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godleeluv
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"2 times a month. is that really too little?"


  

          

I orgasm daily tho. But I'm not in the mood to actually have sex.

What's the problem?
♥♥Church Diva♥♥

  

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Yes, it is
Dec 19th 2014
1
I agree it's too long to not have an orgasm
Dec 19th 2014
2
      Why don't you want to involve anyone else?
Dec 19th 2014
6
           doesn't seem worth it.
Dec 19th 2014
9
In a word, FUCK YES
Dec 19th 2014
3
that's two words.
Dec 19th 2014
4
      that's the joke
Dec 19th 2014
12
           ignorance is my running joke.
Dec 19th 2014
14
EVERY post about ur relationship is just sad and makes me smh
Dec 19th 2014
5
this is the first time you said this.
Dec 19th 2014
7
box must be wack if he ain't even trippin
Dec 19th 2014
8
that must be it.
Dec 19th 2014
10
      or maybe ur suspicions were correct and he IS gay..
Dec 19th 2014
11
           lol. u wrong for that
Dec 19th 2014
13
                would u be mad if he did have a sidepiece?
Dec 20th 2014
15
                that's just all-around fucked up
Dec 20th 2014
17
                     I have needs too
Dec 20th 2014
18
                          Why are you with this person?
Dec 20th 2014
28
                               if I told you why you'd just say that's not a good reason
Dec 20th 2014
44
                                    Snark aside, I can relate. I am in sort of a similar position
Dec 20th 2014
47
RE: 2 times a month. is that really too little?
Dec 20th 2014
16
no affection is more important than orgasm
Dec 20th 2014
19
:( Just sounds like you two should end things.
Dec 20th 2014
30
..
Dec 20th 2014
20
........
Dec 20th 2014
21
      RE: ........
Dec 20th 2014
24
have you told him what gets you off?
Dec 20th 2014
22
yes. and he isn't capable or willing to do it
Dec 20th 2014
23
      RE: yes. and he isn't capable or willing to do it
Dec 20th 2014
25
      well. whenever dude and I split I'm going to be celibate
Dec 20th 2014
38
           Sounds like yall broken up already
Dec 22nd 2014
61
      these two sessions a month...who instigates them?
Dec 20th 2014
26
           it depends
Dec 20th 2014
37
                gatdamn that dry dull ass shit I'm surprised you doing it 2x a month
Dec 20th 2014
41
                thank you.
Dec 20th 2014
43
                uf, brutal
Dec 20th 2014
49
                that is my lovelife!
Dec 22nd 2014
53
                     i think i would hang myself
Dec 23rd 2014
71
Does dude actually like Sex that much?
Dec 20th 2014
27
not really, i think it's assuming a baseline level of desire
Dec 20th 2014
29
You and I are about to have a come to Jesus moment
Dec 20th 2014
31
Yo, sidebar...site worked like a champ, champ
Dec 20th 2014
32
I figured you'd figure it out
Dec 20th 2014
33
RE: You and I are about to have a come to Jesus moment
Dec 20th 2014
34
in 2014, if the sex is wack its your fault
Dec 20th 2014
35
Masturbation > Sex
Dec 20th 2014
40
      for me, it is.
Dec 20th 2014
45
      You're doing it wrong
Dec 20th 2014
48
      not for developmentally healthy humans
Dec 22nd 2014
50
      thats like saying Solylent is an acceptable long term food solution
Dec 22nd 2014
51
So you guys are rubbing one out or jacking off
Dec 20th 2014
36
yep.
Dec 20th 2014
39
      lol oh ok
Dec 20th 2014
42
RE: 2 times a month. is that really too little?
Dec 20th 2014
46
I really agree with this
Dec 22nd 2014
54
^^^^^^^Best outlook in the whole post nm
Dec 23rd 2014
65
you're trolling
Dec 22nd 2014
52
Do you need a lot of Foreplay? I hate long ass foreplay requirements
Dec 22nd 2014
55
And you are masterbating daily. That's why you have no drive for him
Dec 22nd 2014
56
she might have to join #nofap
Dec 23rd 2014
67
sometimes it scares me how alike we are
Dec 23rd 2014
72
lol, damn that sucks real bad.
Dec 22nd 2014
57
2 times a week is really too little...
Dec 22nd 2014
58
one time too many
Dec 22nd 2014
59
2 times a month is just sad. Lookin' at the front door status.
Dec 22nd 2014
60
RE: 2 times a month. is that really too little?
Dec 22nd 2014
62
yes I crave romance, at least a little.
Dec 22nd 2014
64
Yes it is too little. Sex is not a weapon or a treat to be doled out
Dec 22nd 2014
63
Way to little...do you even love this man?
Dec 23rd 2014
66
yo, is the motherfucker you want to have another KID with?
Dec 23rd 2014
68
not necessarily imho
Dec 23rd 2014
69
you make your relationship sound so terrible
Dec 23rd 2014
70
whatever works for y'all is the amount you should be having
Dec 23rd 2014
73
RE: 2 times a month. is that really too little?
Dec 23rd 2014
74
using sex as a weapon is the dumbest thing in the world.
Dec 23rd 2014
75
      yeah, I'm not using sex as a weapon tho.
Dec 23rd 2014
76

