you usually don't know if someone can fight
until there is actually a fight.

well, you can kinda know.
but not really.


anyway, most ppl here are no longer in high school,
so even those of us that have been in lots of fights haven't done it in years.

and when men get older,
being a dude that gets in fights a lot is no longer an advantage.


I would assume most ppl no longer select SO's or
Fuck buddies based on actual fighting ability.

perceived fighting ability?
maybe, on a subconscious level.

but i'm a dude.
you weren't asking me.