BrooklynWHAT Member since Jun 15th 2007 85296 posts
Wed Mar-24-21 05:40 PM
1. "He’s a sick dude lol" In response to Reply # 0
I saw a vid he posted of himself responding in the 3rd person to the video where he’s on there with his wife (in her hairnet smh) explaining and apologizing for his cheating
It was obvious before he was on this. He gave off scumbag vibes. But this 3rd person response to self shit is fascinating
2. "He's a textbook narcissist " In response to Reply # 1
Dude is a fucking scumbag. Just like you said......if you know.....you know. People fall for this shit too. There's a reason people like him end up running the country.
3. "I don’t know if the right term is sociopathy or psychopathy." In response to Reply # 1
But, he got it.
I only come across his general corniness via following Isaac Hayes III. From some posts he put up, it basically looks like DJx scours social media to twist people’s posts into his own sick shit that I’m sure a good amount of people ate right up.
4. "Dude ain't a sociopath or psychopath or none of that." In response to Reply # 3
He's a run of the mill clout chaser who's target audience of simple lonely ass broads was #1: ample & #2: more than willing to blame black men for all of their problems, and he was happy to oblige them, and he used that clout and attention for the only reasons niggas chase it - money and pussy.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Wed Mar-24-21 06:06 PM
5. "basically.. the third person recap had me rolling" In response to Reply # 4
dude really gave a play by play of another dude..
and he was the other dude
with a straight face too.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Thu Mar-25-21 06:33 AM
12. "lmao.. who are these people " In response to Reply # 7
never heard of them
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Fri Mar-26-21 12:56 PM
56. "I saw part of that video before on facbook" In response to Reply # 49
someone shhh’d her and closed the video when she talked about her hat and her shirt.
I cant get past the saxophone tho, makes her look like a failed jazz musician ranting after another empty gig.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
9. "People's so called love for Black women conditional than a mfer" In response to Reply # 6
She has done nothing wrong or deserving of anyone's animus yet I've seen people dissect her appearance, her speech, her religion, her behavior and everything else.
not sure of his intentions but this exactly how they work these people over
tell em what they want to hear..
then wrote a book or sell a slogan on a shirt
then cheat or get caught scamming and the crowd goes wild.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Thu Mar-25-21 04:07 PM
40. "who said what he said is wrong?" In response to Reply # 36
dude just pointed out how easy it is to get women to follow along
they hit you with a hard fact, shit on “Black men” and then once your guard is down.. they dick you down
and a few months later its “he’a just like all the other guys”
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Fri Mar-26-21 07:45 AM
51. "yes, some people don’t know how to care for other people" In response to Reply # 42
but they know how to spit game.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
57. "like you ain’t never been stuck..." In response to Reply # 51
imagine finding out your wife was cheating...you staying or leaving?
I don’t know much about the guy just what I saw in the IG streets. how the wife is ridiculed for staying stood out. that’s what my original reply was about.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
35. "Trick who is pandering to y'all?" In response to Reply # 32
Get off that narcotic
This woman didn't do anything "wrong"
Masses are group think clones.
These people's business is none of your affair.
Who better to tell women abt fuckboy behavior than a fuckboy himself? His advice by and large is on point. His personal hypocrisy is normal. If you want to be mad at him cool. Not really but do you
23. "So she gets a pass? Did she spend the money?" In response to Reply # 6
She ain't no better than a preacher's wife who knows her husband is full of shit but stays with him as he preaches to an unknowing congregation and smiles as she pulls away in her new Cadillac. She ain't no victim.
BrooklynWHAT Member since Jun 15th 2007 85296 posts
Thu Mar-25-21 06:26 PM
41. "then be mad at him for putting her out there" In response to Reply # 6
this coward ass nigga cared more about what the internet thought than his wife's well being and mindstate. as soon as she came out w/ that bonnet on he should've called cut.
no man should ever embarrass his woman like he has
11. "Dude is and was a raging hypocrite. So is everyone else." In response to Reply # 0
He made a name for himself by telling women what they want to hear.
His schtick was clearly false and coming from a weird place...but nobody wanted to hear criticism of him because again...he told women what they wanted to hear
Now that it's been revealed he's a hypocrite...those same people are blown
His advice or hot takes still valid. They should be even more valid now because who better to dissect the moves of a fuckboy then a fuckboy?