Chanson
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1. "Yes, it is"
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2 times a week is too little.

mind
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godleeluv
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2. "I agree it's too long to not have an orgasm"
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But I feel bad that I don't have the desire to actually involve someone else. I have become asexual.
♥♥Church Diva♥♥

  

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6. "Why don't you want to involve anyone else?"
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godleeluv
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9. "doesn't seem worth it."
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I have better orgasm alone. That's why I think I've become asexual. I'm used to not being satisfied during sex and would rather just satisfy myself.
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3. "In a word, FUCK YES"
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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godleeluv
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4. "that's two words."
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12. "that's the joke"
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godleeluv
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14. "ignorance is my running joke."
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5. "EVERY post about ur relationship is just sad and makes me smh"
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7. "this is the first time you said this."
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8. "box must be wack if he ain't even trippin"
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but im banned tho.
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10. "that must be it."
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11. "or maybe ur suspicions were correct and he IS gay.."
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his boy still coming by chillin outside?


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13. "lol. u wrong for that"
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To answer your original question, he does care, enough to say something. I tell him how I feel, and it goes nowhere. So he must not care because what I'm saying doesn't make a difference. And I don't care because I'm not pressed to satisfy him. I feel bad about it but not bad enough to sleep with him more. At this point, I suspect he is sleeping with someone else or at the point he will be soon. But that still doesn't motivate me to want to sleep with him.


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15. "would u be mad if he did have a sidepiece? "
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or would u still not care?



but im banned tho.
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17. "that's just all-around fucked up"
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Do you give a fuck about this person and his needs at all? I mean, you don't even care if this leads him to sleeping with someone else, in fact you sound understanding of that being at least a distinct possibility. Seems like you have discovered some nihilist approach to a "romantic" relationship.

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18. "I have needs too"
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And I've understood they will not be met. So I don't care about meeting his. I've found a way to deal with it, so should he.
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28. "Why are you with this person?"
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44. "if I told you why you'd just say that's not a good reason"
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And you'd be right. So I guess the answer is, my heart and mind are telling me it isn't time to leave yet, but it is getting very close.

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47. "Snark aside, I can relate. I am in sort of a similar position"
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I can't leave her high and dry and as an OKP brilliantly said "Good sex WILL prolong a bad relationship" but overall I know my emotions are misspent and she has a lot of growth to do on her own.

I guess there is a slim, slim chance it will work for a longer span, but not really. It sounds like it's time to pull the plug on your shit, but what do I know?

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16. "RE: 2 times a month. is that really too little?"
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Sat Dec-20-14 01:53 AM by Deacon Blues

  

          

So orgasm is the only thing enjoyable about sex

So you want better sex with him you probably won't get there til you have more sex with him and communicate your needs

But if neither of you care enough to do that you probably need to move on

And if you orgasm daily using machines you may be desensitizing yourself

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19. "no affection is more important than orgasm"
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I had my first orgasm at the age of 12. I've never used a machine. I had my first orgasm from sex at the age of 22. It took me a long time to orgasm from sex because I knew what I needed and the male did not. But affection made it worthwhile because I could not be affectionatested with myself. In my current sitch my parter is not affectionate. And so I'm getting nothing out of it. I have expressed many times I need more affection. I'm not begging any man to be affectionate. I'm too fly for that and never had to do that in the past, and quite frankly having to beg to be touched turns me off. I'd rather satisfy myself. I even started being affectionate with myself, lol. Kissing my arms and rubbing my own back and face and head when I want to feel special. And if I'm with my friends and they touch me I don't stop them because I crave physical contact. It doesn't have to be sexual, just a touch makes me feel connected and rejuvinated. I like feeling the energy of other people. My partner has become zombie like with me. So I just do what I have to do but not more. It's a struggle to have sex the 2 times a month honestly.
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30. ":( Just sounds like you two should end things."
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20. ".."
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Sat Dec-20-14 08:16 AM by godleeluv

  

          

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21. "........"
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Sat Dec-20-14 08:17 AM by godleeluv

  

          

...

