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"Okay Ladies..Sistaz..Aunties..Girlfriends..Let's Rap a Taste..."


  

          

Aight Lovies...

I couldn't take this any longer...the men's post is a GOOD one...with the bondin, relatin n stuff....

nuthin off limits....good insight...

Let's do this for us...

Spinoff?? so what?

We TOO go thru stuff...and honestly...

i'd *rather* be virtual with mine as opposed to REALLY askin my mamanem...

so Ladies...lemme start with this...

In reading the realest post in the world...Auset1 eloqently talks about love...and the nonbelief in the "American Tailed" ending...
Whas your take on this?

I mean..we got the Oprahs..and the Iyanlas..and all them chantin..."Love Yourselllllfe"...and thas fine...

is that always enuff?


Let's rap a taste, Sistaz....



  

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May 02nd 2006
1
question
May 02nd 2006
2
      gjyeah they do. their dumbasses dont even realise how
May 02nd 2006
82
No, it's not always enough
May 02nd 2006
3
*runs to the pulpit to serve u juice*
May 02nd 2006
5
hands her the hankerchief
May 02nd 2006
9
exactly! Like, I have all I need
May 02nd 2006
14
      ^^^This provides me with hope^^^
May 03rd 2006
427
wrd.
May 02nd 2006
24
      You took the words right out my mouth--oh, and being a good girl
May 02nd 2006
42
HTC..Let's talk about your Bra Game
May 02nd 2006
4
I used to get the shoulder grooves
May 02nd 2006
6
nawl see...
May 02nd 2006
7
      That cheap ass cocoa butter
May 02nd 2006
13
           *puts that on WalMart list*
May 02nd 2006
16
let's talk half cups
May 02nd 2006
10
yeah but those half cups need one more half
May 02nd 2006
22
everyone in some way is asymetrical
May 02nd 2006
36
      amen on the 1/4th size shoes!
May 03rd 2006
455
Bras... screw Vicky's Secret
May 02nd 2006
27
Gap Body is the truth and they're reasonable
May 02nd 2006
31
Gap Body....i wouldn't think they'd have my size
May 02nd 2006
51
they do sweets...
May 02nd 2006
71
true
May 02nd 2006
94
      you have to nearly pistol whip someone to get that ONE 38DD
May 02nd 2006
113
           Someone feels my pain!!! Then they have that bin with DD on it...
May 02nd 2006
120
           yeah you can get 'em online
May 02nd 2006
135
RE: Gap Body....i wouldn't think they'd have my size
May 02nd 2006
250
gap body
May 03rd 2006
555
as a former E-cupper.....i'm still in support of y'all (no pun)
May 02nd 2006
KIERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAA
May 02nd 2006
162
Naw see...you's wrong
May 02nd 2006
298
i'm the EXACT opposite...
May 02nd 2006
328
what about the sports bras though?
May 03rd 2006
390
      this is a huge pain in the ass for me
May 03rd 2006
402
      what about those front closure type sports bras...
May 03rd 2006
406
           i love those front closure sports bras....at one point i was wearing
May 03rd 2006
408
                See, I still haven't bought one. But after my aerobics class lstnite...
May 03rd 2006
416
      the oprah sports bras are the bomb
May 03rd 2006
559
Loving oneself is the catalyst, but it's not the only thing
May 02nd 2006
8
On: Cleave Cleanliness
May 02nd 2006
11
for me.
May 02nd 2006
20
satsuma from the body shop
May 02nd 2006
28
      That means you smell like a big ol' orange lifesaver :-)
May 02nd 2006
53
i use a liquid powder...it goes on like a liquid
May 02nd 2006
44
      where u get that at? Sounds like a revelation to me...
May 02nd 2006
84
           One I used is from Huggies...it's 3.99 @ CVS Pharmacy
May 02nd 2006
104
                *puts the $3.99 jounts on shoppin list
May 02nd 2006
161
                     me too
May 03rd 2006
424
On: Finding Something GOOD
May 02nd 2006
12
thats the way.
May 02nd 2006
23
that's the thing
May 02nd 2006
34
      RE: that's the thing
May 02nd 2006
251
girl bye...
May 02nd 2006
30
we have the same "problem"..
May 02nd 2006
35
timing is a bitch
May 02nd 2006
40
preach on......
May 02nd 2006
43
Try finding something GOOD and for some reason it's just not
May 02nd 2006
140
one of the hardest things for me is letting a man be a man
May 02nd 2006
15
get on AIM, my Yahoo ain't working---still
May 02nd 2006
17
i am on. inbox
May 02nd 2006
21
I seem to have that problem as well
May 02nd 2006
18
I believe they call that dumbing down
May 02nd 2006
19
RE: I believe they call that dumbing down
May 02nd 2006
I totally feel u
May 02nd 2006
103
i always get blamed for being a 'girls guy'
May 02nd 2006
26
omg
May 02nd 2006
29
*provides echo*
May 02nd 2006
41
      true indeed.
May 02nd 2006
49
      i have to agree with you on that one.....
May 02nd 2006
67
      ^^^^ deaconess corner
May 02nd 2006
106
      *gets holy ghost*
May 03rd 2006
407
you want a man that loves that ish abt you...
May 02nd 2006
37
not even necessarily the lack of need, but that he knows should
May 02nd 2006
58
Exactly.
May 02nd 2006
91
not even necessarily the lack of need, but that he knows should
May 02nd 2006
i'm quite the opposite...
May 02nd 2006
38
but see, its not the opposite. THATS WHAT I WANT/LOVE!!!
May 02nd 2006
      girl we are so >here< right now it's not even funny
May 02nd 2006
138
           chu'uch
May 03rd 2006
485
Also to that note, there are reasons as to why little black girls grow
May 02nd 2006
79
^ agreed on all points
May 02nd 2006
95
here! here!
May 02nd 2006
290
I can't stand a man who can't fix shit...
May 03rd 2006
470
      oooooh gyal...you speak the truth.
May 03rd 2006
476
i have this problem, badly
May 03rd 2006
481
I am pretty independent like that too. I have a hard time trusting that...
May 03rd 2006
498
What brings you comfort?
May 02nd 2006
25
I was watchin sex in the city last night
May 02nd 2006
33
can we be SATC pals
May 02nd 2006
305
me too!!!
May 03rd 2006
381
i don't do toys for this reason
May 03rd 2006
489
music brings me comfort, seriously
May 02nd 2006
47
sunshine.
May 02nd 2006
54
Knowing that my baby is provided for and safe, and music.
May 02nd 2006
365
i seem to find comfort
May 03rd 2006
430
On fairytale endings-
May 02nd 2006
32
No.
May 02nd 2006
265
      heh man but when you do get that guy who won't let you go
May 02nd 2006
270
           If that day ever comes
May 02nd 2006
274
on: gettin the cookies ate spontaneously
May 02nd 2006
39
i laughed so hard at work
May 02nd 2006
46
i got SE wipes in the car
May 02nd 2006
108
YEAUP!...haha
May 02nd 2006
50
ha! imma girl scout with that! ALWAYS prepared!
May 02nd 2006
100
this is why women ALWAYS need baby wipes on hand.
May 02nd 2006
367
on: attracting older men
May 02nd 2006
45
i'm tired of it....i want to attract someone in my age range.
May 02nd 2006
55
I'm sayin.
May 02nd 2006
61
      exactly....it saddens me and i'm so frustrated
May 02nd 2006
83
           I feel you.
May 02nd 2006
99
how much older? Cause seriously, I'll date up to 45
May 02nd 2006
56
I'm 29...I'm sayin 35 is the limit.
May 02nd 2006
62
I'm so SICK of men old enough to be my grandfather tryin to get
May 02nd 2006
60
seriously
May 02nd 2006
70
Dear God.
May 02nd 2006
don't have a problem dating older...
May 02nd 2006
148
I'm 'bout sick of being some old man's young girl fantasy...
May 02nd 2006
155
Dude from this past weekend was about 80.
May 02nd 2006
lol. I think it's funny.
May 02nd 2006
263
Ugh. I used to go up to 10 years my senior, but as I approach 30
May 02nd 2006
368
omigoodness i thought it was just me.
May 03rd 2006
384
on doing the break up to make up
May 02nd 2006
48
it depends on how long you've been together.
May 02nd 2006
52
exactly
May 02nd 2006
59
that just means you're comfortable and its easier than moving on
May 02nd 2006
192
      true however if we been together for ten years
May 02nd 2006
201
           true. but how many times to do we break up to make up
May 02nd 2006
269
                you know that's the hardest question for me to answer...
May 02nd 2006
277
CUT THAT B*TCH OFF!
May 02nd 2006
57
man stop! folks see i'm not doing any work
May 02nd 2006
69
as with all things, that is relative
May 02nd 2006
65
one. period. i have a self-regulating off switch.
May 02nd 2006
110
im not sure
May 03rd 2006
422
RE: on doing the break up to make up
May 03rd 2006
463
i have trouble keeping friendships with women
May 02nd 2006
63
BINGO!...let's talk
May 02nd 2006
72
word
May 02nd 2006
81
if you don't care
May 03rd 2006
501
hmmm
May 02nd 2006
73
RE: hmmm
May 02nd 2006
90
every single woman that cosigns this peep inside
May 02nd 2006
ooh oooh you're coming to dc right?!
May 02nd 2006
111
fa sho!
May 02nd 2006
132
hi Arielle....I'm Cynthia
May 02nd 2006
121
sup gul......
May 02nd 2006
141
*signs up* i think you maybe on to something here, lol.
May 02nd 2006
122
i have already signed you up for the good-girlfriend circle
May 02nd 2006
130
i would say yes but.......
May 02nd 2006
137
*cough cough cough*
May 02nd 2006
151
      you work 9,456 jobs and that's just Mon-Fri.....
May 02nd 2006
154
           you know, I'm actually free tomorrow and Thursday
May 02nd 2006
165
           man....you're free when i'm heading out of town.
May 02nd 2006
176
                Yeah, I'm coming through the show AFTER work
May 02nd 2006
183
                     cool....
May 02nd 2006
243
           oooooooooh ladies- yuh i got all ya'll when i move back...
May 02nd 2006
166
                move back where? To The A?
May 02nd 2006
174
                yup!
May 02nd 2006
188
                when are you moving back?
May 02nd 2006
185
                     June o7
May 02nd 2006
                          cool! i'm moving back june 06.
May 02nd 2006
204
                               i'll probably be flipping some real estate and
May 02nd 2006
213
Nawl won't be at the re- but whas up doe...
May 02nd 2006
142
      lol, u got me laughin already!
May 02nd 2006
149
*smiles & waves*
May 03rd 2006
420
      what up katrina girl?!?
May 03rd 2006
497
           i b skrait
May 03rd 2006
530
see i'm the exact opposite....as i get older it's harder for me
May 02nd 2006
92
I've had the same core of girlfriends since highschool
May 02nd 2006
101
i won't touch this with a 10 foot pole.
May 02nd 2006
124
i won't touch this with a 10 foot pole.
May 02nd 2006
125
how come, lingo?
May 03rd 2006
532
Yes. I've been wondering how much of that is mother-related.
May 02nd 2006
126
Hi all...I'm Sharon
May 02nd 2006
236
Hi sharon- welcome to the circle....
May 02nd 2006
238
hey you....
May 02nd 2006
241
thats good shit...
May 03rd 2006
392
thats beautiful. thanks Sharon!
May 03rd 2006
536
you know, no matter what, it always ends up being some sort of
May 02nd 2006
370
I agree with this statement
May 03rd 2006
484
This is was especially true for me after I had my son...
May 03rd 2006
493
same problem here.
May 03rd 2006
383
i feel u
May 03rd 2006
542
my problem is i have a low tolerance for weak women...
May 03rd 2006
391
I could have written your post word for word...
May 03rd 2006
452
      my mom has made me suspicious of ppl, esp women too
May 03rd 2006
540
           Well...
May 03rd 2006
546
on dating someone with a young child(dren): si or no?
May 02nd 2006
64
as you get older its more and more a reality...
May 02nd 2006
76
yeah.
May 02nd 2006
105
Nothing is wrong with it, if you don't mind it.
May 02nd 2006
163
right now my answer is no
May 02nd 2006
364
I used to realllllly try not dating someone with children
May 03rd 2006
385
On Braids: Micros? Kinkys? Cornrows? Twists?
May 02nd 2006
66
Ima Phillygirl..and we LOVE micros...
May 02nd 2006
74
* a philly chick raising her hand*
May 02nd 2006
109
i like 'em for vacay
May 02nd 2006
116
i want to get micros for my vaca in miami
May 04th 2006
576
also..please tell me I'm not the only one gettin hit on by young bols
May 02nd 2006
68
for some reason that has not happened to me yet.
May 02nd 2006
75
You are not alone (c) Mike
May 02nd 2006
77
if u wanna get REAL with it...
May 02nd 2006
78
LOL
May 02nd 2006
85
This must be the year for that.
May 02nd 2006
93
tell me i'm not the only one who's sometimes okay with this
May 02nd 2006
80
sometimes them lil 19 n 20 year olds be comin with it ..I cant front
May 02nd 2006
87
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 02nd 2006
86
lol..lo siento fam
May 02nd 2006
88
RE: !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 03rd 2006
448
fam
May 02nd 2006
97
LOL
May 02nd 2006
258
I get that ALOT lately
May 02nd 2006
233
not that young, but yeah.
May 03rd 2006
379
that's been happening to me lately too
May 03rd 2006
511
yall. are we mad at angela basset?
May 02nd 2006
89
you stupid, lol
May 02nd 2006
98
i love her
May 02nd 2006
115
definitely not mad
May 02nd 2006
119
u ain't got a lick-a-sense
May 02nd 2006
150
on wishing for an older sister
May 02nd 2006
96
girl...me too
May 02nd 2006
232
me too.
May 02nd 2006
345
On: Long Periods...How long did your longest period last??
May 02nd 2006
102
BRAGG'S APPLE CIDER VINEGAR, ma
May 02nd 2006
112
I'm sayin.. Is YOU comin to the RE..cuz we goin to WalMark
May 02nd 2006
153
      I'm roomin w/ Wu and wray and Sha
May 02nd 2006
160
      hol up dammit...i NEED a roomate...
May 02nd 2006
173
           There will be no sleeping that weekend
May 02nd 2006
177
           actually i was gonna ask you if you still needed a room, lol.
May 02nd 2006
184
                girl, that's gon' be SIX of us in a room, lol
May 02nd 2006
186
                see...thang is...I GOT the room...and no roomies
May 02nd 2006
189
                     holla at McFeely and Bskin
May 02nd 2006
197
                     that i will do
May 02nd 2006
208
                     man...i'm jellis, i wanna go to the RE now
May 02nd 2006
245
                          girl, I was on American Airlines site yesterday, you can get a
May 02nd 2006
253
                               hmm....that might be a thought.
May 02nd 2006
259
      RE: I'm sayin.. Is YOU comin to the RE..cuz we goin to WalMark
May 03rd 2006
457
