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southphillyman
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"so crossing as a (black) greek could potentially involve rape?"
Wed Dec-17-14 02:56 PM by southphillyman

  

          

i'm basing this off multiple conversations with aka's and delta's i know over the last couple days
after a non greek told me this happens (not sure how they knew)

this is blowing my mind
i knew you could get beat up or forced to do dumb shit
but being commanded to have sex with dudes you don't know and ain't interested in is a little too far imo
sometimes it could involve gang bangs and everything i heard ("trains" as they put it)
crazy
a lot of this stuff is done in private, but is it worth looking into just banning this stuff if everything isn't transparent?
upenn banned deltas for years, and my friend wouldn't tell me why
i wouldn't be surprised if a sexual assault was involved. otherwise why wouldn't she tell me? she probably knew i was fittin to judge like shit
someone from another school told me a girl went missing while crossing and was never found and some ppl on campus suspected the line(?) may have accidentally killed her and did something with the body
that sound like some urban legend shit but they so secretive when shit goes wrong i guess you have to consider it because the members may feel compelled to keep shit on the low


other shit i learned:
u have to pay dues. if you don't you may be cut off. (i know an aka with no aka friends......because she won't pay her dues...wtf)
white greeks don't be gung ho post graduation. black friend in white frat told me this. now that i think about it i never saw a 60 yr old white lady throwing up a skeewee or whatever the hand symbols are called

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as a dyed in the wool GDI, this is 1 of the dumbest things i ever heard
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you may not have to get raped
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      exactly. i'm not swearing an oath to nobody.
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      base. i'd prefer 3rd party anecdotes on this
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      define inappropriate
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           LOL
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           dude people were fucking like rabbits because they wanted to
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                oh well that makes it all okay then.
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                     yea the rationalization fitting to be cray
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                     thats what i said, right? disgusting.
Dec 17th 2014
                     right on, bro.
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                     this convo is a lil scary right now
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           people have DIED during the hazing process
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                i wasnt online but i saw the dst & que lines process from
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This just is not true, even on individual levels
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RE: This just is not true, even on individual levels
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how can you say this?
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      for the longest, black planet had me thinking IUP was a HBCU
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You ever been to an AKA wedding?
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I fell asleep at the table while they were singing those songs...
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No dis to you Greek folks but,
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networking and friends
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RE: No dis to you Greek folks but,
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i thought about pledging a few times
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Are you asking this question based on the untruths of the OP?
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not to speak for him,
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I was a legacy candidate and it made my grandmother happy
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It doesn't stop after college either...
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On the one hand
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i aint ever heard any of that
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definitely
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never heard of it happening
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Don't know about soros, but long suspected this about auxiliaries
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what are auxilleries? Like Kappa sweathearts?
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      Yeah, like the sweethearts, sigma doves, etc. One-letter types.
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they'll ask you to 'define rape'.
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yea not talking dark alleys here
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If you define rape as including agreeing to have sex with someone inorde...
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      Cool beans, dude.
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oh god give me a damn break. nm
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TROLLAPOLOOZA
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This is guaranteed to be great
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BASE
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None of this is true
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i'd assume the "organization" doesn't endorse any of the stuff that
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'choice'...
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      Yes. They are ostracized though.
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           what's the frat/soror experience like for a 'paper' member?
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                The dude I knew didn't participate in anything
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                damn. what a 'choice'!
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                In undergrad, you might have a line of new members that went through
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                were the 'paper' members treated differently after they crossed?
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                     yeah.. i went to an HBCU, not sure how it works on other campuses
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                          wow.
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                          i didnt pledge but we treated paper greeks with ridicule
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                               damn.
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                          I know a LOT of paper AKAs who crossed at an HBCU
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                               I was paper...they wanted me for my GPA and activist clout
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                                    That's good.
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                i ended up cool with a couple of Kappas at college
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                     that's sad.
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it was widely known that Ques had to jump blindfolded off a bridge
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I can't believe this at all
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      LOL ok man
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           speaking of off the books. i didn't know you had to pay to pledge
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                it is more than that. like $2,000 on the books to the Natl Chapter
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                     wait what?!
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                          lmao that's what i said
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                          pretty sure they pay dues every year
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                          ask Case_One
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                          not only is it not free that shit costs literally thousands of dollars
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when Greeks disown you, they put you on blast on the internet (link)
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well damn, that's embarrassing
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LOL thats cold
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these lists are long as hell, wtf?
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      oops
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      lmao this is ridiculous.
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Sidenote: Y'all seen the backlash about the Sorority Girls reality show?
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Whilst you bullshitting, that's my gripe w/ Married to Medicine
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that show kills me.
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that sparked this whole discussion actually
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uh-huh...that outrage is real homie,
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      I don't doubt that they are mad
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           eh I think it's valid concern
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           Damn. I was wrong. Advertisers are pulling ads. Black twitter is powerfu...
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I've heard enough stories from enough women to believe it happens
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yall really do believe everything you see on the internet.
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when we see/hear stories about Black biz execs dying
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Shiot was known BEFORE the web
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This ^^^
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anyone who went to an HBCU should know how it goes...
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the first line of his post was literally "...based on conversations..."
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i know TOO MANY dudes that fought the dude(s) that pledged them
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one of my boys had an older brother that fucked up a few Ques
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Why are people acting like frats/sorors don't cross the line into crimin...
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the ones who crossed the line don't have the stories.
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more clarification on this was just given to me
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um YES
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ooh lawd they gonna get u
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SPM is never gonna get on line now
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http://www.picgifs.com/reaction-gifs/reaction-gifs/omg/omg148.gif
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if you haven't fucked while your homie is in the room
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      RE: if you haven't fucked while your homie is in the room
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First off never seen no shit like that and I pledged a gang of women.
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So, what are your thoughts on this Bill Cosby thing???
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      lmao
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      It's simple
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i know a grimey ass thug ass que nigga who told me point blank
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yes it's usually with dudes in the brother frat i heard
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      man...i got alot of que and delta fam and this is really disheartening
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Are they trying to purchase NBC?
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^^the real question here
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kaboom KRASH
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Gamma Rays be wildin. n/m
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first thing i thought of when i read the post
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What about the hierarchy tho?
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If you are 30+ and getting hazed, I'm emptying my joke book on you
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going to college could potentially involve rape
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I've never heard of this is all and most of Blk Greeks I know were made
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frat/sorority shit is dumb cult/sheep shit. period.
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Ppl who make blanket statements like this just show their own complete
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oh really? well I guess it's all good then
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Point is ppl who are still dealing in sweeping generalities about anythi...
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      (insert sarcasm, derision and dismissiveness here)
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none of this has anything to do with anything...
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Says the cool smart anonymous guy on the internet.
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damn @ this
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Thought branding was birthed from african tribal rituals
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      #Actually, that was Africa City, Greece, not Africa City, Africa.
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           common mistake, you can see how it would happen
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I'm sure it somewhere at some point!
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back inna day i heard shit about AKAs at morgan + frozen hot
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My college boyfriend is a white frat boy
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Toast is in my big book of shit i should not know about.
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I've heard some really BAD pledge stories over the years
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Hmm Delta here. Pledged at a pwu
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Hmm RIF
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on the show, funny how the orgs gave a statement on #blklivesmatter
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all frats/sororities have dues
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Binlahab
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1. "as a dyed in the wool GDI, this is 1 of the dumbest things i ever heard"
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Wed Dec-17-14 02:56 PM by Binlahab

