"Poll question: Men where you out here dry humping each other as a kid?" Thu Feb-05-15 05:39 PM by lightworks
Dude I used to date told this story last night to me and a mutual friend:
He has first orgasm as a kid by dry humping his male BFF.
Said they did it from ages 9-11, then stopped totally.
Best friend is now a gay male, dude I dated has never been interested in men.
I found the story to be surprising and I secretly wondered if he was in the closet or bi and was just lying when he said he was interested in men and wasn't as a teen or now as an adult.
Anyways I'm wondering if what they did was normal for boys at that age.
18. "When did you start getting into dudes?" In response to Reply # 1
>all. about. > >but that's b/c it's what my friends were doing and so i just >followed along. > >so...no, i didn't dry hump dudes back then. but i did play >Catch a Girl/Get a Girl and i dry humped girls as part of that >game.
As my friends were into girls I faked it, mostly. I was kinda interested in girls but it was curiousity until I was about 13 or 14. The more I developed the less I was into girls. And dudes were more appealing. But I lied to myself and the world and suppressed my growing interest in dudes until I was 18. In the meantime I chased and dated girls.
>Dude I used to date told this story last night to me and a >mutual friend: > >He has first orgasm as a kid by dry humping his male BFF. > >Said they did it from ages 9-11, then stopped totally. > >Best friend is now a gay male, dude I dated has never been >interested in men.
Your profile says you're a male. A dude you used to date told a story about humping his BFF as a kid. Now you're saying the dude you used to date has never been interested in men despite that childhood activity. But you dated him. Indicating he was interested in you. A male.
I'm confused.
>I found the story to be surprising and I secretly wondered if >he was in the closet or bi and was just lying when he said he >was interested in men and wasn't as a teen or now as an >adult. > >Anyways I'm wondering if what they did was normal for boys at >that age.
Anyway - no I did not personally take part in anything like this and hadn't heard of it happening from other dudes until I read this. I know dudes who used to like, check out eachother's junk and shit at young ages just cause kids are fucking weird, but I don't know anyone who took it further than that.
12. "short of insults abt ones mother, there was no worse insult then anythin..." In response to Reply # 0
In my childhood
The quickest most absolute way to ensure fisticuffs was to say either someone's mother was ________ or to say or do something "gay"
So hell no...we werent dry humping boys you would get your ass kicked for that in the 80s
Nor do I recall wanting too
Like now...I have no question abt my sexuality. I'm like on that pure hetero level on the Kinsey scale. Not because I dont understand male sexuality or whatever, I look at me and of course can totally understand how a man can be attractive shit look at me
But I have never seen a man hot enough to make me want to fuck him
Doesnt exist. The hottest man on earth. Name him. Thor. Stringer Bell. Throwback Tom Cruise. Whatever. Nothing abt that guy remotely turns me on. In fact the idea of a mans chest hair like...rubbing on me somewhere (ew) makes my balls shrink into my stomach
52. "He didn't do anything that made me think he was gay " In response to Reply # 45
When we were together. He cheated with women. But I wasn't aware of anything with men. He told me one day is isn't attracted to me. When he left I found something he wrote about how much he regrets laying with another man when he was an adolescent. I confronted him and he says he isn't gay and never did anything with a male after that adolescent experience.
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22. "I thought I had sex when I first got my dry hump on in 3rd grade" In response to Reply # 0
In Daytona. She was my aunt's friend's daughter. My aunt even caught us in the bathroom, and she looked completely shocked and nervous, but wasn't mad at us...just on some "umm....y'all have to be in the living room where everyone can see you." I thought we had sex...we were kissing, dry humping, rubbing, all that.
I didn't even know it was possible for a human to be gay until maybe 5th grade...and I never thought guys were supposed to do anything close to humping, kissing, or whatever else with other boys.
4. Homosexuality. Apparently, a lot of people try gay sex, but only about half stick with it. By ages 18-19, 10 percent of men say they've performed fellatio. That number drops among men in their 20s and 30s. But among men in their 40s and 50s, 13 percent say they've done it, and 14 percent to 15 percent say they've received it from another man. Meanwhile, 11 percent of men aged 20-24 say they've received anal sex. For unknown reasons, that number declines in the next higher age bracket but then steadily rises in succeeding brackets, leveling off at 9 percent among men in their 40s and 50s.
Remember, these are "have you ever" questions. When men aged 20-59 are asked whether they've performed fellatio in the past year, the number is more like 6 percent. And only 4 percent say they've received anal sex in that time. But that's a big jump from 1992, when only 2 percent of men admitted to sex with a man in the preceding year.
42. "hurting feelings in here" In response to Reply # 31
with science and facts again
~~~~ When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries. ~~~~ You cannot hate people for their own good.
>It is a good article. > >Also, I have not experienced any of that... any. The percent >#s are low in my opinion so who got the feelings hurt? Just >wondering.
Dudes pretty adamant in here Almost on the defensive
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60. "We asked 100 men waiting on line for wendy williams tickets..." In response to Reply # 57
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
58. "RE: Dunno about dry humping per se, but same sex experimentation is norm..." In response to Reply # 23
This is true. Especially with girls. Thats why girls will always tell you that even if they are straight, they are 5% bisexual. Women experiment as kids, and in college. I don't think its as openly accepted for men to do that. For women, its okay because men think its hot. For other women, its okay because even if they haven't done it, they can appreciate women because they are one. Women are sexy.
Having said all this...I'm straight, but I understand why women would want to get it on with other women.
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34. "What's funny is women do this all the time..." In response to Reply # 0
I mean girl children play house with other girls and dry hump all the time and dont' grow up and are gay or bi or questioned about this experience.
At least, that was my belief.
Am I wrong now? lmao.
honestly I have heard stories similar to this before, but one of the males in question was always gay or bi...the other was straight and just thought that's what boys did.
37. "I'm asking am I wrong...so now I wonder if I should make a new thread" In response to Reply # 36
because 80% of the girls I knew played this way when we were younger...I can probably name 2 who didn't and they didn't play those games with boys either so I can't call it.
but literally a majority of the girls I knew played house/dry humped other girls all the time at school. it was so common
40. "Never With a Man. Dry Humped 2 Girls Though" In response to Reply # 0
My only ever "three-some" I was 9. Had to help a girl in my class with her part of our group science project. Her cousin was there. Finished way early...they decided to play house. Since there was only 3 of us, had to be the "default husband"
Dryhumped both of them...I had to take turns with both of them. Shit seemed like normal...came home and played Super Mario 2 for the rest of the Saturday.
49. "That's weird as shit imo, but I don't know if it has much bearing on his" In response to Reply # 0 Fri Feb-06-15 04:42 PM by micMajestic
current sexual preferences. I can name a bunch of weird non sexual things that my peers did at that age, and it doesn't reflect the people they are now.
61. "this can't be life." In response to Reply # 0
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
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