How do you categorize this kind of behavior?

Do you have nay stories or examples?

Like is it possible to have someone on FB, Twitter, OKP, etc. that will inbox or follow a person around from topic-to-topic trying to interact with that individual even-though the actions are rejected or unwanted?

I assuming that Real Men don't follow other Men around trying to interact on Social Media. But I've heard stories of about Social Media stalking happening to Women.

Men if you've been followed by women, please do tell.

So Ladies how do you deal with thirsty dudes that exhibit this kind of stalking behavior?








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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

never happened to me though

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

nm

i have had ppl say "i recognize you from event pictures" because toronto's blk community is so small. that always struck me as a weird thing to say to a stranger.

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IG: @fireysky

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

why can't it just be a good memory? if you see a person in enough pictures, you start to notice and remember that person. that in itself isn't creeping. people have their own motivations for taking the next step and introducing themselves, but at least they aren't withholding that knowledge. if i were her, i'd rather know than have some dude pretending to have no idea who i was when in fact he's seen me for years in event pictures. that in itself might be creep life and even weirder.

As long as the convo is superficial, basic, or general. Not if the joker starts telling you where you work... That's another level..lol


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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

the offending user and make all of her social properties very private.

i think the idea of a true social media stalker is modified in the sense that the woman may not know she's being 'stalked', or her pictures 'viewed' at an uncomfortable rate by a single person.

there's also a difference in this 'stalk'. the environment is virtual.

he/she is not literally in the bushes as she comes home from work.

at worst, social media is just another tool for a traditional stalker.

at best, it's flattering to know that it's at least one nigga that loves looking at your instagrams or facebooks or tweets.

but if he's a pesky nigga from your past, who found another vehicle to let his affections be known - you're just supposed to block him.

he shows at your grandmothers house? he's a traditional stalker.

>he shows at your grandmothers house? he's a traditional
>stalker.
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This is the qualifying point....LOL



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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

They love them some me


does it really matter?

for all my fans who keep my name in their mouth: http://i.imgur.com/v2xNOpS.jpg

They are like clockwork too.


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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

But yea there have been times where people have come up to me in person and said hey you're such and such I follow you on Twitter, Instagram ect or have tweeted me when they've seen me out and about. But I think that's inevitable if you're on social media you're bound to see people from your city.

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

or are we admitting this about you and ted g?

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

i've been internet harassed but not stalked from social media platform to platform
(more like from reply to reply, post to post on these here boards)
but that wasn't really shit.

but i've seen evidence of social media stalking
if the person is crazy enough it could get crazy
maybe i watch too much investigation discovery but i wouldn't
take that shit lightly

www.royallegacy.org

For Real (Official Video):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBRoCPO8esE

I forget now

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

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"I'm gonna treat OKP better during the 2nd half of the year. So, expect new things and better dialog."
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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

I got banned because I kept upping his posts to confront him about his issues

i think ppl post here because they expect ppl to respond to stuff they say.
like if i make a post that goes wood, that's a tad bit disappointing.

i mean, i posted it because i wanted to talk about it.

i also know that if i post about a particular topic,
certain ppl will likely make an appearance in that post.
but i don't think those ppl are "stalking" me.

it's a public message board.
if i wanted the message to be private, i'd send an email or an inbox or a tex message
or any other form of communication i could use
where i could send a message to somebody and not have ppl i don't like see it.

yeah, there are some topics that will inevitably
draw some regular posters to chime in.
but we all know what their opinion is on the topic before they even type it...
so, that's just a given.

in other words, if you think somebody responding to an OKP post is "stalking" you,
you either need to get over yourself or just send the message directly to the person you wanted to see it.

Honestly this is way off base and misses a lot of context.

>i think ppl post here because they expect ppl to respond to
>stuff they say.
>like if i make a post that goes wood, that's a tad bit
>disappointing.
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>i mean, i posted it because i wanted to talk about it.

I don't think anyone disagrees with this. Obviously this is the case with 99.9% of posters here.

>i also know that if i post about a particular topic,
>certain ppl will likely make an appearance in that post.
>but i don't think those ppl are "stalking" me.

