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blkprinceMD05
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"So these two chicks were saying ewww during the gay scenes* in"
Mon Oct-27-14 11:16 AM by blkprinceMD05

  

          

Dear white people, and by gay scenes I mean the two kisses that totaled together were about 20'seconds of the film

They were Black....( resisting the urge to put an 'of course' here)

But it was like ''eww"? Like they were 12. I wouldn't have been bothered if one had yelled out "that's sin!" At least that would've showed some conviction. This just shows that their basic asses were disgusted by it and uncomfortable. Keep that shit to ur self . The second time they did It I loudly said damn and turned around to see who it was

Silence.

My date was pissed at me tho cause he felt like I was about to make a scene

I don't care if u hate gays to the core just keep that shit to urself when u in a damn movie theater. I didn't pay money to be insulted.

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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I thought you were about to say How To Get Away With Murder
Oct 27th 2014
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I thought it was about Scandal
Oct 27th 2014
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fuck that.
Oct 27th 2014
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Honestly, I be kinda disappointed in close friends of mine who
Oct 27th 2014
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Exactly, immaturity
Oct 27th 2014
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There's a difference between the ladies in the theater being LOUD
Oct 27th 2014
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      ^^^^
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      It's not about "wanting" to see anything
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           It's all a matter of perspective
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           nail on the head
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you know i love you...
Oct 27th 2014
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That's almost word for word what my date said. I disagree tho
Oct 27th 2014
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      RE: That's almost word for word what my date said. I disagree tho
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      why do gays always use Blacks to get their point across?
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      b/c most ppl have heard of blacks and anti-black sentiment.
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      i feel where you're coming from but 'ewww' and this:
Oct 27th 2014
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      All three of y'all are right, I shouldn't have made that comparison
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      wtf? LOL...
Oct 27th 2014
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      RE: i feel where you're coming from but 'ewww' and this:
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           yeah, pretty sure i said i feel where he's coming from.
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      i understand why you were upset by it...
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yeah but they were 12 tho
Oct 27th 2014
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*like* they were 12...
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he said like they were 12...
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reading comp fail. my bad
Oct 27th 2014
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I think he meant like they were 12 year olds
Oct 27th 2014
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Sounded like they were grown women, and I had to show ID to get the
Oct 27th 2014
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so they should just look away and gasp to themselves - K&P
Oct 27th 2014
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Lol yep
Oct 27th 2014
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So you couldn't tolerate their right to be grossed out?
Oct 27th 2014
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They can be grossed out, just not verbalize it. That's human decency
Oct 27th 2014
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Oh so these two young people don't know human decency
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      i dont know how you can say such hurtful stuff and call yourself
Oct 27th 2014
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      Man Kill all of they Over The Top Retoric
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      Damn.
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      You can't be real.
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      About 75% of y'all would fail my class.
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           post your final exam.
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           LOL...
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                lol
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           Religious coons don't teach anything of value
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      "Most" people?
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I would be upset if people thought my affection was eeewe
Oct 27th 2014
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      it all depends on what your are showing affection towards.
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      you did not just use a dog example
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           I used a common example where people say "Ewww"
Oct 27th 2014
                its a symptom of your issue, not the issue itself
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                     It's all about perspective..
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                          It's funny to watch you try to lawyer your points
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                               Riight. Have an Amazing day.
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                               lol
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      would you really?
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           lol
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           Yeah, I get why it's offensive in the moment
Oct 27th 2014
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           Yeah but this can't be separated from historical context. A history of
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           I know.
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           come on, fam.
Oct 27th 2014
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           nah bruh.. you are projecting
Oct 27th 2014
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                you're injecting the 'it's a sin' part.
Oct 27th 2014
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                     take the it's a sin part out... the verbal ewwwwwe is the problem.
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           Agreed
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           hmm...
Oct 27th 2014
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                Sure....
Oct 28th 2014
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Oh God.
Oct 27th 2014
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anybody that still clutches their pearls at this stuff always will.
Oct 27th 2014
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Only reason its not "yucky" anymore is
Oct 27th 2014
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      and there's nothing that can be said to change your mind about this.
Oct 27th 2014
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      how can you reason someone comparing men kissing to
Oct 27th 2014
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      Whoa... are you fucking serious or fucking retarded?
Oct 27th 2014
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      the powerful media, fam
Oct 27th 2014
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      Yep smh
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      LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
Oct 27th 2014
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      yeah, if only the media portrayed canibalism in a better light
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      you jest but give it a 100 yrs or so
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           ^^THE GAYS ARE GONNA EAT OUR GRANDKIDS
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      i have to agree well not to the cannibalism part
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      and being a troll ass nigga named melmag.
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      Hurray!
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           Cunts should always be outsiders.
Oct 28th 2014
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I enjoy makin phobes feel as foolish as they are but I'm a chick tho.
Oct 27th 2014
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you on that Cooley High shit...lol
Oct 27th 2014
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Pretty sure most of the people watching it were thinking the same thing
Oct 27th 2014
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veebalizing it is relevant.
Oct 27th 2014
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thinking vs verbalizing
Oct 27th 2014
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Maybe they were, but they were mature enuff not to say eww all loudly
Oct 27th 2014
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bruh, u got upset blk folks verbalized anything during a blk flick???
Oct 27th 2014
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lol...my thoughts exactly..lol
Oct 27th 2014
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lulz
Oct 27th 2014
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i still cringe at dudes kissing
Oct 27th 2014
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RE: i still cringe at dudes kissing
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      he explained himself just fine
Oct 27th 2014
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      thank you.
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           Girl Please.
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      i cringe at the sight of televised surgery
Oct 27th 2014
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      i cringe at your lack of reading comprehension
Oct 27th 2014
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           Dude stop riding the fence just to save face.
Oct 27th 2014
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                or i'm just a grown up who knows the world doesn't revolve around me
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                     And yet you came in and responded all about 'you'.
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                          LOL @ "1st amendment right"
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                               You're trying to tell them what to do.
Oct 27th 2014
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                                    yeah.. have fun arguing with the shit you imagine people say
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                                         Man you better stay WOKE!
Oct 27th 2014
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to be honest, i thought the scenes were out of place
Oct 27th 2014
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It really wasn't believable nm
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it's a film about identity & intersections of identity @ white Ivy Leagu...
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^^^perfectly stated. *spoilers below*
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what exactly did it contribute though? it was like, HEEYYY!
Oct 27th 2014
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      The film was about the Black experience at a PWI. There are gay
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      I think the director said he relates most w/ Lionel of all the character...
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I got it.
Oct 27th 2014
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You've paid money to see a picture about stereotyping at an Ivy League s...
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      and don't try to tell me what i thought or think
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           sometimes it's necessary.
Oct 28th 2014
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First world gay problems? nm.
Oct 27th 2014
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very much so.
Oct 27th 2014
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True
Oct 27th 2014
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RE: So these two chicks were saying ewww during the gay scenes* in
Oct 27th 2014
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just got Dallas, i'm told.
Oct 27th 2014
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i wonder how much time he'll end up getting for that
Oct 27th 2014
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doubtful.
Oct 27th 2014
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Black cops taking down an ACTUAL violent white man
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That's us GAININ ON 'EM!
Oct 28th 2014
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If the agressor was Black...
Oct 27th 2014
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do you think they were purposely saying it out loud for you to hear?
Oct 27th 2014
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No I don't, they were several rows behind us from what I could tell
Oct 27th 2014
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      unless you were on some "say it to my face"
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      well hey, you dealt with it how you wanted to
Oct 27th 2014
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So.
Oct 27th 2014
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talking about it probably won't change it either.
Oct 27th 2014
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That's the thing! There were no other comments besides laughter at the
Oct 27th 2014
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jarring TO YOU
Oct 27th 2014
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right. which is why them (**) need to STFU.
Oct 27th 2014
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that bs would ruin your day?
Oct 28th 2014
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      you're just saying?
Oct 28th 2014
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Yes and I created this post.....I mean duh lol what is ur point even?
Oct 27th 2014
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But was it a teachable moment?
Oct 27th 2014
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      No I don't think it woulda done any good, it would prolly lead to cursin...
Oct 27th 2014
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      RE: No I don't think it woulda done any good, it would prolly lead to cu...
Oct 27th 2014
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      what difference does this make?
Oct 27th 2014
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How is a white person sayin something racist abt Blk ppl not apply to yo...
Oct 27th 2014
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because it wouldn't matter if it were me, my neighbor or you.
Oct 27th 2014
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fuck changing they minds. i wanna change they behavior.
Oct 27th 2014
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^^^^
Oct 27th 2014
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^ all day w/ this.
Oct 27th 2014
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Challenging them makes them STFU?
Oct 27th 2014
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i challenged my mother and my sister about the gay.
Oct 27th 2014
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You're talking about people who love you. This is about strangers.
Oct 27th 2014
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      it really doesn't matter.
Oct 27th 2014
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To be perfectly honest I kno more than a few ratchet gay niggas
Oct 27th 2014
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I'm easily annoyed by others' general lack of basic respect.
Oct 27th 2014
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^^this is why i dont fuck with ATL gays. niggas will scratch my eyes out
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THIS is a problem> To be perfectly honest I kno more than a few ratchet...
Oct 28th 2014
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I assume that they would beat the women's asses if they attacked them
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it goes both ways women approaching a man
Oct 28th 2014
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Exactly, ratchet is as ratchet does. Ratchet str8 men beat women bloody
Oct 28th 2014
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nvm, I'll just say it's not right but it's a reality
Oct 28th 2014
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A gay dude almost went full ratchet on me because he thought I was a pho...
Oct 29th 2014
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yup. it often does.
Oct 27th 2014
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      constructive interference.
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           when i need help managing gay existence i'll ask for it.
Oct 27th 2014
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                Commenting does not equal help, advice, or care.
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                     Thanks again.
Oct 27th 2014
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^^^^this is where I'm at with it
Oct 27th 2014
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is it a phobia, as in a far, or an expessed discomfort
Oct 28th 2014
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      put what ever label you want on it.
Oct 28th 2014
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You're being purely pragmatic though.
Oct 28th 2014
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      RE: You're being purely pragmatic though.
Oct 28th 2014
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gauche. parochial. childish. provinicial.
Oct 27th 2014
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But! But! But! Mr. Bin! Mr. Bin!
Oct 27th 2014
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      At heart we are all petty dictators, wanting everyone else to change
Oct 27th 2014
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           I swear, they ain't shy about beating that Hypocrite Drum..
Oct 27th 2014
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some people are just awful/and or say what they feel out loud
Oct 27th 2014
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i say ew when i see two straight people kiss
Oct 27th 2014
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There's no such thing as "straight people". What is that?
Oct 27th 2014
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      i agree but not for the same reasons as you jesus freak
Oct 27th 2014
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           You do know that "Jesus Freak" is a compliment. Right?
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                okay jesus freak
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                     Thanks..
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                          i like my life thanks. and you're always welcome jesus freak
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                               People that like their life, don't act like you do.
Oct 27th 2014
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                                    and how do i act Case_One?
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                                         Just go back and read your post. You'll get the picture.
Oct 27th 2014
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                                              can you be more specific?
Oct 27th 2014
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IMO you are immature too because youre missing a fundamental truth
Oct 27th 2014
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none of us are winners like you, Chuckles.
Oct 27th 2014
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work less, eat better, smoke better herb and have great sex for openers
Oct 28th 2014
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lol it's so easy to respond to this in an ugly way, u post too much abou...
Oct 27th 2014
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not admonishing, just saying dont sweat shit you cant control
Oct 28th 2014
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      very privileged posting
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           hell yeah fuckin 19 year olds is a privelege
Oct 28th 2014
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           http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KaVnA88oNTg
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post 168
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To be fair, tho, the audience is supposed to be a little disgusted here
Oct 27th 2014
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Yeah that's not what those girls were saying ewww about
Oct 28th 2014
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The fact u think this is something...ewww
Oct 28th 2014
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So just becuz a post has 100+ replies doesn't mean u need to add ur
Oct 28th 2014
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      Lol
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That's dope though. We need MORE films where straight people go "Ewww."
Oct 28th 2014
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and all these cats did was lightly peck
Oct 28th 2014
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they really did, the kisses were the most basic elementary kisses ever
Oct 28th 2014
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I've seen better kisses at half-court between Magic & Isaiah
Oct 28th 2014
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We need to amp that shit up. It seems that TV is further along than film...
Oct 28th 2014
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fuckin right!!
Oct 28th 2014
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That's true, eliciting the audible response is important
Oct 28th 2014
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But why?
Oct 29th 2014
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YEP
Oct 28th 2014
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well said
Oct 28th 2014
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I don't understand straight people who don't get it.
Oct 29th 2014
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      I have given up on trying to understand them. Because f*ck them.
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No, NO, NO, NAUGHTY JUNGLE OF LOVE, DEVIL HORNS (c) Half Baked
Oct 28th 2014
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hahahaha
Oct 29th 2014
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perfect
Oct 29th 2014
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That sucks.
Oct 29th 2014
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TE8Uqh930Og
Oct 29th 2014
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How are people grossed out by kissing? IT'S KISSING.
Oct 29th 2014
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Bugs Bunny gave racier kisses on camera, lol
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      Unrelated: I have a pitch for an all-gay action movie.
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Dr Claw
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1. "I thought you were about to say How To Get Away With Murder"
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but yeah, it's bush league