           aww babygirl...
May 03rd 2006
461
                RE: aww babygirl...
May 03rd 2006
474
ditto on the apple cider vineager and i took some L. Pinkham's
May 02nd 2006
147
      I've never heard of this L. Pinkham's tonic----what it look like? And
May 02nd 2006
172
      my aunt put me on to Lydia Pinkham tonic...here's a link
May 02nd 2006
248
      my aunt put me on to Lydia Pinkham tonic...here's a link
May 02nd 2006
249
      Girl, we TWINS...Twins I say...
May 02nd 2006
271
If i can't love myself
May 02nd 2006
107
u way too deep with it ma...
May 02nd 2006
156
if you say so
May 02nd 2006
230
I'm sure we all agree with/acknowledge this
May 03rd 2006
472
on: Simpin ass Ray-J/Batman lookin mofos
May 02nd 2006
114
girl, I feel you. I hate a pretty nigga
May 02nd 2006
117
bwahaha!
May 02nd 2006
246
naggers w/baby hair & bird chests
May 02nd 2006
118
hahahahaha
May 02nd 2006
127
*directs you to Vexs' reply (#5) in the other post.
May 02nd 2006
133
shouldn't no 40 year old man have baby hair....
May 02nd 2006
136
LOLOL hell naw...thas a recedin hair line
May 02nd 2006
175
no matter what, pretty boys always get played to the left
May 02nd 2006
346
on: giving too much
May 02nd 2006
123
oh, GUILTY! The Giving Tree has been excavated from the yard
May 02nd 2006
128
exactamundo
May 02nd 2006
131
don't take care of them then
May 02nd 2006
139
Honey...I chopped the giving tree down and sprinkled salt peter
May 02nd 2006
143
      faaarrr too long. Now Mama never been no doormat, baby, but
May 02nd 2006
145
           f'real.
May 02nd 2006
199
*cues up Whitney's Didnt we almost have it all*
May 02nd 2006
134
and NO i ain't buyin u nuffin cuz I'm goin shoppin
May 02nd 2006
159
We need to say this loudly and often
May 03rd 2006
456
or when they want you to cook for them
May 03rd 2006
513
      And AINT bought 5 cent worth of groceries. GTFOOHWTBS!!!
May 03rd 2006
558
loving yourself might not be enough but it should be your 1st priority
May 02nd 2006
129
most definately...and nothing overshadows lovin me
May 02nd 2006
146
      word
May 02nd 2006
168
on: common courtesy
May 02nd 2006
144
girl, seriously, I'll cut a bitch off in a minute if they leave me
May 02nd 2006
152
Can we women be more courteous to each other too though?
May 02nd 2006
272
yo, i have NO tolerance for this
May 02nd 2006
359
amen!
May 03rd 2006
393
exactly
May 03rd 2006
443
now...dat shit like that right there gets a nigga cut
May 03rd 2006
459
This is not cute...
May 03rd 2006
488
What's up with these women taking the side of low down dirty ass men?
May 02nd 2006
157
ionno about this
May 03rd 2006
441
      I'm the same way but what I won't do-
May 03rd 2006
495
how does one handle loneliness?
May 02nd 2006
158
idle hands...
May 02nd 2006
164
^^^^^^ Pitchez hammock and umbrella for this one
May 02nd 2006
167
i've been masturbating like it's going out of style
May 02nd 2006
169
girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl whatCHU know
May 02nd 2006
178
I'm glad you said it.
May 02nd 2006
180
girl, I HATE that I have to do it. I'm sooo FABULOUS!
May 02nd 2006
194
damn! me too. i think i need an intervention :(
May 02nd 2006
333
vibrators and carebears???
May 02nd 2006
179
all i can say is work on self like Wu said....oh yeah and masturbate
May 02nd 2006
181
lol...right?
May 02nd 2006
187
vibrators, porn and fake boyfriends?
May 03rd 2006
373
on: fake boyfriends
May 03rd 2006
434
the book store!
May 03rd 2006
467
man, i hope this post stays up until i get home.....
May 02nd 2006
170
whatchu cryin fo mama???
May 02nd 2006
182
      it's just been a culmination of things.....
May 02nd 2006
252
           girl, you better row this boat, paddle I say!
May 02nd 2006
266
           LOL....if it's funky and festive makeup-wise I love it
May 02nd 2006
276
                Girl, on the no energy. I feel you, and I am soooo just THROUGH
May 02nd 2006
292
           If you think you're really depressed...
May 02nd 2006
317
                yeah....but you know it's like what keeps me from seeking it
May 02nd 2006
320
                     See here is the problem right here...
May 02nd 2006
326
                     here's the thing...
May 02nd 2006
342
on: make-up
May 02nd 2006
191
sounds good
May 02nd 2006
203
you're rooming with the makeup maven Sha....you'll be good
May 02nd 2006
255
Transitioning (outwardly) from girl to woman (MAKEUP STUFF)
May 02nd 2006
195
ooh, this one's tough, ma. I came from a ultra christian
May 02nd 2006
218
What if I never wear makeup?
May 02nd 2006
281
I hope not 'cause if so
May 02nd 2006
295
      That makes me feel better
May 02nd 2006
300
i do need to step my eyeshadow game up....
May 03rd 2006
394
Aight..let's go deeper..On: Sexual SATISFACTION
May 02nd 2006
196
EW! I HATE 69'ing
May 02nd 2006
205
ding ding ding!
May 02nd 2006
209
yo..see..the mixture *gets* my mentalz
May 02nd 2006
223
ditto
May 02nd 2006
360
ditto!
May 03rd 2006
371
on my stomach, ass raised, ankles crossed
May 02nd 2006
206
uhm total satisfaction begins with foreplay
May 02nd 2006
237
it depends on the partner....that's why i'm never good with one-nighters
May 02nd 2006
256
here's the thing...
May 02nd 2006
316
very slowly, lady. sex is not a job, its supposed to be fun.
May 02nd 2006
348
      thanks
May 03rd 2006
409
its a mental thing for me...
May 02nd 2006
327
for me, getting the cookies ate, Standing Up.
May 03rd 2006
372
an eager beaver
May 03rd 2006
382
call me simple but....
May 03rd 2006
395
tease me till i beg for it......
May 03rd 2006
436
on: shaving
May 02nd 2006
198
WAX...
May 02nd 2006
207
school me on the brazilian wax -
May 02nd 2006
217
      i've not done the brazilian...i don't go *that* far...i get
May 02nd 2006
226
      the PAIN, dear lord, the *pain*...
May 02nd 2006
275
           werd- i'm cool on pain for my tunta...
May 02nd 2006
279
           the less meaty the area, the more it hurts
May 02nd 2006
301
                whoa not the ass......*runs out of post crying*
May 02nd 2006
308
                     no no no i promise
May 02nd 2006
318
Nair's been working for me--what razor bumps you tombout?
May 02nd 2006
212
from previous shavings
May 02nd 2006
216
this is gon' sound crazy, but
May 02nd 2006
225
      THIS is truth...
May 02nd 2006
247
      good lookin out!
May 03rd 2006
433
ain't nothing to it...but to do it.
May 02nd 2006
219
      OUCH! NO THANK YOU! What do you do for the pain?
May 02nd 2006
222
           i grin and bear it. hell i ain't even gonna lie & say it's painless...
May 02nd 2006
229
i get that area waxed....i don't use razors anymore
May 02nd 2006
257
i use Veet Mousse
May 02nd 2006
361
im good with just a low trim...
May 03rd 2006
396
on: your achilles heel
May 02nd 2006
202
mine is my body image
May 02nd 2006
211
the truth right here:
May 02nd 2006
221
my blind anger and need for vengeance.
May 02nd 2006
220
now that i think abt it
May 02nd 2006
231
what you know about
May 02nd 2006
235
      shyt my nigglet what you know abt that????
May 02nd 2006
240
i have 3
May 02nd 2006
262
Mine is body image too.
May 02nd 2006
288
my weight
May 03rd 2006
374
This is gon' sound cliched as hell, too, but
May 03rd 2006
473
I have two
May 03rd 2006
482
on: feedin his ego
May 02nd 2006
214
The worse is when they feel bad about themselves
May 02nd 2006
224
Preach I say. That is when they get CUT OFF!
May 02nd 2006
239
I agree
May 02nd 2006
234
OK? I be like, "Nigga (or Whiteboy), did you think about ME?"
May 02nd 2006
242
im not good here either..i dont attract those guys anymore
May 02nd 2006
273
hell no. I can't be bothered with that shit. Period.
May 03rd 2006
376
on: dating her vs just befriending her
May 02nd 2006
260
hiya ladybug....
May 02nd 2006
268
      awesomeness :)
May 02nd 2006
304
           it's tougher than cheap leather getting back out there though...
May 02nd 2006
314
                i dont know man
May 02nd 2006
325
                     you can do it!
May 02nd 2006
339
SKIN ISSUES...acne
May 02nd 2006
261
The Clean & Clear acne package
May 02nd 2006
310
that arm whateveryoucallit, lol.
May 02nd 2006
324
on: becoming your ideal mate
May 02nd 2006
267
i feel ya....that's what i'm trying to do also
May 02nd 2006
282
I think it's false
May 02nd 2006
311
I actually think my husband and I did that backwards...
May 03rd 2006
414
To add on
May 03rd 2006
541
on: the raging hormones the week before Aunt Flow is due
May 02nd 2006
278
I know i get extra snappy!
May 02nd 2006
283
i'm not really moody.....i'm just hornier than a brass band
May 02nd 2006
286
lol@hornier than a brass band....exactly
May 02nd 2006
293
I'm so horny now,I'm angry/So THAT'S it!
May 03rd 2006
388
your bodys way of trying to get you pregnant
May 02nd 2006
297
lol..my body betta ease up
May 02nd 2006
302
lol
May 02nd 2006
307
yeah....i understand that, but tell my body that it needs to release
May 02nd 2006
315
      lol@ body "we makin some babies"
May 02nd 2006
319
           very true....
May 02nd 2006
323
                ((hugs))
May 02nd 2006
331
yo...the DAY before she comes
May 02nd 2006
341
LMAO!
May 03rd 2006
401
not only is the sex drive out of control
May 02nd 2006
344
exactly!
May 03rd 2006
400
that's usually my monthly "why am I even here?" spell
May 03rd 2006
438
      hmm..now that you mention that...I have been feeling and acting
May 03rd 2006
449
on: being asked why you're still single
May 02nd 2006
284
My response is always why not?
May 02nd 2006
287
I feel u fam
May 02nd 2006
291
if I had a nickel for every time I been asked this question
May 02nd 2006
296
woman you ain't lyin.
May 03rd 2006
439
thing is being a woman over 30 that is single & not looking
May 02nd 2006
303
try being that w/o children. woooooooooo. lol
May 02nd 2006
309
      I have numerous friends who are over 30 w/o
May 02nd 2006
313
hahahaha
May 02nd 2006
321
we on the same page fam lol..we twins yo
May 02nd 2006
322
you know bitter is the word they call women who refuse to be doormats
May 02nd 2006
330
      word to the 4th power!
May 02nd 2006
340
this is the wackest question evarrrrrrrrrr!
May 02nd 2006
362
I don't even entertain the question anymore, except with family...
May 03rd 2006
377
i stopped answering the question seriously....
May 03rd 2006
413
one thing i hate more than anything
May 02nd 2006
329
my blog entry
May 02nd 2006
332
Avoid the "swerve n holla"
May 02nd 2006
334
yo u would be surprised
May 02nd 2006
336
      *smh*
May 02nd 2006
338
           I know n i be tryna tell them
May 02nd 2006
354
*turns on the fans* tell it tell it tell it
May 02nd 2006
335
exactly
May 02nd 2006
337
^^^^^ girl u all IN the book of St. Tellit
May 02nd 2006
343
"my homeboy wants to holla at you"
May 02nd 2006
347
girl, they be gesturing over to the damn passenger seat, or
May 02nd 2006
349
RE: "my homeboy wants to holla at you"
May 02nd 2006
351
dude be 5'2 lookin up at me like, "aye shawty, what's up?"
May 02nd 2006
350
let's NOT get started on the short men lol..
May 03rd 2006
403
tabernacle!
May 03rd 2006
442
this was a great post ladies.
May 02nd 2006
352
And to whoever erased that jawnt- thanx!
May 02nd 2006
353
this was great...
May 02nd 2006
355
im mad i missed this post!
May 02nd 2006
356
      a woman is a woman, sis
May 02nd 2006
357
      *cheese*
May 02nd 2006
366
      a woman is a woman, sis
May 02nd 2006
358
I inspired this post....commence worship.
May 02nd 2006
363
^^^Fairy Tale...Mash inspired it
May 03rd 2006
389
sometimes i think crying in front of people=weak
May 02nd 2006
369
me too..I don't like expressing my emotions in front other people
May 03rd 2006
404
i can feel that...
May 03rd 2006
405
RE: sometimes i think crying in front of people=weak
May 03rd 2006
411
Procreating
May 03rd 2006
375
ah, you owe me brain rent.
May 03rd 2006
378
Girl, I got the mufucking T-SHIRT
May 03rd 2006
380
whatever...i'm sprinkling fertility dust on you
May 03rd 2006
426
i want kids.
May 03rd 2006
415
I want kiddies...about 3 or 4...yessir
May 03rd 2006
419
not so much a need, but a desire....
May 03rd 2006
423
not sure on this yet. don't really know if i want kids.
May 03rd 2006
428
maybe this is wrong
May 03rd 2006
444
nothing wrong w/ that at all. i had that same itch
May 03rd 2006
478
i want kids sooo badly
May 03rd 2006
446
whether you find the perfect father for your children or not
May 03rd 2006
483
      thats what frightens me most
May 03rd 2006
490
           like w/ any relationship, you have to step out on faith.
May 03rd 2006
554
                SO SO TRUE
May 04th 2006
564
i want more
May 04th 2006
566
on ~Using Your Body/Femininity to Get What You Want~.....
May 03rd 2006
386
Kinda hard to do
May 03rd 2006
387
of course
May 03rd 2006
417
i'm the opposite....
May 03rd 2006
429
on: Fuck Buddies...
May 03rd 2006
397
well see....even tho it seems like a safe way to go
May 03rd 2006
410
EMPTY
May 03rd 2006
475
      i guess it depends on what you're lookin for...
May 03rd 2006
548
yeah they have their value
May 03rd 2006
421
they will get you out of a slump....i will admit
May 03rd 2006
437
they are handy
May 03rd 2006
454
on: Working out
May 03rd 2006
398
I am not doing my part
May 03rd 2006
425
I need one bad.
May 03rd 2006
447
every day
May 03rd 2006
545
on: Healthy cooking
May 03rd 2006
399
girl, i be trying..
May 03rd 2006
431
it's a few websites i'll check out.
May 03rd 2006
435
Well Lets all cut out Carbs....
May 03rd 2006
464
      nah....then what would i eat
May 03rd 2006
469
ON: the power of 1... and loving yourself
May 03rd 2006
412
you're the bestest
May 03rd 2006
418
RE: Okay Ladies..Sistaz..Aunties..Girlfriends..Let's Rap a Taste...
May 03rd 2006
432
you are still a woman
May 03rd 2006
440
well post up for the hitched ladies
May 03rd 2006
445
You're still a woman. A ring does not make you exempt from the
May 03rd 2006
450
RE: You're still a woman. A ring does not make you exempt from the
May 03rd 2006
471
     