This is also mostly true, though not always, and while you correctly assert that this isn't an example of stalking, that's exactly where I think you miss the boat. You cited an example of something that isn't stalking and said that you don't think it's an example of stalking.

Stalking a poster is about the poster, not the topic. When I say certain posters are stalking me, it's not because they chime in on particular topics, it's because they target ME, specifically, for literally no reason other than to antagonize ME, regardless of the topic. When one poaster obsessively follows another poster from post to post with the sole purpose of antagonizing that poster for prolonged periods of time, that's stalking. That's harassment, pure and simple.

Clearly, it's not of the same magnitude as, say, some dude following someone home or hiding in their bushes or rummaging through their garbage.

>it's a public message board.
>if i wanted the message to be private, i'd send an email or an
>inbox or a tex message
>or any other form of communication i could use
>where i could send a message to somebody and not have ppl i
>don't like see it.

That's really not the issue.

>yeah, there are some topics that will inevitably
>draw some regular posters to chime in.
>but we all know what their opinion is on the topic before they
>even type it...
>so, that's just a given.

Well, no. Stalking isn't about the topic, it's about the poster. You keep talking about certain topics and message boards being public, but all of that is missing the point entirely.

>in other words, if you think somebody responding to an OKP
>post is "stalking" you,
>you either need to get over yourself or just send the message
>directly to the person you wanted to see it.

Uh... no. If, for example, someone is consistently followed around in real life, would you say this? If, say, someone was consistently followed and harassed whenever they went to a restaurant, would you say that they should just order in because restaurants are public places? Yes, I realize the magnitude is different but the example is valid. Your stance is akin to telling someone who is harassed by the same handful of people that they should expect interaction with others whenever they leave their home, while completely ignoring the contextual details that 1. these interactions aren't in the course of general public interactions and it's the same people time after time, regardless of where they go or what they do, and 2. it's consistently expressed to be unwanted and undesired.

if the same poster replied to every one of my threads
and trolled me, i guess that's stalking.

i probably can't take it seriously though because it's a message board.
i mean, if ppl start getting on my nerves here i log off and do something else.

for all i know somebody IS stalking me and i just haven't noticed.
i dunno.

your point is fair.

When I say poster a, b, or c is a stalker, it's strictly in terms of interactions on OKP.

>i think ppl post here because they expect ppl to respond to
>stuff they say.
>like if i make a post that goes wood, that's a tad bit
>disappointing.
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>i mean, i posted it because i wanted to talk about it.
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>i also know that if i post about a particular topic,
>certain ppl will likely make an appearance in that post.
>but i don't think those ppl are "stalking" me.
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>it's a public message board.
>if i wanted the message to be private, i'd send an email or an
>inbox or a tex message
>or any other form of communication i could use
>where i could send a message to somebody and not have ppl i
>don't like see it.
>
>yeah, there are some topics that will inevitably
>draw some regular posters to chime in.
>but we all know what their opinion is on the topic before they
>even type it...
>so, that's just a given.
>
>in other words, if you think somebody responding to an OKP
>post is "stalking" you,
>you either need to get over yourself or just send the message
>directly to the person you wanted to see it.

nm

like I've been alive for millions of years
and so have they
and we will continue to disagree about ____ until
existence ceases to be a thing.

some arguments are eternal and
can't have a final resolution unless The Lord Jesus appears and
initiates judgment day.

If you don't mind me asking, but where did you get that understanding from?


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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

it FEELS like the things that bother me won't go away.

i have only been alive for 31 years.
but the years have given me a certain world weariness that makes me
feel like i am millions of years old.

but it's no surprise that particular poster tried to draw a literal interpretation. He's shown a real issue with discerning figurative material.

http://soundcloud.com/forestbrooks

But here you are wanting to gain some shine.

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

You too old to act this brand new.

http://soundcloud.com/forestbrooks

>You too old to act this brand new.


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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

nm

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

...i don't think folks get as serious about it as regular stalkers do, but if they see you commented or posted something, they become more inclined to try and include themselves in the convo...

