversial - it's important to remember do those things that make your spouse happy. marriages get in trouble when spouses get so focused on kids or something(s) else that they stop doing those things that make their spouse happy. when they take for granted that they can keep the spouse w/o doing those specific things they know their spouse likes.

fuck you.

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:51 PM

117. "no, no, nooooo"
In response to Reply # 97

the mentality of sweats has NEVER killed a marriage.

Sometimes, yall want to chill in some bummy shit and so do we.

Excuse my french but not fucking or sucking WITH LOVE kills marriages.

Yall kill me with these bogus excuses for why marriages don't last.

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:59 PM

121. "it is NOT about the fucking sweats."
In response to Reply # 117

it is about spouses doing __ to seduce each other.

period.

you ain't too far gone to know that.

if you absolutely love it when your wife wears men's t-shirts and she used to wear them often before y'all got married and for the first few yrs of your marriage she wore them sometimes but less frequently and then she stops wearing them even though she knows wearing them turns you on...that can create a problem. or it can be a sign of a problem.

the point isn't any deeper than that.

fuck you.

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:07 PM

123. "sure bro, it means all that because you said it does... you so smart"
In response to Reply # 121
Fri Mar-20-15 08:10 PM by legsdiamond

I said its not about the sweats...

I said not fucking or sucking with love is what really kills marriages but keep typing.

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:16 PM

125. "$ kills more marriages than anything else."
In response to Reply # 123
Fri Mar-20-15 08:16 PM by SoWhat

and i am smarter than you so you should definitely keep reading and learning.

fuck you.

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:27 PM

127. "nigga"
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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:29 PM

129. "we agree."
In response to Reply # 127

i'm smarter and better looking than you. it's cool.

fuck you.

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spades
Member since Mar 22nd 2006
44258 posts

Sat Mar-21-15 10:05 AM

145. "WOW, "
In response to Reply # 97

You nailed it. I do feel like we HAVE to say, that's more about correlation than causation.

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Kim Jong Trill
Member since Jan 31st 2012
548 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 10:38 AM

71. "She fucked the game up by not breaking the monotony "
In response to Reply # 65

even walking outside in that with a baseball
>cap on.
>
>i think leggings and a camisol are a better idea.

Fuck your fort!

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Binladen
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:50 AM

73. "depends on the sweats, nothing is sexy about those Russel type sweats"
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T Reynolds
Member since Apr 16th 2007
42760 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 11:16 AM

77. "word cause these shits are way better right:"
In response to Reply # 73

http://media.tumblr.com/2e5ce5ef7d09e7da7ae72f245050ebb9/tumblr_inline_mumthwqI5j1r4gjsq.jpg

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8-bit
Member since Jan 12th 2010
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Fri Mar-20-15 11:21 AM

80. "All that outfit is missing is a pack of Newports & knockoff handbag"
In response to Reply # 77

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Member since Dec 14th 2007
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Fri Mar-20-15 06:23 PM

110. "and a headscarf "
In response to Reply # 80

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GirlChild
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56000 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 11:18 AM

78. "men have a lot less maintenance than women"
In response to Reply # 0

upkeep is costly for us, and i'm not even talking about getting hair/nails done, etc.

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BabySoulRebel
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:39 PM

95. "but of course we still have to roll outta bed like IWOKEUPLIKEDIS"
In response to Reply # 78

and of course on our own dime too
nevermind we gotta deal with our SOs in ratty ass school shirts/sweaters and ripped up basketball shorts.

here for dis.

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Riot
Member since May 25th 2005
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Fri Mar-20-15 02:08 PM

106. "POLK HIGH! 4 TDs IN ONE GAME!!!"
In response to Reply # 95

RESPECT IT!

)))--####---###--(((

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<-.-> ^_^ \^0^/
get busy living, or get busy dying.

