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"Single Folk: You Have Any Serious Half-On-A-Baby Propositions Right Now?"


  

          

or i guess as serious as they can be. but gotdamn....shit like that is real. i think its women who would have to initiate that talk (in my case it is), but there's this range of about 29 to 41 that may not need love and happiness, but would like a baby and the love and happiness that brings. add in some strong genes, and propositions happen.

financially i think it would be damn near impossible for it to be profitable. for some reason it doesn't seem the same as a 2 income household having a child (cause its not), but maybe an arrangement can be reached where it doesn't feel like child support would be beating up one person more than the other.

but i don't know. WHAT IF SHE'S FUCKING BISEXUAL AND YOUR CAN BE WITH HER AND STILL GET OTHER BITCHES AND SHIT? WHAT ABOUT THAT SHIT NIGGA?!?!?! what the fuck?
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I think it's silly but y'all go ahead with it....
Feb 24th 2015
1
it went from being kinda like a joke to understanding that its serious
Feb 24th 2015
4
lol Ya'll wouldn't believe me...
Feb 24th 2015
2
are the dudes coming at you with that proposition??
Feb 24th 2015
5
Down to trying to take out my Nuva ring lol
Feb 24th 2015
13
      wow. that's so.....wow. my whole like i've been like wife then baby
Feb 24th 2015
16
      this is soooo key
Feb 24th 2015
24
           ^^^^this is why dudes trying to get her pregnant
Feb 25th 2015
41
nah, a lot of dudes try it... just to stay connected
Feb 24th 2015
9
      which is why I never fell for that okeydoke
Feb 24th 2015
20
this makes no sense to me
Feb 24th 2015
3
every case isn't the same
Feb 24th 2015
6
      low expectations vs high expectations of joy
Feb 24th 2015
8
      yeah but i feel like the opposite of that is way more frequent
Feb 24th 2015
10
           lets change it from babies to parenthood
Feb 24th 2015
19
a baby never fills the void
Feb 24th 2015
7
it wouldn't feel your "void". and it wouldn't feel my "void"
Feb 24th 2015
18
      7/10 that void doesn't have shit to do with motherhood per se
Feb 24th 2015
27
           yup, it's usually because they want someone to love them back
Feb 24th 2015
29
                you know my cousin?!
Feb 24th 2015
36
                     everyone has that cousin...
Feb 24th 2015
40
It seems emotionally irresponsible on the surface.
Feb 24th 2015
11
thank God for contraception...
Feb 24th 2015
12
^^^^ pretty much
Feb 24th 2015
14
part of me chalks it up as hormonal
Feb 24th 2015
17
I definitely had an ex that wanted me to get pregnant...
Feb 24th 2015
15
all that sneak shit is weird to me
Feb 24th 2015
22
So many questions about this condom hole poking business
Feb 24th 2015
21
RIGHT?!?!?!? i don't get that shit at all.
Feb 24th 2015
23
crazy.desperate.hood.dudes
Feb 24th 2015
25
      ladies: were you dating crazy. desperate. hood. dudes?
Feb 24th 2015
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           the main one who was doing it was slightly reformed hood
Feb 24th 2015
28
                was he at least crazy and desperate?
Feb 24th 2015
31
                     EGGZACTLEE.
Feb 24th 2015
34
how the fuck do you stay with someone who poked holes
Feb 24th 2015
30
I have never heard of a dude poking a hole in a condom...like ever
Feb 25th 2015
43
nope! but i'm also old so no one wants my oven
Feb 24th 2015
32
Yep.
Feb 24th 2015
33
nope.
Feb 24th 2015
35
i had a chick that wanted me to shoot her club up....
Feb 24th 2015
37
fell down a internet rabbithole to a babydaddy/surrogates match site
Feb 24th 2015
38
How does that work?
Feb 24th 2015
39
Nah..That isn't a conversion that I would entertain..
Feb 25th 2015
42
my (recent) ex one day was like "let's have a baby"
Feb 25th 2015
44

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1. "I think it's silly but y'all go ahead with it...."
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divided homes are way too complicated



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4. "it went from being kinda like a joke to understanding that its serious"
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it used to be hahaha....half on a baby. baby mamma....baby daddy....hahahaha. but its real. i wonder if the realness is an older age thing. doesn't make it practical at all, but people do non-practical shit all the time.
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2. "lol Ya'll wouldn't believe me... "
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But yea.




