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Geah
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"Poll question: Ladies in relationships: Do you expect a gift on Valentines day?"


          

Like chicks here tawnbout what's gonna happen if they men don't get em shit.

I'm like HANH?

Poll result (20 votes)
Yes (8 votes)Vote
No (9 votes)Vote
Hoe With Cool Stories (3 votes)Vote
White (0 votes)Vote

  

  

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I've always made a decision with him whether we will or not. n/m
Jan 27th 2015
1
nah. we celebrate each other all year round
Jan 27th 2015
2
Fuck outta here with that
Jan 27th 2015
3
      sorry but it's true
Jan 28th 2015
13
           That sounds amazing, and most importantly, healthy
Jan 28th 2015
19
           yeah the good time are amazing. we have bad times too though
Jan 29th 2015
26
           ugh. her insistence on going to bed together is a DRAG ON MY SOUL.
Feb 05th 2015
31
blue = line
Jan 27th 2015
4
Are you supposed to get men stuff on Valentines Day?
Jan 27th 2015
5
Married 5 years, was not expecting a damn thing...
Jan 27th 2015
6
My favorite holiday....
Jan 27th 2015
7
after 8 years...
Jan 27th 2015
8
i don't want one
Jan 27th 2015
9
I expect to be treated special on a regular basis nm
Jan 27th 2015
10
exactly. that's what i'm talking about
Jan 28th 2015
15
My wife would get to slicing and dicing
Jan 27th 2015
11
is this a real question?
Jan 28th 2015
12
Of courts it is
Jan 28th 2015
17
if i was, i'd expect something FOR that day
Jan 28th 2015
14
Unless I told him I wanted something NO
Jan 28th 2015
16
yes.
Jan 28th 2015
18
lol at green
Jan 28th 2015
20
Gifts give me anxiety but we'd have to do SOMETHING
Jan 28th 2015
21
im white my man rican and YES i expect a gift
Jan 29th 2015
22
Lol@ yall daying "No". Yeah right
Jan 29th 2015
23
LOL@ men who get in trouble for not mindreading n/m
Jan 29th 2015
24
lol @ you knowing for a fact what my relationship is like.
Jan 29th 2015
25
Man, I got blown up on last year cuhz of this shit
Feb 05th 2015
29
Yes.
Feb 05th 2015
27
My ex and I had a $10 limit
Feb 05th 2015
28
RE: Ladies in relationships: Do you expect a gift on Valentines day?
Feb 05th 2015
30

Sepia.
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1. "I've always made a decision with him whether we will or not. n/m"
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Damali
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2. "nah. we celebrate each other all year round"
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so V-day means nothing to us

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Geah
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Tue Jan-27-15 02:42 PM

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3. "Fuck outta here with that"
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@geahuwine

  

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Damali
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13. "sorry but it's true"
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Wed Jan-28-15 01:55 PM by Damali

          

frequent date nights, we do most everything together...we go to bed at the same time most nights and fall asleep in each other's arms every night (unless we had an argument lol)..he tells me he loves me and that I'm beautiful pretty much every day...hugs and kisses every day

what do i need Valentine's Day for again?

  

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Garhart Poppwell
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Wed Jan-28-15 02:49 PM

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19. "That sounds amazing, and most importantly, healthy"
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I really love hearing stuff like this, and from the way you talk about your husband on here I know you mean it.

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Damali
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Thu Jan-29-15 11:34 AM

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26. "yeah the good time are amazing. we have bad times too though"
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but the longer we are together, the less frequent those bad times are...but it takes work. and i've learned that sooooooo many people are NOT about that work.

plus, we found each other later in life...sometimes that makes a difference in how much more you appreciate each other.

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31. "ugh. her insistence on going to bed together is a DRAG ON MY SOUL."
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***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

  

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Wonderl33t
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4. "blue = line"
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>Like chicks here tawnbout what's gonna happen if they men
>don't get em shit.
>
>I'm like HANH?


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SimplyHannah
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5. "Are you supposed to get men stuff on Valentines Day?"
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OrangeMoon
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6. "Married 5 years, was not expecting a damn thing..."
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but he can't keep noooooo secrets and told me to keep that week free...he's the sweetest!

~"You are your own best thing" (c) Paul D in BELOVED

  

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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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7. "My favorite holiday...."
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Somebody's lying...

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auset1
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Tue Jan-27-15 06:07 PM

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8. "after 8 years..."
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I expect something big or small.
unless money is really tight, I expect a token, even if its just a card.
we dont make big deals out of holidays and birthdays


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GirlChild
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9. "i don't want one"
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waste of money
i'd rather him clean the kitchen or watch the boy so i can do my nails.

  

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afrogirl_lost
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10. "I expect to be treated special on a regular basis nm"
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Damali
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15. "exactly. that's what i'm talking about"
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one day a year is NOT enough special for me

  

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Lach
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11. "My wife would get to slicing and dicing "
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but what's messed up is our anniversary is on Feb 7, daughter's birthday Feb 2. I can't catch a break in February.

  

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12. "is this a real question?"
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we aint the two and i aint the one- lyte

  

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Geah
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17. "Of courts it is"
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@geahuwine

  

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14. "if i was, i'd expect something FOR that day"
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not necessarily a gift but we should be doing something to celebrate

romantic dinner (at home or out), a bed w/ some rosepetals on it. something.

that day should not come and go without some sort of acknowledgement and action

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DaHeathenOne76
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16. "Unless I told him I wanted something NO"
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Men arent mind readers.


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R A i n
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18. "yes."
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...
we understand you can easily come back and we're not impressed. how about getting a life first. okpdan

  

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20. "lol at green"
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Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

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21. "Gifts give me anxiety but we'd have to do SOMETHING "
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to commemorate the day.

A movie and dinner at home is PERFECT for me.

Doesn't have to be something big at all. As long as we're together that day and I feel good about where we are relationships-wise.

I've spent V-day with someone I KNEW I wasn't happy with and it was painful in more ways than one.




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22. "im white my man rican and YES i expect a gift"
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i dont have colors
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23. "Lol@ yall daying "No". Yeah right"
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24. "LOL@ men who get in trouble for not mindreading n/m"
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Damali
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25. "lol @ you knowing for a fact what my relationship is like."
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29. "Man, I got blown up on last year cuhz of this shit"
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we talked about it a few times before & she was like "I don't really celebrate V-Day so I'm not expecting anything."
Nah, come Feb 15th I got ripped a new one cuhz we didn't really celebrate.
I'm never making that mistake again.

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27. "Yes."
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I asked him if he'd planned to celebrate the day and he immediately said no. I was all, cool. Great. Glad to know. And I started to imagine taking myself out alone that day. But then I realized that I was upset. So I said, "Wait, I do want to do something. I was gonna let it go but I don't wanna. That'd be a lie. I do wanna do dieting and it doesn't have to be big, but it has to be something. It can even be untraditional."

So now that I said all that I realized I gotta do something too. Ugh. Boy, I stuck my foot in my mouth this time... what am I gonna do?

  

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Sepia.
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28. "My ex and I had a $10 limit"
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the year we actually decided to celebrate Valentine's.

When you make it something small, simple and cute, it's easier.


I got him a sketchbook with a love note in the front of it. He forgot, so I didn't get anything.
And we broke less than 2 months later, lol.

  

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30. "RE: Ladies in relationships: Do you expect a gift on Valentines day?"
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I'm married. If I get one...great. If I don't okay... My hubby works hard to put a roof over mine and our daughter's head while I am able to stay home and be a mom to her. He pays for my gym memberships and anything else I need. If he forgets Valentine's Day...it's okay

But, maybe that's just me.

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