People constantly telling others to do shit they themselves don't actually do. We all perfect little angels of moral behavior online meanwhile IRL....not so much.
I blame every one of his fans and listeners for his platform. I blame his fans for the attacks on his wife who has done nothing. And finally I blame his fans for their own hypocrisy. Shits disgusting.
That said! Will be talking allllll about dude on my podcast tonight. Holla at me baby
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Thu Mar-25-21 06:41 AM
13. "does he make most if his videos in his car? " In response to Reply # 0
Always said anyone filming self help in their car aint shit.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Thu Mar-25-21 08:25 AM
17. "but it also means a lot of these same people followed him" In response to Reply # 14
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
BrooklynWHAT Member since Jun 15th 2007 85296 posts
Thu Mar-25-21 08:37 AM
20. "naw he just wasn’t living his raps" In response to Reply # 14
Breh built his name on not being like the rest of these niggas out here. He goes to church. He’s about his purpose. He’s faithful. He leads the household. All that checklist, pandering, dream nigga shit. Only to find out he’s the wolf in sheep’s clothing.
When you do that the folks who shoulders you stand on are going to let you fall hard and laugh at you on the way down
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Thu Mar-25-21 10:43 AM
24. "the funny part to me is looking for a stranger to give you validation " In response to Reply # 19
and confidence.
I mean.. I know self help is a big industry but gotdamn.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
25. "RE: the funny part to me is looking for a stranger to give you validatio..." In response to Reply # 24
Much easier to lay blame and reinforce your current identity than it is to do the work and actually change your habits to figure out why you are consistently in the situations you are in.
Double 0 DJ/Producer/Artist Producer in Kidz In The Hall ------------------------------------------- twitter: @godouble0 IG: @godouble0 www.thinklikearapper.com
54. "RE: the funny part to me is looking for a stranger to give you validatio..." In response to Reply # 24
>and confidence. > >I mean.. I know self help is a big industry but gotdamn.
The self help industry reminds me a lot of church, especially some southern Baptist churches. The mistake, to me, revolves around falling in love/giving too much energy to the messenger until it gets to the point that the messenger is more important than the messages.
Also, YouTube and a lot of social media is a cesspool filled with sharks and shenanigans. Most folks would do better to focus on improving themselves instead of being the followers who help secure bags for these random folks. And then, maybe less folks would be obsessed with the falls from grace moments that continue to come up.
29. "Black Women's Romantic Desperation is Big Business" In response to Reply # 28 Thu Mar-25-21 01:23 PM by Mori
So many black men are tapping into an emotionally driven industry- Black Women's hunger to be wanted, chosen, loved, respected and sexed.
The fact that sooooo many of these relationship influencers exist is evidence that the market is still not yet over saturated.
I blame women for our perpetual neediness and our inability to just accept that romance is not a puzzle that we can figure out. Some people get lucky in romance others don't.
Best to just go to a therapist, work out your issues and hope that you meet someone who has done the same. Being single, divorced, poly, unmarried or not attached to a black man does not make a black woman a failure.
SOOOOO many women think hat they are missing out on some magical romantic experience. This is the foundation for this man's success. He just happened to be attractive, with muscles and well articulates his point.
He knew his market and played into it until the game ran out.
59. "Yes, just dumb luck" In response to Reply # 30
Some people, (men and women), choose great partners in terms of character and it still doesn't work out. Having a good character doesn't guarantee love, happily ever after, a family or even happiness.
No one knows why some people fall for other people. We can try to mechanically plug in all these techniques, skills, behaviors, love languages, etc. But most people just like who they like. Most relationships either work or they don't.
I see some of the oddest couples go the long haul, happily. I see some of the most beautiful couples barely last 2 years. No one knows the secret to romantic happiness.
We need to just have fun with life and just let the chips fall where they may. Some things are just out of our control.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Sat Mar-27-21 05:45 PM
60. "There is no such thing as an odd or beautiful couple" In response to Reply # 59
this is part of the problem with people when you think its luck.
its not luck.
some people see a pretty woman and an ugly dude and think.. nah, won’t work
some people see a rich wife and blue collar husband... nah, wont work.
then they see a magazine cover looking couple and say.. they are perfect for each other!!!
no such thing as an odd couple. Its just a couple. Whatever other see as odd is what they see as perfect for each other.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Thu Mar-25-21 03:16 PM
38. "it aint luck.. its work" In response to Reply # 29
and most people dont want to put the work in, they just want the romance
anyone can wine and dine you.. but that ends and the day to day is what separates the adults from the kids.
