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I don't think Bloo's post should have been |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 1
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i think it has more to do with it being Bloo and |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 3
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exactly. that shit is wack. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 4
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Maybe Bloo was falsely accused of rape. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 10
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nah never falsely accused-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 19
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yep |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 87
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Let's discuss welfare queens too. How about bug chasers/gift givers too |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 2
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^^ |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 5
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This article about the original "welfare queen" is mad fascinating. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 6
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lmao @ everyone here being grown-up, thoughtful, mature people |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 9
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Fair enough but there are mods for that. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 11
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I read that one.....that babe there nm |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 88
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But according to the studies in the article, it's not a trivial fraction |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 7
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Also the it's so rare it is not worth discussing position is terrible. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 12
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Yeah. If it's not the biggest issue, it's not worth discussing |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 89
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but in this context it's "what about black-on-black crime" |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 121
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That's not a very apt analogy. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 145
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only thing I think I have a problem with is |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 8
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A rape victim shouldn't need a lawyer |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 13
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I've never been a rape victim |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 14
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victims of other violent crimes don't |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 16
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yeah. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 18
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What's the alternative though? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 22
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RE: What's the alternative though? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 28
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I almost didn't want to reply to this post |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 32
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"have you ever been arrested for a misdemeanor or felony?" |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 37
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I think in new york you can't ask someone if they have been arrested. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 46
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it does make things worse. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 84
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? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 31
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You're misunderstanding me |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 44
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i think you're wrong about this. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 52
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fair enough |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 63
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Don't you see the blurry line between these two things? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 56
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RE: Don't you see the blurry line between these two things? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 59
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I meant to say there was no physical evidence in the hypothetical. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 68
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RE: I meant to say there was no physical evidence in the hypothetical. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 76
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Do you think the police SHOULD arrest on those facts alone? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 93
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i don't think any criminal should ever be arrested for anything. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 97
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I think it's a scary to say that a man should be arrested in a he said..... |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 103
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there is further evidence. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 107
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Your changing the hypo, the guy admits they had sex but says it was |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 129
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no, he admitted to sex. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 133
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That amounts to arresting him based solely on her account when |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 143
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He could've said NOTHING. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 146
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your the criminal lawyer but how is it better to say nothing |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 149
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it's generally better to avoid handing over evidence to the police. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 152
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exactly-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 17
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the reason for not discussing it-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 15
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yes, let's. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 20
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You act like this is a settled issue. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 27
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reply 28 |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 29
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lol-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 34
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RE: lol-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 43
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RE: lol-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 50
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RE: lol-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 53
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If you think that post was locked because we can't discuss false |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 21
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Naive as to what? Care to explain why it was locked? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 23
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why don't you just talk about what you wanna talk about? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 24
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it was also said several times in different ways in bloo's post. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 26
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where's my post?-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 35
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it was addressed SEVERAL times by SEVERAL people before |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 38
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it was an ongoing conversation-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 47
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posts get locked all the time nowadays |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 74
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Whatdoyamean, I am talking about what I want to talk about. I've got lik... |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 39
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why was it locked?-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 36
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reply 28 and reply 37. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 42
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pfft. no one locked the Syracuse soccer player post when dude said somet... |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 58
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she was a crazy person, we never exchanged genitals |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 65
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Yo dont' see how crazy this sounds? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 75
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Im going to accuse your logic of raping my brain cells. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 78
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RE: Im going to accuse your logic of raping my brain cells. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 90
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That you think #itsonus is "nonsense" speaks to why it was locked. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 45
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wat? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 57
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wat |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 60
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Real rape > false rape accusations |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 25
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No shit sherlock. Also it's not like voter fraud because there are no |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 30
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Is there not room to discuss both? I don't understand why this topic |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 67
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I had a friend spend 2 months in jail over a false rape charge |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 33
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doesnt matter-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 41
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Reply 27 and 38 |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 48
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the fact that this is the conclusion you make |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 49
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exactly |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 62
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i wouldn't agree w/that. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 64
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that's terrible. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 61
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she should have been charged.. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 155
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being i am sensitive on the subject |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 40
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my analogy for the original post |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 51