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Tiggerific
Member since May 24th 2007
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Fri Mar-20-15 11:18 AM

79. "RE: eva mendes says sweats are the #1 cause of divorce in america"
In response to Reply # 0

Maybe its because my hubby and I are such gym nuts that this rule does not apply in our home. I'm always in workout clothes. So, that is no indicator that the hubby isn't going get any.

The indicator is if the munchkin is in the bed with us.

LOL!

"We don't make mistakes, we just have happy little accidents" - Bob Ross

"I'm wearing a MSU Tshirt because I went to MSU, you are wearing a UM Tshirt because you went to Walmart!" -unknown.

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blkprinceMD05
Member since Nov 29th 2004
41323 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 11:23 AM

81. "Men be looking sexy in sweats too, and yes girls with big booties look"
In response to Reply # 0

Great in sweats

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
79586 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 11:30 AM

82. "3 second violation - get out the post"
In response to Reply # 81
Fri Mar-20-15 11:30 AM by legsdiamond

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Cenario
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Fri Mar-20-15 11:49 AM

85. "lol"
In response to Reply # 82

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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blkprinceMD05
Member since Nov 29th 2004
41323 posts

Fri Mar-20-15 12:35 PM

92. "Reply makes u uncomfy huh"
In response to Reply # 82

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 01:11 PM

99. "laugh at my joke nigga"
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Fri Mar-20-15 01:13 PM by legsdiamond

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JFrost1117
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Fri Mar-20-15 11:31 AM

83. "Sweats mean one or both of us are commando"
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Offering easy access for shit to pop off.

It's meant that for me since high school.

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Fri Mar-20-15 11:40 AM

84. "yoga pants ftw"
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anyway, who wears sweats now that we have jeggings? Jeggings to me are like polyester stretch pants for my mom.

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Fri Mar-20-15 11:52 AM

86. "I'm wearing sweats and a husband-beater right now about to go home"
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and fuck the shit outta my man..

this article does not compute.

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:37 PM

93. "you know what she's talking about too."
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:38 PM by SoWhat

she's talking about what happens when spouses stop trying to make themselves attractive for each other. when they give up. when they start taking each other for granted - at least when it comes to the physical aspects.

it communicates something to your spouse when you stop trying to seduce them. when you don't give a shit about being sexy for your mate. it says a lot. it hurts.

fuck you.

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double 0
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:39 PM

94. "RE: you know what she's talking about too."
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ha ha.. this 'Murica son!! you know you can't use logic and reason..

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:40 PM

96. "lol"
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fuck you.

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 01:14 PM

100. "u stupid"
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J_Stew
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Fri Mar-20-15 06:11 PM

109. "Stop making sense!!!"
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Riot
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Fri Mar-20-15 11:56 AM

87. "blk couple version of this is the headscarf/bonnet"
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sweats aint causing no problems

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 12:29 PM

88. "^^^TRUTH^^^"
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RexLongfellow
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Fri Mar-20-15 01:14 PM

101. "Basically"
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Sweats are welcomed in my house. My wife has a phatty, so the sweats just accentuate it. She puts it on with nothing under most times...sheeeiittt

The headscarf though...that means she's done for the day with EVERYBODY (doesn't bother me one way or the other)

It's cool to want to look good/great for your SO. It's better (imo) when you don't have to try and your SO still can't keep their hands off you. If you think you look your worst and your SO is still very much attracted to you, you've won at life

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 01:19 PM

103. "RE: Basically"
In response to Reply # 101

>The headscarf though...that means she's done for the day with
>EVERYBODY (doesn't bother me one way or the other)
>

This is hilarious ^^^

>It's cool to want to look good/great for your SO. It's better
>(imo) when you don't have to try and your SO still can't keep
>their hands off you. If you think you look your worst and your
>SO is still very much attracted to you, you've won at life
>

I think a lot of people have a dating mentality when discussing this. All it means is she is in the house relaxing...