  

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ThaTruth
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11. "I thought it was about Scandal"
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SoWhat
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2. "fuck that."
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fuck you.

  

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3. "Honestly, I be kinda disappointed in close friends of mine who"
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look away during gay kisses, or male nudity (which is nearly never peen, almost always ass cheeks).

I'm straight, it's not appealing to me, but it's not so visceral that I need to look away. Seems so immature to me.

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blkprinceMD05
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4. "Exactly, immaturity "
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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Adwhizz
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28. "There's a difference between the ladies in the theater being LOUD"
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Mon Oct-27-14 11:43 AM by Adwhizz

  

          

and disruptive with their displeasure and someone not wanting to watch someone naked/involved in acts of affection.

No one is obligated to find anyone else attractive/want to watch them do sexual things

R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
Dec 29th 2009 - Dec 17th 2017

  

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63. "^^^^"
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154. "It's not about "wanting" to see anything"
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it's about not being mature enough to see a man's butt cheeks for 3 seconds with out your hands flying up to shield your face.

It's about being able to watch the gore of the walking dead, but as soon as two dudes are kissing, you can't handle it.

I don't "want" to see those things, but shit... I have butt cheeks. I kiss people.

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189. "It's all a matter of perspective "
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It seems doesn't seem better one way or the other. How one visibly reacts won't change how one feels inwardly. Why should they be more mature for you or anyone else?

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215. "nail on the head"
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>It's about being able to watch the gore of the walking dead,
>but as soon as two dudes are kissing, you can't handle it.

I have often joked that I'll rather see surprise gay porn than gore under any circumstance

I can forget having seen the porn
the gore... you can't unsee

  

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5. "you know i love you..."
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but the world at large doesn't owe your their personal sensibilities.

they were watching a film
not your specific life.
they were entitled to their reaction
however imbecile-like.

two men kissing will ALWAYS disgust some ppl.
you shoulda tongued down your date with a wink thrown at em.
they prolly woulda moved.

