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John Forte
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"What have you changed your deeply-held opinions about?"


          

Until VERY recently, I used to have real issues with people giving their kids "black" names. When I say black names, I'm not referring to African, Arabic or even European names that we appropriated (Leroy, Antoine, Tyrone, etc), but what we might call "made up" names.

I really thought they were the indicative of ignorance, and when parents who "should know better" started giving their kids those names, I took it as a sign that our worst element had successfully shaped Black Culture in their image. Now, I think there's a beauty in the fact that these names are uniquely Black, and uniquely AMERICAN. Other than "native" names, it doesn't get more American than Black names.

  

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Gay Marriage about 6 or 7 years ago
Jan 20th 2015
1
seperations are usually messy and ugly
Jan 20th 2015
4
      of course, but it made me see how the law provides protections
Jan 20th 2015
10
i was once a card carrying member of the BEAT A KID'S ASS club...
Jan 20th 2015
2
I was in that club too. I'm just happy I changed my mind BEFORE
Jan 20th 2015
5
I was in that club too. I'm just happy I changed my mind BEFORE
Jan 20th 2015
6
this too
Jan 20th 2015
8
I think Adrian Peterson changed my mind on this. the discussions around ...
Jan 20th 2015
9
Dealing with the issues of blackness in america
Jan 20th 2015
3
Agree 100%
Jan 21st 2015
24
Homosexuality, Christianity, Religion in general, Pop Culture
Jan 20th 2015
7
Death Penalty
Jan 20th 2015
11
yup this i used to not care about it then i realized that if u dont have...
Jan 21st 2015
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coonin.
Jan 20th 2015
12
the existence of Jesus as a historical figure.
Jan 20th 2015
13
from what to what?
Jan 20th 2015
14
      i am not convinced Jesus ever lived.
Jan 20th 2015
15
      yeah, this too
Jan 20th 2015
17
      The weekly news magazine's go to cover story on slow news weeks
Jan 20th 2015
16
being anti-marijuana.
Jan 20th 2015
18
Robert Hooke "experimented with cannabis" as early as 1682.
Jan 20th 2015
23
plastic surgery
Jan 20th 2015
19
interracial dating
Jan 20th 2015
20
white people aint shit.
Jan 20th 2015
21
911, GMOs, Israel, US Legal System, Terrorism, Drug Addiction
Jan 20th 2015
22
As a college kid, I thought it was stupid for girls to sleep woth
Jan 21st 2015
25
monogamy
Jan 21st 2015
27

kayru99
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1. "Gay Marriage about 6 or 7 years ago"
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It went from "who cares?" to "man, let them folks do what they want/need with each other"

A coworker/friend who is gay in GA was separating from her partner of over 15 years, and it was killing them both, because they had no legal leg to stand on. Shit got nasty/messy/ugly, pretty quickly

  

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legsdiamond
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4. "seperations are usually messy and ugly"
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kayru99
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10. "of course, but it made me see how the law provides protections"
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and structures that *can* simoplify things. And that's to say nothing of things like illnesses

  

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2. "i was once a card carrying member of the BEAT A KID'S ASS club..."
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now i feel like there are better ways to discipline your children.

i even apologized to my daughters. one hit me with the shaq face

http://blacksportsonline.com/home/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/shaq-face-3.jpg

for coming to that realization AFTER she experienced whoopins while the other appreciated the new outlook.


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John Forte
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5. "I was in that club too. I'm just happy I changed my mind BEFORE"
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I had a kid

  

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John Forte
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6. "I was in that club too. I'm just happy I changed my mind BEFORE"
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I had a kid

  

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8. "this too"
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9. "I think Adrian Peterson changed my mind on this. the discussions around ..."
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3. "Dealing with the issues of blackness in america"
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I used to not really give a fuck about the america aspect of that picture. Now I find it the most important factor in the equation.

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24. "Agree 100%"
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nsac7881
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7. "Homosexuality, Christianity, Religion in general, Pop Culture "
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Activism, the arts in general, marriage, monogamy, careerism

  

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stylez dainty
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11. "Death Penalty"
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Realized that believing some people deserve to die and supporting the death penalty are not the same thing.

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26. "yup this i used to not care about it then i realized that if u dont have..."
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enough money for a good lawyer youre screwed cuz theres people out there like that that aree innocent

so now i do not like the death penalty


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12. "coonin."
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in my late teens/early 20s, i used to be a nigga who thought calling other niggas coons was some righteous conscious shit.

now i recognize it as the zenith of self-hatred.

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13. "the existence of Jesus as a historical figure."
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fuck you.

  

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John Forte
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14. "from what to what?"
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15. "i am not convinced Jesus ever lived."
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fuck you.

  

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17. "yeah, this too"
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16. "The weekly news magazine's go to cover story on slow news weeks"
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hahaha.

  

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18. "being anti-marijuana."
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23. "Robert Hooke "experimented with cannabis" as early as 1682."
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http://www.celebstoner.com/news/celebstoner-news/2014/03/25/cosmos,-cannabis-and-robert-hooke/

late pass, catching up on The Cosmos

this shit made me say, what the fuck!?!

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19. "plastic surgery"
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porn
hunting
organized religion

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Navem nu, cuando sol
Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
Vita em, no continous non
Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen

When the sun shades the ship
We sweat and life is not safe
To swim or to touch not
When we unite we hedge amen

  

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20. "interracial dating"
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Deadzombie
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21. "white people aint shit."
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i've changed to: most white people aint shit.

  

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bentagain
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22. "911, GMOs, Israel, US Legal System, Terrorism, Drug Addiction"
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911

Not much of a conspiracy theorist

but the science behind 911 being a setup can't be argued against

I don't think I was able to get past the tragedy of that day

to look at it objectively

but having it explained scientifically

yeah, that shit was a demolition, not a fire.

ae911truth

GMOs

A good friend has been yelling and screaming about buy organic, etc...from day 1

me...ehh, whatever

but again, after seeing some of the science

yeah, they putting poison in our food

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsglbfZLc_0#t=89

Israel

= war criminals

Noam Chomsky

US Legal System

the whole damn system is guilty as hell

again, from a scientific view

the disparity in race by census vs race by inmates

yeah, that shit is on purpose

The New Jim Crow - Michelle Alexander

Terrorism

we are the terrorists

Anwar al-Awlaki and his son

the first US born citizen to be killed by a drone

and his 16 Y.O. son being the 2nd

Dirty Wars - Jeremy Scahill

Drug Addiction

again, there is absolutely 0 science in the war on drugs

Adderall = Methamphetamine

everything we've ever been told about drugs/addiction is a lie.

High Price - Carl Hart

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25. "As a college kid, I thought it was stupid for girls to sleep woth"
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A guy they wanted to be with, but weren't in a relationship with (yet).

Mainly bc I saw soooo many girls get used in college, hooking up with dudes and then being heartbroken bc dude never wanted to be with them.

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27. "monogamy"
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at the end of the day, though...

  

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