A coworker told me she goes home and puts heels on to walk around the house. She old school and from Mississippi... oh, and her husbands a preacher.

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Sepia.
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:28 PM

113. "Ugh. That Southern belle crap. "
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>A coworker told me she goes home and puts heels on to walk
>around the house. She old school and from Mississippi... oh,
>and her husbands a preacher.

*wearing old carpenter shorts and a tank under a hoodie, and so what*

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:33 PM

116. "do you ever do or wear something your man finds sexy?"
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:34 PM by SoWhat

you know what turns him on. do you ever do that thing or those things that turn him on b/c you want to seduce him?

b/c homegirl's point is about the danger of spouses neglecting to do things to seduce their mate.

that's what she means when she says 'sweats'.

fuck you.

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lfresh
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:51 PM

118. "you might want to back down off"
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The "look good for someone else" thing

It's a major issue
And women do it to themselves enough

As long as folks are hygienic
The rest?
For the birds
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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:56 PM

120. "?"
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spouses can run into trouble when they're no longer willing to seduce each other.

what that looks like will vary wildly, of course.

fuck you.

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lfresh
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:41 PM

131. "I'd still be really easy on this topic"
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It's coming across as supporting what sepia called "that southern belle crap"
And even your clarification still sounds too close to you have to please your partner sexually and visually
Women have already internalized that excessively and that's actually what Eva has internalized and is referring to
It's very Cosmo
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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:48 PM

133. "only to idiots."
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>It's coming across as supporting what sepia called "that
>southern belle crap"

i don't have a problem w/that SBC if all parties involved are into it and no one is being exploited or taken for granted. if everyone is getting what they want then that's awesome.

if a woman wants to make her man happy by wearing high heels around the house and she's fine w/it then i love it for her.

>And even your clarification still sounds too close to you have
>to please your partner sexually and visually

uh..yeah. you do. you have to please your partner sexually and visually. yes. what that looks like will vary wildly. but, yes. and it's true for both spouses in any given marriage. yes.

>Women have already internalized that excessively and that's
>actually what Eva has internalized and is referring to
>It's very Cosmo

*shrugs*

Cosmo ain't wrong all the time.

fuck you.

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lfresh
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:55 PM

139. "Be easy on yourself then lol"
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Yeah agreeing with Cosmo
Is a No.
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SoWhat
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Sat Mar-21-15 09:25 AM

142. "i'm fine w/that."
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fuck you.

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:23 PM

126. "exactly... "
In response to Reply # 118

When we go out to impress, sure.. I want my wife to look good.

Personally tho, I have always had long term relationships with women I met on the humble when we were both in some everyday whatever.

I like my women without makeup, eyelashed, nails, hair, etc... I can see the real you and then everything after that is a plus.

I would never serioudly date a woman who ONLY lets me see her when she is dolled up. That korning after when a stranger rolls over next to you is scary. Where is your face?

sowhat is using sweats as cover for everything else that makes a relationship fail. I dont think this is what she was saying.

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:28 PM

128. "no, i am not."
In response to Reply # 126

i've made myself pretty clear and so if you can't understand my point by now (and you don't if what you typed is true) then oh well.

fuck you.

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lfresh
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:46 PM

132. "Agreed"
In response to Reply # 126

It can be tricky
And the cultural signifiers are different but yes this is as problematic as those abs after pregnancy women
The signals being sent are classic
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:50 PM

134. "ppl get divorced like this."
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Fri Mar-20-15 08:50 PM by SoWhat

and rightly so.

i wouldn't stay w/a man who wasn't interested in turning me on sometimes. not necessarily every day all the time but yeah...he's gonna have to do those things i like (w/in reason) if he wants to keep me. and i do those things he likes (w/in reason) b/c i want to keep him. we have to sacrifice for each other or else our thing won't work as well as it could.

fuck you.

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:03 PM

136. "ole "dress like you love me or I'm leaving you" ass nigga"
In response to Reply # 134

just be honest and say you want out...