May 03rd 2006
487
chilllle if u don't hushup and post up...i responded to U
May 03rd 2006
477
on: crushing on a married man
May 03rd 2006
451
you can crush
May 03rd 2006
453
i'm NOT in support of this
May 03rd 2006
460
On: Beliving him when he says he Loves you.
May 03rd 2006
458
it's not in what he says, its what he does.
May 03rd 2006
465
Yep thats true.. even when he shows it...
May 03rd 2006
468
OHH OOOh OoOoOH..I can TESTEfy...
May 03rd 2006
486
i have a hard time with that
May 03rd 2006
522
*clears throat*
May 03rd 2006
462
on hearing from your EX....
May 03rd 2006
466
oh, this one's easy, especially if HE dumped YOU
May 03rd 2006
479
thx, gurl!!
May 03rd 2006
480
damn...i talked to my ex-ex last night
May 03rd 2006
500
man..I have one..who ALWAYS pops up...everything will be all
May 03rd 2006
502
yeah it's a bummer
May 03rd 2006
524
on: hair
May 03rd 2006
491
it's good for me right now : natural
May 03rd 2006
494
natural hair is the best if you work out alot...
May 03rd 2006
496
*sigh*
May 03rd 2006
503
I begged my Mom to let me get a perm when I was like 8 lol
May 03rd 2006
505
      I did too
May 03rd 2006
518
I'm natural
May 03rd 2006
504
I feel u with not knowing what to do with it...Im so lazy with my hair
May 03rd 2006
508
natural...
May 03rd 2006
506
ha..u were a coloring queen..hopefully I'll lock my hair this winter..
May 03rd 2006
510
      girl yes....i was into color
May 03rd 2006
515
           I use'ta put those pearl beads and them gold beads in my french roll...
May 03rd 2006
516
                wow..country asses...I used to stay with glitter and sprayed on sparkles
May 03rd 2006
519
                     noooo....i was doing that in Jr. High
May 03rd 2006
521
                     I didn't *know* it was country...
May 03rd 2006
Moi? Natural
May 03rd 2006
528
      I went natural in college too..it was like 10 of us who did it at the
May 03rd 2006
531
On: THE REUNION
May 03rd 2006
492
I'll be there in spirit!
May 03rd 2006
499
it's looking like i'll be there in spirit....
May 03rd 2006
507
I'll be around
May 03rd 2006
509
well i'm there
May 03rd 2006
529
girl, I just left WalMark! l thought about this post while I was there,...
May 03rd 2006
556
on: ~~is good personality/character really enough in a man~~
May 03rd 2006
512
no thats not being shallow..my friend was in a situation similar to urs
May 03rd 2006
517
Please don't do that
May 03rd 2006
520
nawl it ain't shallow...it's a standard with men
May 03rd 2006
525
RE: on: ~~is good personality/character really enough in a man~~
May 03rd 2006
547
ON: exceeding the statute of limitations on relationships...
May 03rd 2006
514
even when we are little
May 03rd 2006
523
^^^on point^^^
May 03rd 2006
550
the thrill of victory, the agony of defeat (c) U-God
May 03rd 2006
527
on: the The Real Man's post
May 03rd 2006
526
they tend to keep alot of shit to themselves when it comes to us..
May 03rd 2006
533
They think we'll mistake realness for weakness. But we won't.
May 03rd 2006
535
ding motherfucking ding
May 03rd 2006
538
in all honesty....i had no desire to read that post
May 03rd 2006
537
i didnt feel like i was intruding just by reading
May 03rd 2006
549
      i chose not to read it because i figured let them have their space
May 03rd 2006
552
okay who was ole dude that was talkin about
May 03rd 2006
539
feelings = vulnerability (to some people)
May 03rd 2006
551
um..this post betta get archived
May 03rd 2006
534
I was thinking the same thing, sis...
May 03rd 2006
543
i support this
May 03rd 2006
544
on other women asking me about my recent weight gain...
May 03rd 2006
553
the best way to get church folk who are being snarky....
May 03rd 2006
557
i didn't reply last night cause i thought it was too long...
May 03rd 2006
560
on having older women as spirit/growth guides:
May 03rd 2006
561
she'd have to seriously have her shit together
May 04th 2006
567
      this aint neva gonna happen:
May 04th 2006
573
           true noone is perfect
May 04th 2006
575
On 05/05/06- yup you guessed it? no cinco de mayo
May 04th 2006
562
on: overcoming awkward shyness and possible social anxiety
May 04th 2006
563
anxiety is normal unless
May 04th 2006
571
On: Men expecting sex
May 04th 2006
565
expectations are tricky
May 04th 2006
568
no doubt.
May 04th 2006
572
I hate a fuckers who expect that or ask for some ass
May 04th 2006
569
oh my goodness...
May 04th 2006
570
what if it isn't a dating situation?
May 04th 2006
574

Mash_Comp
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1. "*strolls in...*"
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*flashes...runs!*

Just returning the favor...I'm gonna lurk ALL in this one like ya'll is in ours.