  

          

nigga fuck no you dont have to get raped to cross cmon dude, use your brain


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4. "you may not have to get raped"
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but you may have to do whatever the people pledging you in tell you to do. and with that said....i don't think its far fetched to people some sexual inappropriateness is going on. i've heard stories.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

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5. "exactly. i'm not swearing an oath to nobody."
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Wed Dec-17-14 03:03 PM by Bruce Belafonte

  

          

no fraternities, cults, secret societies, gangs (is their a difference?).

as the saying goes, "power corrupts..."

http://youtu.be/5o37GORoKUQ

#htpw

  

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9. "base. i'd prefer 3rd party anecdotes on this"
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really ain't interested in greeks responding cause there probably will be some defensiveness/agenda behind it
even the ppl i know personally kind of aggy behind it

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10. "define inappropriate"
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i mean you couldnt have gotten further from the greek world then me & a HELLA lot of sexually inappropriate shit was going on in my super nerd world so yeah i can imagine

but thats the process if youre the kinda of person people can tell to go suck random dude off...& you do thats not THEIR fault

i dunno

  

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16. "LOL"
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fuck you.

  

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19. "dude people were fucking like rabbits because they wanted to"
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did some rapes take place 100% im sure

was there an epidemic of people getting raped explicitly to get put on, hell no & thats just a ridiculous assertion

  

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21. "oh well that makes it all okay then."
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as long as there are only a few rapes here and there it's totally fine.

fuck you.

  

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23. "yea the rationalization fitting to be cray"
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"thats what i said, right? disgusting."


  

          

i said, rapes undoubtedly did happen.

to say that getting raped was a normal course of action in getting into a fraternity or sorority is idiotically wrong. period.

but continue cooking


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29. "right on, bro."
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rapes undoubtedly happen and it's totally fine.

solid.

fuck you.

  

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41. "this convo is a lil scary right now"
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...i'm just reading in disbelief...

