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CyrenYoung
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"random rambles: *public masturbation*"


  

          

..coming home from the bodega over the wkd (sat), a friend pointed out this guy that initially appeared to be breaking into a car. a closer look revealed that this fool wasn't breakin' into anything, he was breakin' OUT.

dude was masturbating in broad daylight, in front of a school. while the school was closed, there were plenty of kids on the playground.

i immediately turned, walked up to him and yelled, " GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE!"

what's crazy is that he saw me approaching (looking me dead in the eye) and didn't stop until i screamed on him. he actually looked a bit surprised that someone took him to task about it. it took everything in me to control my emotion. i sternly chastised him loud enough for everyone to hear, and escorted him to the nearest train station (*making sure he knew he would never be welcome in the neighborhood again, for any reason).

i thought about simply calling/flagging down the police, but just didn't feel like dealin' with the bullshit that day.

one of my neighbors (president of our block association) saw everything and thanked me for stepping in, but i couldn't help but feel torn about the situation. i take a hard line stance on inappropriate behavior involving children, but i know that addiction/mental illness is very real. i don't feel bad about getting involved, but part of me feels like we're not doing enough (overall) to truly help in these situations.





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..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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you totally ruined his climax afterglow.
Jun 24th 2015
1
This goes to what I said about the Charleston shooting last week.
Jun 24th 2015
2
blame the illness, still hold the individual responsible tho...
Jun 24th 2015
5
eh.
Jun 24th 2015
3
not takin' any chances...
Jun 24th 2015
7
sure.
Jun 24th 2015
10
indecent exposure is still a crime...
Jun 24th 2015
17
      and i'm a defense attorney.
Jun 24th 2015
18
           shame on you! lol...
Jun 24th 2015
23
                right on. lol
Jun 24th 2015
28
I can see both sides of Cy/SoWhat's argument
Jun 24th 2015
41
      nah, yo...
Jun 24th 2015
52
           I get that and agree
Jun 24th 2015
54
Nahhhh. What if he was getting off because of the kids?
Jun 24th 2015
9
he's allowed his fantasies.
Jun 24th 2015
11
^^on that SVU^^
Jun 24th 2015
15
there are many acts criminalized over my objection.
Jun 24th 2015
19
      You trolling right now
Jun 24th 2015
30
           not at all.
Jun 24th 2015
31
Nawwww man. I mean, if he really wants to watch Look who's talking
Jun 24th 2015
16
*shrugs*
Jun 24th 2015
20
i dont know sh*t about the law, but would jerking off in front of a woma...
Jun 24th 2015
34
      yes, that is a sex offense
Jun 24th 2015
36
      if she's not down that's some sort of criminal offense.
Jun 24th 2015
38
pedophilia...
Jun 24th 2015
12
Masturbation in front of a school is gateway masturbation bruh
Jun 24th 2015
29
so?
Jun 24th 2015
32
      SoWhat: anti-spanking, but masturbation in front of kids is fine
Jun 24th 2015
35
      Well, still its a lewd act which is against the law
Jun 24th 2015
37
           i wouldn't do it either.
Jun 24th 2015
39
you just combined two ideas into one
Jun 24th 2015
33
it's just a penis.
Jun 24th 2015
40
      you're just trolling.
Jun 24th 2015
42
           nope.
Jun 24th 2015
44
                you just reminded me you dont even like children.
Jun 24th 2015
46
                     i don't dislike kids.
Jun 24th 2015
49
                          you've made posts about not liking kids
Jun 24th 2015
50
                               k.
Jun 24th 2015
51
Rare overreach for you nm.
Jul 03rd 2015
58
wtf kind of scumbag shit are you on?
Jul 04th 2015
61
well that didnt take long
Jun 24th 2015
4
naw anything involving kids, I'm calling the police. I don't lend a
Jun 24th 2015
6
how far does your vigilance go? have you cheecked your area
Jun 24th 2015
8
inbox, please.
Jun 24th 2015
13
the 10th/14 st exit off 75S in ATL was a hotspot for this
Jun 24th 2015
14
in front of a school? id have called the cops
Jun 24th 2015
21
Sorry, I ran in here thinking you were talking about doing it yourself
Jun 24th 2015
22
ha!..
Jun 24th 2015
24
      i think this is a situation where everyone was happy you were
Jun 24th 2015
26
should have called the cops
Jun 24th 2015
25
Call the cops. He reaches for his waist. Problem solved.
Jun 24th 2015
27
unfunny
Jul 04th 2015
60
Damn you moderate the streets too?
Jun 24th 2015
43
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVkTmnJkAN8
Jun 24th 2015
48
Where are you from?
Jun 24th 2015
45
LMBAO!
Jun 24th 2015
47
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8q7ttP3AQk
Jun 24th 2015
53
      Haha.....EXACTLY!
Jul 03rd 2015
56
that shit is disturbing...
Jun 24th 2015
55
Mannn Listen I don't condone violence but....
Jul 03rd 2015
57
IMO you totally did the right thing
Jul 04th 2015
59