  

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24. "RE: ........"
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Yeah, He needs to either step up to meet your needs or seek counseling for his issues , you aren't asking for anything unreasonable

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22. "have you told him what gets you off?"
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Or do you expect him to just know or to read your mind?

And sorry "don't come before I do" isn't enough


does it really matter?

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godleeluv
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23. "yes. and he isn't capable or willing to do it"
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So, he gets no love from me. Except 2 times a month.
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25. "RE: yes. and he isn't capable or willing to do it"
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>So, he gets no love from me. Except 2 times a month.
>♥♥Church Diva♥♥


But are YOU happy with that?

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38. "well. whenever dude and I split I'm going to be celibate"
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For a few years. So in my opinion, this is just practice.


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61. "Sounds like yall broken up already"
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26. "these two sessions a month...who instigates them?"
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Who says to the other hey...want to...?

  

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37. "it depends"
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Sat Dec-20-14 03:19 PM by godleeluv

  

          

Usually no one says anything. We are in the bed anyway and he usually presses his erect penis against my ass and hopes I react. Then there is some sideways sex where no one commits to being on top because they are either too tired or sore or uninterested in putting forth any real effort.
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41. "gatdamn that dry dull ass shit I'm surprised you doing it 2x a month"
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Once a year oughta do it

Also he's starting it according to your description

,
does it really matter?

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43. "thank you."
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And I'm a leo, so u know how we do.
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49. "uf, brutal "
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53. "that is my lovelife! "
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'cept maybe 4-6 times a month... maybe...

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71. "i think i would hang myself"
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i might not be crisco (yet) but sex, and good sex at that, is very important to me

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27. "Does dude actually like Sex that much?"
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Everyone is saying that's too little, but that's assuming that everyone has the exact same sexual appetite and drive.

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29. "not really, i think it's assuming a baseline level of desire"
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if a guy is under 60, it's pretty safe to assume twice a month is less than he'd like.

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31. "You and I are about to have a come to Jesus moment"
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1st....to answer your question....yes, that's a piss poor sex life. Especially if you are on some "rationing the poochie yum yums" out because he's not doing x/y/x.....that is horrible.

My wife and I argue all the time and both of us have been on some Taye Diggs ***dingdingding MY DIVOOOOOOOOORCE!!!!** status more than once. But we fucking. Its an unspoken rule that if you in need...come get this cat ass because until we filing papers, I want that shit handled in house.

So what the hell is it you want, yo? 'Cause I don't know if you are just venting and you really love this dude or what but I never.......EVER EVER EVER...hear you say a positive word about him. At all.

And that's sad. I don't know if its your personality or you just only come here to vent and keep the happy moments to yourself.....

But either way...if you really this miserable you should seriously consider cutting your losses and making a more effective use of your time...'cause this he gon' be miserable 'cause I'M miserable shit is for the birds.

All said in love but yo....I gotta speak my mind on shit. It is what it is.

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32. "Yo, sidebar...site worked like a champ, champ"
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I was the hero like a mug last night very sure they'll remember this for life

On topic, agree with everything you said

  

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33. "I figured you'd figure it out"
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glad I could save the church some money

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34. "RE: You and I are about to have a come to Jesus moment"
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I gotta add on to this because this sh*t is about to get real. YES, you are wrong. YES, 2 times a month is NOT enough. And, if you aren't willing to meet each other's needs, then go your separate ways.

(Sorry, I'm still laughing at DVS and the "poochie yum yums")

Its sounds to me that you aren't speaking each other's love language (yes, I am of the 5 love languages tribe..google it). First, you need to find out what that is. And, work on it! If you aren't willing to...end it!

I've been married for almost 10 years and in a relationship with my hubby for almost 20. We also have had our moments. But, we worked through that shit! He is my best friend and my husband. And, if you can not say that about your dude...end the shit. If you aren't willing to work on it...end the shit!

Why stay in a relationship with a person who is not meeting your wants and especially your needs?! My husband knows that I crave quality time and emotional time. I know that he prefers to be shown love by doing acts that make him happy. For me that means the house needs to be spotless, and I need to think about his time and fitting into it (he's a busy man and if it takes me doing a drive by blow job then thats what I gotta do).

The point is you do things to show the ones you love that you love them. And if you aren't willing to show them those things, why should they do it for you? If you are not willing...END IT. You can co-parent and be friends. But you don't have to be in a relationship.