  

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blkprinceMD05
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13. "That's almost word for word what my date said. I disagree tho "
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My issue is being voiced and the double standard in the mix cause if someone white in that theater had said "this fucking nigger movie" that woulda been a whole different issue

Maybe ur right tho. It was a scene showing something I do on a regular basis and I think it's not only fine but great and for someone to say eww is bothersome

prototype

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20. "RE: That's almost word for word what my date said. I disagree tho "
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>My issue is being voiced and the double standard in the mix
>cause if someone white in that theater had said "this fucking
>nigger movie" that woulda been a whole different issue

So did you hear them say "this f****t movie"? because if you didn't its not the same.

Something similar would be and interracial seen and someone saying "Eww"

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21. "why do gays always use Blacks to get their point across? "
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71. "b/c most ppl have heard of blacks and anti-black sentiment. "
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fuck you.

  

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23. "i feel where you're coming from but 'ewww' and this:"
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> "this fucking nigger movie"

are very different, no?

  

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blkprinceMD05
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26. "All three of y'all are right, I shouldn't have made that comparison"
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And to legs never forget that I'm Blacl as well as gay so don't try to dictate or criticize wtf I say as a Black man

I just woulda been likewise angry and insulted if something similar was done towards Black folks but besides what I said those two ewws went unchecked

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34. "wtf? LOL... "
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185. "RE: i feel where you're coming from but 'ewww' and this:"
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People say ewww when they see someone eating a booger picked from their nose too.

How should a gay man feel when the idea of him kissing another man evokes the same expression from other people?

Come ON!!!!!!

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208. "yeah, pretty sure i said i feel where he's coming from."
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i completely understand him being offended.

i simply said i didn't think his examples were congruent. he agreed, btw.

  

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37. "i understand why you were upset by it..."
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your feelings were in no way wrong.

but some ppl don't know how to manage their discomfort.
lotta uncomfortable ppl out in public making spectacles of themselves.
that doesn't change.

  

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6. "yeah but they were 12 tho"
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for a 12 year old saying ewww to shit is just fun.

if they were boys they would have said eewww to any and all kissing straight, gay, white on dog, whatever.

yeah it's dumb and insensitive but I don't know may people that age who aren't.

if they were adults, sure make a scene, better yet make out real sloppy right in front of them, but tweens by default are assholes.

**edit**

I read the OP wrong. they weren't 12 just acting like it. eff them bees

  

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8. "*like* they were 12... "
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9. "he said like they were 12..."
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i'm taking they were of age.

  

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12. "reading comp fail. my bad"
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I somehow read that as "they were Like 12" instead of "Like they were 12"

yeah, fuck them

and dyslexia.

  

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10. "I think he meant like they were 12 year olds"
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Not actually 12

  

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15. "Sounded like they were grown women, and I had to show ID to get the "
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Tickets

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7. "so they should just look away and gasp to themselves - K&P"
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18. "Lol yep"
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prototype

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14. "So you couldn't tolerate their right to be grossed out?"
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By something that they think is nasty.

Oh. OK.

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16. "They can be grossed out, just not verbalize it. That's human decency "
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And basic adult respect level.

My last reply to u in this post btw

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19. "Oh so these two young people don't know human decency "
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And BTW Most people find gay movie scenes to be devoid of Human Decency.

How does that shoe feel, they one you keep trying to not fit in?


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24. "i dont know how you can say such hurtful stuff and call yourself"
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jesus like
youre a fucking troll

>And BTW Most people find gay movie scenes to be devoid of
>Human Decency.

i mean i give a fck but i don't give that much of a fck

  

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27. "Man Kill all of they Over The Top Retoric "
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I'm stating a known fact regarding peoples responses.

But if you want to make that your cause, then go forward.


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41. "Damn. "
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>And BTW Most people find gay movie scenes to be devoid of
>Human Decency.
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>How does that shoe feel, they one you keep trying to not fit
>in?

  

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89. "You can't be real. "
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122. "About 75% of y'all would fail my class. "
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The lack of TRUE Critical Thinking in this place is very troublesome.

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133. "post your final exam."
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probably an old family circus with no words on it.

i still blame hip-hop.

  

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135. "LOL... "
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>probably an old family circus with no words on it.


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146. "lol "
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>>probably an old family circus with no words on it.
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188. "Religious coons don't teach anything of value"
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Case_One wants to come on here pretending to be some heavyweight.

  

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171. ""Most" people?"
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Fuck outta here you ignorant relic of a cultist.

I can't believe you honestly think Jesus would approve of some of the shit you come out with.

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17. "I would be upset if people thought my affection was eeewe"
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22. "it all depends on what your are showing affection towards."
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People find it gross to watch other folks kiss dogs in the mouth. Some say it's nothing wrong with that. Some think it's nasty.


I bet you wouldn't kiss a girl in the mouth right after she just finished kissing another guy to her left. So people kind that gross too.


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25. "you did not just use a dog example"
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>People find it gross to watch other folks kiss dogs in the
>mouth. Some say it's nothing wrong with that. Some think it's
>nasty.
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>I bet you wouldn't kiss a girl in the mouth right after she
>just finished kissing another guy to her left. So people kind
>that gross too.
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"I used a common example where people say "Ewww""


          

But I bet you want to make that an issue, huh?



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31. "its a symptom of your issue, not the issue itself"
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The issue is that you are so adhered to some weird perspective that you cant see why comparing gay people to domesticated canines is some foul shit to say

  

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32. "It's all about perspective.."
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>The issue is that you are so adhered to some weird
>perspective that you cant see why comparing gay people to
>domesticated canines is some foul shit to say
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You want to make the method the issue. So here you go. Some people find it nasty to watch other folks get Pissed on, but other's find it normal.

I noticed how you have nothing to say about the OP and his intolerance of the two youth.


Carry on. And have a Great Day.


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49. "It's funny to watch you try to lawyer your points"
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>I noticed how you have nothing to say about the OP and his
>intolerance of the two youth.

Like you know the word "intolerance" is bad, probably because you're (justifiably) accused of it daily, so you try to ascribe it to situations where it makes no sense, like being irritated by people making a vocal spectacle of themselves in a movie theatre.

i still blame hip-hop.

  

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54. "Riight. Have an Amazing day. "
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:)

  

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57. "lol"
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30. "would you really?"
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I don't think I'd give a shit, really.

When you think about it, the sight of most people kissing/fucking in real life IS fairly gross on some level.

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33. "lol"
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this is true, but I could see it as being microaggressive (if that's a word)

it's like when non-Blacks describe a neighborhood that is clearly Black (and locked in time) as "ghetto", "sketch" or whatever word they use to describe how dilapidated it is compared to somewhere else where the Geld to keep it well kept is plentiful (think the neighborhood in "Friday" vs. "The Wire")

yeah. PDA can be gross but it seemed more that the gayness of the kiss is what made them react more than the gross out part, and that's why dude's mad.

I would be too.

  

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39. "Yeah, I get why it's offensive in the moment"
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but the explanation for *why* it is offensive that legsdiamond gave (and that I have heard from others, to be fair) is the part that smells like BS to me... the idea that people are genuinely hurt that other people are not turned on by the image of them making love.

Unless you're a professional porn star or actor, chances are that the sight of you personally making love IS pretty "ewwwwww" anyway... and most people know that too, I think.