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27. "people have DIED during the hazing process"
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>i mean you couldnt have gotten further from the greek world
>then me & a HELLA lot of sexually inappropriate shit was going
>on in my super nerd world so yeah i can imagine
>
>but thats the process if youre the kinda of person people can
>tell to go suck random dude off...& you do thats not THEIR
>fault
>
>i dunno

so don't act like people don't want it bad enough to do anything for it. plus....some of these are 18/19 year old kids.

personally i'm not the type of nigga to let someone put hands on me, or paddle me which is a practice i bet that 85% of all greeks participate in. i'm not the type of nigga to not take a shower when i want to. i'm also not the type of nigga to miss a good night sleep. but that sort of stuff happens in a whole lot of pledging cycles. so just cause i wouldn't do it doesn't mean others wouldn't as evident by the millions of people who have pledged.

so don't act like the process is a bunch of kids doing what they think is the right thing to do. the entire process is do something you DON'T want to do, to prove your loyalty to me. and you'd be naive to think sexual shit doesn't happen. and by inappropriate i mean against your will. all that sexual nerdery you got yourself into...was by your choice. not because of pressure.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

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32. "i wasnt online but i saw the dst & que lines process from"
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i'd say 2000 - 2003 pretty up close throughout from intake to crossing & nothing like that happened

but whatever


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2. "This just is not true, even on individual levels"
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>i knew you could get beat up or forced to do dumb shit
>but being commanded to have sex with dudes you don't know and
>ain't interested in is a little too far imo
>sometimes it could involve gang bangs and everything i heard
>("trains" as they put it)
>crazy


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20. "RE: This just is not true, even on individual levels"
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how we know?
fwiw no one is saying it happened to them, not that they would anyway
just that they heard of it happening or it could happen
ie: they probably were on the line when it happened

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76. "how can you say this? "
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Pretty sure everyone on here who went to college has a story or 2. Maybe it's all rumors but I doubt it.

A friend of mine was on line when they suspended the Kappas at IUP.

  

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"for the longest, black planet had me thinking IUP was a HBCU"


  

          

west chester too, lol

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3. "You ever been to an AKA wedding?"
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I went to one where the AKA part was twice as long as the church part.

  

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14. "I fell asleep at the table while they were singing those songs..."
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6. "No dis to you Greek folks but,"
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Why? Why do you pledge to these organizations? I know I just have my outsider view, but I just don't get and I can't help but feel that if Malcolm or Martin could see how folks carry on in D.C when ya'll gather-- I don't know man. I see a lot of foolishness and none of it looks appealing.

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26. "networking and friends"
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i imagine at some schools you have to pledge to be cool too

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35. "RE: No dis to you Greek folks but,"
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For the heauxs.


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54. "i thought about pledging a few times "
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...i thought the fellas i knew in certain organizations were great people and i wanted to be a part of that comraderie....there's nothing wrong with joining

BUT....i'm not down with having to go through a bunch of crazy tests to prove i can hang with you and wear a t shirt (yeah it's more than just that, but i'm sayin)

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62. "Are you asking this question based on the untruths of the OP?"
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>Why? Why do you pledge to these organizations? I know I just
>have my outsider view, but I just don't get and I can't help
>but feel that if Malcolm or Martin could see how folks carry
>on in D.C when ya'll gather-- I don't know man. I see a lot of
>foolishness and none of it looks appealing.


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"not to speak for him, "
Wed Dec-17-14 04:41 PM by tariqhu

          

butI doubt he's asking only because of okp.

I've wondered that as well. I never understood the appeal of joining. I can get chicks and network without joining a group.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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103. "I was a legacy candidate and it made my grandmother happy"
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I'd rejected all of her other black bourgeoisie stuff so I said why not. I'm not a hyper Greek at all, but I do like some of the traditions and building with other smart Black women. I also enjoy teaching in our tutoring program.

  

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7. "It doesn't stop after college either... "
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My brother told me a girl in ATL told him she was invited to a sex party thrown by one of the frats. These dudes 40+ and still getting it in.

Hell, I went to a friends bachelor party in West Philly 3 years ago (he is a KAPPA) and the strippers were at the frat house on Drexel's campus. A real live shitty frat house.

Wedding cost 50K and the day before we were at a fucking frat house.

I was a little heated because I expected these rich mofos to be in a hotel suite and I'm sipping out a plastic red cup.

  

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95. "On the one hand"
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I kinda see why as a grown adult one would want to still go on with that mess since as you get old, your social circle gets smaller and smaller and its harder to get and maintain friendships. But me on a personal level, I shudder thinking that GROWN ADULTS would still partake in that when they are well outside of the school/dorm environment.

  

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8. "i aint ever heard any of that"
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11. "definitely"
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It isnt rape souch as it is an ”get down or get out"

Some of the stories ive heard...

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12. "never heard of it happening"
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that doesn't mean it hasn't in some places. but if it has those are extremely rare instances.

  

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13. "Don't know about soros, but long suspected this about auxiliaries "
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*suspected*

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22. "what are auxilleries? Like Kappa sweathearts? "
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I smashed a Kappa Sweatheart and she wanted me to go to a Kappa Dinner. I said yes... then my friend told me about some of the stories about what they have to do to be sweethearts and I cancelled on her.