*********************
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lingo
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2. "question"
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>Just returning the favor...I'm gonna lurk ALL in this one like
>ya'll is in ours.

do folk actually believe because a post is addressed specifically to one group or one person, on a public message board, that others won't look, lurk or respond?

  

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82. "gjyeah they do. their dumbasses dont even realise how"
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freaking sexist that shit is either.

---AND, ON THE 8TH DAY, GOD CREATED SWIGGA ... AND SHE WAS VERY, VERY GOOD :=)-

main jawn likes it: www.divasincharge.com/SwiggasBossy.mp3

Challenge what u THINK u know: http://www.WhatThePeopleREALLYThink.com ®

http://www.GoBuyOurShit.com ®

  

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Optometrist
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3. "No, it's not always enough"
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Cause I LOVE ME. You hear me? And you'd be a fool not to love me, too.

But man, when it's cold outsiiiiide (c) Bobby Wo.

Loving oneself keeps a woman from making too many fucked up decisions, but still, that ain't enough. You want to love yourself and have someone present themselves to you for you to love.



______________________________________

amazin they ungrateful after all The Game I gave away

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LoveJonez
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5. "*runs to the pulpit to serve u juice*"
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u just preached a sermon...

i'm sayin..

cuz i'm lonely...i don't love myself??

i'm tired of hearin that...

  

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feelintalibkweli
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9. "hands her the hankerchief"
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hehe

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Optometrist
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14. "exactly! Like, I have all I need"
In response to Reply # 5


  

          

But what about the backrub I want/would like?

I'm self sufficient and please understand that I LOVE ME.

Yeah, I'm sick of hearing that shit, too.

______________________________________

amazin they ungrateful after all The Game I gave away

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Inkosi
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427. "^^^This provides me with hope^^^"
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*goes back to lurking quietly in post*

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Do it girl

  

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24. "wrd."
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I get sick'a people sayin "you gotta love yo self first". That's cool and all but sh*t if Bobby and Whitney can find each other wtf can't I find my just as phuked up male counterpart? I have to have some serious one on ones with God about that mess cuz I just don't understand - especially since patience is NOT my virtue. He knows that...and I ask for grace/mercy er'day too...but it's hard out here for a single woman. Yeah I can take care of myself but cot dammit if I don't want a break sometimes. It's like someone (dayum I forgot) said in the confession wed, I've been a good girl all this time and for what? WHAT?!

(sorry bout the rant but I'm frustrated)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
<--In honar of Mother's Day

  

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Optometrist
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42. "You took the words right out my mouth--oh, and being a good girl"
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DOES NOT PAY. If you ain't putting out, consider yaself dropped! lol

The shit don't pay AT ALL.

I live on Good Girl Lane. You make a right on Lonely Street and it's down at the end, on the left.

______________________________________

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4. "HTC..Let's talk about your Bra Game"
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this is for the E cups and up...

cuz errbody else can buy they joints in any store..

but ladies...

any new colors for the spring?

does the transparant strap jumpoff work for u? I wanna try it...cuz i want something different...but i'm scared...


and lastly

shoulder bruises...yawl got these...looks like u're still wearin the bra when u take it off...

whas the remedy...cocoa budda??

  

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Optometrist
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6. "I used to get the shoulder grooves"
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I don't anymore, though. You gotta get the right fitting bra--if that's happening, your bra's too small.

And yes, Palmer's will get rid of those grooves.

______________________________________

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7. "nawl see..."
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my bras fit...

i get fitted tri monthly (which is ESSENTIAL)
so i'm wearin the right size...

my babies are just heavy...

i'm not a big girl..but they are..so sometimes the imbalance (that a word?) causes more grooves...

whas palmers?

  

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Optometrist
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13. "That cheap ass cocoa butter"
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Palmer's Cocoa Butter.

It got rid of my grooves.

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16. "*puts that on WalMart list*"
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i got suave...that don't work...

i was gon use that cocoa budda in a rollup stick thingy...but
it's all waxylike...

aight...the palmers i'ma try...

  

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feelintalibkweli
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10. "let's talk half cups"
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goodness bless Playtex for having those half sizes.
and my left breast is significantly smaller than my right.
should i be concerned?

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22. "yeah but those half cups need one more half"
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they need a "D and a half" size.

  

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DVActivist
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36. "everyone in some way is asymetrical"
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nothing unusual at all

i wish they had 1/4th sizes for shoes
but yeah half cups are great!!

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455. "amen on the 1/4th size shoes!"
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i've passed up far too many pairs already!

-----------------------------
"Since it is art that translates civilization from one generation to the next, "art" is a quality-of-life need that cannot be disputed."

  

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27. "Bras... screw Vicky's Secret"
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I went in there and had like 3 salespeople and one bystander trying to find the "right" bra. They measured and pulled and pinched. They tried all kinds of cuts and cups and coverages. Nope, nada. In the end, they just had to give up!
and it's not like i'm odd or anything. I'd say I'm a 34-36 D - DD depending on which bra i'm wearing at the time.

What's saved me? Gap Body. Gap Body. Gap Body.
try it.


My good friend who is tiny tiny xtra petite but with huge boobs (Must be an F at least) says she finds cute bras that fit at Lane Bryant. I haven't tried that yet. Anyone here?

  

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feelintalibkweli
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31. "Gap Body is the truth and they're reasonable"
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i looove their bras
and panties.

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maybetomorrow
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51. "Gap Body....i wouldn't think they'd have my size"
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I wear a 38DD and I have yet to see a bra that isn't a demi bra...i like full coverage.

Lane Bryant is alright...but what the hell part of the game is these damn padded bras, that's the LAST thing i want or need. My breasts already sweat....that extra padding isn't helping the fact.

they need to un-pad them joints.

maybe you will bless us with your all seeing third
eye, bitch ©earthqueen

Bitch it does NOT take a village. It takes ONE person doing her job right. © janey

I shook my head and said "Bitch, I'm from the south! Home of twerkers! © Laz AKA Black Native

  

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earthseed
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71. "they do sweets..."
In response to Reply # 51


  

          

>I wear a 38DD and I have yet to see a bra that isn't a demi
>bra...i like full coverage.

we are on the same page in regards to size and I've been to gap body, their selection is pretty nice and they always have sales, unlike VS, which is pretty crappy anyway.

>they need to un-pad them joints.

truer words have never been spoken.

now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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94. "true"
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gap body has the DDs.
AND SALES
Vickies never has sales except for the semi annual joint really and that's always picked over!

  

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113. "you have to nearly pistol whip someone to get that ONE 38DD"
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that's 14.99

you can order the gap body bras from the website? i never see any bras in my size at the gap stores...i'll check and see if there is a place in ATL.

i like gap's panties though. i've given up on victoria's secret because the bras come apart after a while and they just aren't all that great anymore

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120. "Someone feels my pain!!! Then they have that bin with DD on it..."
In response to Reply # 113


  

          

and ain't shit in there but D and C's. It's false advertisement.

I go in the stores and start looking toward the floor when I come in there cause all our sizes aren't hanging up and looking non-wrinkled. NOOOOO

our shit is in the drawer at the bottom closest to the damn floor, and of course they only come in taupe, white, and black.

Actually, I went the other day and they had teal *gasp*

now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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135. "yeah you can get 'em online"
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www.gapbody.com
it's crazy, cuz all the damn gaps I been to in my life (and they're everywhere) I've only seen ONE GapBody store. One. It's cool though, cuz you can browse the clearance racks.

  

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250. "RE: Gap Body....i wouldn't think they'd have my size"
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And they figure that the b-cup ladies want padding too...i'm happy with my breasts i don't need nothing extra

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555. "gap body"
In response to Reply # 27


  

          

i got hooked on them when i took a pt job there last year - their bras are the only ones i wear now - i used to max out my discount every month...

be breezy...

"whats life like - if you livin on the internet and never touch the world" - Raphael Saadiq

  

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"as a former E-cupper.....i'm still in support of y'all (no pun)"


  

          

>this is for the E cups and up...
>
>cuz errbody else can buy they joints in any store..
>
>but ladies...

i'm not too far from E...i'm at a DD now.


>
>any new colors for the spring?

i bought a really cute melon colored bra from Olga. I'm looking for a really good minimizer though.

>
>does the transparant strap jumpoff work for u?

i haven't had a problem with them...however just to be on the safe side, don't throw those bras in the washing machine all willy-nilly...if you are one that doesn't hand wash their bras or wash them in a lingerie bag.

I wanna try
>it...cuz i want something different...but i'm scared...
>
>
>and lastly
>
>shoulder bruises...yawl got these...looks like u're still
>wearin the bra when u take it off...

girl...i had dark marks from them damn bras, and i even bought the ones with the thick pads on the shoulder...however those aren't cute . i use a mixture of cocoa butter, shea butter, evening primose oil and vitamin e....it's in a body butter form.


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162. "KIERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAA"
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where u at ma?

i don't got BROKE with Bravissimo...


whas new?

i think we wear the same size....holla

  

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298. "Naw see...you's wrong"
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cuz everbody else can't buy their shit at any store because I'm a B cup but I have a 44 size back I have a hard time finding bras all the time. Yes, yes it's a cruel thing when you gained over 50 pounds and you're the same cup size. I haven't been doing any shopping recently, but the ony place I'm able to find anything cute or pretty and not too expensive is at Lane Bryant.

  

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328. "i'm the EXACT opposite..."
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i'm in an HH cup..but only a 34...36 back

try findin a 34I bra in publik...

not happenin..

  

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390. "what about the sports bras though?"
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my girls aint THAT big but they stay bouncin when im on the treadmill...

and this is with 2 of them joints on...

anybody recommend something that can strap me down fa'real???


"Who loves ya baby? Nobody like Jackie-O...cook, clean, break up ya weed, and I give ya nasty throat"

"When a guy fingers a lady and then smells, licks, sucks the juice off his finger and sighs as if in heaven, she knows this is her lucky day"

  

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402. "this is a huge pain in the ass for me"
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finding a good sports bra without feeling like i'm being bound like a sausage. I don't want them squished together. I want support.

I think this has contributed to my lack of exercise.

  

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406. "what about those front closure type sports bras..."
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i think that they sell them at target.

i'll try and find a link, but I know that it looks like a sports bra, but it's support like a regular cup bra.

now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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408. "i love those front closure sports bras....at one point i was wearing"
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two sports bras to strap the girls down....however after a while that was just 8-much.

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416. "See, I still haven't bought one. But after my aerobics class lstnite..."
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I know that I NEED to get one. Cause the girls were STILL bouncin' with the two sb's on.

now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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559. "the oprah sports bras are the bomb"
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or so I've heard

Its the one that she has on her favorite things list but I cant remember what they are called

  

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8. "Loving oneself is the catalyst, but it's not the only thing"
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11. "On: Cleave Cleanliness"
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Deoderant or powder or oil or lotion...

what keeps your chest crack and underbreast area from the sweatsmell...

  

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20. "for me."
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oils. I find them pleasant and refreshing.
powder got messy.
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28. "satsuma from the body shop"
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thas my WHOLE body right there...

heard they comin out with the body butter for it..

i'ma be a greasy orangy smellin belle u hear me?

