"What have you changed your deeply-held opinions about?"
Until VERY recently, I used to have real issues with people giving their kids "black" names. When I say black names, I'm not referring to African, Arabic or even European names that we appropriated (Leroy, Antoine, Tyrone, etc), but what we might call "made up" names.
I really thought they were the indicative of ignorance, and when parents who "should know better" started giving their kids those names, I took it as a sign that our worst element had successfully shaped Black Culture in their image. Now, I think there's a beauty in the fact that these names are uniquely Black, and uniquely AMERICAN. Other than "native" names, it doesn't get more American than Black names.
1. "Gay Marriage about 6 or 7 years ago" In response to Reply # 0
It went from "who cares?" to "man, let them folks do what they want/need with each other"
A coworker/friend who is gay in GA was separating from her partner of over 15 years, and it was killing them both, because they had no legal leg to stand on. Shit got nasty/messy/ugly, pretty quickly