yes, another reactionary post...

i dont remember who it was, but he kept asking this question and nobody would reply to him with an answer so im gonna do it...

this is for men AND women.

let me start with a story.

so around june 2004 there was this girl i worked with named ____ and she was attractive...id describe her but id get in trouble so i wont (lol) and to make a long story short she wanted to fuck. now based on looks she could've got it, but she was crazy...like, had good sense, but didnt have good sense...so in my mind at the time i was like "damn she (insert admiration of physical assets here) but imagine if i fucked around and got her pregnant id jump off a fucking roof" so safe to say i didnt have sex with her.

but according to a post i read earlier other people dont care about that...male and female. i have friends that have had pregnancy scares and have thrown around abortion money like theyre not taking a life before it gets here...so my question is...finally...why have sex with someone that youd hate to get pregnant/be impregnated by? because each time you have sex that shit is possible.






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we understand you can easily come back and we're not impressed. how about getting a life first.� okpdan

LOL




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please massa
*shuffle like a jiggaboo*

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As we engage in battle, the crowd now screams in rage
The high chief Jamel Irief take the stage
Light is provided through sparks of energy
From the mind that travels in rhyme form

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anyone who says the condom broke was either using lambskin or smashing like justin slayer

people like to say the condom broke when they're in denial about smashing raw/not pulling out.

i've used enough protection and pulled out enough times without anyone becoming pregnant

believe you me...

and i aint no justin slayer....

some chicks just go at it hard...

<-----Ill Windmill!-------



***The universe is balanced with good and evil...Your next act will tip the scales***

who have had sex with scores of women (that i can actually account for) and theres been at least 8 abortions...

so either they aint rocking them or somebody is a lil too rough lol




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~I aspire to be my alter ego~

might be 2, might be 3...lol

but im over here dry snitching so let me be quiet



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I work in Sexual health, condoms can and do break.

Those shits are not foolproof, no matter what they say.


"...but who is this white man who tells us what to do and what not to
do, whom I serve, and who tells me what is good for us? Is the white
man one of us?"

Willie E. Abraham
The Mind of Africa

***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

is the sky always a deep aqua blue or more of a cerulian? Does it never rain?

Sounds like a great place to live.

"In a completely rational society the best of us would be teachers and the rest of us would have to settle for something else." -Lee Iococca

i dont anticipate it ever happening either

had nothing to do with being irresponsible, I always checked expiration dates and stuff, sh.t just happens sometimes...most times it doesn't...thankfully I was with someone with whom I'd have no issue having as the father of my child so...

"In a completely rational society the best of us would be teachers and the rest of us would have to settle for something else." -Lee Iococca

i was freakin out too.

cuz i don't know *when* it broke

all i know is i pulled out it was broke. fortunately it was fairly early on, so i cleaned off, put on another one, and got back up in it.

--me--
"Hip-hop's biggest problem is that it cant accept criticism." -- scorpion

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27!!!!

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"Hip-hop's biggest problem is that it cant accept criticism." -- scorpion

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27!!!!

no homo

_

shakin your block with a 6 million dollar bop

_

www.davidevanmcdowell.com

***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

yall need to leave my dude alone lol





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i'm playin, im sure son knows that

_

shakin your block with a 6 million dollar bop

_

www.davidevanmcdowell.com

i havent perfected the bullydick yet

but i mean, we dont need that idea to proliferate through GD as i still might want to get at a few of these fees

"In a completely rational society the best of us would be teachers and the rest of us would have to settle for something else." -Lee Iococca

� trifling ass nigga �

thankfully i never got anyone pregnant, and never caught anything...



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it happens.

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��farewell, lil kim�

...

<-----Ill Windmill!-------



***The universe is balanced with good and evil...Your next act will tip the scales***

i remember talkin to an ex about this
she was like, "yeah, i wiled out when i was a yout
if i had thought about that, i prolly would have had 2 partners in my life.
or none."