  

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53. "That means you smell like a big ol' orange lifesaver :-)"
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44. "i use a liquid powder...it goes on like a liquid"
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and dries into a powder...i got it a few years ago, and it's the best thing since sliced bread. no warm milk underteat smell

i used to put that secret clear under my breasts

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eye, bitch ©earthqueen

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84. "where u get that at? Sounds like a revelation to me..."
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and yea

i usedta do the Clear Lady Speedstick Gel up under there...

til it burned one day...

been oilin under there errsince...

  

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104. "One I used is from Huggies...it's 3.99 @ CVS Pharmacy"
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and here's another one on this site for $11.50. I use the one with aloe from Huggies

http://www.bodytimeproducts.com/chinrainliqp.html

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161. "*puts the $3.99 jounts on shoppin list"
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girl...i'ma try this...

  

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424. "me too"
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I've using Shower To shower or Oil Of Olay clearstick...

  

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12. "On: Finding Something GOOD"
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Why is it, ladies, that you always find someone great at the worst time?

It sucks because I've stumbled across something that feels comfortable and nice and warmfuzzy good just as I've decided to go back to school and move out of state and all that jazz.

Now, i've made the mistake of changing my plans on account of some man before and it goes down as the single most horrible decision i've ever made in my entire life. I don't plan on doing that again. So to go or not to go is not the issue. I'd rather err on the side of missing out on a good thing than to make the 2nd most horrible mistake ever.

Still, it always happens this way. I've been single for like over 2 yrs. Never met anyone really worth thinking about. Now, i'm one foot out the door and boom, warmfuzzies.

Sucks ladies.

  

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23. "thats the way."
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it normally is..

what are you going to do? can you do the distance thing?


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34. "that's the thing"
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i'm purposefully trying to keep a certain amount of distance while at the same time, still hang out with him before I go.

I don't have any illusions that a long distance thing would work out.

So i'm just gonna take the L on this one.

  

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251. "RE: that's the thing"
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wow, this is going around...i'm in a similar situation except the distance isn't so bad and he's moving to my home town *schedules trips home this semester*

Never let what anyone else is doing influence what you think you should do. ~Nikki Giovanni

when 2 ppl do rare stuff they should get married
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30. "girl bye..."
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screw up once..shame
screw up twice...blame...


do u...

if it's meant....it'll stand...

  

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35. "we have the same "problem".."
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funny i was just explaining this to a friend....i gave up a lot for him and i promised myself i wont do it again so im VERY careful about dating...but as they say it always happens when u least expect it

i say go and leave but try to make it work and see what happens...but honestly i think its a test to see if you will make the same mistake again...will this be the story of your life?

http://www.myspace.com/chicky259

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<<< RED was my boyfriend back then

  

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40. "timing is a bitch"
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nobody has the answer to this one
just do what feels best and when you meet someone you click with HOPE things work out...
? i guess...

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When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it.
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43. "preach on......"
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I feel kinda sorta the same way now.
Things popping off w/ someone who's just wonderful
but I still got some demons from the last relationshit that I have to shake before I can give him everything that we both deserve to build our situation up.

here for dis.

  

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140. "Try finding something GOOD and for some reason it's just not"
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coming into fruition....i mean i'm crestfallen over this, and just saddened. however i have to resign myself to the fact...although things were cool, and i think he's such a good person and a good fit for me.....it's some force that is just preventing things from coming into fruition, and i'm sad because i keep using him as a meterstick for potential others.


it's like... , he doesn't make me smile like ol' dude....he's not as thoughful as ol' dude.

it's really getting to me and i just wanna cry.

REAL TALK

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15. "one of the hardest things for me is letting a man be a man"
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its always the little things, like
asking for help if i need it
or trusting him to do something as well as
i would.

i simply have always enjoyed being 'equal' with men
in ways that not all men appreciate.
from sports to lifting to soldiering, i was always
>< there. my boys/fellow soldiers loved it.

but it dosent work well in relationships.
men dont generally feel 'needed' around me.

i dont know if i should 'tone down' for the sake of
feelings or just do me and accept that the majority
of men may not appreciate it.

i only really seem to connect with type A men that
get that i'm type A as well. and that me being strong
doesnt detract from them.


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17. "get on AIM, my Yahoo ain't working---still"
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______________________________________

amazin they ungrateful after all The Game I gave away

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21. "i am on. inbox"
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18. "I seem to have that problem as well"
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I've tried to tone down myself, and its really hard.
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19. "I believe they call that dumbing down"
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I have issues with that. I'm not going to change my being to accomodate anybody. Granted, when involved with someone there is a certain level of compromise to be given on both sides of the spectrum.

But I can't stop being me just to make someone feel comfortable in their own skin. In my opinion, thats more of a self assureness issue which requires change internally from the person themselves and pretending be someone i'm not won't change it.

  

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"RE: I believe they call that dumbing down"


  

          

yes, you're right. thats exactly what it is.
and i know that no relationship i entered into like that would last because i'm simply not capable of maintaining it or respecting any man that required it of me.

it just seems impossible to find someone that can deal
with the contradictions that are me.







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103. "I totally feel u"
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I always knew, growing up, that I wouldn't make my mark as being the prettiest or the richest or best athelete. I would be the smartest. It's my *thing*. I know shit.
So I've had the hardest time in relationships/interactions with men because more often than not, i'm smarter than them. I've found they don't really like that. So I struggle with being myself and celebrating what I know (without being a knowitall) and "dumbing down" a little bit to make things smoother.
Sucks that we even have to think about it and can't just be ourselves 24/7

  

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26. "i always get blamed for being a 'girls guy'"
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or whatever that means.
i can hang with the fellas just as i can hang with
the girls.
and some guys i've dated hate it.
i'll sit and watch football with you
or play video games or drink some beer with your boys.

gender rolls don't really settle well with me, but i find
guys i date don't appreciate that.
they want me cooking and either hanging out with girls
or just 'him'.

i dunno. seriously i give up for like a year.

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29. "omg"
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they're either intimidated or simply don't wanna step up to the plate. If you gon be the head of my household you betta come wit it.
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41. "*provides echo*"
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Wu,

But you know what, fact is, its hard to be head of household if you don't know what it means to be so.

  

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49. "true indeed."
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67. "i have to agree with you on that one....."
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i've come to a realization.....i know all too well that i don't need a man to feel complete, but I do WANT someone to share my life with....and i've run into the ones that don't understand, i WANT you in my life not out of NEED but out of DESIRE.


plus...i'm willing to accept a "traditional" wife role, if he is willing to accept a "traditional" husband role. you can't expect me to meet a certain standard and you can't meet me there.

example: i dated a man that wanted his wife to stay home and raise a family, i have no problems with people who choose to do that, but realize that due to the cost of living....it will be a stretch to live off a lower income, and he was halfway hearing me on that issue.

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106. "^^^^ deaconess corner"
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amen...

  

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407. "*gets holy ghost*"
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37. "you want a man that loves that ish abt you..."
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when a man tells you "damn wray i love the fact that you don't need me for shyt" that's the one.

  

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58. "not even necessarily the lack of need, but that he knows should"
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something happen to him, that I'll be ok.

  

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91. "Exactly."
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"not even necessarily the lack of need, but that he knows should"


          

something happen to him, that I'll be ok.

  

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38. "i'm quite the opposite..."
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i LOVE for men to be men...

but I love a MAN's man...

somebody who has not always had it all together...
so many of them act like that now...

i like onez who know what to do IF trouble comes...and can stand it...

I'm just in love with security...and feeling covered...

ain't felt that since 02

  

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"but see, its not the opposite. THATS WHAT I WANT/LOVE!!!"
Tue May-02-06 03:43 PM by wray

  

          

But because i'm me, most men assume that i dont NEED it.
so i dont get it.

Example: You know how they have those mosh pit songs at the club?
well my best friend is a little german chic, she didnt know what to expect and it was too crowded to move.
dudes start whylin and me being me i post up in front of her, cause i'll be damned if one of these sweaty ass dudes is gonna hurt her. so i'm getting bumped but she is good.
there are guys, even security, helping other women. did they come help us. no.
why? he said it was because i had it under control.
yea i did. i always do. but thats why. cause no man has ever stepped up to help.
i would like, just once, to be able to relax cause i knew a man had my back.
just once.

i have fought off men physically while other men stood by and didnt do shit cause, "i had it".
the fuck

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138. "girl we are so >here< right now it's not even funny"
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I'm so tired.

I just wanna scream "Yes, I'm capable, but dammit, I'M A GIRL, TOO!"

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485. "chu'uch"
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79. "Also to that note, there are reasons as to why little black girls grow"
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up to be 'independent' so to speak grown black women.

I can't state statistics or percentages, but a quite deal of us have grown up in single parented homes reared by women. A lot of us have had absentee or non involved fathers. So we grow up in an environment where we not only watch and learn, we're taught to not have to rely on men for anything because there's no guarantee that's he's going to stick around rear his children let along be around for you.

So based on our mother's experience and making do and based on some of our own experience with unreliable fathers. We adjust and just be.

That's why I find it difficult to understand the angst many black men have towards black women. If these statistics are true, if past okp conversation is true, many of them have grown up just as fatherless. So, in that respect, they don't know what its like to be men in the midst of strength because someof them fled it. Not all, but some.

So don't take this difficulty as something to be ashamed off. In fact, there is nothing wrong with you. But rather something wrong with the guys who collapse in their manhood within your presence. I wouldn't say that was a man to begin with. I tend to make distinctions between being a male and being a man.

A man would appreciate knowing that his woman would be ok even if he wasn't available immediately for assistance.

Not needing doesn't constitute not wanting.

Wanting doesn't constitute neediness.

  

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95. "^ agreed on all points"
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the interesting thing with me (not that i'm that unique) is that i was the tallest, strongest one in a family of all females. so in alot of ways i was the designated 'male'.
if sometnig needed reachin, lifting, moving, fixing, putting together it was my lane.
its been that way since i was born.
nobody ever asked me if thats how i wanted to be 24/7. its just what became expected of me by everyone. even me.

it's hard to relinquish an identity i've had my whole life. i dont really want to. its a big part of me, but its not all of me, and i'd like the men in my life to understand that.



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290. "here! here!"
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i love doing shit for myself
even fixing things

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470. "I can't stand a man who can't fix shit..."
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I love fixing things. Working with my hands using a drill.

I expect my man to be able to do the same.
I want to rennovate my home. I'd like to have my man right along side me helping a sista out not asking "Uh how do I turn this on."


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476. "oooooh gyal...you speak the truth."
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i can't stand a man that isn't mechanically inclined. if i have the ability to learn how to install my own kitchen faucet....install my own showerhead and i can change a tire. It ain't that hard....if you can read directions and have the right tools...you can do it.


being handy is DEFINATELY something that i look for in a man.

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481. "i have this problem, badly"
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i've had men flat out tell me that i rob them of the opportunity to be "the man in the house". I don't know how to be any different. Does anyone else?

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498. "I am pretty independent like that too. I have a hard time trusting that..."
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he will do it as well or in a timely manner like me.
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25. "What brings you comfort?"
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!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!
I am the Black Gold of the Sun...and i love things........Im gonna make you love me

  

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33. "I was watchin sex in the city last night"
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and Sarah Jess was sayin how she just needed to feel the "weight" of a man on her body. I ain't neva really identified with her so much in my life. There's something about a man's weight (being on my back in particular) that'll put me right to sleep.

music comforts me...slow jams or slow jazz.
food comforts me...anything cheesy.
laughter comforts me.
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305. "can we be SATC pals"
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and watch every episode of every season together!?
i saw that and thought... how nice

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381. "me too!!!"
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I was watching it, and thinking... damn, she just summed it up for me.

  

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489. "i don't do toys for this reason"
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it's not about the member, or even the sensation. I need to feel the weight of a man...hot breath...noises (not the noise of a battery)...sweat. I need a MAN!

