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vee-lover
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"Poll question: Do You Care If Your Boy Hooks Up W/A Relative"


  

          

Especially one of your friends that you know ain't no good and he wants to get w/ a relative (sister/cousin) of yours, would you be cool w/that?

Or do you see it as none if your business as long as their both consenting adults?

Poll result (11 votes)
Yes (5 votes)Vote
No (2 votes)Vote
It depends... (4 votes)Vote

  

  

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a friend would know not to approach my relatives with bad intentions
Jan 14th 2015
1
But what if your relative was interested in your boy too?
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5
      course she interested.triflin cats got a knack 4 gettin women interested
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we leave family out of it.
Jan 14th 2015
2
Your questions and poll don't align.
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3
You answered the poll question just fine
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15
      You asked 2 questions for the poll.
Jan 14th 2015
20
           only the post title question was intended for the poll question, the
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i was knockin' down my roomate's sis every time she came to town
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4
you must have been one hell of a roommate
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7
      I'm saying - it's one thing to really want to date my sister which
Jan 14th 2015
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           good friend of mine and my sister are exploring an actual relationship
Jan 14th 2015
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                nah, it wasn't like that.
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long as he make her cum who cares
Jan 14th 2015
10
*blinks*
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*with authority*
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33
great topic, terrible poll
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as long as he honest and ain't assaulting her, why would i care?
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oh its understood that i *shouldnt* care
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Poll question: Do you prefer ketchup or mustard?
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No
Jan 14th 2015
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But you can never really know someone's intentions especially in
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      tell ya fam the good, the bad, the ugly and let them do what they want
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      Does your boy owe you an explaination...?
Jan 15th 2015
32
Green...Does she look like Beyonce?
Jan 14th 2015
22
RE: so if your relative looks like Beyonce it's cool for your boy to ge...
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      nah, that might be one I gotta save for myself...
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           LMAO - since when did Kevin Gates start posting on OKP?
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           years ago...he posted as InKast
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           LOUSIANA ... FAST! (c) Popeye's
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I had a homie's twin brother.
Jan 14th 2015
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RE: Damn you, sowhat lol
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what if it was really him and YOU don't know?
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      lmao
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      Honestly I would so do that shit if I were one of these guys:
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      LOL
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The shit is funny because if they meet you through her, it's cool
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ewe, hell yes
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38
No because any relative I care about is too good for them...
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BigJazz
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1. "a friend would know not to approach my relatives with bad intentions"
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bad enough you livin foul. but of all the people out here, you gotta mess with mine?

get the entire FOH with that...


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vee-lover
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5. "But what if your relative was interested in your boy too?"
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>bad enough you livin foul. but of all the people out here,
>you gotta mess with mine?
>
>get the entire FOH with that...
>
>
>***
>I'm tryna be better off, not better than...

grassrootsphilosopher

  

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6. "course she interested.triflin cats got a knack 4 gettin women interested"
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but a friend would know to leave her alone and approach the next. again, of all the women out there, you gotta mess with my peoples?


***
I'm tryna be better off, not better than...

  

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kingjerm78
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2. "we leave family out of it. "
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3. "Your questions and poll don't align."
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Do I care -- Yes.
Am I cool with it -- No.
Are they just two consenting adults -- No.


My thoughts though are about my closest cousins. We're a relatively small family. I have 2 female cousins. 4 male cousins.

If we're talking about the HUGE part of my family though... it's whatever. Have at it. We ain't close.

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15. "You answered the poll question just fine"
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>Do I care -- Yes.
>Am I cool with it -- No.
>Are they just two consenting adults -- No.
>
>
>My thoughts though are about my closest cousins. We're a
>relatively small family. I have 2 female cousins. 4 male
>cousins.
>
>If we're talking about the HUGE part of my family though...
>it's whatever. Have at it. We ain't close.

grassrootsphilosopher

  

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20. "You asked 2 questions for the poll. "
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vee-lover
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21. "only the post title question was intended for the poll question, the"
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question I asked in the text was meant for ppl to expound upon their reasons why or why not they're aren't ok w/a friend hooking up w/a relative of mine

Sorry if the wording of it threw you off, I'm sure you still knew what it was I was asking in the post...

If you didn't, answer the question anyway

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KiloMcG
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4. "i was knockin' down my roomate's sis every time she came to town"
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he didn't really have a problem with it cause i'm not a grimy dude, he saw it for what it was as his sister wanting to get laid too.

i only have one brother and two older male cousins, so i don't really have any context relating to this post other than being the friend in the situation Haha.

  

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7. "you must have been one hell of a roommate"
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Making breakfast for the whole house just because and shit

  

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vee-lover
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8. "I'm saying - it's one thing to really want to date my sister which"
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might still be an issue w/me and my boy, but just hittin it on some casual sex tip...nah.


>Making breakfast for the whole house just because and shit

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9. "good friend of mine and my sister are exploring an actual relationship"
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Thats fine with me. In fact i hope it works out.

But a smash and dash every time she popped into my town would be...odd.

