to racism or sexism.And that's how I operate my life." (c) Oprah

Saw this quote on IG today and had me wondering if people still believe in the old mantra "A black person has to work twice as hard to get ahead in this world".


It's something that I use to hear a lot growing up but it seems a lot more controversial thing to say today (as seen in the IG comments section).

Is this sentiment too respectability politics for folks today?




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Traffic stop just like Oprah could excellence herself to shop in stores where they didn't want to show her expensive goods.
Oprah how brand is built off of change yourself and not the world around you... So it's not surprising she would come to that conclusion.
If your job is overworking you change jobs... Don't rally to change the policy that allows companies to take advantage of you.

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raised by a single mama born in Mississippi born in the 50s Oprah?




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make them at least good ones.

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Do you think you have struggled more in your life against institutional racism than Oprah?


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

If the answer is no... then O must be right and I, nor anyone else would have any right to question or disagree with her for any reason... invalidating any and all debate.
If the answer is yes, then you will argue that nothing I could have done in my 35 years of existence could match up to the "struggle" that O went through. Matter of fact no one could except for maybe MLK and the people on the balcony when he was shot... once again invalidating any and all possible debate.
A logical fallacy in the truest sense and it has nothing to do with the original question posited.

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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

that lacks substance, logic and reasoning. Its a poor attempt to discredit me as a poster because you don't want to address what I said.
You essentially did this... http://creativedisease.com/credimedia/credimediavideos/diversion/diversion.gif

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fuck you.

You started by speaking of a realization about the 'struggle' that you think you know that Oprah somehow doesn't know.

My question is why do you think you know something about the struggle that a black woman born in the deep south in the 50s don't know?

That's a very relevant question that you are evading.


You could answer that she is out of touch because she has been O. for so long. Or these are new issues that she never had to deal with.

Those would be substantive answers.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

it doesn't have to be.

w/o regard for whether Sarah knows more about the 'struggle' than O, her point stands - excellence doesn't seem to matter when it comes to police brutality (ask Martese Johnson - http://chicago.cbslocal.com/2015/03/19/bloody-arrest-of-college-student-from-chicago-prompts-investigation-in-virginia/). and even a famous academic can suffer the effect of unfair racial profiling (http://www.nydailynews.com/news/harvard-professor-henry-louis-gates-jr-arrested-home-calls-cambridge-police-racist-article-1.394425) or a Black billionairess (http://www.usatoday.com/story/money/business/2013/08/09/a-38000-handbag-not-unheard-of-in-luxury-market/2635871/).

it seemed like an ad hominem attack.

fuck you.

She choose to speak as an authority. I asked what is the basis for her authority.

She seems to think that Oprah believes that being excellent will make you rise above Racism and Sexism. I ask why does she believe that Oprah doesn't know that is not the case.




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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rhetorical_device

We can keep doing this and you can dig your hole deeper but let's not. Bc it's tired since it's clear what Sarah did and how you went ad hominem in response.

fuck you.

You are saying what she said was a rheotorical device. She is saying she is speaking from authority.

The two positions don't go together.


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or discuss th

naw. i'll go back to where i was b4 i edited that previous reply. lol

fuck you.

Normally the only people that are mad at that are racist white folks. Now I'll add you to that list. If you need me to be subordinate to you or anyone else in order to have a logical substantive conversation about race, or any other topic for that matter, I can see why you'd be uncomfortable....
Either way, it doesn't add any logic to your assumptions.

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fuck you.

I've done it before too...
Tossed out what I thought was an obvious ringer only to find everyone one all http://www.stephaniefeagan.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Airplane-gif.gif

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It's not like we don't have this same personal responsibility argument every other week.



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You: Out of these colors two which shade of orange is the prettiest...
http://www.lavenderandlimestudio.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/Color-2.jpg
Me: Neither of those are orange.
You: What are you the authority on orange?!?!
Me: Yes.
You: I knew what you were going to say. You just don't wanna admit I'm right. This orange is the best... http://www.lavenderandlimestudio.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/Color-2.jpg
Me: <sigh>

In Star Trek terms....
http://youtu.be/o_eSwq1ewsU
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Analogies are good for making complex things understandable.

This is really simple.

You disagree with Oprah statement and suggested you knew more on the topic then Oprah.

I ask you what is your basis for saying you know more on the topic than Oprah at least 3 times. And you skate the issues and discuss everything but the substance of the question.

So I will ask one last time and move on.

What is your basis for you thinking you understand this issue better than Oprah?

Or I will even put another way to take the issue of authority off the table, what do you think you know about the 'struggle' that you think Oprah is missing in this quote?






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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

>You disagree with Oprah statement and suggested you knew more
>on the topic then Oprah.

even if sarah_bellum claimed that, (which, btw she didnt at all)
what dismisses her from knowing more about this issue than oprah does?