Deadzombie
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1. "you totally ruined his climax afterglow."
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Wed Jun-24-15 10:53 AM by Deadzombie

          

he should never forgive you.

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im not sure i could escort a person i just seen jacking off in public.

i feel like that person is liable to do anything. i mean anything like lick my face or some shit, or kiss me or some shit.

i aint havin that.

kudos to you for stepping up.

i might have hit him with a 'c'mon cuz!, quit playing around!'

no walking him nowhere though.

  

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2. "This goes to what I said about the Charleston shooting last week."
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>but feel torn about the situation. i take a hard line stance
>on inappropriate behavior involving children, but i know that
>addiction/mental illness is very real.

I never know when we are to draw the line on mental illness. When do we place the "blame" on the illness and not the individual?

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CyrenYoung
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5. "blame the illness, still hold the individual responsible tho..."
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>>but feel torn about the situation. i take a hard line
>stance
>>on inappropriate behavior involving children, but i know
>that
>>addiction/mental illness is very real.
>
>I never know when we are to draw the line on mental illness.
>When do we place the "blame" on the illness and not the
>individual?

..as far as i'm concerned: when you know better, DO better.

i don't know the extent of his situation, but he was middle-aged (grey whiskers n'all), a bit disheveled, but clean. the fact that he never made an attempt to hide what he was doing let's me know he wasn't afraid of getting caught. hell, he was probably getting off on the fact that people could see him. that alone let's me know that he's too comfortable with that shit.

he needs help, but he has to want/seek it.


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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3. "eh."
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Wed Jun-24-15 11:06 AM by SoWhat

  

          

good for you and all that.

but i'm not overly concerned about kids seeing someone masturbate. i'd be alarmed if i suspected he was going to touch any of the kids. this guy seemed more interested in touching himself. and i can't tell from your narrative if the kids could even see him. though if they could i wouldn't be too troubled - masturbation is part of life and kids either already know what it is or will know soon enough. it's a teachable moment in a way - b/c they should also be taught that masturbating in public is a bad idea and is something they should not do. why? i'm not sure - except that it's part of the social order. for whatever reason we treat it like something about which ppl should panic and so i'd teach kids not to do it so as to avoid that unnecessary drama. and they can do that when they're alone. but i'd want to avoid them thinking masturbation is dirty behavior - b/c it's not.

fuck you.

  

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CyrenYoung
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7. "not takin' any chances..."
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Thu Sep-15-16 11:49 AM by CyrenYoung

  

          

>good for you and all that.
>
>but i'm not overly concerned about kids seeing someone
>masturbate. i'd be more concerned if i suspected he was going
>to touch any of the kids. this guy seemed more interested in
>touching himself. and i can't tell from your narrative if the
>kids could even see him. though if they could i wouldn't be
>too troubled - masturbation is part of life and kids either
>already know what it is or will know soon enough. it's a
>teachable moment in a way - b/c they should also be taught
>that masturbating in public is a bad idea and is something
>they should not do. why? i'm not sure - except that it's
>part of the social order. for whatever reason we treat it
>like something about which ppl should panic and so i'd teach
>kids not to do it so as to avoid that unnecessary drama. and
>they can do that when they're alone. but i'd want to avoid
>them thinking masturbation is dirty behavior - b/c it's not.

there were plenty of people (including children) that saw him.

i'm not one to shame sex, but public masturbation is lewd & obscene (esp in front of children). what you do in private is one thing, but adults masturbating in front of children will never be cool. the fact that he chose to do this in front of a school yard takes it to a whole-notha-level © mad tv.

i don't know if he would've escalated to possibly approaching a child, but i wasn't willing to take that chance.




