Kind of an interesting dynamic. Whats your relationship like with them then and now?
They are very close, but I've noticed I've pulled away from them the past several years. being the only boy. trying to find my own way and my own lane. I realized fairly early theres a certain closeness (some) sisters have that a brother can't really tap into.
Besides they all seem to have more of a mothering/aunt role towards me that is a lil much sometimes.
MrThomas43423 Member since Jul 03rd 2002 67613 posts
Thu Jan-22-15 03:53 PM
4. "i've found its....interesting to date women who have ONE little brother" In response to Reply # 0 Thu Jan-22-15 03:58 PM by MrThomas43423
like those girls were had a sister or two and then 10, 11 years later ooops....out pops a little brother. their sibling dynamic is totally off. they seem to be big on mothering and taking care of men, in a bossy overbearing sort of way. some little girls have a tendency to be bossy anyway and giving someone bossy care over a little boy scars them for life.
also...they get hurt quick. if you're play fighting or wrestling...they're gonna get hurt. if its a verbal spat and you return fire with fire....they're gonna get hurt. they can dish it, but can't seem to take it. --------------------------------------- it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.
6. "Three of them. 5, 10 and 11 yrs older. I say I have four moms." In response to Reply # 0
>Kind of an interesting dynamic. >Whats your relationship like with them then and now? > >They are very close, but I've noticed I've pulled away from >them the past several years. being the only boy. trying to >find my own way and my own lane. I realized fairly early >theres a certain closeness (some) sisters have that a brother >can't really tap into. > >Besides they all seem to have more of a mothering/aunt role >towards me that is a lil much sometimes. > >But yeah. whats y'all dynamic?
7. "Dynamics." In response to Reply # 6 Thu Jan-22-15 04:19 PM by deejboram
Oldest I'm closest with. She raised me the most. She raised all of us really. She was born like that. Always wanted to be the teacher or the mom when they played house.
They reach moved out of the house when they were 16 so when I was 6 it was just me and my fast ass 11yr old sister in the house
Middle sister we have a thick wedge between us because she is SDA and I'm a devil loving atheist
Youngest sister I don't gig with her because her life is a real live jerry springer show mixed with black Twitter. All day every day. I can't deal with that shit. Her and her baby daddys having arguments via Twitter and shit Nah man.
Sisters 1&3 smoke trees and drank so we might all get together and get blowed at a Anita Baker concert or something Great family times
EDIT: Also, stuff never reached my mom If I did something bad I'd get fucked up three times before it got to my mom My sisters would handle me They were also my protectors If somebody tried to fight me My sisters would be there to beat them up for me Put my youngest sisters boyfriend
9. "I have one, she's just under 2 yrs older than me. " In response to Reply # 0
We're cool; like, we have convos on a regular basis. Unfortunately, she makes piss poor decisions and I just got tired of seeing them up close. So, I made the conscious effort to pull away a bit, because it became too hard to watch without saying anything.