about 20 years ago i had the good fortune of being a counselor at a girl scouts equestrian camp.
one week i had 23 flipping girls all to myself the average was about 5-7 anyhoo i had this one charge cass i thought she was one of the most beautiful children i'd ever laid eyes on. she was this olive-skinned sorta sarita choudhury looking little girl at least that is who she brought to mind good good times.
well i'd never forgotten her name facebooked her and sent her a message.
>about 20 years ago i had the good fortune of being a >counselor at a girl scouts equestrian camp. > >one week i had 23 flipping girls all to myself >the average was about 5-7 >anyhoo >i had this one charge >cass >i thought she was one of the most beautiful children i'd ever >laid eyes on. >she was this olive-skinned sorta sarita choudhury looking >little girl >at least that is who she brought to mind >good good times. > >well >i'd never forgotten her name >facebooked her and sent her a message. > > >*SiGh* >i need some business don't i?
15. "Where's the freak part?" In response to Reply # 0
Perhaps I'm an idiot. Are you implying that the content of the message was freakish? Or that simply sending the message was freakish?
If it's the former....than we need to see a copy-paste of the message.
And I'm intrigued....was this message just out-of-the-blue? "Hey Cass. I remember you were so cute when you were 5. I was your councillor. I was looking at your facebook pictures and was thinking we should open a circus-for-two in my bedroom."
There's probably a 10 year age difference between Morpheme and the object of her desires based on the info. I'm gonna guess Morpheme is around 35? (sorry Morpheme)
35 year old women sending 25 year old women sexually suggestive text? No foul on the play. The WORST scenario (based on Morpheme's profile) would be that Morpheme is 30 and the hottie is 20. In which case, still no foul on the play.
47. "yah you're right." In response to Reply # 20 Sun Aug-31-14 11:05 PM by denny
It'd be more taboo if the sexes were reversed.
I mean...I hope Morpheme isn't embarrassed. Obviously, we DO see it differently between genders. But if I was single and ran into a 25 year old that I used to be a camp counsellor for....she was hot...I wouldn't think twice. if anything...I'd apply the Savage-love campfire rule. If you're effing a younger person...leave them better than before you got there.
But's it's completely irrational to say just because I was 'aware' of this hottie's existence while she WAS a child....doesn't mean we can't have a thing after she's turned into an adult. And there's nothing essentially creepy about that imo. There's lil girls I take care of that aren't my blood....and I would NEVER consider dating them when they turn 26. But that's because the relationship is more like family. Camp counsellor from 20 years ago? Fair game, no shame. And honestly, I think Americans are particularly touchy about that type of situation. It's like you guys are so sexial deviant that you suspect innocent situations with a weird cynicism.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79620 posts
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53. "naw b... its nasty. " In response to Reply # 47
You 17 looking at 7 year olds on some future reference shit... nah.
My preacher growing up had a daughter and we ll knew she was going to grow up to be a stunner because her mom was fine as hell...
I wnet home for a funeral and sure enough, she was of age and bad as fuck. However, aint no way I could stash her away for 20 years and go back in my roladex and pull her file up.
That's creepy as fuck IMO. Its not illegal but its creepy.. I would lose my shit if a camp counselor contacted my daughter 20 years later.
How would you feel if the girl you are raising had a teacher look for her 20 years from now?
77. "yeah I guess this slight detail makes it something else. " In response to Reply # 53
>I wnet home for a funeral and sure enough, she was of age and >bad as fuck. However, aint no way I could stash her away for >20 years and go back in my roladex and pull her file up.
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57. "nigger, you can't be for real..." In response to Reply # 32
for your ilk of remedial motherfuckers
freaky means weird.
yeah it is kinda weird to reach out to a child you haven't seen and likely has forgotten you over the past 20 years. but I hadn't forgotten her and I sent a note.
what you won't do is connote any of my actions with some pedophilia shit. Y'ALL niggas the fucking freaks. started imaging shit. fuck outta here, you fuckin lame.
66. "look here, tweety..." In response to Reply # 60
i don't require your assessment of what in the fuck i have posted. what i say to case is to case. what i said to mgmt is what i said to him.
i said the little girl was beautiful fact. your ass needs to cease and desist with the niggling as you await the link request to her motherfucking page.
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where'd i say that? ppl tell me my son is beautiful all the gotdamned time and?
was it necessary to say i was responsible for ensuring 23 girls were awake and showered and on time for breakfast for a week? how i helped them earn merit badges? our daily hikes to the lake? consoling their homesickness? mediating their drama?
you need a damned recent compliment and off the damn prom sites.
89. "the only thing "regrettable" about this post..." In response to Reply # 84
is you're the motherfucker insistent upon babysitting it.