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..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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10. "sure."
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Wed Jun-24-15 11:17 AM by SoWhat

  

          

i stand on what i said before - it doesn't sound like this guy was going to touch any of the kids so i don't think i'd have been alarmed.

i think we make too big a deal of public masturbation - even in front of kids. i think we work too hard to 'protect' kids from the idea of sex not for their own good but for ours. i dunno that kids would be scarred by seeing a guy masturbate. b/c what's the big deal about masturbation? kids do it too.

again, as long as the guy was keeping his hands to himself i don't think i'd have been alarmed. i'd have approached him and told him to put it away and leave the area, sure. but not w/the same force you seem to have used. b/c i don't think the situation warranted all of that based on what i read in the OP.

fuck you.

  

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CyrenYoung
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17. "indecent exposure is still a crime..."
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..this has nothing to do with demonizing sex or healthy sexual behavior.

it has everything to do with poor judgement.

everyone is free to masturbate, but they need to do that shit in private.


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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18. "and i'm a defense attorney."
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Wed Jun-24-15 11:30 AM by SoWhat

  

          

and i've successfully defended ppl charged w/that crime. LOL

i stand by what i said.

fuck you.

  

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23. "shame on you! lol..."
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..i understand your position.

doesn't mean i have to like it.

keep fighting the good fight.


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28. "right on. lol"
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you did the right thing - i would've done something similar.

fuck you.

  

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41. "I can see both sides of Cy/SoWhat's argument"
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On the one hand you don't want kids to see that kind of shit, particularly if you're a parent. On the other hand, I think the whole "causing psych trauma" to a kid is fairly overblown when they see something like that.

I know I've got a story to tell about a lot of shit, but... yeah... The wife and I drove the family out to LA for the weekend back around the summer of 2005. While we were there, we were heading towards Sunset and turned a corner and right there, in front of everyone was some tall skinny black dude doing what I can only described as "piss jacking" in a garbage can attached to a sign pole or something. Dick out, fully exposed, pissing with what I'm assuming was a semi on, and at the same time stroking it. I saw it, the missus somehow missed it, but my oldest daughters saw it. At the time, my oldest was only 11 years old and her sister was just 6.

They both laughed their asses off after letting out an "EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEW!!! Look at what he's doing!!!"

No trauma, no anything. They have grown up to have normal, happy lives.

This isn't to say that all kids will take it that way, but at least some might see some shit like that and find it hilarious, others will be scared, some will be affected.

At the same time, I can see SoWhat's point about masturbation in general. We, as a society, tend to demonize it to the point where you can't really have a healthy attitude towards it despite it being completely natural (in AZ, it's legally considered "self abuse"). I know this was a subject NEVER discussed in my household growing up, and neither my father or my stepfathers discussed it with me. Seeing something like that should prompt a discussion with the children by their parents to explain it, and let them know it's illegal to do such a thing in public, but it's perfectly fine to do in private.

  

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52. "nah, yo..."
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>RE: I can see both sides of Cy/SoWhat's argument

there was never an argument/debate. like i said, i respect his position on the matter, i just don't agree.

but NOT for the reasons he stated.

its not as simple as kids being exposed to masturbation. kids are exposed to quite a bit (i was, and i survived). i'm not concerned permanent scarring n' such. i don't believe that sex should be demonized. the difference is that no respectable/responsible adult should ever engage in masturbation in front of children. i don't give a damn what people do in the privacy of their own homes alone, but that shit ain't ridin' in public.


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54. "I get that and agree"
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>the difference is that no
>respectable/responsible adult should ever engage in
>masturbation in front of children. i don't give a damn what
>people do in the privacy of their own homes alone, but that
>shit ain't ridin' in public.

I don't understand the mentality of a person (male or female) that does something like this in front of kids... If it was a bunch of adults I wouldn't give a shit and would prolly laugh at the person complaining. But in front of kids??? Nah b, but hey... we could just be conditioned. for all we know there's some indigenous culture out there where rubbin one out in front of everyone might be ok and no one cares.

IJS... 'cause there's plenty of cultures where walking around naked except for a string of beads on your waist or something in front of kids is just fine yet in our "civilized" society that sort of behavior will get you locked up and on a sex offender list.

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9. "Nahhhh. What if he was getting off because of the kids?"
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That's definitely molester type behavior to me, to be doing it anywhere near or around kids.

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11. "he's allowed his fantasies."
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as long as he doesn't touch a kid it's all good, IMO.

and based on this narrative i see no reason to think this guy was going to touch any of those kids. he was touching himself.

fuck you.