She asked if we could still be butt buddies but I declined.

Other Kappa Sweethearts were laughing at me when they found out I hit it.

  

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109. "Yeah, like the sweethearts, sigma doves, etc. One-letter types."
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Like you, I stayed away.

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15. "they'll ask you to 'define rape'. "
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LOL

man, please.

fuck you.

  

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28. "yea not talking dark alleys here"
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more so. you wake up on a tuesday and find out you have to fuck a dude you don't know and pretty much ain't sexually interested in under the duress of being "on line"

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68. "If you define rape as including agreeing to have sex with someone inorde..."
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to join a sorority than their definitely needs to be a discussion regarding the definition of rape.

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120. "Cool beans, dude."
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fuck you.

  

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17. "oh god give me a damn break. nm "
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does it really matter?

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18. "TROLLAPOLOOZA"
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Let's end this year with a bang!



but im banned tho.
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25. "This is guaranteed to be great"
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112. "BASE"
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24. "None of this is true"
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Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I understand that urban legends are part of the game in terms of black greek life, but this is not even remotely true.

When you enter and as you proceed through your process you are always reminded that you have a choice. No organization can claim to be prestigious and historic and have a rape associated with it as port of it's indoctrination.

Like I said everyone is entitled to their opinion, and I am not here to debate what anyone will swear makes sense to them (regardless of how far fetched it sounds) but I can assure you that greek life does not embrace or condone rape or sexual assault of sexual violence or any kind in any situation.

As far as being ostracized for not paying dues, not that may be what these individuals mentioned to you or anyone, but no one is ostracized for not paying dues. As a matter of fact one of the biggest challenges that black greek organizations face is not having enough members pay dues after they join.

  

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33. "i'd assume the "organization" doesn't endorse any of the stuff that"
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happens when ppl are on line
i'm not saying rape is an official part of the process obviously
is there any kind of oversight into what happens on campus from senior members?
like is some 40 yr old member present during the crossing events or is that pretty much left up to the college students?

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34. "'choice'..."
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sure.

they can choose not to do ___. but if they don't do ___ they won't be admitted into the org.

or are there members who didn't participate in the hazing process? members who exercised their 'choice' not to be hazed but still became members?

example: i was a member of my high school's drama club. i was invited after i'd appeared in a certain number of productions at the school. there was a hazing process and i declined to participate. i was still admitted. i haven't heard this is an option w/the BGLOs or w/other similar frat/soro orgs. have you heard this?

fuck you.

  

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43. "Yes. They are ostracized though."
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They call them 'paper'

>
>or are there members who didn't participate in the hazing
>process? members who exercised their 'choice' not to be hazed
>but still became members?
>

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44. "what's the frat/soror experience like for a 'paper' member?"
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fuck you.

  

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53. "The dude I knew didn't participate in anything"
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You wouldn't know he was a member unless he told you. I'm guessing they had a conversation about that.
No step shows, no line dancing, no jacket, nothing.

My take is he wasn't even interested in that to begin with though. I think he family was all Kappas, so he just had to continue the tradition

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55. "damn. what a 'choice'!"
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fuck you.

  

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64. "In undergrad, you might have a line of new members that went through"
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the paper process.. but some of them would go through the pledging process of being 'on line'.. like asking old heads to come down to pledge them, or pledging with lines at other schools.
a lot of greeks at my school were divided by the real (insert org name here) and the "skaters/paper/fakers/whatever"..
This was in most cases the sororities though.

  

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79. "were the 'paper' members treated differently after they crossed?"
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fuck you.

  

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83. "yeah.. i went to an HBCU, not sure how it works on other campuses"
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but you ended up having 2 sets of each organization, damn near.
Some of them were brave enough to still rep their organization, but they would wear different color shirts or jackets to separate themselves from the others.


shit was dumb

  

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86. "wow."
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fuck you.

  

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89. "i didnt pledge but we treated paper greeks with ridicule"
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like nigga you aint a REAL Zometa Beta Chi

those who went "paper" were outed and generally didnt get as much love as the real ones

sororities got same treatment

that HBCU life!

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98. "damn."
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fuck you.

  

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100. "I know a LOT of paper AKAs who crossed at an HBCU"
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I mean, their line was so damn big that year it was laughable.

But I don't think they get treated any differently. Maybe because the whole line is more paper than not.

None of them pay dues, either.

I don't get the point.

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104. "I was paper...they wanted me for my GPA and activist clout"
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I'd say it was a fair exchange. I was never treated badly.

  

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121. "That's good."
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Bc...damn.

fuck you.

  

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96. "i ended up cool with a couple of Kappas at college"
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cool enough where at Homecoming i could chill on the plot with them. not like that was my goal, but i appreciated my friends being my friends regardless of whatever setting they were in. and that's why they're my friends.

anyway this other cat who i was tight with crossed paper after undergrad. he rolls up on the plot with his jacket and his cane and got NO love. i mean i dapped him up, but they didn't even acknowledge dude. and here i am getting respect and love from them over their "brother".
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not compassionate....only polite.