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47. "music brings me comfort, seriously"
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When I'm hurting, I find something that sounds good and listen to it til I wanna listen to another album or song ad nauseum.

I try not to eat when I'm depressed because I don't wanna associate food with comfort.

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54. "sunshine."
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365. "Knowing that my baby is provided for and safe, and music."
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430. "i seem to find comfort"
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in seeing my children grow, my friends getting to their goals,
music...and watching a good movie
!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!
I am the Black Gold of the Sun...and i love things........Im gonna make you love me

  

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32. "On fairytale endings-"
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fairytale's are tales.

real love takes dedication. it can be successful between two people who have no other thing in common except for attraction, if it is successful depends on their equal dedication.

i've learned that you do not get any thing in life unless you work for it. atleast that's how my life has been, honestly there hasn't been anything that i have set my mind to that i didn't get.

there have been plenty of things that i have gotten though that i didn't ask for.

as far as relationships go- i definitely don't have the answer no one does or ever will.

you won't know til the end if you've wasted your time. for me giving myself a time limit helped. this time instead of spending a year- i only spend six months and acually i'm changing that to three months.

not letting my self down is key. if i say three months then i'm out unless it's going good.

settling for less or trying to find a mate that meets your standards is all hogwash to me- give me a bum who will love me unconditionally and i'll take him- cus in the end i believe in love- and true love will make my bum clean up and do whatever he can to make us work.

often times we get caught up looking for our standards- and then you just end up with someone that meets all the criterias except for the ones that really matter- like compassion, and understanding.

i want to be loved the way i love others. everyone does. guess what- if you truly love yourself then you already have tht love for yourself and when you give it to others they have no choice but to give it back to you. pure love that is. i know it- i've seen it and felt it.

my life won't have a fairytale ending. in death i will be alone.(all one)

but on my death bed it will be a matter of pride and validation for me to say that i loved honestly, purely and fiercely regardless of the
end result i will kno wmy life's worth by the fact that i had love.

i know it's a little strong woman minded- what can i say I AM a strong woman.

that doesn't say- that i don't enjoy all the pettiness of life- the drama, the tears, oh what emotional and physical abuse i have endured in my short dating life- what ways i have exploited my pussy and have been exploited...that is a tale for that ass...

out of it all though i still emerge like a phoenix rising- stronger and shinier than before-


Now- my situation is a little scary- i'm dealing with a man- a young man who has yet found his niche in life- however the resonance the communication between us is so deep- i've sworn to him that i will not ever be with an other man- and i actually believe it this time(hee hee)

am i settling? i don't think so.

do i deserve more or less? i think i don't deserve him. he's still an innocent.

do i deserve him? OH YES I DO!

will we be together forever? Only time will tell.

Do i care? sometimes yes and sometimes no. today is the moment and in the long run we will all be dead.

i'm sure this might be a bit confusing- i'll probably just respond to your posts- or just ask me questions if you're really curious.

Fairytales though- no.

Real life- you've got to work at.

  

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265. "No."
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I believed in them for a long time, until I realized all the moments were perfect setups were disappointments, and the little moments that I carry with me were always sporadic and unsuspected.

It's a nice thought, but real life is nothing like literature and cinema makes it out to be. Unfortunately. I wouldn't mind a guy running through the rain to tell me he can't go another day without making me his, lol. :-)

  

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270. "heh man but when you do get that guy who won't let you go"
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no matter what- don't fuck itup by thinking you don't deserve it.

  

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274. "If that day ever comes"
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I really hope I don't mess it up.

If it's this difficult to find just a nice guy at 21, who knows how much harder it will be and how much more cynical I'll be by the time one comes along.

  

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39. "on: gettin the cookies ate spontaneously"
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am I the only one who hesitates?

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46. "i laughed so hard at work"
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i walk around with the Summer Eve's wipe, just in case.
haha

if that is the cookie you're referring to.

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108. "i got SE wipes in the car"
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in my desk @ work, in almost all my purses, in my overnight bag...
gotta be prepared.

  

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50. "YEAUP!...haha"
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ionknow WHY..but whenEVER i go to the baffroom...i don't care WHEN it is..i make SHO i leave outta there READY for yum yum mode...

i'm sayin

i could be on the way to church
at work
at a cookout at grandmama nem's
choir rehearsal..

don't care where...

just always in that mentality..

  

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100. "ha! imma girl scout with that! ALWAYS prepared!"
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i aint missin out on head behind some silly shit.

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367. "this is why women ALWAYS need baby wipes on hand."
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but if I'm at home, I always jump in the shower if company's coming.
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45. "on: attracting older men"
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that's supposed to be a compliment?
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55. "i'm tired of it....i want to attract someone in my age range."
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i mean sure...it's nice to be attractive to someone, but essentially i want someone that i can grow with and relate to....i just think for me it would be too much of a issue if i dated someone more than 8 years older than me.


i tried it in college, but it was for all the wrong reasons. i'm not feeling it now.

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61. "I'm sayin."
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I may not carry myself like some video chick but cot dammit that don't mean I'm tryin to get at pension plans either! No Anna Nicole-o
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83. "exactly....it saddens me and i'm so frustrated"
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because...i did the "right" things, finished school...have a decent career, no felonies...no man is beating on me now and i can wake up and go to bed with myself and be alright.

i want to attract a guy that i can grow with and not feel like i have to stifle my development so he can play "catch-up" (and i'm not even talking about income...i'm talking about just living life and experiencing things)...it's like the ones that i can see myself growing with, they are on something else....either they are married to their career, married to chasing women or married to their ego.

the ones that are attracted to me are generally older (10-15 years older), their children are like my age...they are hitting their stride in the career or trying to retire. they figure that i'm pretty together based on conversation, however i'm still a 20-something year old woman that likes 20-something year old stuff....i mean i still watch cartoons, i have hello kitty panties on today (TMI!)...but you get what i'm saying.

yes, i think i'm mature....but i'm still pretty young also.

maybe you will bless us with your all seeing third
eye, bitch ©earthqueen

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WuGambina
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99. "I feel you."
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and let's not get on married men cuz I OWN that topic. OWN, the fock, IT.
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56. "how much older? Cause seriously, I'll date up to 45"
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Anything past that, and well, you my damn daddy's age, and that's just gross.

Last older guy I dated was Mensa--he was 40.

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62. "I'm 29...I'm sayin 35 is the limit."
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60. "I'm so SICK of men old enough to be my grandfather tryin to get"
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their hay boo on..its not cute

  

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70. "seriously"
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stay in your age group, pops!

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"Dear God."


  

          

I think I'm still young enough to be creeped out by this, but it's been the case since I was about 15. I always wondered what it was that made older (especially MUCH older) men think it was okay to approach young girls the way some of them do. This does odd things to the teenage psyche.

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148. "don't have a problem dating older..."
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been there done that. the oldest that i'll go up is 10 years.

though i try not to put limits on anything.

now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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155. "I'm 'bout sick of being some old man's young girl fantasy..."
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it would have to be the right old man though...hehe

if i dreamed natural
dreams of being a natural
woman doing what a woman
does when she's natural
i would have a revolution
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"Dude from this past weekend was about 80."


          

"You the prettiest little thing in here. Sittin' here all quiet. You gone have to come back and see me." I could just hear the change jingling in his pocket.

  

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263. "lol. I think it's funny."
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They're just fresh old men who think they still "got game," spitting old lines like the Chi-Lites are playing in the background or something.

I've never had a disrespectful one though.

  

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368. "Ugh. I used to go up to 10 years my senior, but as I approach 30"
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the gap is closing like a muhfucka.
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384. "omigoodness i thought it was just me."
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******************SIGGY*******************

  

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48. "on doing the break up to make up"
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yay or nay?

how many break ups do you have to go through before you say "no more"

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52. "it depends on how long you've been together."
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59. "exactly"
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192. "that just means you're comfortable and its easier than moving on"
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plus, its only prolonging the inevitable.

  

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201. "true however if we been together for ten years"
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i'll probably stay thru a few break ups...

the less amount of years atleast 3.

I think that has more to do with me not wanting to give up on something so quickly.

That's cus i'm used to people giving up on me or not giving me a chance at all- so i like to give others the chance that i'm not always given.

  

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269. "true. but how many times to do we break up to make up"
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before we realized maybe we're just not meant to be.

  

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277. "you know that's the hardest question for me to answer..."
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for me there is a point though where i say no more.

there is a ppoint of no return. maybe he put his hands on me- maybe he cheated- maybe he just ignored me-

i can't ever call it- but it's like i am being pushed and pushed and pushed till finally i cross the line and when i do- i do not ever go back the way i came.

but before that happens- my last relationship i think we broke up every month. i knew i didn't want to be there...but every time he came back to me looking for another chance i wd give it to him- till one day he actually violated me physically and that's when i decided it was over.

i cdn't look past that. i mean and he cheated on me- before it's been that he ignored me and that was like a two year relationship...

i mean for me it's the line that i hvae to be pushed over- once there i'm out...sayonara!

  

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57. "CUT THAT B*TCH OFF!"
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(c) Reverend X?

I'm not boolsh*ttin with you anymore. You can't make up ya mind about what you wanna do, step...cuz I know what I want.
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69. "man stop! folks see i'm not doing any work"
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haha you're funny

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65. "as with all things, that is relative"
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I watched my mother and stepfather break up countless times over 15 years only to get it somewhat "right" the last 3 years of my stepdad's life. I guess if the chemistry and the bond is that real, humans being will be human beings and they might fail the first time but that doesn't mean that they shouldn't try again if that's what both parties truly and equally want.

With that being said, I've done the breakup to makeup thing 123456789 times and if it goes past breakup #1 11 times outta 10 it just ain't worth it at least in my experience.

here for dis.

  

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110. "one. period. i have a self-regulating off switch."
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its not even by choice.
when i'm done i'm just done.


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422. "im not sure"
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depends on what caused/keeps causing the breakup



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463. "RE: on doing the break up to make up"
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gonna have to say the nae-no my damie
been there done that I'll never do it again.

There is always a reason for a break up. If that reason cannot be resolved (inmost cases it can't be) then move on make a clean break and keep it moving.

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speakeasy.
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63. "i have trouble keeping friendships with women"
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im not going to rant about how women gossip get jealous blah blah, thats just a cop, imo, and is a dead end as far as dialogue goes.

i need female friends. i dont know what quite goes wrong each time. it usually comes down to me not trusting them. i dont trust ppl in general, but i think i'm unconsciously more pessimestic coming into relationships with females.

a lot of the time its due to communication. oddly enough, i feel more comfortable saying whats on my mind to men versus females. im not quite sure why. anyway, i like having my own time, and by that i mean i like to escape from everything once in a while and seclude myself from everything (ght be an only child thing), and women take this the wrong way. i know im part of the problem, since i give up on those friendships. i also think, I tend to look for that 'ride of die' type friend, that honestly is rare, if even exists (i.e. sex and the city). so maybe im setting myself up.

im starting to rant, and i know this is a heavy topic, but where do I begin in establishing healthy relationships and where do we go wrong?

  

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72. "BINGO!...let's talk"
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cuz..i really dont' have no sista circle..

most of my "lady" love is within my family...like mama...aunts..cuzzins...

i got like 7 girlfriends but we ain't tight tight..

MY thing is...

i don't care...

like really


i love love...and friendship any in any gender he or she comes in


yet..i get "u don't love the sisters"

it's not that


just don't hang around many of them...


*shrugs shoulders*

  

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speakeasy.
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81. "word"
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>most of my "lady" love is within my family...like >mama...aunts..cuzzins...

same here, i have a few, maybe 2, 3 girls that i could talk to, but i dont care for them. i SAY i dont care if i dont have gf's, but i think i do. i think its a problem that ive never had a healthy long lasting friendship with a woman that wasnt a relative.


