Str8 ladies, if marriage is important to you, how long would u stay with a man after u felt ready for marriage but he hadn't proposed? Also considering that he said his main reason for delay was that he didn't feel financially stable enuff?

How many people have never been in a serious relationship? And why?

Str8 guys, how many discuss ur woman's weave with them or at least somewhat interested in their weave? ( I overheard this dude on the phone with his girl and he was asking what length hair she got and I just thought that was so nice)

Would u ever go on a extreme competition reality show like survivor or amazing race?

How do the Japanese feel about homos, especially in the big cities?

Most of these questions were inspired by me watching amazing race

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stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

So, my SO is ALWAYS saying 'I soooo wanna do that' and 'it would be so cool' in conversations with friends and family.

But when we watch it, there is ONE thing EVERY SHOW THAT MAKES HER SAY 'whelp, I couldn't/wouldn't do THAT, we'd have to just get kicked off'

All I'm saying is, if you really ain't bout that life, stfu about doing it, like you really would....cuz you got friends out here believing that shit, and I find it hard to cosign when I'm clearly giving you a simultaneous sideeye

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

I think this season started off at some point with them having to go through some ice cold water (I don't watch it religiously so I'm not sure )

I'm just like "if that if what's stopping you then you really need to stop talking about this"

Fucking cold water???? *smh*

a bike and someone can't do it.

If you can't ride a bike, hate heights or can't swim... don't go on this show

*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

I know what I want for sure.

Marriage seemed like a prison for a long time.
Im just now seeing it as a necessary foundation in my life.

Wating till my mate and I were both financially stable isn't unreasonable. As long as we can help each other toward that mutual goal.

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'Some have lives that haven't gone the way they planned, and some are trapped in situations they can't stand...'

I don't think that point will ever come in a relationship...

I say this as someone who used that excuse.

Nothing wrong with trying to get your house in order but there will always be some type of financial uncertainty.

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stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

>Str8 ladies, if marriage is important to you, how long would
>u stay with a man after u felt ready for marriage but he
>hadn't proposed? Also considering that he said his main reason
>for delay was that he didn't feel financially stable enuff?

I've stayed with dudes who I knew didn't feel 'ready' for marriage and I was ok with it. I don't want kids so it's not like it's a waiting game as much as it would be if my clock was ticking but I don't think the next person I could date seriously I could just date without at least knowing they have the intention of wanting to be with me for as long as possible and actively planning a life with me



>Would u ever go on a extreme competition reality show like
>survivor or amazing race?
>

I would do amazing race I think. I've never seen it but I imagine it looks less personal? Lol if not then no.

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Str8 guys, how many discuss ur woman's weave with them or at least somewhat interested in their weave?

I've asked questions...I was schooled in the days of tracks so weaves are a different animal...I wouldn't say I had all out discussions...but I cut hair so talkin about hair with women doesn't bother me...until they start getting too complicated with the flexi rods, bumper curlers, and shit like that.



Would u ever go on a extreme competition reality show like survivor or amazing race?

if the money right ...I never watched either show in its entirety but I think I could do survivor

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>How do the Japanese feel about homos, especially in the big
>cities?

the homie has been all over Japan and said the gays over there are much more undercover and discreet as compared to over here.

even in Tokyo - they're a bit more out in Tokyo and other cities but even there the gays aren't OUT! like we are here.

and, as w/many other services and whatnot in Japan especially outside of the major cities, the folks weren't too inviting to him b/c they assumed he didn't speak Japanese (apparently it's not rudeness, it's the opposite - they don't wanna serve ppl if they can't communicate w/them b/c they won't offer them the best service). he speaks fluently so he was admitted in a couple of bars that don't admit non-Japanese. generally he said the bars were small - some pretty tiny. and very divided by type.

he went to a bathhouse (not a sex one an actual traditional bath) and said some guy spotted him and knew he was gay b/c he had pubic hair. or b/c he didn't have pubes? som'n about the pube maintenance was a dead giveaway i can't remember which way it ran.

fuck you.

In the salon bi-weekly for maintenance...and spending way too much money and time on it. Aesthetically, I wasn't a fan. Something about weaves to me just comes off basic and immature. I'm pretty particular when it comes to style, but am a less is more person. I guess I wore her down because she's been wearing her own hair in a very nice sleek cut for the last year or more and it's grown quite well without all that shit on top of it.

Streets won't let me chill.

Told her it was her hair, but I didn't think it was necessary, or worth the hassle. And that I'm not a big fan, of thelook or damage.

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>Would u ever go on a extreme competition reality show like
>survivor or amazing race?
>

1. I'm not into outdoorsy stuff
2. I enjoy safety
3. I have a phobia of broken bones

I'm just not about that life in any way

>Would u ever go on a extreme competition reality show like
>survivor or amazing race?

Def amazing race. I think for the most part doing well comes to three factors; being calm/communicating well with your partner, having travel experience, & not being an asshole/idiot. So many times I've seen the one asshole team get shafted in a challenge or generally have bad karma. if you've traveled a bit, can navigate an airport & getting around a foreign city, you're halfway there. the other half is not doing dumb shit like misreading a rule & getting a 2 hour penalty.

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