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99. "that's sad."
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fuck you.

  

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30. "it was widely known that Ques had to jump blindfolded off a bridge"
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this was a specific chapter, obvi

at midnight
they blindfolded them
took them to a railroad bridge maybe twenty feet above the river
and pushed them off

made them find their way back to the yard by a specific time

this was just common knowledge

or then, a Que chapter in the next state unleashed a pack of pitbulls on the pledges in a locked garage
i laughed so hard when i heard this
the pledges were fighting the dogs off in pitch blackness
my boys still has the scratches/bites on his wrist to this day

i honestly never heard of all out RAPE
but i have heard of dudes fingering chicks and doing other sneaky shit


yeah a lot of mental torture ad physical abuse went on

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31. "I can't believe this at all"
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>or then, a Que chapter in the next state unleashed a pack of
>pitbulls on the pledges in a locked garage
>i laughed so hard when i heard this
>the pledges were fighting the dogs off in pitch blackness
>my boys still has the scratches/bites on his wrist to this
>day

  

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"LOL ok man"
Wed Dec-17-14 03:28 PM by deejboram

  

          

would you believe a BAND FRAT could haze you so bad you could die?

LOL them pits is some lightweight shit man

how many thousands of "off the books" dollars you think these folks are paying to pledge?

but yeah, im not puttin nobody's chapter on blast but this kinda stuff happens regularly between houston and tallahasee


EDIT: you believe the jumping off the bridge blindfolded part but not the dog part?

shit, when i first heard the bridge part i called shenanigans
but then i had boys who crossed in two separate lines tell me the same story so i was like, wow

i laughed at the dogs when i first heard it
this was at a #1 ranked D1 football school too

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47. "speaking of off the books. i didn't know you had to pay to pledge"
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like a $1000 some times
one chick told me she had to borrow the money because she couldn't ask her parents
crazy to think niggas are spending they fasfa refund money on this stuff
i guess i just don't know shit about greek life cause all this is news to me
i thought u joined for free, stood in a line, let your oldheads scream in your face during the initiation, then reaped the benefits of pussy afterwards

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49. "it is more than that. like $2,000 on the books to the Natl Chapter"
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but then OFF THE BOOKS maybe a few more thousand

like, "bitch go get me and my crew some Popeye and be back her before 7:13"
that's 19:13 and i will let you put two and two together

or niggas go to the club and see a pledge there...
put ALLLL of our shit on HIS tab!!!
so pledges would be wise not to go out to clubs during pledge time
most be too tired/ass too sore to go out anyway

as you said,
i know too many dudes and chicks who used refund checks to fund their pledging

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63. "wait what?!"
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this shit isnt even free!?!?


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67. "lmao that's what i said"
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my mind getting blown like shit today

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70. "pretty sure they pay dues every year"
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88. "ask Case_One"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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102. "not only is it not free that shit costs literally thousands of dollars"
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then more each year

  

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36. "when Greeks disown you, they put you on blast on the internet (link)"
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http://www.deltasigmatheta.org/membership_mbmexpulsion.html

I've known many a chick to be on these kinds of lists
And I know the reason(s) why
Nothing sexual
Usually they just got caught for doing "normal" hazing shit
but since the school caught wind of it
the chapter had no choice but to "persona non grata" them

like that FAMU band hazing
tau beta sigma & kappa kappa psi do that shit all day every day
but since dude died, heads had to roll

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40. "well damn, that's embarrassing "
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59. "LOL thats cold"
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@geahuwine

  

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90. "these lists are long as hell, wtf?"
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https://aka-web.s3.amazonaws.com/files/expelled_members_boule_2014.pdf

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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116. "oops"
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Wed Dec-17-14 06:04 PM by MizClayton

  

          

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128. "lmao this is ridiculous."
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<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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37. "Sidenote: Y'all seen the backlash about the Sorority Girls reality show?"
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Some of the dumbest outrage I've seen in a minute.

This one chick (AKA) has made this her crusade to get the show yanked. Posting petition after petition, boycott after boycott.
She claims the show is destructive because it makes educated black women pook like buffoons.

I could accept that if she wasn't consistently live tweeting Real Housewives of Whatever or Basketball wives smh

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38. "Whilst you bullshitting, that's my gripe w/ Married to Medicine"
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124. "that show kills me. "
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48. "that sparked this whole discussion actually"
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it went from that to greeks in general to this rape stuff

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57. "uh-huh...that outrage is real homie, "
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the show is losing sponsors already based off the bad images put out on the show....i'm not saying other reality lifestyle shows are better, but this one seems to really have ticked most folks off...