Somebody's lying...

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5. "are the dudes coming at you with that proposition??"
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not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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13. "Down to trying to take out my Nuva ring lol "
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He said he just wanted to see it? Same dude that was telling me that he would really like a child, and we'd be excellent parents. Gave me his game plan pretty much and how'd he'd go back into stock trading to support us. How I'd be so lucky to have a child by him. 0_o

One of my exes stayed taking the condom off and onetime poked holes in one.

Others have simply asked, "If I wanted a child with you, would you have my baby?". They seem to think ill be a great mom. They're right I will be, but I still have a damn roommate! My ideas of marriage do change often but I'd like to be married before having children. My life is not together to have a kid and not worry about expenses right now.

I go through baby fever but I want better for my child more than I want the child itself.




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16. "wow. that's so.....wow. my whole like i've been like wife then baby"
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wife.....baby. like that's the only plan i had. i understand that accidents happen, but to purposefully want to have a child outta wedlock is like some twilight zone shit. but its people on that shit. like for real on that shit.
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24. "this is soooo key"
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>I want better for my child more
>than I want the child itself.

  

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41. "^^^^this is why dudes trying to get her pregnant"
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Wed Feb-25-15 01:15 AM by Castro

  

          

She has the right idea about being a parent.

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9. "nah, a lot of dudes try it... just to stay connected "
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they ain't changing diapers tho

  

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20. "which is why I never fell for that okeydoke "
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NOAP
I don't need that kinda drama in life. Not now, not ever.

here for dis.

  

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3. "this makes no sense to me"
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>there's this range
>of about 29 to 41 that may not need love and happiness, but
>would like a baby and the love and happiness that brings.

like people who are just so single minded in their desire for a baby. why would you want the latter without the former, or think that the latter will bring you the former?

  

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6. "every case isn't the same"
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>like people who are just so single minded in their desire for
>a baby. why would you want the latter without the former, or
>think that the latter will bring you the former?

and baby's do bring joy. it happens all the time. we hear about women who never wanted children, having a child and it being the "joy of their lives" and all that.
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8. "low expectations vs high expectations of joy"
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10. "yeah but i feel like the opposite of that is way more frequent"
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>and baby's do bring joy. it happens all the time. we hear
>about women who never wanted children, having a child and it
>being the "joy of their lives" and all that.

babies CAN bring joy. Is that why people have kids though? for joy? I thought that was just supposed to be an added bonus. Because there's a whole lot else that they also bring.

  

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19. "lets change it from babies to parenthood"
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i think that if you don't want to have a baby, but rather want to be a parent then you're signing up for everything that can bring. good and the bad.
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7. "a baby never fills the void "
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18. "it wouldn't feel your "void". and it wouldn't feel my "void""
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but some women like motherhood. and if motherhood is a void you feel, then a baby would certainly fill that void.
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27. "7/10 that void doesn't have shit to do with motherhood per se"
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and everything to do with receiving/giving unconditional love. And that's not a problem that should be put on a child ever.

here for dis.

  

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29. "yup, it's usually because they want someone to love them back"
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but after a few nights of the baby crying they tap out and give the baby to their mother to raise and go right back out in those streets.

  

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36. "you know my cousin?!"
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lol

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40. "everyone has that cousin..."
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11. "It seems emotionally irresponsible on the surface."
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You (to the OP or anyone on this board) do realize that wanting a child and raising one are two entirely different things, right? Half on a baby sounds easy on paper. Good luck with that arrangement as the child ages. It just seems like they're doing it to fill a void and not considering the long-term ramifications of raising a child in an environment without love.

*EDIT after rereading post*

This is not a good idea. That woman becomes emotionally attached at some point as does the father. In other words, that financial arrangement becomes meaningless at some point. I know women that take this same approach to marriage and children. It works for some but doesn't work for the rest of them. Doing something because you're supposed to do it and is a good way to kill yourself and become miserable down the line. People notice this happening even if you don't notice it.

