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kingjerm78
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"Y'all think the lack of grandfathers is the reason for these kids? "


  

          

I mean, they got grandmas, but no paw paws.

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what are grandads supposed to do exactly?
Feb 24th 2015
1
Mine provided everyday examples of manhood.
Feb 24th 2015
5
      RE: Mine provided everyday examples of manhood.
Feb 26th 2015
16
      that's what fathers are for
Feb 26th 2015
17
           and some of us didn't have fathers around to begin with
Feb 26th 2015
18
I had this conversation with some one last week
Feb 24th 2015
2
...these kids or us? I don't know the name or met either of mine.
Feb 24th 2015
3
As in our mommas and daddy ain't have no fathers?
Feb 24th 2015
4
Triple OGs are the same thing as grandfathers
Feb 24th 2015
6
the reason for these kids is kids are stupid and always have been.
Feb 24th 2015
7
both of my grandfathers died early. on the other hand, i am extremely
Feb 24th 2015
8
nah, human nature is what its always been.
Feb 24th 2015
9
"It's because of racism" (c)OKP
Feb 24th 2015
10
Y'all think parents don't have parents?
Feb 24th 2015
11
interesting question. i only had one grandparent growing up
Feb 24th 2015
12
Great Observation....I definitely think it plays a huge part
Feb 24th 2015
13
plenty were raised by their grandparents.
Feb 24th 2015
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absentee fathers become absentee grandfathers
Feb 24th 2015
15
and then there's that...
Feb 26th 2015
19

bonitaapplebaum71481
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Tue Feb-24-15 02:09 PM

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1. "what are grandads supposed to do exactly?"
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speaking as someone who had no grandparents


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kevb
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Tue Feb-24-15 02:14 PM

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5. "Mine provided everyday examples of manhood."
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They made me work when I was around them. Taught me how to fish. Helped me identify trees. Taught me where to find wild muscadine grapes on our property. Showed me how to treat women. They just showed me stuff my mom or grandma couldn't

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Magnificent001
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Thu Feb-26-15 03:24 PM

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16. "RE: Mine provided everyday examples of manhood."
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Thu Feb-26-15 03:56 PM

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17. "that's what fathers are for"
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BabySoulRebel
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Thu Feb-26-15 04:04 PM

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18. "and some of us didn't have fathers around to begin with"
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My grandfather was my male role model growing up.
I can totally dig it.

here for dis.

  

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kevb
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Tue Feb-24-15 02:11 PM

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2. "I had this conversation with some one last week"
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Not only no grandfather, but no legacy. I can't imagine. Both of mine are still here today and I'm glad I have made them proud.

Kev

  

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Tue Feb-24-15 02:13 PM

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3. "...these kids or us? I don't know the name or met either of mine."
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4. "As in our mommas and daddy ain't have no fathers? "
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Chanson
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Tue Feb-24-15 02:18 PM

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6. "Triple OGs are the same thing as grandfathers"
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mind
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matter

  

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Joe Corn Mo
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Tue Feb-24-15 02:33 PM

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7. "the reason for these kids is kids are stupid and always have been. "
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kids talk weird,
dress weird,
and resent authority for sometimes stupid reasons.

adults have been complaining about kids since we were kids
and our parents were kids and their parents were kids.

Generally, the kids are alright.

but as always, they can benefit from guidance
from level headed adults in their lives-
whether it's a biological parent, a grandparent, a coach,
or any other person that becomes a part of a child's extended family.

  

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Tue Feb-24-15 02:34 PM

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8. "both of my grandfathers died early. on the other hand, i am extremely"
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tariqhu
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9. "nah, human nature is what its always been."
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youngins do youngin shit. we just happen to be born for this time frame.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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vee-lover
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Tue Feb-24-15 05:55 PM

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10. ""It's because of racism" (c)OKP"
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bentagain
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Tue Feb-24-15 05:57 PM

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11. "Y'all think parents don't have parents?"
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Tue Feb-24-15 05:58 PM by bentagain

  

          

couples go through it

I'm unaware of grand parents not claiming grand kids

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SHAstayhighalways
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Tue Feb-24-15 05:59 PM

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12. "interesting question. i only had one grandparent growing up"
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Tue Feb-24-15 06:00 PM by SHAstayhighalways

  

          

my dad's mom.
my mom's parents were in the congo and both died before i was 18.
my mom didn't really talk about them nor did she have any pictures of them
so they're just these people i know the names of but that's it.
i only recently saw a pic of my mom's dad in the last year or so.
my dad's father, altho he died 2 years before i was born
was always spoken of (very highly) and i've always seen pictures of him.
i don't know i just felt like unpacking that in this post.
i always felt like i was lacking by not having a grandfather
but i have a pretty good dad so i didn't feel it in a way that depressed me
just in a way like when i saw ppl with their grandfather or heard cool stories about
what ppl's grandfathers would do i would wonder like 'man, must be cool to have a granddaddy.'

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ambient1
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Tue Feb-24-15 06:31 PM

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13. "Great Observation....I definitely think it plays a huge part"
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14. "plenty were raised by their grandparents."
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We old. The kids are just being kids.

fuck you.

  

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Billy Ray Valentine
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Tue Feb-24-15 06:39 PM

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15. "absentee fathers become absentee grandfathers "
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"when I was growin' up if we wanted a jacuzzi we had to fart in the tub!"

  

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19. "and then there's that..."
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