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42. "Yeah but this can't be separated from historical context. A history of"
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Saying my love is wrong that has been seen in various parts of the world and in this country is tied to the reaction I have when someone says eww to to guys kissing when that's what it looks like when I kiss

This ain't preteen saying eww she has coodies

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44. "I know."
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Maybe I'm acting a bit brand new just for convo.

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47. "come on, fam. "
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>but the explanation for *why* it is offensive that
>legsdiamond gave (and that I have heard from others, to be
>fair) is the part that smells like BS to me... the idea that
>people are genuinely hurt that other people are not turned on
>by the image of them making love.
>


i didn't see the scene.
but as described, it was a kiss.

not a penetration scene.
not a blow job.
a g or maybe pg-13 rated kiss.

it's probably not the act that grossed them out.
unless they are super-puritanical Christians, or squirmish 12 yr olds,
the fact that two humans kissing is not what grossed them out.

it's probably the fact that two dudes were kissing that grossed them out.
and what's more, there's a decent chance that it was more than the "grossness" of it
is not all that got them to vocalize their disapproval.

there is at least a reasonable chance that they also wanted
the entire theatre to know that they, as as straight ppl, disapproved of
this pearl clutching scene.

which is fine, really.


but nobody is asking ppl to get "turned on" by gay ppl kissing.



>Unless you're a professional porn star or actor, chances are
>that the sight of you personally making love IS pretty
>"ewwwwww" anyway... and most people know that too, I think.

  

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48. "nah bruh.. you are projecting"
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I'm saying if someone said "ewwwwe, yuckieeee, that's a sin" if they saw a hetero couple kissing who wasn't married would get a WTF from me...

  

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66. "you're injecting the 'it's a sin' part."
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>I'm saying if someone said "ewwwwe, yuckieeee, that's a sin"
>if they saw a hetero couple kissing who wasn't married would
>get a WTF from me...

I thought we were just talking about people being grossed out.

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75. "take the it's a sin part out... the verbal ewwwwwe is the problem. "
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148. "Agreed"
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>this is true, but I could see it as being microaggressive (if
>that's a word)
>
>it's like when non-Blacks describe a neighborhood that is
>clearly Black (and locked in time) as "ghetto", "sketch" or
>whatever word they use to describe how dilapidated it is
>compared to somewhere else where the Geld to keep it well kept
>is plentiful (think the neighborhood in "Friday" vs. "The
>Wire")
>
>yeah. PDA can be gross but it seemed more that the gayness of
>the kiss is what made them react more than the gross out part,
>and that's why dude's mad.
>
>I would be too.
>
Definitely a microagression


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35. "hmm... "
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yeah, you might be right...

I wouldn't take it personally if someone said eeeewe to a black guy kissing a woman

  

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166. "Sure...."
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As BP was saying....it's the context. Me and you don't get offended by people saying 'ew' about heterosexuality because it has no association with an established form of oppression that we experience. You'd really have to put the blinders on to think those two incidents are equivalents.


  

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29. "Oh God."
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36. "anybody that still clutches their pearls at this stuff always will. "
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and there is absolutely nothing that can be done to stop
some ppl from feeling ikky about the gay.

the only response is to say "fuck you, too,"
and keep it moving.

if somebody hasn't gotten beyond thinking gays are ikky by now,
they never will, because although ppl CAN change,
they usually don't so fuck it.


seeking affirmation (or even lack of contempt)
from ppl that will never like you is a fools errand.
(i mean the general you-- not you, specifically.
i am including myself in that you.)


  

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38. "Only reason its not "yucky" anymore is "
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because its been systematically desensiitzed by powerful media who indirectly control cultural norms. It's gotten to the point that any body that critiques homosexuality, now becomes the outsider.. smh

but on a base level, its pretty eggregious behavior. Up there with cannibalism, bestiality, etc IMO

  

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40. "and there's nothing that can be said to change your mind about this. "
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>because its been systematically desensiitzed by powerful
>media who indirectly control cultural norms. It's gotten to
>the point that any body that critiques homosexuality, now
>becomes the outsider.. smh
>
>but on a base level, its pretty eggregious behavior. Up there
>with cannibalism, bestiality, etc IMO



that's okay.
like i said, fuck you, too.

  

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43. "how can you reason someone comparing men kissing to"
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cannibalism?

ya can't.

i still blame hip-hop.

  

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50. "Whoa... are you fucking serious or fucking retarded?"
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Did you really just compare homosexuality to cannibalism and bestiality?

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56. "the powerful media, fam"
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it compels all males to be desensitized to a whole portfolio of gay-ass gay shit

LMAO


  

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90. "Yep smh"
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55. "LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL"
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>because its been systematically desensiitzed by powerful
>media who indirectly control cultural norms. It's gotten to
>the point that any body that critiques homosexuality, now
>becomes the outsider.. smh
>
>but on a base level, its pretty eggregious behavior. Up there
>with cannibalism, bestiality, etc IMO

  

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Mynoriti
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73. "yeah, if only the media portrayed canibalism in a better light"
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or had more man/dog couples on tv..


  

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80. "you jest but give it a 100 yrs or so"
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that will be the norm as well. timing is everything

  

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85. "^^THE GAYS ARE GONNA EAT OUR GRANDKIDS"
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95. "i have to agree well not to the cannibalism part"
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just to people being desentized

but i dont like all the cursing on tv as well
i wish it wasn't so much of it
on tv

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161. "and being a troll ass nigga named melmag."
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>
>but on a base level, its pretty eggregious behavior. Up there
>with cannibalism, bestiality, etc IMO

Never change, babe.

  

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167. "Hurray!"
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It's gotten to
>the point that any body that critiques homosexuality, now
>becomes the outsider.. smh


yes. Exactly! People who critique homosexuality should be outliers. We're all much better off this way.

  

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173. "Cunts should always be outsiders."
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Racist? Outsider.
Homophobic? Outsider.
Misogynist? Outsider.

That's how society works; it's how every new generation contains a few less cunts than the last one.

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45. " I enjoy makin phobes feel as foolish as they are but I'm a chick tho."
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I am not above throwing popcorn nor am I beneath a verbal or physical kerfuffle as a result.

Also, I'm sorry that you experienced that homophobic bullshit when you were just trynna enjoy a movie w/ your date...fuck what they talkin about, homegirl wrong as fuck & she need to stfu.

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51. "you on that Cooley High shit...lol"
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throwing popcorn can get you killed these days.

  

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46. "Pretty sure most of the people watching it were thinking the same thing"
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They just didn't verbalize it.

  

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52. "veebalizing it is relevant. "
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i am sure that some of my friends don't necessarily ENJOY
seeing me give my boyfriend a peck on the mouth when i greet him.

but the don't verbalized it.
because i am their friend.
because they are adults.
because they keep their homophobia to themselves.

etc.



I don't care what ppl THINK, for the most part.
that's none of my business.

what they verbalize, i may take issue w/,
depending on whatever.

  

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53. "thinking vs verbalizing"
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think it all day..

but screaming out sin in a movie theatre is some hoe shit.

  

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87. "Maybe they were, but they were mature enuff not to say eww all loudly"
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prototype

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believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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58. "bruh, u got upset blk folks verbalized anything during a blk flick???"
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u know better than that

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129. "lol...my thoughts exactly..lol"
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157. "lulz"
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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Mynoriti
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59. "i still cringe at dudes kissing"
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i don't think they shouldn't
i don't think it's wrong
i'm not against it being in a movie, or on TV

but that's just always my reaction. it's part not finding it attractive, and part conditioning. it's more my problem than anyone else's though. i don't feel the need to verbalize it in public.

  

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61. "RE: i still cringe at dudes kissing"
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>i don't think they shouldn't
>i don't think it's wrong
>i'm not against it being in a movie, or on TV
>
>but that's just always my reaction. it's part not finding it
>attractive, and part conditioning. it's more my problem than
>anyone else's though. i don't feel the need to verbalize it in
>public.