  

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12. "thank God for contraception..."
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i'd be a baby mother on fleek.

as a woman
i would not advise a man to procreate with a woman who *just* wants to have a baby.
she type delusional.

  

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14. "^^^^ pretty much "
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17. "part of me chalks it up as hormonal"
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uterus talkin....and eggs flipping and shit. it feels like a body decision more than a mind decision.
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15. "I definitely had an ex that wanted me to get pregnant... "
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Would like holes in condoms, hide my BC... But he was military and they are basically indoctrinated to procreate early and often.

He was legit upset when I got my period.

But I do have a personal deadline at 35 to make a baby but I have a found anyone with genes I want yet.

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22. "all that sneak shit is weird to me"
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but you and this timeline....is it adjustable to concrete? what happens when you hit 35? cause i mean....its not far kiddo. ya'll aren't far behind me.
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21. "So many questions about this condom hole poking business"
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I... I just don't get it.

mind
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matter

  

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23. "RIGHT?!?!?!? i don't get that shit at all."
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25. "crazy.desperate.hood.dudes"
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it's super silly but some of these idiots try it



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26. "ladies: were you dating crazy. desperate. hood. dudes?"
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cause part of me thinks not everyone was.
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28. "the main one who was doing it was slightly reformed hood"
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does that count or nah?

here for dis.

  

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31. "was he at least crazy and desperate?"
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well, i'm gonna go ahead and say yeah he was crazy, cause that shit crazy.

  

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34. "EGGZACTLEE."
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here for dis.

  

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30. "how the fuck do you stay with someone who poked holes"
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in the condom?

  

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43. "I have never heard of a dude poking a hole in a condom...like ever"
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32. "nope! but i'm also old so no one wants my oven"
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for a baby
and im cool with that

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33. "Yep."
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I've gotten propositions.
I LOL every time.
These same dudes like to remind me of my age and feign concern for my ovaries. To which I respond, I'm good.

On another note...Niggas, (I say this from the bottom of my heart...cause yall niggas when you accept this mess)...If a chick that is "bi or lesbian" asks you to impregnate them and they say you won't be on papers...get that shit notarized. I know several dudes who were caught up in that moment and are now assed out!

  

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35. "nope."
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and since i never planned on giving birth anyway, i am totally ok with this. now, if someone comes along and wants me to play stepmom to their kid(s), i might could be down with that.

just sayin'.

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37. "i had a chick that wanted me to shoot her club up...."
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*cue Back to Life acapella*

no commitment
no relationship
no financial responsibility

actually, i was in a relationship, and she knew that

the way she broke it down to me was that she found so many of my characteristics appealing, and i already had exhibit a in the making gorgeous-ass children category

she just wanted me for my lightskin and curly hair

jokes on her cuz i am bald now.....

*runs away like dj pooh after his chain got snatched*

  

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Riot
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38. "fell down a internet rabbithole to a babydaddy/surrogates match site"
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women and gay couples putting up their profiles to collect your manjuice
and their preferred method of conception

started off clicking and sniggling

that shtt got too real and too sad too quick



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bunda
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get busy living, or get busy dying.

  

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Kira
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39. "How does that work?"
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Can they come back and ask for child support?

  

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BabyYoda
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42. "Nah..That isn't a conversion that I would entertain.."
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Half on a baby seems like a recipe for drama down the line. I am someone who will discuss children AFTER marriage. No marriage, no baby! As for getting with someone who switch hit...Seems cool for thrills, but when it comes to starting a family, I don't believe in sharing partners(willingly or not). Either me and the woman jump the broom or stay childless(me). However, in my situation, many women already have kids, so I don't think about being in such a situation.

If it works for you or anyone else, then go for yours . To each one's own..

  

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ConcreteCharlie
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44. "my (recent) ex one day was like "let's have a baby""
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right then i told her "awwww, baby, sure!"

the next day, i went out looking for an abortion clinic that sold gift certificates.

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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