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SoWhat
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:13 PM

137. "I sure would want out."
In response to Reply # 136

If I'm with a man who isn't interested in pleasing me visually I would want to leave. Of course I'm not holding him to it if he's physically unable bc he's sick or injured. But otherwise I want him to want to make me happy as I want to make him happy. I'd want to turn him on visually too. If he doesn't want to give that back it would hurt.

fuck you.

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lfresh
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:56 PM

140. "Oh you've made that more than clear"
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You've got work to do
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Sat Mar-21-15 09:32 AM

144. "lol"
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Sat Mar-21-15 09:33 AM by SoWhat

i'm fine w/YOU disagreeing w/me on this.

you keep living. you'll see it.

fuck you.

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legsdiamond
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:01 PM

135. "yup"
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Sepia.
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Fri Mar-20-15 09:27 PM

138. "Yes, but the difference"
In response to Reply # 116

between that and the sweatpants argument is that wearing sweatpants is
frequently, if not almost daily, done for one's own comfort.

Dressing up to please your mate is a special thing to do for him/her when you feel like it.

One sounds like sacrificing your daily chill routine because your mate wants you to.
The other sounds like doing special things for your mate because you want to.

If her point was that you shouldn't neglect doing things to seduce your mate,
she's right. If your mate's making you happy, make them happy too.

But she did a terrible job of phrasing that point if that's what she meant.

>you know what turns him on. do you ever do that thing or
>those things that turn him on b/c you want to seduce him?
>
>b/c homegirl's point is about the danger of spouses neglecting
>to do things to seduce their mate.
>
>that's what she means when she says 'sweats'.
>
>

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lfresh
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:02 PM

141. "Yeah you know she didnt"
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Fri Mar-20-15 10:04 PM by lfresh

>
>But she did a terrible job of phrasing that point if that's
>what she meant.
>

Celebs been putting their entire foot in their mouths lately

And she's talking about after having a baby?

Lawd this chile

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SoWhat
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Sat Mar-21-15 09:31 AM

143. "RE: Yes, but the difference"
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>between that and the sweatpants argument is that wearing
>sweatpants is
>frequently, if not almost daily, done for one's own comfort.

homegirl's mistake was taking an example from her life and applying it generally. the bigger point is a good one though - it's important not to take your spouse for granted by failing to do the things your spouse likes.

>Dressing up to please your mate is a special thing to do for
>him/her when you feel like it.

yes. i agree.

>One sounds like sacrificing your daily chill routine because
>your mate wants you to.

and that's too much. i don't agree there and i doubt that was what Eva meant.

she knows what her man likes and she is willing to please him by doing what he likes. in her world that means she never wears sweatpants. that's fine w/me. i don't agree that all wives shouldn't wear sweatpants b/c there are plenty wives married to spouses who dig seeing their wife in sweats - as evidenced by the replies in here.

but her larger point is cool w/me - don't take your spouse for granted. don't forget to do the things that please your spouse and keep them interested. those things will likely change as time passes. but doing that stuff seems important. i know i would be hurt if my spouse stopped trying to please me.

>The other sounds like doing special things for your mate
>because you want to.

yes.

>If her point was that you shouldn't neglect doing things to
>seduce your mate,
>she's right.

that's what i think she's saying.

If your mate's making you happy, make them happy
>too.

right on.

>But she did a terrible job of phrasing that point if that's
>what she meant.

yup.

fuck you.

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lfresh
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Fri Mar-20-15 07:52 PM

119. "Pretty much"
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Fri Mar-20-15 01:15 PM

102. "Why did I read that as SWEETS"
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I thought she was talking about gaining weight

dude

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Fri Mar-20-15 01:21 PM

104. "safe to say bin's perspective is the same."
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Fri Mar-20-15 07:33 PM

115. "them baggy sweats have never been sexy. she right."
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