So, hold up. First this could be about anything. But how can you still cringe at anything, yet at the same time try a soft shoe the response by saying that you don't have ANY KIND OF ISSUES with the thing that made you Naturally Cringe?


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62. "he explained himself just fine"
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>it's part not finding it attractive, and part conditioning. it's more my problem than anyone else's though.

  

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72. "thank you."
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119. "Girl Please."
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64. "i cringe at the sight of televised surgery"
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hell i cringe at the sight of someone putting a contact lens in.

i don't think there should be any moral or legal prohibitions against either of those things.

are you really this daft? that you can't understand how something you're viscerally repulsed by is (at very least in part) an issue with you, not an issue with the thing you find repulsive?

i still blame hip-hop.

  

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65. "i cringe at your lack of reading comprehension"
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120. "Dude stop riding the fence just to save face."
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I'm scared, but nit really scared, just sacred sometimes, but not all the time. That's how you sound and you let the jokers urge you on.. Keep it up.

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127. "or i'm just a grown up who knows the world doesn't revolve around me"
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just because i don't enjoy seeing something doesn't automatically make that something wrong.

thinking 2 dudes should adjust their lives just so i wont squint my eyes for half a second, is the mindset of a spoiled child.

  

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131. "And yet you came in and responded all about 'you'."
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>just because i don't enjoy seeing something doesn't
>automatically make that something wrong.
>
>thinking 2 dudes should adjust their lives just so i wont
>squint my eyes for half a second, is the mindset of a spoiled
>child.
>

But do you agree that it's people's right to find two men kissing to be disgusting?

If not, are your trying to tread on their 1st amendment right to free speech?


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138. "LOL @ "1st amendment right""
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has anyone suggested those girls be jailed for saying "eww"?

and no one said it's not it's people's "right" to feel however they want. or any other dumb strawman shit you're trying to throw out there.

  

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144. "You're trying to tell them what to do."
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>has anyone suggested those girls be jailed for saying "eww"?
>


If they could, they would.


>and no one said it's not it's people's "right" to feel however
>they want. or any other dumb strawman shit you're trying to
>throw out there.
>


Dumb.. And yet you are here..


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145. "yeah.. have fun arguing with the shit you imagine people say"
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instead of shit they actually say.

  

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147. "Man you better stay WOKE!"
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60. "to be honest, i thought the scenes were out of place"
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and i too, was a bit taken aback. just seemed odd for them
to introduce the scenes in that manner....seemed more like
they wanted a shock factor and contributed absolutely
to the crux of the film.

  

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67. "It really wasn't believable nm"
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70. "it's a film about identity & intersections of identity @ white Ivy Leagu..."
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Gay Blk dudes exist on these campuses & only the viscerally homophobic/racist are shocked by that fact & it's like I'm glad those people are offended lol.

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78. "^^^perfectly stated. *spoilers below*"
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I though the kiss during the fight was unrealistic but when the lil editor dude kissed him I didn't think their was anything odd or out of place about that.

And I'll be the first to admit I didn't even think there would be a gay sub plot in this film but in rung true becuz there are gay blacks at PWI. I was one of them and I think his character also allowed for their line where ole girl says "u kno we're not all homophobic, right?"

But my whole point is even u did find it disturbing show some maturity and decency and not shout out ewww

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79. "what exactly did it contribute though? it was like, HEEYYY!"
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GAYS ARE OUT THERE AND THEY KISS...lol. wtf. THE AUDIENCE IS FULL OF
DUMMIES AND THEY DON'T HAVE A CONSCIOUS. the subject was never
discussed, it was just thrown at the audience out of no where. by
and large, this was a film about intra/inter/race relationship
dynamics.

>Gay Blk dudes exist on these campuses & only the viscerally
>homophobic/racist are shocked by that fact & it's like I'm
>glad those people are offended lol.


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81. "The film was about the Black experience at a PWI. There are gay"
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Black ppl that are part of that experience. We're u bothered by him being gay or te kisses? What was needed to be explained or introduced lol. He was one of the characters and happened to be gay....

He wasnt the only person who had a kiss in that film...

Crash lemme find out u were one of the hood rats saying ewww! Lol

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83. "I think the director said he relates most w/ Lionel of all the character..."
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Obvs that character & character's narrative has significance even if you missed it.

Further, 2 dudes kissing doesn't have to advance a plot or be subversive to have merit in a movie not that you're insinuating that I'm just sayin.

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94. "I got it."
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They went toward George, the editor, seeing Lionel as a thing to be dealt with that he could have his way with instead of dealing with him as an individual.

When George first approached him from the perspective of an "it" that could help George get to the next level. Lionel's blackness was the "it" and everything else about him was negligent. George approached him in a way that suggested he could belong to the group but from day one, without provocation, the editor solicited him in ways that were improper. It culminated in him disregarding Lionel entirely by taking him to the party. Despite all that was going on in that moment, including Lionel's obvious discomfort, George minimized the environment, pounces on him, and attempts to "seductively" call him a hershey bar - a thing.

As far as the kiss during the fight, well Kurt had been tormenting him based on his being gay from the beginning. It was a cheap shot in a moment of powerlessness.

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160. "You've paid money to see a picture about stereotyping at an Ivy League s..."
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and one of the lead characters is introduced as gay in the first fucking reel.

Why _wouldn't_ the film explore the "Mandingo" complex if it got a chance.

Don't try to disguise your discomfort by writing it off as deficiencies in the film. Just be honest & say you were uncomfortable.

  

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172. "and don't try to tell me what i thought or think"
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wtf

>Don't try to disguise your discomfort by writing it off as
>deficiencies in the film. Just be honest & say you were
>uncomfortable.


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176. "sometimes it's necessary."
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68. "First world gay problems? nm."
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69. "very much so."
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fuck you.

  

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82. "True "
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prototype

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74. "RE: So these two chicks were saying ewww during the gay scenes* in"
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76. "just got Dallas, i'm told."
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fuck you.

  

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115. "i wonder how much time he'll end up getting for that"
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dunno what the hate crime laws are in texas, but dude might literally get years for that dumb shit.

  

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130. "doubtful."
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it's a pretty standard misdemeanor battery case, i think. yeah he was shouting about 'faggot' this and that but it takes more for a hate crime, i think.

i wouldn't be surprised if homie pleads to a disorderly conduct or something like that.

fuck you.

  

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152. "Black cops taking down an ACTUAL violent white man"
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now that's what I like to see.

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174. "That's us GAININ ON 'EM!"
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Comin up from behind 'em

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155. "If the agressor was Black..."
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how long would it have been before:

A. He was gang tackled

B. He was tazed

C. He was gang tackled then tazed

D. He was shot

E. He was gang tackled then shot


This is a mulipart question


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77. "do you think they were purposely saying it out loud for you to hear?"
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being that you were in front of them

  

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84. "No I don't, they were several rows behind us from what I could tell"
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By hearing them. Me and my date also weren't on no cuddly shit. We didn't even really touch. Now judging by the fact that they said eww they may have been the type to to say two dudes seeing a movie together Is gay anyway.

But maybe they were. I don't put anything pass ppl like that. They had the opportunity to get with me directly when I turned around and said damn tho. It was a lot of black chicks in that theater I couldn't tell exactly who said it so I gave them that opportunity

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88. "unless you were on some "say it to my face""
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they prolly thought you were complaining about the noise or the kiss

  

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92. "well hey, you dealt with it how you wanted to"
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live and learn
maybe you'll learn to live with these types and ignore them
but part of me says you shouldn't have to learn shit and people should learn to keep that shit to themselves

god bless you and your struggle tho

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86. "So. "
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Were you equally bothered by any comments made at any other times in the theatre or only the ones that you disagreed with or took personally?
Were they disrupting the film anymore than anybody else?