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it's discussed plenty every time an incident is identified |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 54
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Is it not a serious problem because it is rare? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 66
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innocent on death row > innocent ppl not on death row. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 69
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Your implication is that it is not serious because they are still alive. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 70
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no that's not it. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 77
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I hear all that but it's off topic. The question is FAR serious? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 111
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what do you propose should be done about FAR? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 119
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Two practical ideas already proposed in this post |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 161
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*sigh* |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 162
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just had to get my rant off |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 163
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you know what that was about. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 164
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No. I referenced capital punishment to make the point that rareness |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 165
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Ok. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 168
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no one wants to discuss the issues that contribute to false rape |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 71
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^^^^^^^ |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 79
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yeah. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 82
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Yep. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 138
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^^^ |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 140
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^^^ 100% this |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 207
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i don't agree with the premise of the article |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 72
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Yes |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 80
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RE: i don't agree with the premise of the article |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 94
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Bloo's Post should not have been locked, but this place is a mess. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 55
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lol.....this place is nuts |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 73
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For example, every time I read a story about a woman going to the press |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 81
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i think it was unjust for the university* to handle that case as it did. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 83
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I dont trust when a school says |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 85
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yup. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 86
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Well maybe schools can't be trusted to investigate these matters. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 91
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naw. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 100
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schools have a money interest-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 102
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i'm fine w/the school investigating to determine if |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 108
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they need an independent board then-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 122
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great. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 123
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but you would trust them-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 92
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a school cant find anyone guilty of sexual assault` |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 199
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I think in America there is a strong want to vilify men and black men |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 95
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i think theres more a want-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 101
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that sounds like folx who were against |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 135
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This thread should not be about false rape accusations |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 96
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i'd love to make a post abt the moderation-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 99
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So a few questions about this whole thing-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 98
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a few answers. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 104
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The question of 'too drunk to consent'-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 105
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maybe he was, maybe she was, maybe nobody was. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 106
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Nooooo |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 109
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what? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 112
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RE: what? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 115
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are you saying it shouldn't be investigated? |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 124
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he wants them investigated under seal. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 125
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that's a reasonable argument for bloocolar to make. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 126
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if only he could make it w/o exposing hi |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 128
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but when it comes to two drunk college students... |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 131
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i am sad it took over 100 replies to get us here. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 132
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You know OKP doesn't work like that! |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 144
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RE: but when it comes to two drunk college students... |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 134
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RE: but when it comes to two drunk college students... |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 151
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RE: but when it comes to two drunk college students... |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 154
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LOL |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 113
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like i said-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 118
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ok. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 120
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he's kinda got a point there |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 136
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he should have opened with it. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 137
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no I havent. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 139
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I think we are filling in blanks in the hypothetical differently. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 127
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sure. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 130
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i dunno w/o more facts. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 110
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but see this is the problem-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 114
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i dunno if a crime was committed based on those facts. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 116
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maybe, maybe not. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 117
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and this is the mentality-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 141
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Boy, stop. Lol |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 142
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If your position that a guy should be arrested solely on a woman's |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 147
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your sister tells you she was raped. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 150
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Yo go to the police, you expect them to investigate.,, |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 166
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What is the point of bringing that up? |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 169
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You wouldn't advise a young woman to not get too drunk around strangers? |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 172
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not right after she came to me saying she was raped, no. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 173
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No one said to say that AFTER someone had been raped. That's strawman |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 180
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my hypo was: |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 183
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yup. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 185
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RE: my hypo was: |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 187
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timing mattered. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 190
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^ that. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 193
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naw, I was clear. Y'all just read what yall wanted to read. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 212
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*pats head* |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 213
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You weren't actually. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 217
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i would tell my son or daughter, yes. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 174
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more ppl worry abt teaching girls not to drink etc than |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 175
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my head exploded |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 177