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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

she born a poor black woman in Mississippi in the 50s and she is now a successful black woman in her 60s.

Maybe Sarah knows more about the subject than her. It's possible.

That's why I keep asking Sarah a) what makes her think she knows more and b.) what is it that you know that she doesn't know.

A couple of ways Sarah could know more like I said early if a.) Oprah has become so out of touch or b.) if the times are soo changed that Oprah doesn't have advice on how to make it now. Again, it's possible.

Sarah though, hasn't offered any explanation or substantive counter.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

You think only white people would take issue with your position that you know more about the struggle than a poor black woman raised in Mississippi in the 50s?


I am going to go out on a limb and say that you are no more of an authority on the 'struggle' or racism than Oprah Winfrey.

You can challenge that if you want, but you look simple.

Or to put another way, why should anyone take what you have to say on the matter over Oprah?

But setting aside who is the better authority, you or Oprah, you've yet to say anything of any real substance in this point except being excellent won't stop you from getting shot but who is disagreeing with that?

You made an appeal based on authority and then you and Sowhat got offended that anyone would question such authority. SMH.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

incredible.

take your L, please.

id... nvm

...the police. "Excellence" also requires long-term planning, often at the expense of immediate gratification. Oprah's "excellence" has opened doors for her that, in-turn, have and still allows her to open doors for others. Putting that work in isn't fun or glamorous.

Everyone wants to reap the fruit in October, but how many want to till the land in March?

It means if you're perfect... beyond reproach at all times, super human, inhuman even then you rise above racism and maybe, just maybe you'll be treated with the basic human dignity afforded to everyone else gets for being alive.
It's called dehumanization.

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If I've missed this specific case, do you have a link?

is a very old old philosphy, Oprah didn't invent it nor did she innovate it. She's said it in many iterations.
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Community building? Physical fitness? etc.

Everything I just listed is a prerequisite for coming up in the world.

Can't have a revolution with dumb folks. Or without a way to bankroll the movement and feed ourselves. Or if we can't organize. Or if we're too weak to fight.

Like I said above, some things require long-term planning and may yield results that we wont get to enjoy. A lot of people that were fighting slavery died as slaves. I appreciate their efforts because we reap the benefits.



People that don't even try to excel (in one way or another) will remain exactly where they started, if not even further back.

Why conflate the two. They have nothing to do with one another...racist aren't logical.
They hate you because you're black...
If they hated us because we don't have education they wouldn't have fled public schools when they integrated. If they hated us because we didn't own homes, they wouldn't have up and sold as soon as a black person moved next door. If the hated us because we didn't follow the law they wouldn't be shooting law abiding black people in traffic stops... but they are. So yes, strive for those things but just don't think it stops racism.
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>Can't have a revolution with dumb folks.

they probably shouldn't lead it but they have to be included. it won't succeed otherwise.

fuck you.

this idea that all black people must be T'challa of Wakanda in order to be worthy of a decent life is asinine.

Most people are thoroughly average...hence the word, lol. And ain't nothing wrong with that at all

It is so freakin exhausting. I really do hope one day we can all truly be free.

the key to happiness is not being rich;
it's doing something arduous and
creating something of value and then
being able to reflect on the fruits of your labor

The difference is these other groups are clandestine and aren't tugging on the coattails of white society pleading for acceptance. That is what's unique to us.

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show me how those groups have been systematically targeted and dehumanized by american society --- i'll wait.

the key to happiness is not being rich;
it's doing something arduous and
creating something of value and then
being able to reflect on the fruits of your labor

Excellence is not a deterrent to racism. Somehow I overlooked that part. It's more of a compass that lets you navigate through a racist society but it in no way is a deterrent as Sarah illustrated.

I'm hoping that's a misquote or something.

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and i can go to the market - i don't have to till any land.

fuck you.

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

Re: http://articles.latimes.com/2000/sep/14/news/mn-20917

“He had means. He had a family. He was living like a human being. And one racist act took him back. And the same is true of me. I spent years developing a career, acquiring assets, engaging responsibilities. And one racist act. It’s all it takes.” And then she talked again of all that she had, through great industry, through unceasing labor, acquired in the long journey from grinding poverty. She spoke of how her children had been raised in the lap of luxury—annual ski trips, jaunts off to Europe. She said that when her daughter was studying Shakespeare in high school, she took her to England. And when her daughter got her license at sixteen, a Mazda 626 was waiting in front. I sensed some connection to this desire to give and the raw poverty of her youth. I sensed that it was all as much for her as it was for her children. She said that Prince had never taken to material things. He loved to read. He loved to travel. But when he turned twenty-three, she bought him a jeep. She had a huge purple bow put on it. She told me that she could still see him there, looking at the jeep and simply saying, Thank you, Mom. Without interruption she added, “And that was the jeep he was killed in.”