"yes, sometimes my rhymes are sexist, but you lovely bitches and hos should know i'm tryin to correct it"- hiphopopotamus

  

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77. "I don't doubt that they are mad"
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I do doubt that sponsors are pilling out though. I don't think the black greek lobby is that powerful.

It's just this selective outrage is especially hypocritical.
These women on the show are members of the sorority, like it or not. There are upstanding members and not so upstanding members. The show tends to focus on the non upstanding ones (at least I guess. Never seen the show). Presumably because they are mote entertaining.

We see the same dynamic play out in the general population too. The women on Housewives aren't the beacon on black society, but they are entertaining.

The fact that someone would be outrage at the damage the sorority show is doing to black women, but at the same time get the popcorn out for Housewives is ridiculous

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85. "eh I think it's valid concern"
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It's one thing to get on tv representing yourself as a fool. I would be pissed if somebody were on tv representing an organization I was involved in like that.

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127. "Damn. I was wrong. Advertisers are pulling ads. Black twitter is powerfu..."
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>I do doubt that sponsors are pulling out though. I don't
>think the black greek lobby is that powerful.
>

Can they put some effort into getting these other disgraceful shows on the ropes now too?

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/style-blog/wp/2014/12/17/black-twitter-backlash-against-vh1s-sorority-sisters-prompts-advertisers-to-pull-out/

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39. "I've heard enough stories from enough women to believe it happens"
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Especially those lil bullshit "interest groups" like the frat sweethearts or whatever they're called, them chicks that don't cross always have stories and a lot of the chicks I know that dropped was specifically because they weren't finna fuck random dudes just to belong to some group.


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42. "yall really do believe everything you see on the internet."
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fascinating.

im gonna start a rumor that Black people are excellent business people & see if that gets any traction


does it really matter?

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45. "when we see/hear stories about Black biz execs dying"
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during biz meetings then we'll believe your rumors too.

fuck you.

  

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56. "Shiot was known BEFORE the web"
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71. "This ^^^ "
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I was in college in 90-93, we ALL knew how it went down. Everyone I knew had heard the stories about trains being run on certain chicks. Some of those stories were corroborated by other women that dropped off the line.


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60. "anyone who went to an HBCU should know how it goes..."
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i don't think it's as crazy as the OP implies, but i know it can get murky on some campuses...

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125. "the first line of his post was literally "...based on conversations...""
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so...

  

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46. "i know TOO MANY dudes that fought the dude(s) that pledged them"
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after they ccrossed
like i have heard this NUMEROUS times
same night after probate,
niggas is checkin for the nigga(s) that checked his chin the harded during pledging

i'm like one of the few cats i know who aint pledge
i guess i dodged that bullet

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51. "one of my boys had an older brother that fucked up a few Ques"
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while he was on line. shit happened 10 years before I heard the story. This muhfucka was a damn living legend. Heard he caught like 3 of them niggas on their way to a party or some shit drunk and fucked all 3 of them up. A couple days later all these Ques were on the yard to 'see' him. He still crossed.

  

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50. "Why are people acting like frats/sorors don't cross the line into crimin..."
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While people are balking at the term rape, there's definately cohersion and assault going on to 'toughen up' and to build 'brotherhood'.

We acting like hazing doesn't exist?

  

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52. "the ones who crossed the line don't have the stories."
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it's the ones who DIDN'T make it who have the stories to tell.

well, some of them.

like, they may not have crossed b/c they refused to do *insert quasi-criminal act here*.

fuck you.

  

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58. "more clarification on this was just given to me"
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"sex" happens. but your "dean" and "big sisters" are present to make sure nothing extra happens
just told to me by an AKA

iono maybe it's just me but the idea of your sorority sisters watching you get fucked takes the weirdness up a notch

sex is quoted because that's what she said, so clearly she don't see it as rape
dean and big sisters is quoted cause i'm not sure what they are in the hierarchy of sororities
i'm assuming "nothing extra happens" means anything violent/fatal

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61. "um YES"
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>"sex" happens. but your "dean" and "big sisters" are present
>to make sure nothing extra happens
>just told to me by an AKA
>
>iono maybe it's just me but the idea of your sorority sisters
>watching you get fucked takes the weirdness up a notch


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66. "ooh lawd they gonna get u"
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@geahuwine

  

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87. "SPM is never gonna get on line now"
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Lol

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81. "http://www.picgifs.com/reaction-gifs/reaction-gifs/omg/omg148.gif"
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http://www.picgifs.com/reaction-gifs/reaction-gifs/omg/omg148.gif

www.royallegacy.org

For Real (Official Video):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBRoCPO8esE

  

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82. "if you haven't fucked while your homie is in the room"
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Maybe he's next.
Maybe he's playing madden

But that's some really normal oh you want some...? shit

I'm sure it's the same for females. Nothing else to do...what else we supposed to get into...studying? Lol

  

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101. "RE: if you haven't fucked while your homie is in the room"
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>Maybe he's next.
>Maybe he's playing madden
>
>But that's some really normal oh you want some...? shit
>
>I'm sure it's the same for females. Nothing else to do...what
>else we supposed to get into...studying? Lol

  

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65. "First off never seen no shit like that and I pledged a gang of women. "
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Deltas and AKAs and Kappa Sweethearts.