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What exactly made your head "explode"? |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 181
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the lecture that you speak of has been given to women since the |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 194
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and we should stop acting like only women are rape victims. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 178
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In my household their would be two lectures growing up. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 184
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hey, that's great. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 189
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Hey guys? Umm hi....former girl, present woman here.... |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 203
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^please read this^ |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 206
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^^^ thank you |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 209
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amen! |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 214
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I don't disagree with anything you said. And didn't mean to imply |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 215
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I hear you man. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 218
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yep. plus, in most cases, there really isn't an alternate behavior that |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 220
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btw this is one reason accused rapists get arrested on 'minimal' evidenc... |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 170
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okay, so... you are really just blowing smoke. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 171
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Dude you totally are misreading my post. I never said lecture a rape vic... |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 182
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timing matters. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 186
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There is always a news story about someone getting raped or black man |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 188
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you didn't have to link your points to this article. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 191
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You do realize that the conversation has been free flowing? |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 195
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can folks really not understand how annoying rhetorical questions |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 196
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this: |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 198
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i realize that ppl act brand new when it comes to this. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 201
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*sigh* |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 192
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You've gone very ridiculous with it now with awful assumptions. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 197
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lol |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 200
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so you teach her how to be a good girl |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 202
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No. Who thinks like that? Y'all are trying real hard to make me seem |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 210
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i dont know who yall is |
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Sep 24th 2014 | 265
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that is NOT my position, player. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 156
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. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 157
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nice! |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 158
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it didnt get shut down-- |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 148
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*smh* |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 159
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patrice o'neal talked about this with marc maron. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 153
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base. our beef is with society, not women. |
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Sep 22nd 2014 | 160
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Yeah it's definitely a balance and a trade off. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 167
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that is definitely a fair perspective |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 176
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RE: that is definitely a fair perspective |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 179
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+1 |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 205
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*throws panties @ SoWhat and Joe Corn Mo* |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 204
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on the low, so is darius heywood bey |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 211
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What exactly is the Lord's Work you seeing going on in here? |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 216
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you are tone deaf. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 219
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lol what language are you speaking?-- |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 222
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that's because you are tone deaf as well. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 226
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RE: you are tone deaf. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 223
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so that there is no longer any confusion say what you mean right |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 224
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I'm like 50+ posts in here saying what I mean. If you think I am wrong |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 228
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Speaking for myself... |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 229
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^^^and that is why my head exploded |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 232
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Oh I know, sis. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 234
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I.Never.Did.That. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 235
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You.Absolutely.Did.That. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 236
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and whats wrong with that statment-- |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 238
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i can't "explain" that a person is singing out of tune. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 242
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or, your failing to express yourself adequately-- |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 246
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if i was talking to another musician, i could say, "you're flat." |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 248
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I've repeatedly made clear that you don't have that conversation |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 241
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this post is about false allegations of rape. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 243
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I love you. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 247
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You know that we have discussed more than FAR in this post. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 261
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and you are still not getting it, doll |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 244
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^ that too. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 245
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Literally no one believes this. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 263
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The leap in logic was for you to respond to joecornmoe's |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 264
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What?!?! |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 240
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Now that we are finally pass the lecturing rape victims meme NOW |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 257
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0_o you said this: |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 231
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'explain'-- |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 237
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explain what? What are you talking about now? |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 239
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I was quoting you-- |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 249
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unfortunately, that's not the article he linked in the OP. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 250
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listen-- |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 253
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then i'll make it lowbrow-- fuck you, and the entire clique you're with.... |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 254
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lololol |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 255
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*faints* |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 256
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Welp you tried |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 260
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You really can't see how the discussion moved from the OP |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 258
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#actually... |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 259
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Read what you just cut and paste. Your post #150 isn't about FAR!!! |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 262
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That point has been addressed. Feel free to scan the discussion. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 251
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he read it, but cannot understand. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 252
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I ain't even invested in this whole convo |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 225
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don't read reply #226. |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 227
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^^ |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 221
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a few points about the "onus" BS |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 208
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RE: |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 230
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but rape culture is more than "no means no" |
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Sep 23rd 2014 | 233
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