  

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501. "if you don't care"
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then you won't have the "sista circle". Friendships with women, just like any relationships take maintenance and care. They have to be cultivated, they don't appear out of thin air.

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73. "hmmm"
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i trust women a lot more.

but i see how you feel. for seven years my best friend and i were in and out of each other's lives. if she hurt my feelings, instead of talking to her, i would just disappear.

same for her.

it wasn't until maybe two or three years ago we realized we are grown ass women and we should know how to share how we feel in a respectful manner. i don't think you should assume that women are any different than men.

be open and honest with your female friends. just as you would with a guy, be open with a female.

i think once you get over your assumptions that women are jealous and gossipy then you'll be a lot better off, because just off of this site alone more okp men would rather gossip with me than women.

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speakeasy.
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90. "RE: hmmm"
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>i think once you get over your assumptions that women are jealous and >gossipy then you'll be a lot better off, because just off of this site >alone more okp men would rather gossip with me than women.

i wanted to pointed out that THAT wasnt my assumption, men do gossip just as much as women, if not more. i have a trust problem in general. maybe i havent met the right women yet, maybe i expect too much, maybe its a little bit of both plus some.

shrug

  

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"every single woman that cosigns this peep inside"


          

Hi my name is Arielle-

I am a loner. Come join me in my circle of friends...i'm the only one here right now...but I'm always looking for more...

Ask ladyboss and uhm scrollie- I'm cool peeps yo!

Gimme a chance- let's talk!

that was such a low effort- but no i need some women in my life- just for that sounding board...

i love all kinds of women too- prissy, bitchy gully...send me your weak and your strong...

ok that was abit much...but no for real...i'm tired of being the outkast okpette. i cdn't even go to the daag on spa thing...

  

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111. "ooh oooh you're coming to dc right?!"
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lets hang

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132. "fa sho!"
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no doubt i'm going here on sunday the 21st- http://www.mienyu.com/

we're looking for something to get into on the 20th tho.

  

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121. "hi Arielle....I'm Cynthia"
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that's sad, you didn't go to the spa thingie

it's tough because it's not that many women down here, and the few that i've met we are all so busy and wrapped up in our own lives....we don't make conscious efforts to hang out, which is sucky.


i'm always looking for new sisterfriends, especially level-headed, fun-loving people. i know i've pestered you enough via inbox

sorry...but i'm all all the way in ATL though, but i've been meaning to make my way out west one day....i have a friend in Altadena, CA that I haven't seen in 7 years

if it's any consolation....i make a mean carrot cake and red velvet cake....oh yeah, i make key lime pie too.

maybe you will bless us with your all seeing third
eye, bitch ©earthqueen

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141. "sup gul......"
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yeah that kinda sucked...but i may be moving back to tha A next year too...


so no doubt thanx for joining the circle...i've got the warm fuzzies...

  

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122. "*signs up* i think you maybe on to something here, lol."
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are you coming to the re?


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130. "i have already signed you up for the good-girlfriend circle"
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since you are moving to ATL.....you just ain't know that yet.

I was gonna bribe you with cake and pasta with my homemade alfredo sauce.

and we were gonna play with my makeup, because it's only but so much i can practice on my face....i wanna make up other people's faces

maybe you will bless us with your all seeing third
eye, bitch ©earthqueen

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137. "i would say yes but......."
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i'd rather let you bribe me, lol.
cake, pasta AND homemade alfredo sauce?
imma play hard to get.

see you soon, lady!

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151. "*cough cough cough*"
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amazin they ungrateful after all The Game I gave away

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maybetomorrow
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154. "you work 9,456 jobs and that's just Mon-Fri....."
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i don't wanna hear it!....and don't think i wouldn't be trying to make your face up and twist your locks. i told myself that when i get to my goal size and make some other improvements in my life....i'm either going to lock again or cut my hair short as like a rebirth kinda thing.


i've been weaving to achieve because i'm bored and can't think of hairstyles to do.

maybe you will bless us with your all seeing third
eye, bitch ©earthqueen

Bitch it does NOT take a village. It takes ONE person doing her job right. © janey

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Optometrist
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165. "you know, I'm actually free tomorrow and Thursday"
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I've come to the conclusion that fokes who say to me (not saying you've said this) "Tasha, you don't have a cell phone so it's blah blah blah" are just bullshitting on the "I really wanna hang out w/ you" tip. Because, hell, they don't call the number they DO have for a nigga.

Nobody ever calls me. All my business correspondence is done through email, so not even my best client calls me. I called her yesterday to tell her I was running a li'l late on the delivery of the audio, and that was the last phone convo I had. That was yesterday.

This phone has not rung ONCE today, and I made money sitting right here.

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amazin they ungrateful after all The Game I gave away

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maybetomorrow
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176. "man....you're free when i'm heading out of town."
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i'm going to Chicago for my dad's birthday this weekend....i'm flying out Thursday night, and i'll be back Sunday, but i'm turning around and heading down to Warner-Robins, GA Monday @ 6am and will be there until Thursday night....so I really will be out of the loop until May 12th


are you going to see Darien Brockington & Tanya Morgan?....if so i'll definately see you there.

maybe you will bless us with your all seeing third
eye, bitch ©earthqueen

Bitch it does NOT take a village. It takes ONE person doing her job right. © janey

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183. "Yeah, I'm coming through the show AFTER work"
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Winky Dinky Dog closes at 11, but it all depends on when the last table decides they wanna go the fuck home.

I'ma try to get outta there at a decent hour. I'm aight w/ missing Darien (sorry Monty--you know I luh yo fine ass), but I MUST see TM.

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amazin they ungrateful after all The Game I gave away

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maybetomorrow
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243. "cool...."
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i wouldn't be doing my duty as an OKP and an Aggie if i didn't see TM though. Either way, i'm gonna get my pitiful ass out the house.

maybe you will bless us with your all seeing third
eye, bitch ©earthqueen

Bitch it does NOT take a village. It takes ONE person doing her job right. © janey

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Ioness
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166. "oooooooooh ladies- yuh i got all ya'll when i move back..."
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ya'll know i'm tryna buy a house.

  

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Optometrist
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174. "move back where? To The A?"
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I ain't know you was FROM here!

Yeah, I need to look into some real estate, seriously. I just ain't sure where I'ma be at, though.

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Ioness
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188. "yup!"
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wray
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185. "when are you moving back?"
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niggas is beautiful- Ike M.

  

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Ioness
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"June o7"


          

when i get that 50k in da bank.

  

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wray
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204. "cool! i'm moving back june 06."
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are you gonna stay in the profession or do something different once you get to the A?

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Ioness
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213. "i'll probably be flipping some real estate and"
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some other side hustles-
which i will not be divulging at this time.

  

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Ioness
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142. "Nawl won't be at the re- but whas up doe..."
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nice to meet you wray wray???

what do i call you homie?

  

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wray
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149. "lol, u got me laughin already!"
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lisa, sis.
howz u?

your in cali, right?


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Shaboonkashae
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420. "*smiles & waves*"
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I'm Katrina

nice 2 meet ya


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Ioness
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497. "what up katrina girl?!?"
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how you be?

Nice to meet you don't be a stranger now- i'm the resident okp carebear and miss cleo...ha ha.

nawl for real tho- i'm cool peeps kinda crazy tho...but i think you can hang huh?!
yuh!

  

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530. "i b skrait"
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i think i might get some more money so i can stay in school

so i'm happy

how are you?

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maybetomorrow
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92. "see i'm the exact opposite....as i get older it's harder for me"
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to maintain platonic friendships with men. it's like the few sisterfriends I have....i know their shortcomings and i know their strengths and i have learned to still love them all the same and in their own special way.

with men...my tolerance is just so limited and i'm quick to say, you know what....i can't rock with you no mo', and that's the end of the friendship, or i have had male friends that stop befriending me when the friendship doesn't turn into the fuckin'ship....i told them there are 3 ships in my life....friendship, relationship and fuckin'ship and you can't ride 2 boats at the same time....and you can't jump back and forth between boats.

i do want some more female friends because my girlfriends are spread out over the US, and it's so funny the ladies I connect so well with on here or who i'd like to befriend live so far away

you know...i want a good girlfriend that we can hit the malls occasionally, go to dinner once a week and just hang out and be silly.

maybe you will bless us with your all seeing third
eye, bitch ©earthqueen

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WuGambina
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101. "I've had the same core of girlfriends since highschool"
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and college. Ain't even lookin for new ones but if it happens, so be it. You have to really get on my nerves for me not to maintain "some" kind of friendship with you. Personally, I'd rather take on new guy friends. For some reason it's just...easier.
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124. "i won't touch this with a 10 foot pole."
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125. "i won't touch this with a 10 foot pole."
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speakeasy.
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532. "how come, lingo?"
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MistressB
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126. "Yes. I've been wondering how much of that is mother-related."
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Lately I've been thinking that the way I'm wary of trusting my mother completely may have some effect on the way I have friendships with other women. I find that I cut them considerably less slack and probably open myself up to them a lot less than I do with male friends. I'm not even sure how to handle that about myself.

~I aspire to be my alter ego~

  

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misscelie_ifeelslikesingin
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236. "Hi all...I'm Sharon"
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a few years ago, I could've co-signed this..but now, I have some lovely, beautiful sistren that I love wholeheartedly. We laugh together, we cry together, we get on each other's nerves, we support each other, we pray for each other and we are honest. I know how to tell them that I need space. I wasn't always like this. Maybe four years ago, I was a loner (I still have loner tendencies) and I used the excuse that the majority of my friends were on the east coast so I was cool in my place. But I was lonely. When I finally decided to be more outgoing and trusting, I opened myself up to some characters that I cannot see my life without. Some of these characters were in place already. Like my Mom and my sis. I love hanging out with them. I spend the majority of my time with them and I've started to see my Mom as a friend, who is funny as hell, btw. I see where I get my sense of humor from cuz she makes me stop in my tracks sometimes and say "What did you say?"

But aside from my blood family, I have wonderful sisters who are my collected family.

Would love to include others. My heart is big and open. I give good advice. I listen well and I support. So, holla at me. You get back what you put out.

if i dreamed natural
dreams of being a natural
woman doing what a woman
does when she's natural
i would have a revolution
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238. "Hi sharon- welcome to the circle...."
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how you be??? where you stay at?

  

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241. "hey you...."
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you're already in my OKcircle...we've shared and discussed a lot as is.

I'm doing amazingly well today. How are you?

I'm in Los Angeles...I know you're in San Diego so when you come back up this way, holla at me.


if i dreamed natural
dreams of being a natural
woman doing what a woman
does when she's natural
i would have a revolution
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392. "thats good shit..."
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ive always been slightly envious of that "sex and the city" type relationship...

i usually have like 1 homegirl at a time but i would love to do the saturday morning breakfasts, and weekend spa trips wit "my girls"


and if ya dont know...im Jamila yall


"Who loves ya baby? Nobody like Jackie-O...cook, clean, break up ya weed, and I give ya nasty throat"

"When a guy fingers a lady and then smells, licks, sucks the juice off his finger and sighs as if in heaven, she knows this is her lucky day"

  

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speakeasy.
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536. "thats beautiful. thanks Sharon!"
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Im glad u found wonderful, positive friends to surround yourself with. you are right when you say "you get back what you put out." im just realizing the important of needing the right balance of being open, yet careful.