Most people can’t deal and look for that same energy and its often found in a new person.
Folks need to stop looking online and just look at the person they are with. Are they happy? If not, how can you make them happier. How can they make YOU happier. Get off your ass and make some memories.
and I don’t mean you personally; this is for the people in relationships looking for a spark who think a dude in a car talking into a phone is spittin hot fire.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80836 posts
Mon Mar-29-21 10:33 AM
63. "thanks.. my mom used to always say “making memories”" In response to Reply # 62
back when we were dirt poor and would do some of the most brokest, funnest shit as kids.
its something we still say when we do things as a family.
A lot of people think buying an expensive gift shows love. Dont get me wrong, we still buy each other gifts but we prefer memories and events over gifts.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
46. "I blame patriarchy, sexism, and anti-blackness...this whole system" In response to Reply # 29
There is so much community pressure and systemic oppression that Black women have to battle. It's kinda messed up to not acknowledge that and talk only about what we need to do. Why do some of our men feel so comfortable with exploiting our pain? Why doesn't the community hold them accountable?
I agree that luck has a lot to do with it. I was lucky. I'm happy in my marriage, but it's not a bed of roses. Maybe if we were more honest about the realities of long term partnership and parenting, more Black women would be open to other ways of living rather than looking at themselves as failures.
48. "It's pretty wild how ingrained the belief is that women deserve " In response to Reply # 46 Thu Mar-25-21 11:33 PM by kfine
hella blame for men's behavior.
*rape/sexual assault/sexual harassment = woman must have been wearing or doing something and/or why did she put herself in that situation
*IPV = woman must have said or done something to provoke
*infidelity = she must be lacking somewhere
*partner is lying narcissistic scumbag = woman must be poor judge of character or desperate or whatever (lol, why can't the focus remain on *his* poor character?)
etc etc
I feel like this asymmetry contributes a lot to the woe-is-the-single-black-woman sentiment as well. Because even if a woman *doesn't* view herself as a failure, society's narrative is there must be something "wrong" with her (or Black women in general) to be unpartnered, especially past a certain age.
It's actually a super disturbing premise, and totally undermines any stats somebody wants to reference back it up (we all know the tropes so I won't repeat them here). Bc at that point, it's already devolved into just looking for ways to put said woman (or Black women in general) down.
Even the most chill, fulfilled, healthy, and happy Black woman gets forensic scrutiny just for being single and breathing. Don't even have to raise the issue of desperation or whatever else.
52. "hell. motherfucking. yes. to the last part. " In response to Reply # 46
> Maybe if we were more honest about the realities of long term > partnership and parenting, more Black women would be open to other > ways of living rather than looking at themselves as failures.
I also think, just in general (all humans), getting married and having kids and rocking with that comes from a lack of an ability to imagine other possibilities + social pressure. No one wants to do something new because it's risky and weird and no one wants to pick a losing option AND be an outsider.
Some of the happiest people I've seen are people who were true to their desires. "I like travel, drugs, new sexual partners and higher learning...I'm going to do that." - True story, a good friend I havent seen in 5 years just keeps living abroad, keeps racking up degrees, keeps doing drugs, and stay having a broad abroad.
BrooklynWHAT Member since Jun 15th 2007 85296 posts
Fri Mar-26-21 11:42 AM
53. "people need to be honest about what they want and who they" In response to Reply # 29
want it from. i think if people really sat back and thought about it they'd realize their desires and actions are in opposition. i know i damn sure do. and i think thats what contributes to a lot of unhappiness and embarrassing situations like these.
i got a homegirl that basically wants a fictional character. tall, swole, faithful, religious, successful (over $150k specifically). i told her flat out any dude w/ all that honestly has no reason to settle down. and most of our adulthood she's been a kept woman for various dudes that fit the description other than the faithful part.
in one way i look at it like, if you can be a kept woman surely you can compromise on one of these other aspects right? then on the other hand its like, maybe a fraction of what you want is good enough?
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