I suspect you took it as more of a personal attack than an off-color reaction of two ignorant school girls. If so, yeah you needed to keep that to yourself.

Had some white people jumped up and screamed something about black people while I was watching, my first thought would be "why are you here?" and my next thoughts would have been "How ignorant/rude. You're interrupting the film." Largely because 1. the hypothetical comment wouldn't be a personal attack, 2. because in order for someone to see the error of their ways they have to be open to the discourse regarding such. In the absence of that they are happy to hold on to it for whatever reason. Reasons of which are none of my business.

I would rather their ignorance not exist, I would rather that they had an epiphanous moment instead of falling back to what's comfortable, I would rather they see the merit in the moment. However in the absence of any hint of those things occuring I usually reserve my energy for more worthwhile endeavors. Silencing a person doesn't change their mind.

  

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91. "talking about it probably won't change it either. "
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>Silencing a person doesn't change their mind.


but it's still a conversation worth having sometimes.
i still talk to my mom even though i know she hasn't and won't
change her mind when it comes to the gay.

she just quit saying shit to me about it.
which is actually enough of a compromise for me to keep her in my life (albeit in a limited capacity).

  

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93. "That's the thing! There were no other comments besides laughter at the "
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Film. it was a politically/ racially charged film and there were no verbal reactions about anything else in the film except those girls saying eww at those two parts. So it made their actions even more jarring

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97. "jarring TO YOU"
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99. "right. which is why them (**) need to STFU."
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b/c fuck them and fuck that. we ain't come this far to have cackleheads ruin our day.

fuck you.

  

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178. "that bs would ruin your day?"
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ijs

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198. "you're just saying?"
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fuck you.

  

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101. "Yes and I created this post.....I mean duh lol what is ur point even? "
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103. "But was it a teachable moment?"
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Had you taken a moment to address them after the film instead of in the moment in anger do you think it would have done any good?

A provocative reaction in the moment probably wouldn't have done much, however after the movie had ended there may have been an opportunity. Even then what exactly is the maturity level of a group of girls who say "eww" while surrounded by other girls? Is it a true measure of their beliefs or of their desire to be noticed and appreciated by their peers? Could they have appreciated anything that you said to them? One on one, possibly but in a group, doubtful.

I doubt they know you to single you out and I'm sure that "gay" isn't the only thing that you are. Which is why I doubt it was a personal attack whether or not they guessed that you were gay. They were making their ignorance known and attempting to bond over their shared judgmental deficiencies.

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105. "No I don't think it woulda done any good, it would prolly lead to cursin..."
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And them calling somebody etc.

by time the movie was over I had calmed down and again I didn't see exactly who said

It woulda been even more ridiculous for me to ask every Black female who came out the theater "were u the girls saying eww" when the dudes kissed?

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109. "RE: No I don't think it woulda done any good, it would prolly lead to cu..."
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>And them calling somebody etc.
>
>by time the movie was over I had calmed down and again I
>didn't see exactly who said
>
>It woulda been even more ridiculous for me to ask every Black
>female who came out the theater "were u the girls saying eww"
>when the dudes kissed?

Right, it wasn't a teachable moment. Had you confronted it in the moment it wouldn't have accomplished the goal of them not having voiced their ignorance in the first place. The film is meant to provoke a reaction, that was theirs.

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107. "what difference does this make?"
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>I doubt they know you to single you out and I'm sure that
>"gay" isn't the only thing that you are. Which is why I doubt
>it was a personal attack whether or not they guessed that you
>were gay. They were making their ignorance known and
>attempting to bond over their shared judgmental deficiencies.
>


whether they did for LOL's
or because of some deeply rooted hated of all things gay,
either way, they let you know exactly where they stand
when it comes to me and ppl like me.

so fuck them, too.

  

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96. "How is a white person sayin something racist abt Blk ppl not apply to yo..."
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Dude is not callin for a sit in just a common stfu w/ the dumb shit & he right & hopefully those girls/women will grow up & not think 2 consenting adults of the same sex kissing is eww-worthy.

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104. "because it wouldn't matter if it were me, my neighbor or you."
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He would still have a issue with anybody black.


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98. "fuck changing they minds. i wanna change they behavior."
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and by that i mean i want them to STFU and keep their phobia to themselves. b/c i ain't tryna hear that. and if they're not challenged they won't learn to STFU w/that shit.

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100. "^^^^"
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Simple as that

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102. "^ all day w/ this. "
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106. "Challenging them makes them STFU?"
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Or does it make them feel justified by their original assessment?


What about this?
http://freethoughtblogs.com/ashleymiller/2014/10/24/how-the-morehouse-football-team-ruined-dear-white-people-and-proved-its-point/

They're doing it to elicit a response. It's disturbing but in that moment are you going to change their minds of escalate the situation?

Not the apology at the end.

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108. "i challenged my mother and my sister about the gay. "
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as a result, they shut the fuck up about it.
which is exactly what i wanted to happen.

did i change their FEELINGS about the gay?

probably not.
they still think a sin.
they'd still rather me not be it.
i am sure they are still praying for me.

but they now know what they can and cannot say around me
if they want me in their lives.
in essence, they STFU.

which is enough.


and really, the only reason i had as much patience as i did
is because we are related.

fuck anybody else that has a problem, on general principle.

  

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110. "You're talking about people who love you. This is about strangers."
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112. "it really doesn't matter. "
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if anything, this proves my point.
b/c if ppl that "love" me still feel ____ about the gay,
the fuck i look like trying to talk sense into strangers.


ppl CAN change their mind,
but usually don't,
and anyway, i don't give a fuck about your negative FEELINGS
about the gay as long as you shut the fuck up about them when i'm around.

the "fuck you, too" sentiment applied equally to my mother and my sister.
the only reason *I* didn't write them off completely many years ago is familial obligation/ love.

i barely have the energy to educate my family about
certain things.

the fuck i look like reasoning w/ strangers trying to change their feelings?



if the message you send me is "fuck you and your ppl,"
the message i give back is "fuck you, too."

my ppl includes gays.
Blacks.
whatever.


  

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111. "To be perfectly honest I kno more than a few ratchet gay niggas"
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Who wouldve immediately been cursing those women out and been prepared to beat their and their mans assess if it escalated. They were lucky I'm grown and got too much to lose to go full nutzo and that my date wasnt bothered enuff or any other gay who may have been in that theater

But if the lesson they got was that there are consequences for letting ur prejudices spill all out in public space then that's a lesson well learned IMO

A lot of gays have got to the point where we don't care about changing minds, we just want basic respect (shit u could say tolerance) and equal rights and protection under the law

I went to see dear white ppl in Atlanta in 2014 and not at a hood theater. I wasn't expecting gay bashing to be part of my night and when it became part I got very annoyed

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113. "I'm easily annoyed by others' general lack of basic respect."
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So I saw the movie in the morning with one other couple in the theatre. I even stayed for a second showing after the first couple left and a second couple showed up. Watching a movie in an empty theatre is a marvelous experience.