I have never liked you nothing about you. not a thing about you has merit. I'll take on of those Ls off your chest for my discourse with you today but you keep talking shit to me/at me it could continue. I don't give a fuck about anything you feel, my nygga of bytches.
56. "Okay yeah this post happened with a guy already" In response to Reply # 0
And yes he got Johnny Storm'd for his efforts, Sev is 1oo% correct on this one This place is actually more like real life than most of us admit
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99. "That might have been my KILF post from over a decade ago. " In response to Reply # 56
As I recall I think in the context of discussing how Emma Watson was destined to be a future knockout I explained how when I was a camp counselor, the camp counselors, both male and females, had a running jokes about KILFs. That was 20 & 21 year olds joking about 14-16 year olds who were destined to be future hotties.
As a 37 year old father I find it all a little cringe worthy but it was really just harmless jokes. Most people here got that. A few folks became a bit unhinged by it all.
This post is prolly a little different and if it came from a dude it definitely would have folks ready to call the police. It's a double standard but I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with double standards. IMHOP men and women are different in important ways when it comes to sex, authority & attraction so it makes sense to me that there is a double standard.
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115. "I wasn't on here then, never saw that thread" In response to Reply # 99
I do know the guy doesn't post here anymore because he was through after that, these gals ate him alive and Floss ed with the gristle
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78. "This post is so weird." In response to Reply # 0 Tue Sep-02-14 12:25 PM by lightworks
I get you didn't mean "freakiest" as in sexual not remembering a charge's name because she was so pretty and then deciding to look her up and then message her is...odd.
Edit: also if you had said like...."She was wise beyond her years and I wanted to see if she was like that" maybe it woulda been less weird.
91. "Lol nah it ain't gon be going down like that." In response to Reply # 86
Not gonna let someone being salty she isn't getting the type of replies she wants on this thread become some long back and forth between me and her or anyone else that feels the need to chime in.
What I did was wrong sure but isn't connected to her whole deal at all and bringing it up as some sort of sucker punch is silly and immature as hell.
And that's my final word on this topic in this thread.
93. "what replies could i possibly be seeking?" In response to Reply # 91
your water is wet ass comes in here saying sending the message was odd *I* fucking said it was odd but it was never sexual what made it so was the length of time passed without contact.
but that attention-starved posting shit is your bailiwick.
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112. "i don't have to admit that..." In response to Reply # 104
that's yo truth not mine.
I wrote this in the middle of the afternoon if you got drunken horniness out of that I don't need to assume any responsibility whatsoever.
how I choose to interact with case is btwn me and case. and it's not random. and really none of your business. *sips tea*
y'all niggers are out your fucking minds if you expect someone to ACCEPT being called a pedophile or having sexualized babies. there are a few more inches remaining til you reach that end of the internet.
118. "lol it is the truth period" In response to Reply # 112
u got a 93k post count
stop playing naive n dumb
u grown
u ain't got to own up to it but don't act like we are the ones trippin and calling us ignant?
like I said y ain't u call the initial responses to this post ignant?
There was plenty of time before I even replied for u to tell one of em 'ooo yal trippin this ain't even that type of post lemme go edit'
and not only did u not do that u chose to go along with it
no denying that ish
its right up there for u and anybody to see
nobody really thinks ur a pedo
I initially said a dude would be getting destroyed for posting about doing this no matter how innocent and mundane he made/worded the post
u chose to blur the lines with innuendo
about an already sketchy scenario
hence the reaction
>that's yo truth >not mine. > >I wrote this in the middle of the afternoon >if you got drunken horniness out of that >I don't need to assume any responsibility whatsoever. > >how I choose to interact with case >is btwn me and case. >and it's not random. >and really none of your business. *sips tea* > >y'all niggers are out your fucking minds >
mwasi kitoko Member since Jul 15th 2007 60768 posts
Tue Sep-02-14 04:24 PM
109. "i didn't say you said you were sexually attracted at any time" In response to Reply # 103 Tue Sep-02-14 04:25 PM by mwasi kitoko
your word usage made it seem like you were playing with a certain theme though i didn't take it to heart because this wouldn't be the first time somebody used their subject line to draw people in in a provocative way. and yes it's really the subject line that leads the reader a certain way we're on a predominantly black message board freaky is like black talk for damn near everything sexual and then you added 'sober' the reason why that leads a certain way is the 'stereotype' for lack of a better term of the drunk person being less inhibited and particularly where sex is concerned when you add 'sober' the reader thinks 'oh wow she's sober and sending freaky notes let me click' *shrug* again i didn't take it to heart but i can see why dudes jumped on it i'm not speaking on your intent as i believe you when you say you didn't mean it that way at all but you gotta understand how it looks not everyone is operating from a place of 'knowing' you. i don't KNOW you but i've been reading and paying attention to your writing long enough to know you wasn't sexually stalking nobody's little girl but it comes off like you were playing with that theme
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