  

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370. "you know, no matter what, it always ends up being some sort of"
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competition w/ "the sistas" (c) LoveJones
my closest friends (other than fam, of course) are not black. maybe it's just coincidence, i don't know. but w/ them, these non-black friends, i never feel like i'm being judged or competing for anything. it's come as you are, it's all good, we love your spirit, and shit, lol. they're my biggest cheerleaders, next to my mama, and even when i was a part of a sista circle, i never had as much love unconditionally, just raw. maybe friendships get better w/ age *shrug. Maybe we've all been through the ringer w/ that one (or few) frienship and we've learned from it so our capacity to be friends ripens. i don't know.
at my age, friends have come and gone. Which is to be expected. Friendships are just like romantic relationships and i've broken up w/ my fair share of friends over the last two decades...for whatever reason (grew apart, got stabbed in the back, lost touch, etc.) and I know the same can happen w/ my current friends but they're so worth it. they bring so much to my life. I just wish i could find that same bond w/ some sistas, tho (all the sista friends i have are more like associates). at least one that isn't family. i know it's possible.
^what a tangent^ lol

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484. "I agree with this statement"
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friendships get better with age. I've matured into my ability to BE a friend. I think my needs became different at a certain age and I stopped competing or looking at surface relationships. I let some people go, but at the end of the day, the ones I've kept and the new ones I've added have been worth everything. I couldn't see my life without them. Five or six years ago, I don't think I was in the right place.

if i dreamed natural
dreams of being a natural
woman doing what a woman
does when she's natural
i would have a revolution
Nikki Giovanni "Revolutionary Dreams"

  

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TobiCharles
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493. "This is was especially true for me after I had my son..."
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a friend and I were pregnant at the same time and as soon as the kids were born, for some odd reason everything became competition to her. At first I thought there were self-esteem issues so I tried to encourage her. But after a while I realized that I may not be able to help her so we grew apart.

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."--Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Miss J_129
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383. "same problem here."
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i usually find a nice small group of friends, then slowly everything just dissolves.

when i was much younger it was over petty bullshit, so i'm not even complaining about that.

but lately... it just seems like it's a trust issue.

a few of 'em have given me reason to be wary but...
sometimes i just think it's me seeing too much into something.

  

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speakeasy.
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542. "i feel u"
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>i usually find a nice small group of friends, then slowly >everything just dissolves. a few of 'em have given me reason to be >wary but...sometimes i just think it's me seeing too much into >something.

same here. i know its not just me meeting bad people or me not trusting them, its got to be a combination of things, u know? and finding the common thread of where things go wrong in each relationship will help.

>when i was much younger it was over petty bullshit, so i'm not even >complaining about that.
u know, i still deal with mainly petty bullshit in college, yes, we are in our early 20s but damn, when does HS really end?



  

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beautifulpeace
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391. "my problem is i have a low tolerance for weak women..."
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"weak" in the sense that....i get tired of having that girl talk about "how dis nigga doin me wrong, but i love him anyway" type shit...

there is only sooo many times that i can be that supportive girlfriend without sayin "Damn broad i dont wanna hear that shit no more!"

i know we are emotional creatures and all but when i hear women complain and complain without doing anything about the situation...that shit makes me wanna write folks off all together

not saying this is a good thing (cuz ive done this a few times), but something about that weak energy turns me the fuck off

so most of my friends end up being men....but sometimes i do miss the bra and panty convos...



"Who loves ya baby? Nobody like Jackie-O...cook, clean, break up ya weed, and I give ya nasty throat"

"When a guy fingers a lady and then smells, licks, sucks the juice off his finger and sighs as if in heaven, she knows this is her lucky day"

  

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TobiCharles
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452. "I could have written your post word for word..."
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I think it has something to do with my mother. Though I love her...umm...lets just say I think she taught me to be wary of women. I have female friends but it is very difficult to trust them. I am also very guarded and I think some women take that the wrong way. They look at it as being aloof.

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speakeasy.
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540. "my mom has made me suspicious of ppl, esp women too"
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well, not MADE me, but she is the same way, so i think ive picked that up from her, and she doesnt really have much friends either, so we're codependent on each other as well :=/ but thats another story.
im guarded too, and many of the problems ive had between friends have stemmed from my miscommunication too, but they usually take it for "i dont wanna be their friend anymore" or "im shady," lol...far from it. do you do better with guy friends?

  

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TobiCharles
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546. "Well..."
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I won't say that I am better with guys but in my house it was always the dudes that were the calm ones and the women were more dramatic. However, I am laid back and calm so I related more to my father and brother. That led me to relating more to guys than girls. Now as I have gotten older (and I'm married) I try to cultivate more relationships with women. But just like you I've been misunderstood. Hit me up if you need to talk about it. Are you on MSN Instant Messenger or Google Talk?
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."--Ralph Waldo Emerson

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phillyjawn
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64. "on dating someone with a young child(dren): si or no?"
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the current prospect has a lil one...Im not in the mood for baby mama drama

  

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chicky259
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76. "as you get older its more and more a reality..."
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u just have to decide if that is the route u want to take

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105. "yeah."
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takes a lot of "extra" effort.
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<--In honar of Mother's Day

  

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163. "Nothing is wrong with it, if you don't mind it."
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But first, you have to go into with an open mind and a realization that he will have to see his child's mother at times.

Second, it takes patience because if he's spending time with his child like he's supposed to, there are goign to be times where he just doesn't have as much time to spend with you.

Third, if its not your thing don't let anyone guilt you into getting involved in an arena of no interest to you. Its ok when a man says he doesn't want to date a woman with children, but somehow this is misconstrued with a woman echoes the same sentiments. She's often beat over the head with the 'you're missing out on a good man' antics.

  

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364. "right now my answer is no"
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but i think that's cuz i'm younger...i simply don't want a man who has a child right now.

  

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385. "I used to realllllly try not dating someone with children"
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but as of lately it seems that it's almost impossible.

i don't think i'm ready to step in and be that step-mother yet.

even if you don't marry the guy, if you're going to get into a relationship with him, the child is going to play a pretty big part in that.

  

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LoveJonez
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66. "On Braids: Micros? Kinkys? Cornrows? Twists?"
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braids are the summer thang for me...

now that i've gotten all of them done...
i can't choose...

micros...loved them IN..but HATED taking them out

Kinkys...i liked them..but liked the micros better

NO singles...

cornrows....ehhh..cool...i think i like the LIL LIL ones tho...

twists...they aiiight...they itch early doe...



baffled

  

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74. "Ima Phillygirl..and we LOVE micros..."
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I used to get them alot when I lived back East..now I get them ocassionally...12 hours is too damn long to to be in that chair, but I love how they look when theyre fresh..but after about 3 weeks..that new growth be comin on strong lol..I too HATE takin them out

  

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109. "* a philly chick raising her hand*"
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yeah i used to love them when i didnt have locs

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116. "i like 'em for vacay"
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and when I get tired of doing my own hair.
usually micros.
but when I get them, that's when I see all the chicks with the naturals and i want MY hair to be out too!
i also feel like i blend in too much with them in and i get too paranoid about the new growth and lookin crazy.

  

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576. "i want to get micros for my vaca in miami"
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but i DO NOT want to go to an african braiding place (they pull too tight) and don't want to end up like brandy - all bald at the front.

also, i'm toying with the idea of getting tracks sewn in... any suggestions?

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phillyjawn
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68. "also..please tell me I'm not the only one gettin hit on by young bols"
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niggas be like 17 n shit tryin to come with...thats not cute either

  

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75. "for some reason that has not happened to me yet."
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I don't know whether it's good or bad.
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77. "You are not alone (c) Mike"
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Try young ones at church. There was a whole row behind my pew waving.

  

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78. "if u wanna get REAL with it..."
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a 24 year old got me twisted right about now...

and i turn 30 this year


thas the age of my baby brother

WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY off the meter for Tonya


i'm confused as hell


but his game is tight...EVERY BIT of it....


*flashback

  

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85. "LOL"
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93. "This must be the year for that."
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There's a 24 year old that swears we're friends. I friend of mine has a 24 year old trying to ease in.

  

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80. "tell me i'm not the only one who's sometimes okay with this"
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hahaha

but 21 and up i'm okay with.

hehe

*hides under desk*

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87. "sometimes them lil 19 n 20 year olds be comin with it ..I cant front"
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lol

  

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86. "!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
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try working 3 blocks from a high school.
UGH, just fuckin UGH.
but they just luh the shit out of me for whatever reason.

here for dis.

  

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88. "lol..lo siento fam"
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448. "RE: !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
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LOL

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97. "fam"
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just last week some boy told me he just turned 18 2 weeks ago. I keep hoping I hit a turning point when no young boys try to holla.

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258. "LOL"
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233. "I get that ALOT lately"
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they say i look younger than what i am but once they know, they don't care anyway. I'm like, we can't even go out for drinks similac breath

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379. "not that young, but yeah."
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they be pretty young
w/ big balls trynna holla at me, lol

it's getting harder and harder to keep "esther, the child molester" in check, but i must. i don't need the headache

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511. "that's been happening to me lately too"
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i pay it no mind

  

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89. "yall. are we mad at angela basset?"
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I KNOW I'm not!

she had TWINS without giving birth, so she kept her
shape and still has offsprings and a career.
has a big dick stud of a husband.
AND she's got a cotdamn nanny for them kids.

cotdamn she's my idol, yo.


  

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98. "you stupid, lol"
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I don't have baby the first, but I'd like to do it natch, if at all possible.

Angela had a surrogate, but them twins is hers and Courtney's biologically. They took her egg and his sperm and made it happen in somebody else womb.

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115. "i love her"
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her hubby needs more lines in that fuckin show.

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119. "definitely not mad"
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150. "u ain't got a lick-a-sense"
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u right...doe

i dare not be mad

  

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96. "on wishing for an older sister"
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i've never had that feeling before, for i enjoyed the shit out of being the all knowing first born of the movement. however, once in a while i wish for an older sister who could guide me a little.


  

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232. "girl...me too"
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It's bad enough that I'm going through so many things later in life (dating, losing virginity, etc.)...sometimes I wish had an older sister to be there, dispense advice, etc...

Friends are great but family is better.

  

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345. "me too."
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i mean i have like 7 aunts

and one cousin that's about 5 years older than me, but it's not the same.

sometimes i really dont' like being the oldest...esp. now since i'm about to graduate and everybody's waiting to see how i'll fare in the real world

too much guinea pig type ish

-okayplayer loryn, a cali export

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102. "On: Long Periods...How long did your longest period last??"
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see..when it gets hot...i bleed more...
one time...i was havin 8 day periods...

thought i was gon dry up and die...

not to mention i'm amemic...

this ain't started yet in 06...but in preparation...is there a remedy?


  

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112. "BRAGG'S APPLE CIDER VINEGAR, ma"
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Drink you 2 tablespoons in a 8 oz glass of water.

That'll slow it on up.

Worked for me.

I was on a vinegar regimen like, daily. I used to suffer from 10 day stretches when my period decided it wanted to show up (I have PCOS). That vinegar cut them visits down to like, 5 days. I was still in the bathroom changing equipment every 2 hours and shit, but it shortened the duration and heaviness.

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153. "I'm sayin.. Is YOU comin to the RE..cuz we goin to WalMark"
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yo and whas PCOS...


we needta build forreal...


u boutta make me a bedda woman...


*apple cider Vinegar on shoppin list
*Check!*

this is wonderful for high blood pressure too...

  

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160. "I'm roomin w/ Wu and wray and Sha"
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and probably Bskin, too, if she down wit it.

Our room gon' be the bomb--all 5 of our fine asses in there together? WHAT?!?!? lol

But yeah, girl, I'll Be There (c) J5

we definitely have to politic.

And I have the same disease as mylife, only hers is much more severe than mine. Then again, she's actually taking stuff to make hers better--I'm just living w/ my shit.

PCOS is polycystic ovarian syndrome. Irregular periods, crazy big ass abdomen, pain in the ovary area and shit--it's got a grillion different symptoms. Weight difficulty is the one I struggle with. We have no clue if I'll be able to have babies.

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