You shouldn't have to deal with derision when you leave the house, but the world is not your oyster. It's not mine either. What your "rachet gay" friends do is up to them, but I doubt that those who are trying to elicit as response with their actions are swayed by receiving a response as a result of those actions.
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123. "^^this is why i dont fuck with ATL gays. niggas will scratch my eyes out"
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>Who wouldve immediately been cursing those women out and been
>prepared to beat their and their mans assess if it escalated.
>They were lucky I'm grown and got too much to lose to go full
>nutzo and that my date wasnt bothered enuff or any other gay
>who may have been in that theater
>
>But if the lesson they got was that there are consequences for
>letting ur prejudices spill all out in public space then
>that's a lesson well learned IMO
>
>A lot of gays have got to the point where we don't care about
>changing minds, we just want basic respect (shit u could say
>tolerance) and equal rights and protection under the law
>
>I went to see dear white ppl in Atlanta in 2014 and not at a
>hood theater. I wasn't expecting gay bashing to be part of my
>night and when it became part I got very annoyed

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177. "THIS is a problem> To be perfectly honest I kno more than a few ratchet..."
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why do a man whether gay or not
think it is okay to lay hands on a female?

i just don't understand that part
and will never will
a man is a man is a man
your preference is your own

but to think that you have a right
to fight a female as a man is just wrong
okay fight their men

it's scary
this is in regards to gay men who act in a way as a lady
genetically you are a man
with the strength of a man
so fight a man

imo

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180. "I assume that they would beat the women's asses if they attacked them"
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Especially if the women joined men in trying to jump the gay dudes or something. It's not necessarily right, but it fits well within the parameters of ratchet.

  

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183. "it goes both ways women approaching a man"
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but how i read his response is that they would
have came at the females
which in my opinion
aint right

basically if they threw the 1st punch at the girls

now if the girls would have thrown the 1st punch
carry on

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191. "Exactly, ratchet is as ratchet does. Ratchet str8 men beat women bloody"
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On the regular. Let's call all them out. I really don't get how continue to associate with this obvious homophobe

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190. "nvm, I'll just say it's not right but it's a reality"
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It's not right when str8 men hit woman either, hopefully u highlight that and realize that too

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210. "A gay dude almost went full ratchet on me because he thought I was a pho..."
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I was next to dude in line about to buy some food. A friend of mine who was ahead of me realized he didn't have enough money so I told him I'd go first and he could use my change. So I moved ahead of him and the gay dude went ballistic. He'd been telling a story with uh...let's say some flamboyant details and hand gestures. Dude apparently thought I was moving because of him.

He proceeded to talk shit behind my back, but I just kept my cool, turned around and made a very vocal exchange of money with my friend behind me.

Gay dude instantly knew he fucked up and stopped railing against all the bigots in the world.

Of course I'm not saying this to make a huge point, just that Key and Peele be on point every now and again.

  

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114. "yup. it often does."
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117. "constructive interference."
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124. "when i need help managing gay existence i'll ask for it."
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but for now i'm cool. thanks.

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140. "Commenting does not equal help, advice, or care."
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It's only indicative of time spent to comment and energy spent to type.

  

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142. "Thanks again."
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fuck you.

  

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121. "^^^^this is where I'm at with it"
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179. "is it a phobia, as in a far, or an expessed discomfort"
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...which is natural in many instances...not saying it's right....but it sounds like a knee jerk reaction that "some" people took way outta hand...but i get if those two seconds made folk feel somekinda way...even though i'd say get over it cause there are bigger issues....LOL folk don't even want you to EVER get married, and we in here talking about 2 people outta presumably a theater full's reaction to one quick scene....

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184. "put what ever label you want on it."
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i want that shit STFU.

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168. "You're being purely pragmatic though."
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Sometimes there's a function to simply reacting to something naturally. Even in the absence of some sort of result-based benefit....one can also just allow themselves to be annoyed/offended. It's not like he started a fight or something....so there's not much negative results from his taking offence. He said a 'damn'. Expressed his frusteration to his date. Made a post to vent about it. None of which has harmful results.

A lot of people have alluded to the idea that I'd sum up as 'It's not worth worrying about because there's nothing you can do about it'. That may be true for some people. But living completely logically like that may turn into a form of self-repression in it's own right. As long as our reaction is not harmful.....it's ok to allow yourself to be hurt/offended and vent/express yourself about it. Regardless of in doing so, nothing is 'accomplished'. You could argue that the accomplishment is in expressing yourself.

  

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175. "RE: You're being purely pragmatic though."
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>Sometimes there's a function to simply reacting to something
>naturally. Even in the absence of some sort of result-based
>benefit....one can also just allow themselves to be
>annoyed/offended. It's not like he started a fight or
>something....so there's not much negative results from his
>taking offence. He said a 'damn'. Expressed his frusteration
>to his date. Made a post to vent about it. None of which has
>harmful results.
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>A lot of people have alluded to the idea that I'd sum up as
>'It's not worth worrying about because there's nothing you can
>do about it'. That may be true for some people. But living
>completely logically like that may turn into a form of
>self-repression in it's own right. As long as our reaction is
>not harmful.....it's ok to allow yourself to be hurt/offended
>and vent/express yourself about it. Regardless of in doing
>so, nothing is 'accomplished'. You could argue that the
>accomplishment is in expressing yourself.

I agree, but don't forget that the girls also reacted to something naturally. I don't disagree with him being offended, I would have also been offended. However i have to know when to stress myself out over a situation and when not to. I have remained stressed out from confronting someone for being phobic/cist for days after the incident. It is draining and can be counterproductive, especially when they're not receptive and I'm the one expending energy and emotion.

My perspective is that we can't fight every battle that's presented to us because we will miss out on living our lives. In that moment he seems to have been distracted from fully engaging in the movie (for a time) and fully engaging with his date (for a time). Instead of canoodling and having a lively discussion about the film, his date was talking him down about a situation that he probably had no real opportunity change. The girl's action was meant to distract and elicit a reaction. She succeeded, very well in fact because we weren't even there and we're still talking about it sans her involvement.

  

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116. "gauche. parochial. childish. provinicial. "
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You should have grabbed your dates neck and slobbed him down loudly

Lol at allowing bammas to make you feel some kinda way I thought you was from the urrea

  

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125. "But! But! But! Mr. Bin! Mr. Bin! "
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>You should have grabbed your dates neck and slobbed him down
>loudly
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>Lol at allowing bammas to make you feel some kinda way I
>thought you was from the urrea
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These enlighten, critical thinking, intelligent folks should already know that no one can make you feel anything - it's all about choice.

So why are they so mad?


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132. "At heart we are all petty dictators, wanting everyone else to change"
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Shit ain't happening

does it really matter?

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137. "I swear, they ain't shy about beating that Hypocrite Drum.. "
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118. "some people are just awful/and or say what they feel out loud"
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no matter what the circumstance. gotta laugh at them (from the
inside perhaps) and just keep it moving.

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126. "i say ew when i see two straight people kiss"
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128. "There's no such thing as "straight people". What is that?"
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134. "i agree but not for the same reasons as you jesus freak"
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136. "You do know that "Jesus Freak" is a compliment. Right?"
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139. "okay jesus freak"
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141. "Thanks.. "
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You should speak more words of affirmation into your own life, then you might not have to live like you do.

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143. "i like my life thanks. and you're always welcome jesus freak"
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149. "People that like their life, don't act like you do. "
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But you can keep lying to yourself.


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150. "and how do i act Case_One?"
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151. "Just go back and read your post. You'll get the picture. "
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153. "can you be more specific?"
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156. "IMO you are immature too because youre missing a fundamental truth"
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most of the time in life you are right and it still doesn't matter. that applies here. of course they should be considerate or reserved or civil or whatever, but they weren't and they never will be.

the scenes lasted 20 seconds. their "ewwww" or two lasted probably a combined two seconds. yet you're still upset about this. who is losing out here?

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158. "none of us are winners like you, Chuckles."
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how can we be more like you?

fuck you.