  

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15. "^^on that SVU^^"
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Wed Jun-24-15 01:45 PM by CyrenYoung

  

          

>as long as he doesn't touch a kid it's all good, IMO.
>
>and based on this narrative i see no reason to think this guy
>was going to touch any of those kids. he was touching
>himself.

public masturbation is against the law (indecent exposure) in nyc. its a misdemeanor, but still.

*DONGI DONG!*


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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19. "there are many acts criminalized over my objection."
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this is one of them.

fuck you.

  

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30. "You trolling right now"
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31. "not at all."
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fuck you.

  

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16. "Nawwww man. I mean, if he really wants to watch Look who's talking"
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at home and jack off, even if he never ever plans to touch a child...I mean...I still think that's over the top wrong, but even that is different. Him being right there, out in the open, where the kids are? Probably making eye contact with them as he does it? It might not be the same as him actually touching them, but nah...that shit ain't anywhere near cool.

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20. "*shrugs*"
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i stand by what i said.

fuck you.

  

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34. "i dont know sh*t about the law, but would jerking off in front of a woma..."
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in public (using her as the source material, not that that could be proven), be any type of sexual assault?

im trying to envision a society where its "cool" (or not criminal) to be inspired by the beauty around you and pleasure yourself accordingly lol. "hey ma, stay right there, i'm almost finished"

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36. "yes, that is a sex offense"
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38. "if she's not down that's some sort of criminal offense."
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but ugh. it's just a fucking penis. we should all get over it.

fuck you.

  

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12. "pedophilia..."
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..this is why i actually stepped in instead of ignoring it.

anyone living in nyc long enough has likely encounter some crazy muhfukah masturbatin' on a late night train (or worse). this was completely different.


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29. "Masturbation in front of a school is gateway masturbation bruh"
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Next thing he will be on the school grounds doing it. Then after that touching a little kid while he does it. Then after that dressing up as a witch and luring kids into his clay pot oven.

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32. "so?"
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that's not necessarily true and has no bearing on this incident.

i stand by what i said.

fuck you.

  

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35. "SoWhat: anti-spanking, but masturbation in front of kids is fine"
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37. "Well, still its a lewd act which is against the law"
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Socially its pretty damn tacky.

Why would you wanna do it outside anyway. Bugs flying around. Too much background noise. I like to go into my bedroom, turn all the lights off. Put on some noise cancelling headphones and relax. Seems more ideal.

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39. "i wouldn't do it either."
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but damn. it's JUST a penis. we should relax.

fuck you.

  

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33. "you just combined two ideas into one"
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1) masturbation is okay

2) masturbation in front of children is also okay

>but i'm not overly concerned about kids seeing someone
>masturbate. i'd be alarmed if i suspected he was going to
>touch any of the kids. this guy seemed more interested in
>touching himself. and i can't tell from your narrative if the
>kids could even see him. though if they could i wouldn't be
>too troubled - masturbation is part of life and kids either
>already know what it is or will know soon enough. it's a
>teachable moment in a way - b/c they should also be taught
>that masturbating in public is a bad idea and is something
>they should not do. why? i'm not sure - except that it's
>part of the social order.



  

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40. "it's just a penis."
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fuck you.

  

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atruhead
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42. "you're just trolling."
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44. "nope."
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i genuinely don't think public masturbation is a big deal - even if kids see it. i genuinely think we expend way too much effort attempting to 'shield' kids from sex unnecessarily. i genuinely don't believe kids will be scarred if they see a guy manipulating his penis for his own pleasure. i genuinely believe we attempt to keep kids from sex b/c we think sex is dirty and we want kids to exist as some repository of 'innocence' for OUR benefit more than for theirs. i genuinely think kids have no reason to make a big deal of sex unless WE give them reasons by panicking about it.

fuck you.

  

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46. "you just reminded me you dont even like children."
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but yeah, it's okay to traumatize kids because you had a hard time as a child and if you survived then they can survive seeing perverts stroke off in front of them

  

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49. "i don't dislike kids."
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i don't want to be a parent but not b/c i dislike kids.

>but yeah, it's okay to traumatize kids

again, i don't think kids are necessarily traumatized by seeing a man manipulate his penis for his pleasure.

because you had a hard
>time as a child and if you survived then they can survive
>seeing perverts stroke off in front of them

you tried it. i dunno why. but you're not very good at this so you should quit now.

fuck you.