Shit the brahs didn't even want the setouts to be kappa sweethearts. The sweethearts were treated like our little sisters, not heauxs.



Secondly, if someone tells you to have sex with someone or they won't let you into their sorority you a dumbass to do some dumb shit like that. Certainly wouldn't be rape if you willing went along with some dumbshit like that.



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73. "So, what are your thoughts on this Bill Cosby thing???"
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>Secondly, if someone tells you to have sex with someone or
>they won't let you into their sorority you a dumbass to do
>some dumb shit like that. Certainly wouldn't be rape if you
>willing went along with some dumbshit like that.

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78. "lmao"
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i'm bout to say
if that's dudes logic post cosby....then iono what to say
i probably would have thought the same way say in june
post hannibal burress joke though?
FUCK THAT
cosby a rapist, kobe a rapist, these frat dudes are rapists
perspective change fam

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84. "It's simple"
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If he drugged a woman and had sex with them, he raped them.

If a woman had sex with him to further her career, than that sex act wasn't rape. Deplorable behaviour, but not rape.

Ain't that hard to figure out.




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69. "i know a grimey ass thug ass que nigga who told me point blank"
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about a year ago unprompted that he knew of some deltas who had to sleep with some of the ques in order to cross and that he was disturbed when he heard about it. this shit might really be goin down like that.

  

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74. "yes it's usually with dudes in the brother frat i heard"
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i guess that makes it better since they chick may know of the dude and the dude may be popular on campus or whatever

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91. "man...i got alot of que and delta fam and this is really disheartening"
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to think about. i remember when he told me i was like damn thats really sad that this is what (some of) the ques and deltas (and prob other orgs too) have come to

>i guess that makes it better since they chick may know of the
>dude and the dude may be popular on campus or whatever

  

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72. "Are they trying to purchase NBC?"
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80. "^^the real question here"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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113. "kaboom KRASH"
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75. "Gamma Rays be wildin. n/m"
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IG: amadu_me

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94. "first thing i thought of when i read the post"
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lol

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92. "What about the hierarchy tho?"
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Undergrad Pledges
Grad Pledges
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Undergrad Paper
Honorary Member

I've heard MANY a dart been thrown at dudes who got pledged 30+ in a grad chapter

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97. "If you are 30+ and getting hazed, I'm emptying my joke book on you"
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Joining the org is acceptable.

But if you're ironing some dudes clothes at 3am or getting swatted by Big Brother Almighty, you deserve to be clowned infinitely

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93. "going to college could potentially involve rape"
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fixed it for you...

  

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105. "I've never heard of this is all and most of Blk Greeks I know were made"
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I've heard a lot of fucked up shit and even seen some with my own in regards to the sororities but I've never heard of any of the girls being forced to have sick or even suck dick

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106. "frat/sorority shit is dumb cult/sheep shit. period."
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y'all can wax on poetically about networking and sisterhood as if captains of industry got slave brandings on their arm, but that shit is typical dumb humans-trying-to-fit-in bullshit.

  

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blkprinceMD05
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107. "Ppl who make blanket statements like this just show their own complete"
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Stupidity and come off bitter, congrats

U do realize that some of the most revered icons of the last 100 years were members of frats and sororities

Ppl who have added way more to society that ur myopic pretentious ass

have a good one

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108. "oh really? well I guess it's all good then"
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if one out of every few thousand members achieves something or other, then it's gotta be the club.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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111. "Point is ppl who are still dealing in sweeping generalities about anythi..."
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In 2014 should just shut all the way the fuck up, urself included. If u think things are that black and white past the age of 10 it would be best if no other humans had to suffer ur stupidity

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114. "(insert sarcasm, derision and dismissiveness here)"
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115. "none of this has anything to do with anything..."
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>U do realize that some of the most revered icons of the last
>100 years were members of frats and sororities

I have a few frat members in my family. At best one was good for extending the length of his funeral with a "ceremony" of sorts.

I worked with a few Que's some years ago. One claimed he did use that to get into the job because our boss was also a Que... But I, with no greek affiliation, got the same job at the same level of seniority so can it really be attributed to his affiliation or can it be attributed to the fact that our boss had made it a priority to get black men and women into these positions?

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110. "Says the cool smart anonymous guy on the internet. "
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118. "damn @ this"
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> slave brandings on their arm

never made the connection there, yikes

fwiw most non greeks i know agree with you
myself included
it's kind of hard to hear the experiences of ppl we know and come away with a different conclusion

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119. "Thought branding was birthed from african tribal rituals"
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132. "#Actually, that was Africa City, Greece, not Africa City, Africa. "
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the former was named after the latter, but they are often confused.