But i admit there is a double standard, even though there is a reasonable explanation for it. BC if my little bro had sex with one of my female friends id give him a hi 5.

  

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30. "nah, it wasn't like that. "
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we kinda tried to date, but we didn't live in the same town. still communicated regularly though. at the time there wasn't anyone else i was messin' with either, and my roommate (who btw is an old friend and we're still close) knew i wasn't out there doin' dirt. i think me and homegirl probably felt more pressure to try and date because of him, though, but whatever.

also, this wasn't going on forever. not even a year.

  

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10. "long as he make her cum who cares"
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13. "*blinks*"
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33. "*with authority*"
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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11. "great topic, terrible poll"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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12. "as long as he honest and ain't assaulting her, why would i care?"
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if she want a nut and he want a nut, everyone wins.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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14. "oh its understood that i *shouldnt* care"
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Cant honestly really say that i *wouldn't* tho

*edit* talking about my sister. I dont care who bangs my cousins

  

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16. "Poll question: Do you prefer ketchup or mustard?"
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[] Yes
[] No
[] It depends

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17. "No"
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If a good friend wants to date one of my relatives and said relative agrees, then that is on them regardless of his intentions. Of course I would not want my friend to dog out a relative, but it would also be unfair to assume that my friend would dog out a relative just because he did it to other people. He may decide to act right with my relative.

Now, if I knew that my friend had bad intentions with a relative, then I may warn the relative although It is ultimately her choice to pursue the relationship. I generally stay out of my relatives romantic business. Sometimes, people have to learn lessons the hard way, relatives being no exception. The only time I will get involved is if I witness an act of violence against a relative. Other than that, I mind my own business.

  

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18. "But you can never really know someone's intentions especially in"
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my situation where my boy swears he'll do right by my fam (this time), same things I've heard before from him...and usually he ends treating the person bad

I just don't want to be caught in the middle of some drama in case ish go south




>If a good friend wants to date one of my relatives and said
>relative agrees, then that is on them regardless of his
>intentions. Of course I would not want my friend to dog out a
>relative, but it would also be unfair to assume that my friend
>would dog out a relative just because he did it to other
>people. He may decide to act right with my relative.
>
>Now, if I knew that my friend had bad intentions with a
>relative, then I may warn the relative although It is
>ultimately her choice to pursue the relationship. I generally
>stay out of my relatives romantic business. Sometimes, people
>have to learn lessons the hard way, relatives being no
>exception. The only time I will get involved is if I witness
>an act of violence against a relative. Other than that, I mind
>my own business.

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19. "tell ya fam the good, the bad, the ugly and let them do what they want"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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32. "Does your boy owe you an explaination...?"
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I do not know the circumstances upon which your boy hooked up with your fam, but I am not sure why he would tell you what he told you knowing that he may not know what he would do with your relative.

I agree that you should not be caught up in any drama, should there be any drama, but I also feel that your relative should be able to handle her business without involving those who are not in her relationship.

Speaking for myself, my relatives do not involve me in their affairs, so I do not worry about whatever they are going through, good or bad. All I can do is hope for the best and should they encounter any obstacles, deal with it and move on.

Should your boy do wrong by your fam, then hopefully she will charge him to the game. But, if she decides to involve you in her affairs, then I hope it does not cause any tension between yourself and your boy.

People need to learn how to handle their romantic affairs like mature adults unless it involves acts of violence. Other than that, let them work shut out and go on about your business.

  

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22. "Green...Does she look like Beyonce?"
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23. "RE: so if your relative looks like Beyonce it's cool for your boy to ge..."
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w/her? lol

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24. "nah, that might be one I gotta save for myself..."
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25. "LMAO - since when did Kevin Gates start posting on OKP?"
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29. "years ago...he posted as InKast"
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34. "LOUSIANA ... FAST! (c) Popeye's"
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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26. "I had a homie's twin brother."
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He doesn't know.

fuck you.

  

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27. "RE: Damn you, sowhat lol"
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>He doesn't know.

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28. "what if it was really him and YOU don't know?"
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31. "lmao "
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35. "Honestly I would so do that shit if I were one of these guys:"
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http://planetpreterist.com/system/files/images/The%20Incredible%20Sedin%20twins.jpg

Think of the exchange of pussy they must have in Canada, Sweden, etc.

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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37. "LOL"
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It's plenty of money to be made
from Candler Road to Bankhead
It's plenty of room to get paid
for those that ain't scared

  

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36. "The shit is funny because if they meet you through her, it's cool"
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If you meet her through them, it's fighting words.

I don't have a sister and I couldn't care less who my female cousins fuck. A couple of them are, no Inkast-o, very beautiful and I hope they are getting theirs. The others are a mix of slags and lesbos and they can fuck whoever they feel like. If my boy was such a fucking scumbag that I think he would fuck someone in my family over, then why is he my boy?

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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38. "ewe, hell yes"
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39. "No because any relative I care about is too good for them..."
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And the ones who aren't I don't care about enough to say something.


"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard

  

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