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35. "in 2014, if the sex is wack its your fault"
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If you would rather just jerk off than put in effort to make it better for you, you probably shouldnt even be fuckin with this person at all

Or you're addicted to fapping and it would be this way regardless

  

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40. "Masturbation > Sex"
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>If you would rather just jerk off than put in effort to make
>it better for you, you probably shouldnt even be fuckin with
>this person at all
>
>Or you're addicted to fapping and it would be this way
>regardless

  

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45. "for me, it is."
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And that is a hard thing to admit. Because I don't think it should be that way. I'm to blame as well because there are a lot of things I don't feel comfortable about. But the right partner could get a lot more out of me. I just don't have the right partner. The partner I have makes me want to do less. And I'm too young for that.
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48. "You're doing it wrong"
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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50. "not for developmentally healthy humans"
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51. "thats like saying Solylent is an acceptable long term food solution"
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36. "So you guys are rubbing one out or jacking off"
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every day in-between those 2 days?

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39. "yep."
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42. "lol oh ok"
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yeah thats odd.
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46. "RE: 2 times a month. is that really too little?"
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Well maybe he is withholding affection to punish you because his needs aren't being met just like you are withholding sex to punish him

Either way it's the wrong way to go about it

Try the opposite shower him with sex and attention

If he doesn't change maybe try counseling and a vacation

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54. "I really agree with this"
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65. "^^^^^^^Best outlook in the whole post nm"
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does it really matter?

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52. "you're trolling"
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if the shoe was on the other foot and he only wanted it twice a month, you wouldnt be pleased

  

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55. "Do you need a lot of Foreplay? I hate long ass foreplay requirements"
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I'm also the dude that thinks a chick should be ready to go soon as she kisses me...LOL

BUt I'm fine with nipple play, kissing and clit play for about 5 minutes. If you aint hot by then get out of my bed. Cause once my dills is up and ready to go it's time!!!

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56. "And you are masterbating daily. That's why you have no drive for him"
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It at least aint helping.

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67. "she might have to join #nofap"
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72. "sometimes it scares me how alike we are"
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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57. "lol, damn that sucks real bad."
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58. "2 times a week is really too little..."
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At least if you're in a relationship...

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59. "one time too many"
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60. "2 times a month is just sad. Lookin' at the front door status."
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3-4 times a week is the sweet spot, I think. Leaves enough space for anticipation, but not enough space for frustration.

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62. "RE: 2 times a month. is that really too little?"
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You not in the mood because it sounds like you all are missing

ROMANCE!!!!

Men want sex women want ROMANCE...


woot there it is

You take the blue pill, the story ends. You wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.

  

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64. "yes I crave romance, at least a little."
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But I'm not getting any. So I have a very limited sex drive. Maybe the holidays will put me in the mood.
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63. "Yes it is too little. Sex is not a weapon or a treat to be doled out"
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sparingly in a relationship.

I'm sad for you and for your man. One would think it must be the sex holding you together.

Otherwise this an an eye opening post into the frequency or desired frequency of sex in responders lives.
Its a valid question.
You never know how much other people are fucking. I wonder what's normal myself.

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66. "Way to little...do you even love this man?"
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Even when I'm mad at my husband, I still desire him.

  

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68. "yo, is the motherfucker you want to have another KID with?"
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FOH. recipe for a melt down.

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69. "not necessarily imho"
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people go through phases romantically

it's definitely problematic if it goes on for more than a few months but shit happens...

but neither of yall ever seem like doing the work to get through that shit

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70. "you make your relationship sound so terrible"
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“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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73. "whatever works for y'all is the amount you should be having"
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74. "RE: 2 times a month. is that really too little?"
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IMO, I think that the frequency of your sex is a result of the bad habits that have developed in our relationship. I know, I am living that out right now, and for the record twice per month would be a lotto ticket compared to what I have.

The idea that he wont do x so you now don't do y, is what kills the safety, comfort, joy, happiness, sensuality of a relationship. All relationships goes through ups and downs, but keeping these actions constant is what keeps you coming back to your lover.

I know it is hard but try to spark something between you two, and not for a day either. Give it a two weeks. Cook his favorite things to eat, speak before you go to bed, try to connect in some small way. It could lead to more but and it will be awkward at first, don't continue if it feels uncomfortable, but fight through that pride and see what happens.

  

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75. "using sex as a weapon is the dumbest thing in the world. "
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76. "yeah, I'm not using sex as a weapon tho. "
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I'm a leo and I love to have sex. But over the course of the relationship I lost my sex drive. So I'm not holding out to punish him, I'm not having sex with him because I don't feel attracted to him or attractive to him. There is a difference. When I masterbate it is when I'm alone and feel the need to orgasm. When I'm around him, an orgasm is the last thing on my mind. So my point is, I'm not holding out, I'm being honest. I dont have sex because I feel obligated to. I have sex because I want to.


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