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actually, I said that it was an erroneous assumption for blacks to think that all whites are "out to oppress" them. the fact is that your analogy does not work because the two "stereotypes" you're comparing are not parallel, they do not have the same effects on their target. First of all, you is "you all." i don't think all white folk are evil. my boyfriend's mother is white...i talk to white people everyday...i smile, converse, develop relationships. i think a lot of people on both sides of the debate get "white supremacy" and "white people" confused. "white supremacy" is evil. "white supremacy" is what continues to marginalize people of color.
even so, you have to come to terms with some truths. white people did bring us to this country and strip us of our history, our dignity, and our humanity (attempted to anyway). white people were the ones who told my grandfather that he would be hung if they caught him looking at a white woman one more than one occasion. white people spit in my father's face and called him a "nigger" because he was in the wrong place at the wrong time. white people did do all of these things, and not as individual actions, as you would probably like to believe, but as the result of a culture of white supremacy that this country has been cultivating and validating ever since its birth...and these whites had to power to do what they did, not because of their individual merit or intelligence, but because of their collective identity as "white", their skin color and consciousness. i didn't invent that standard, i didn't invent the concept of "blackness," they did. so that they could tell the "property" from the real human beings. so that they could determine which women were rapable and which men were hangable.
as a result of this terrible history, you have a privilege, whether you like it or not. what are you? irish, italian...well lucky you, you became white a lot quicker than people of color ever could, the melting pot model worked for you. but you cannot deny, that despite your roots as an immigrant, if you were pulled over by the police that you would have less of a chance of being shot than a black. you cannot deny that if you were caught stealing, that you are more likely to get a lighter sentence than a black man accused of the same crime. you cannot deny these facts of YOUR privilege. yes, it belongs to you. it's something that i have had to come to terms with as well. i'm black and korean and i look filipina...i have had to come to terms that since i don't look "black," since i am a female, since i have the opportunity to go to a small, private, liberal arts college, that i have certain privilege too. you think you're the only one dealing with some shit?
every black criminal has not been "set up," but most have never had a fair trial because racism runs so deep. like i said, whites are more likely to get lighter sentences than blacks who commit the same damn crimes, how would you explain that discrepency? your ancestors came to the U.S. to escape oppression, so doesn't that point to your privilege, your haven is our jail. your refuge is our torture. there's something tragically poetic about that. tell me, where in the world can i go where blacks are not subjugate, marginalized, hated, impoverished, colonized, etc? tell me, where can i go in the whole FUCKING world where my people aren't looked down upon and exploited? i'm glad you found yours, but where's my haven?
and as for culture appropriation, if whites can be the ones who discovered electricity, invented to car, conquered the world, invented guns, are the symbols of civility, the world's best artists, authors, ballet dancers, and opera singers according to popular belief, blacks can be the ones who introduced rock 'n' roll and hip-hop to the world...maybe reading a book or two would help articulate some of this stuff a little bit more clearly. try howard zinn's "a people's history," bell hooks' "black looks," and "the killing rage," or richard dyer's "white."
peace
rhonda
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