"yes, sometimes my rhymes are sexist, but you lovely bitches and hos should know i'm tryin to correct it"- hiphopopotamus

me and her brother and cousins go wayyy back to like elementary school days. I wasnt really close to her but oh well...

she damn near be STALKING me and my wife's pages.
It started with her liking my family pics and saying my wife was pretty. then she added my wife and suggested a couple local events and workout places in the area. It went from that to her liking and commenting on every damn pic we post, tagging us in long ass posts, calling us her 'cousins', etc etc.

I'm like damn I wasn't even close to you growing up

I remember I posted a pic of the Nas Time is Illmatic ticket info. She liked and commented on that shit like 8 times in 3 mins. She tagged my wife talking bout 'are we going?". then she asked me "is my cousin (your wife) going?". Then she asked me "what day are you going?". "Call me real quick?" "What tickets did you get?" I'm like DAMN YO CHILL THEE FOCK OUT!

Crazy thing - she's NEVER met my wife in person!!

you guys are a glimpse into the circle of friends she desires.
some people stalk celebrities. others just admire everyday people who they wish were their friends. when the love is mutual, new friends can be made. otherwise it can get unhealthy. just read comments on instagram of popular chicks like solange. random chicks asking her to hang out etc

put her out of her misery and put her on limited access.
its only gonna get worse if it goes unchecked.

>I remember I posted a pic of the Nas Time is Illmatic ticket
>info. She liked and commented on that shit like 8 times in 3
>mins. She tagged my wife talking bout 'are we going?". then
>she asked me "is my cousin (your wife) going?". Then she asked
>me "what day are you going?". "Call me real quick?" "What
>tickets did you get?" I'm like DAMN YO CHILL THEE FOCK OUT!
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>Crazy thing - she's NEVER met my wife in person!!

Y'all her role models - whatever yall do is what she admires greatly and she feeds on your energy.

...but yeah... she's frantic and needs to be put on check lmao. I imagine that type of shit would make my girl uneasy if the same jawn tagged both me AND her from my friends list on random shit.

>I assuming that Real Men don't follow other Men around trying
>to interact on Social Media. But I've heard stories of about
>Social Media stalking happening to Women.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

nm

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

a stalker gon stalk.

i haven't had to deal with this on any real level.
i don't accept friend requests from strange men, nor women {chicks be parched too}
i limit myself to facebook.
i've had to deflect a lot of shit
but nothing that alarmed me.

>i don't accept friend requests from strange men, nor women
>{chicks be parched too}


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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

For example if one has 4 or 5 different types of social media accounts, does it get creepy after 2 or 3? Is it ok to follow on FB, twitter, and tumblr but not also on instagram, pinterest, their blog or whatever else?

It seems like a certain nuanced protocol expected. Even if someone lists all of their internet jaunts in their descriptor it gets creepy when glorified strangers access a certain number. So how does that work?

Some people have a more interesting storyline than others and people stalk the story with little concern for the person. Some are outright stalking the person because of their story. How do you tell the difference and prevent it from happening to you?

Stalking is a pattern of repeated and unwanted attention, harassment, contact, or any other course of conduct directed at a specific person ...Harassing victim through the internet.

justice.gov

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

and it's usually people who be up in all the post and enjoy the attention.

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

then claim you all up in their biz...

the shit that happens here...

nah...

it's just 2 diametrically opposed people (one or both often tend to be complete idiots) but that's really the extent of most of it

Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

Building repetoires (c) spm since 1983

if t goes beyond the internts


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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

Building repetoires (c) spm since 1983

Ted g >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> you

By any metric

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

..and now for something completely different.
(nudge, nudge, wink, wink, say no more)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvVPdyYeaQU

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

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"In God's Kingdom, your greatness isn't measured by how much you gain and keep. No, true Kingdom greatness is measured by how much you give way."

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"America, stop turning our Court Houses of Justice into Dens for Justified Murderers."

you are butt hurt about somebody disagreeing with you in that bill cosby post.
bill cosby part 4 will go multi-platinum before the weekend is over.

you cannot say that somebody that disagrees with you in that post is a stalker.

they clicked the post because it's bill cosby.
they responded to your reply instead of scrolling over it
because they disagreed with what you wrote on a public message board,
and they decided to reply back.

they are there because of the content--
not because of you.

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"America, stop turning our Court Houses of Justice into Dens for Justified Murderers."

his outrage lets me know the human race is still just human.