***************
As we engage in battle, the crowd now screams in rage
The high chief Jamel Irief take the stage
Light is provided through sparks of energy
From the mind that travels in rhyme form

www.myspace.com/angoleiro

-k-
q.e.p.d.

una y otra vez

"yo look at her hands, she's looks like a nurturer. Thats whats up"

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doing a heck of a job, like Brownie.

and thats why i never got a lot of cut up...lol



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doing a heck of a job, like Brownie.

:-O

this has disturbing implications.

-k-
q.e.p.d.

una y otra vez

_

shakin your block with a 6 million dollar bop

_

www.davidevanmcdowell.com

and it's their perogative

not everyone has the same values as you do

but it makes sense to be more careful with someone u don't even see yourself being with long-term

people just don't care, unfortunately

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When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it.
- Bernard Bailey

where does irresponsibility and "not being careful" come in?

***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

if u don't want children you should ACT in ways that reflect that.
be responsible for your sperm/eggs

if u don't want them fertilized/fertilizing protection is necessary

how can u NOT understand that?

some people don't care enough about potential pregnancies/sti's to make the conscious effort of using protection even if their partner is on bc

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When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it.
- Bernard Bailey

i assume that would mean that one is being used in the first place.

***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

whether condoms are being used or not, sleeping with someone you don't want have kids by, thats my point, in and of itself is irresponsible.

"but it makes sense to be more careful with someone u don't even see yourself being with long-term"

i guess that would mean not putting yourself in that risk at all

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When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it.
- Bernard Bailey

have you always felt that way?

have you always acted accordingly?

***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

i'm a hypocrite

i can be very irresponsible at times eventhough i know better, education as opposed to experience

i've just been fortunate enough to get pregnant with/by someone who wanted me in his life long-term

some people aren't as fortunate and pay for that irresponsibility

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When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it.
- Bernard Bailey

nice chattin!

***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

Its the solution you're seeking my friend. If you wear a condom and then right when youre about to cum, start pulling out you'll be doubly sure that you didnt get her pregnant. or just say youre down for oral and let her suck you off. theres many options here.

http://myspace.com/bambumusic

www.individualsole.com

http://www.individualsole.com/?p=5256

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGH3OuP9Sek

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When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it.
- Bernard Bailey

.

if the condom is BROKEN, pulling out before he cums doesn't eliminate risk
if it's intact, u might as well finish up... ejaculation doesn't burst a hole in a condom if it's put on properly


Q. Can a guy �pull out� to prevent pregnancy?
A. ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! This is NOT a form of birth control! I answer this question way too often. Pulling out, also known as' withdrawal', means that a man pulls his penis out of the vagina before he �comes� to keep sperm from being deposited inside the vagina. This is NOT a method of birth control in the real world. (maybe according to some religions and only if those people are married). It does NOT work!!! Pregnancy can happen even if the guy pulls out, if he doesn't ejaculate, or doesn't put his penis all the way in. Here is why: when a guy gets aroused, he produces a fluid called pre-ejaculate (�pre-cum�), which can contain sperm - although sperm isn't produced in this fluid -- this fluid can be higher in sperm count if he has just had sex or masturbated earlier in the day. (Some sperm might still be in the urethra). When the fluid leaks from the penis before a guy comes, it can cause pregnancy.

Also, some guys say they will 'pull out', and then they get so excited and carried away that they don't or 'forget' . Also, some guys can�t tell when they are going to ejaculate.

Q2. What are the chances of getting pregnant from this ('withdrawal' and pre-ejaculate)?

There is no way anyone could give you the odds on a pregnancy without an ejaculation as there are many variables involved. There could be a very small number of active sperm in your pre-ejaculate, but could those swim and fertilize and egg? Who knows. Did your partner ovulate, etc. There is no way to calculate this risk. Don't have unprotected sex, ever. Unless you want to conceive. The worrying and waiting is not worth the risk of taking a chance! If you know you ejaculated, then you might talk to your partner about emergency contraception. I am not recommending that here, just mentioning it as a very, very last resort. For more read about it.