  

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182. "work less, eat better, smoke better herb and have great sex for openers"
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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159. "lol it's so easy to respond to this in an ugly way, u post too much abou..."
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Ur personal life....but I'll just thank u for ur admonishment and keep it moving

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181. "not admonishing, just saying dont sweat shit you cant control"
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these are people are meaningless if not worthless. you're letting them ruin your film and your time with your date? h-why?

of course i have had little shit like this bother me in the past but not really anymore. not giving a fuck is a honed skill. similarly i don't gaf if people wanna slam some detail of my personal life. i wouldn't have put it out there if i were ashamed of it. i share a lot. that tells there is no shame in my game.

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196. "very privileged posting"
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199. "hell yeah fuckin 19 year olds is a privelege"
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that's vine picked ripeness right thurr!

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203. "http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KaVnA88oNTg"
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KaVnA88oNTg

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169. "post 168"
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162. "To be fair, tho, the audience is supposed to be a little disgusted here"
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Not because it's two men kissing (*spoiler alert* - gay dudes kiss!) but because the white dude is fetishsizing Lionel.

I personally was disgusted he let that slick talking mofo say that shot about black people and then kiss him, though I get that the Lionel character has the self-esteem of a grain of sand and was happy to get a little attention.

But motherfuckers in here are legit mad not because of that, but because gay dudes kissed. Yet movies about war, serial killers, slashers, rapists (hellooooo, Tyler Perry), and more are les discomfiting to the palate. Humans, man.

  

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164. "Yeah that's not what those girls were saying ewww about "
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I'm sure that point was completely lost on them

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163. "The fact u think this is something...ewww"
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165. "So just becuz a post has 100+ replies doesn't mean u need to add ur"
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Idiotic/useless response to it. Sit some posts out, make that ur rule number one for okp cause u stay making useless replies lol

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170. "Lol "
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186. "That's dope though. We need MORE films where straight people go "Ewww.""
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We need more films that make straight people feel uncomfortable, more TV shows that make them shift in disgust in their seats, more well done art that brings out the very worst in them. Homophobes aren't gonna lie down without a fight. But part of slaying our enemies is having the stomach to watch them squirm lol.

I'm arguing for a change in perspective. The whole situation is rather beautiful if you think about it: Here we have a young, Black gay director collecting money from straight Black people who pay to see his widely acclaimed film that features gay characters. I doubt that this would have been possible 10 years ago. But now that the door is unlocked, it's time to buss it wide open.

With that said, I'm glad you spoke up when they showed their asses. I think it would be dope to build a campaign of shame around homophobic reactions to the film.

  

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187. "and all these cats did was lightly peck"
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it ain't like one of them bent back the other and they went all Rhett-Scarlett in close-up.

  

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192. "they really did, the kisses were the most basic elementary kisses ever"
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I mean one was done in aggressive moment , that's what made them even more ridiculous saying eww. It was such a small part of the film and the kisses weren't really sexual

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200. "I've seen better kisses at half-court between Magic & Isaiah"
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201. "We need to amp that shit up. It seems that TV is further along than film..."
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Going all the way back to "Oz," which provided the masturbation material of my adolescence, I have been able to look to popular TV shows to find the queer portrayals that are missing in mainstream cinema.

But it's time to really give these phobes something to snicker about in theaters. I want scenes featuring same-sex tonsil hockey. I want Will Smith to actually make out with Anthony Michael Hall next time.

  

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193. "fuckin right!!"
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fuck you.

  

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194. "That's true, eliciting the audible response is important"
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Let those with prejudice shine a light over their head so that it can be addressed.

It's far better than the covert prejudice that goes on, like pastors who want to act tolerant in front of the camera but clutch their pearls the moment someone wants to take a closer look at the sermons they put on when they think no-one else is listening.

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209. "But why?"
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I dont get why people HAVE to be enthusiastic about seeing 2 gay guys or 2 women kiss. Why does everything have to be equally beautiful? I don't get the need for it. If they were like "ewww, this is why they shouldn thave equal rights" yeah definitely I see something wrong, but its like the fact that they made a negative sound or had a negative reaction that they automatically wanted the whole gay community to be dead lol. Some people just dont care to see certain people in sexual acts....if its more than that with ignorance and hate behind it then i'm definitely on board to kill off those people...but to jump to that conclusion because of the sound "ewww" is ridiculous.

Theres gay people who see Seth Rogen kiss or do a sex scene that say "ewwwww" what the fuck is the difference? ....there isn't, fat ugly jew fro's have rights too....smh


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197. "YEP"
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frankly it was a pleasant surprise

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202. "well said"
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213. "I don't understand straight people who don't get it."
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The sex scene breakdown in popular cinema is, like:

- straight sex: 99%
- lesbian sex: .9%
- gay male sex: .1%

It's like the white people who want a White History Month. It's all about us, all the time. Is it really ruining things if the gay male cinematic sex percentage ticks up another couple of tenths of a percent?

If you're that afraid of seeing two men kissing, cool. It is very, very, very easy to find out if a movie you're planning on seeing has gay stuff in it. Just avoid those movies. You may miss out on a terrific film like Dear White People as a result, but if avoiding two men closed-mouth kissing is the priority, it's exceedingly simple to find out in advance if the film contains gayness.

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216. "I have given up on trying to understand them. Because f*ck them. "
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I care less than ever before about whether they get it. I just want them to get out of my way.

  

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195. "No, NO, NO, NAUGHTY JUNGLE OF LOVE, DEVIL HORNS (c) Half Baked"
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204. "hahahaha"
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And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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207. "perfect"
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205. "That sucks."
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She's an idiot. Even being straight I woulda noted what she said and smirked to myself how obnoxious that is. The gay male kiss seems to be one-step forward, one-step back in Hollywood. Can't think of the last iconic one.

I re-watched Philadelphia recently...it's so awkward how they avoid physical contact between Tom Hanks and his lover. It's like they're business partners. lol

Brokeback Mountain was actually pretty reserved compared to the hoopla surrounding it when it came out. I remember stuff in the press saying it was 'gay porn'. Thinking about it....I think that's the only big, mainstream film that has portrayed gay sex and kissing in an erotic way. That scene when Heath is waiting for him to pick him up after a year's absence. He's all nervous and drinking and chain-smoking. Then Jake shows up and Heath pulls him behind a staircase to kiss. That movie just gets better and better with time.

  

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206. "http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TE8Uqh930Og"
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Frank Longo
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211. "How are people grossed out by kissing? IT'S KISSING."
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It's the most innocuous scene imaginable. They may as well have been pecking.

This isn't Shortbus. It's two dudes kissing, closed-mouth if I recall. And it lasts for seconds.

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212. "Bugs Bunny gave racier kisses on camera, lol"
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214. "Unrelated: I have a pitch for an all-gay action movie."
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You know how The Fast and The Furious is just dripping with homoerotic imagery?

I want to make a Fast and the Furious film, but it's not subtext. They're all actually gay. A gay police officer infiltrates the secret underworld of gay street racing. He falls in love with the gay street racing champion's brother. None of it is played for laughs. They just all happen to be gay, and all of the homoerotic imagery finally makes sense. Still has tons of badass action sequences, still has a racially diverse cast, still has plenty of comedic relief, still has corny dialogue about family. They're just all gay characters.

Oh, and instead of girls in tiny bikinis walking around during the big racing sequences, it's muscular dudes in Speedos. It's like every Fast and the Furious race montage, with loud hip-hop and shiny new cars-- just replace the women in bikinis with men in tiny bathing suits.

I've had this pitch since, like, 2 Fast 2 Furious. It's a movie franchise that is just begging to be turned all-gay.

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