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133. "common mistake, you can see how it would happen"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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117. "I'm sure it somewhere at some point!"
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ain't like it's widely practiced

  

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122. "back inna day i heard shit about AKAs at morgan + frozen hot"
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dogs getting shoved in places where they ain't really belong.

i'm trippin at all these clutch the pearls type mofoes.

nobody saying this typea shit is encouraged or even status quo, but with all the other shit that go on with pledging, this ain't a reach.

shit. sigmas got kicked off the yard at my school b/c some of the big bros thought it was appropriate to jump feet first from four steps up in a staircase and land on a *brother's* chest, while dude was being held down by other big brothers. its all fun and games till someone's heart stops beating and they die. i wonder if dude crossed over as he crossed over into the next life?

Ques alternated betweeen being on and off the yard. muhfucka got beat so bad that he went deaf in one year. that issue pushed them off the yard. they was still doing shit underground. then he popped up when they came back. no doubt beating the shit outta someone else.

of course this black bglos we tawmbout. i been read about white fratboy pledging involving *toast* and putting fingers in each others asses an shit like that. if that's how (at least some of the) dudes get down, who the fk knows what be going on w/ the sorors.

i'm sure there's all kinds of frats and sororities who DON'T stoop to the depths of dumb shit.





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123. "My college boyfriend is a white frat boy"
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and he told me about that toast game. Lol. But he said the point is to NOT eat the toast. Like if you do it they all kinda give you the side eye. That's the only hazing story he'd share.

I love that story for obvious reasons. Lol

fuck you.

  

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129. "Toast is in my big book of shit i should not know about. "
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national lampoon, a looong time ago had a story about frats (white) and hazing rituals. and it included descriptions of toast or the spunk toast game, as well as the elephant march, in which a bunch of dudes marched around a circle with the thumb on one hand in their mouth and the other in their (pledge brother? whatever the fk they call each other)'s butt.

i bought that magazine b/c it would have humor articles sometimes (like a version of Mad Magazine or Cracked, except with cussing). i'm lookin at that shit like, O_O. wtf?

so when the whole subject of toast came up (no pun) years later on okp, i was like, wtf? there are ppl doing this outside of whiteboy frats?

those factoids are up there with knowing that anne boleyn supposedly had 3 titties. (from the book of lists).





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131. "I've heard some really BAD pledge stories over the years"
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I always attracted Black men in frats and some would tell me a few pledge stories.
Two that stood out... Alphas took them blind folded out in the country and made them walk in a river without knowing it.
Once they saved each other from drowning in the pitch dark and while blindfolded, the big brothers punched them repeatedly in the face.

The second one was so bad I won't mention the frat name or the whole story.
It involved jalapenos being spit on his ass after it was cut up and bruised by a bare paddle whooping.
My husband won't tell me any of his stories at all. But I believe it was tame like not eating and sleeping.

I think all of this shit is absolutely crazy. I don't have the personality. Bitch you hit me, I kill you.
Taking any kind of physical abuse to be a part of an organization is not for me. But people are also kids when they join.
I guess at 19 and 20 that type of thing seems so cool that you would take anything to join. Not I though.

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126. "Hmm Delta here. Pledged at a pwu"
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We definitely didn't get down like that.

My process didn't include any type of physical abuse. It was stressful/mentally challenging but no physical abuse. No weirdness with Ques. We treated each other like family (they helped us out with community service projects and such). Some sorors dated and married Ques(and alphas) but there was no part of our official or unofficial intake process that involved sexual activities. Between sorors from school, sorors I've met in the wild and sorors in my current alumni chapter I've never heard of any type of sexual hazing.

As far as people calling folks paper and the like, I really never got into that. That's mostly a concern of collegiates who are, by and large, idiots. It's not my place to keep track of who's process was this or that. If you're a soror, you're a soror.

Those of us who are active pay dues (like most professional orgs) but its not thousands of dollars (couple hundred) annually.

Once you cross, you're a member for life. Yes, even the women who crossed and are on that disciplinary list that's on the national headquarters website.

As far as Sorority Sisters I'm not watching it. I don't have cable and don't think I'd enjoy it. Most of my sorors aren't enthused about it but what can you do?






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134. "Hmm RIF"
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"All rights and privileges as a member of Delta Sigma Theta Inc. are rescinded for all individuals listed in this section of the website."

So those women on that expulsion list are technically no longer members. My misunderstanding.



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130. "on the show, funny how the orgs gave a statement on #blklivesmatter"
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To not be associated with social justice protests

But apparently got no official response to #ratchettimetv


On the coerced sex, that was talked abt moreso with the auxiliaries

Wit a few specific girls basically as a harem/bustdown on tap

And probably more often after they crossed
As opposed to a hazing requirement


But, all #rumors



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135. "all frats/sororities have dues"
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i think ours were like $350 or $400, I can't remember if it was every trimester or twice a year though.

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