11. "i'm wondering the same thing" In response to Reply # 9
>While I do think his comment was unnecessary, I don't see any >"insecurity" here, just a man expressing his disapproval about >something.
to me, the insecurity shows in that he felt it necessary to reply saying that those women are hoes...that's totally different than simply expressing disapproval
of course, it isn't necessary for you to agree with me
15. "by literal definition we're not talking opinion though" In response to Reply # 13
opinion: sugar daddy relationships are morally bankrupt because women are paid for their time and affection
fact: despite Damali viewing the term "hoe" through a negative lens (or despite what Damali wants to believe about the power structure of these relationships), that's how most sugar daddies view the women they spend their money on
there are expectations, usually sexual ones. you might not like the label that comes with the exchange, but that doesnt change what it is
18. "Man you ruined it. I love to hear the women's stories about stuff" In response to Reply # 2 Thu Jan-08-15 02:52 PM by micMajestic
like this, I doubt they will be as open for sharing now. But, it is funny that people can be cool with the idea of being a "sugar baby" until you actual define what it entails from the man's perspective.
3. "people knock those types of arrangements but i know a few older guys" In response to Reply # 0
that swear by them. if hooked up properly, she gets what she wants (money/gifts) and he gets what he wants (sex/attention when you want it). and they both get that tie that's not permanent but as close as you want it, when you want it.
i had a drunk old-head tell me that he spends less on his mistress than i do with my wife and he got similar benefits with more freedom...
6. "exactly. especially wealthy single people of all ages who travel" In response to Reply # 3 Thu Jan-08-15 01:39 PM by Damali
many have no interest in the work it takes to maintain a committed relationship while constantly being on the go ,and/or being 100% focused on their work
they prefer to have an arrangement where all parties are happy, certain boundaries are maintained and expectations do not change with time.
nothing at all wrong with that.
i've even known wealthy women who had sugar baby dudes
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