  

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50. "you've made posts about not liking kids"
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maybe you were trolling then too

but yeah let's not conflate masturbation being healthy and strangers exposing themselves to children, unless you're willing to admit it's trolling

  

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51. "k."
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fuck you.

  

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58. "Rare overreach for you nm. "
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"People that need positivity around them all the time are weak individuals in my book" - @lilduval

  

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61. "wtf kind of scumbag shit are you on?"
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www.royallegacy.org

For Real (Official Video):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBRoCPO8esE

  

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4. "well that didnt take long"
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****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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6. "naw anything involving kids, I'm calling the police. I don't lend a"
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blind eye to anything that is predatory in nature.


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8. "how far does your vigilance go? have you cheecked your area"
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for registered sex offenders?

  

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13. "inbox, please."
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14. "the 10th/14 st exit off 75S in ATL was a hotspot for this"
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Used to see someone jerkin like once a month

WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

  

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21. "in front of a school? id have called the cops"
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thats completely messed up

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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22. "Sorry, I ran in here thinking you were talking about doing it yourself"
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After seeing that picture of you on instagram, I'm all YEAH

So. Yeah. Mental illness is real, but so is trauma to children, and just scaring him off is enough for one day. You did good.

Now get on with your bad self.

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All acquisition ends in dispersion
All life ends in death
- The Buddha

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='_'=

Every hundred years, all new people

  

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24. "ha!.."
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..i honestly felt bad about showing that kind of emotion in front of my neighbors (non violence), 'cause nobody wants to be labeled as the "angry/scary black man."

thanks, janey. you're a doll.


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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26. "i think this is a situation where everyone was happy you were"
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the angry scary black man.

  

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25. "should have called the cops"
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27. "Call the cops. He reaches for his waist. Problem solved."
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j/k

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Everything looks like Oprah kissing Harvey Weinstein these days

  

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60. "unfunny"
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who has a bigger problem with the cops than the mentally ill? probably the most at-risk group for police killings and other police violence.

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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43. "Damn you moderate the streets too?"
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48. "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVkTmnJkAN8"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVkTmnJkAN8


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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45. "Where are you from?"
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47. "LMBAO!"
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>what's crazy is that he saw me approaching (looking me dead in
>the eye) and didn't stop until i screamed on him.

This visual KILLT me.

Sun like, "Yeah I see you, but I ain't givin' up dis nut reGAWDless!"....*keeps strokin vigorously*


https://chriswind.bandcamp.com/track/massage

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Afro-Americana/Afro-Caribbana/Afro-Latino unite. We are ALL Black!

  

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53. "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8q7ttP3AQk"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8q7ttP3AQk

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http://www.soundcloud.com/sectachrome

  

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56. "Haha.....EXACTLY!"
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Classic shit!







"Come on dawg, you hittin my elbows!" will NEVER get old!

https://chriswind.bandcamp.com/track/massage

"You can take an African out of Africa, but you can't take Africa out of the African"
Afro-Americana/Afro-Caribbana/Afro-Latino unite. We are ALL Black!

  

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55. "that shit is disturbing..."
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but in general, I think all public sex acts shouldn't happen and not that people need to keep things at home, but there is a time and place for everything. if it's a possibility that other adults can see you, ok i see the thrill...but by a school, in front of children in broad daylight? that person is disturbed. esp considering he wouldn't stop when he saw you walking up to him.

just because WE (as adults) may think it's okay, doesn't mean it is...and in no way can i tell another adult how to raise their kids, so it's best to err on the side of caution meaning, he needed to be checked that this isn't ok.

short story...

my sister and i saw a man flashing and jerking off in the mall parking lot when I was like 15. my sister was 9. I was BEYOND disturbed. I felt violated. I was uncomfortable. My sister was like "gross, we dont' want to see that." and we didn't. no one has the right to force sexual activity upon anyone else...at the very least, before someone starts jerking off in public, they should ask the ppl around are they cool with it. if not, go home.

  

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57. "Mannn Listen I don't condone violence but...."
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... There are some people that do. I would've called 9/11 so damn fast.

*Scust at public flagrant fapper*

  

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59. "IMO you totally did the right thing"
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Calling the cops would have been extra but you diffused the situation, eliminated the risk for the kids and also probably discouraged him from coming back.

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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