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When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it.
- Bernard Bailey

at all.

so i guess that give me confidence. but i only had sex with one person who i knew for sure would be a horrible father. he was missing a few screws.
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you'd have to exert a fair amount of effort with your fingers to break a condom

saying the condom broke is how you sound responsible when you weren't really

if it's too dry it could break
even a bit of oil gets on it. it's gonna break.
if you fucking for hours with the same condom. it's gonna break.
if it's too small. it's gonna break.

i just haven't had that happen to me.
___________________________
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.

��farewell, lil kim�

http://www.go2planb.com/ForConsumers/Index.aspx

Things do not always go as planned. You might have forgotten to take your pill, or another birth control method you used might have failed, like your condom broke. Now you have a second chance to prevent pregnancy with Plan B�.

Plan B� is an emergency contraceptive that can still prevent a pregnancy after contraceptive failure or unprotected sex.


Plan B� should be taken within 3 days (72 hours) of unprotected sex and can reduce the risk of pregnancy by 89%. But the sooner you take it the more effective it will be.


Plan B� is not RU-486 (the abortion pill); it will not work if you are already pregnant.

____________________________________


no regrets
life is hectic

i mean if youve ever wanted *one* person SO SO much...you start to feel like, oh well, i'm going all out with this one, whatever happens happens...

"...but who is this white man who tells us what to do and what not to
do, whom I serve, and who tells me what is good for us? Is the white
man one of us?"

Willie E. Abraham
The Mind of Africa

whose most natural and most overwhelming instinct is to copulate and procreate...

me you everybody

but go ahead and keep beliving that if you want...


"...but who is this white man who tells us what to do and what not to
do, whom I serve, and who tells me what is good for us? Is the white
man one of us?"

Willie E. Abraham
The Mind of Africa

***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

-k-
q.e.p.d.

una y otra vez

if I can be nice for one day, I'm pretty sure you can follow suit...


"...but who is this white man who tells us what to do and what not to
do, whom I serve, and who tells me what is good for us? Is the white
man one of us?"

Willie E. Abraham
The Mind of Africa

at YOU

smh

Do you belive everything they taught you at school????

Was you EDUCATED at school???? *laughs*

Like I said, keep on believing what you believe...

Peace

"...but who is this white man who tells us what to do and what not to
do, whom I serve, and who tells me what is good for us? Is the white
man one of us?"

Willie E. Abraham
The Mind of Africa

animal and plant...

youre either one or the other...

mind you, i'm not saying ppl should be having sex willy nilly because of their animal instincts, but when it comes down to it we *are* animals and what separates us from other animals is our intelligence, which enables us to control our animal instincts...

therefore i'm not disagreeing with what you said in the post after this bc i'm the same way...

vegetal/plants, mineral, animal and humans.

I will now exit this dialogue, because I fear further discourse will prove to be folly and ultimately frustrating...

Peace


"...but who is this white man who tells us what to do and what not to
do, whom I serve, and who tells me what is good for us? Is the white
man one of us?"

Willie E. Abraham
The Mind of Africa

well i'm gonna do my research so i can correct myself if need be...

if you care to know what youre talking about, humans are classified within the animal kingdom from every sight i've researched...

however, the debate around how many forms of life there are is changes constantly

this is essentially how I look at women now, like if I was to lay down with you. Would I be happy with you being the mother of my child, if that was to happen...

I just broke up with the ex, but needless to say I hadn't fucked for a minute before that...


"...but who is this white man who tells us what to do and what not to
do, whom I serve, and who tells me what is good for us? Is the white
man one of us?"

Willie E. Abraham
The Mind of Africa

look @ THIS shit

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=1443908&mesg_id=1443908&listing_type=search

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are you really that shocked & appalled?

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when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?