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"A man who is good enough to shed his blood for his country is good enough to be given a square deal afterwards. More than that no man is entitled, and less than that no man shall have." - TR

If *we* don't believe in ourselves to be and work to become "the shit" then who the fuck else is gonna respect our hustle? We have to build our own communities. People that believe otherwise are probably looking for *other* people to do the work necessary for us to grow.

Growing up, violence from the police was a distant second to violence from other young black men in terms of what I was concerned with. All of the deflecting in the world wont change this fact. Only putting in that work will.

Because at the end of the day you are twice as good.

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excellence & high achievement don't make you immune to the nonsense. you can still catch it.

IT being a bullet, a smear campaign, etc.

of course, you gotta be excellent early.

no room for childhood mistakes that can ruin your prospects.

and if you make it,
the pressure of being excellent as a kid can help you develop psychosis and other mental health issues that can make you
generally paranoid and impede performance.


and let's keep it real, being excellent is still not a guarantee you won't get fucked.



so, no.

I dunno that this advice is the best way to win.

Her words are chosen wisely. She said it's the best deterrence. Which is a key part of the statement that folks seem to miss.


So yeah you can be excellent and it doesn't mean you won't get harassed by cops. It doesn't guarantee success.



>of course, you gotta be excellent early.
>
>no room for childhood mistakes that can ruin your prospects.
>
>and if you make it,
>the pressure of being excellent as a kid can help you develop
>psychosis and other mental health issues that can make you
>generally paranoid and impede performance.
>
>
>and let's keep it real, being excellent is still not a
>guarantee you won't get fucked.
>
>
>
>so, no.
>
>I dunno that this advice is the best way to win.


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what is deterred?

fuck you.

being excellent may be its own reward,
but beyond that, it doesn't help you much.

but b/c they aren't i can't agree that excellence is the way to beat them.

good for O though. i can understand why she clings to that and it's easily done from where she sits. it's very easy to lose perspective as she has - at least as related to this topic. she's not the only one, of course. lots of folks get brand new after they succeed.

oh...and no i never bought into the idea that we had to work 2x as hard largely b/c way back in elementary school i was always either ahead of my class or right there near the top w/them...and i didn't hardly have to do anything. it came easily. i was earning better grades and test scores than white kids w/o working very hard at all. so that mantra didn't make sense to me. i 'get it' now but don't agree w/it.

fuck you.

i believe the contract is still valid. LOL

fuck you.

Saying it's the best deterrence is a very different statement.

She never says Excellence guarantees you anything.




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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

what's the deterrent effect?

fuck you.

Relative to all other "deterrents". And a deterrent in itself is not a cure all or solution.

So being the best deterrent doesn't mean it will guarantee success. Doesn't mean you won't be affected by racism or sexism.

Obama said something similar like education is the best tool to elevate poverty. Doesn't mean getting a good education will guarantee lifting you out of poverty. But education is the best tool for doing so.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

based on that it sounds like she made an empty statement devoid of meaning.

fuck you.

And how do you not see any meaning in the statement? because it doesn't "guarantee to end racism or sexism"?


>based on that it sounds like she made an empty statement
>devoid of meaning.
>


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

what does that ^ mean?

fuck you.

And that there are all sorts of structural and institutional bars to you getting ahead and the best way to minimize the impact that all this racism and sexism can have on you is to strive for excellence.

Because whenever they can blame you for not getting that good grade, that promotion or blame you for being the cause of your death in that police interaction they will.

So the best way to minimize that impact is to not give them an excuse when you can and work twice as hard.

Folks can disagree with that but my question what is a better alternative? Cause most of the alternatives I hear are when you start to hear people talk in naïve and idealistic terms.

The funny thing to me is that people dismiss the twice as hard ethos as out of touch but in my mind there is no worldview more cynical and the naïve idealistic take is the notion that there will be some day of social justice reckoning right around the corner.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

oh okay.

so it's a pretty empty sentiment as i'd suspected. not worthy of much thought.

fuck you.

I think that's interesting and telling in itself.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

What's it say?

fuck you.

In general. Meaning if you're talented and excel at that talent someone will want it (or in the case of racists want to exploit it) as it's always in demand?

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I think it meant more when we had fewer examples of Blacks who've been able to move among 'them' and see how 'they' respond to Black excellence. But now it just doesn't say very much. Bc we know plenty excellent talented motherfuckin rich Blacks still deal with enough racism that their excellence doesn't seem to be much of a deterrent. And even if excellence protects us on a micro level we still see it on the macro level and if we have heart and a sense of community that hurts us. So what good is the deterrent? It has some value but not much, imo. So ultimately I think the sentment is cute and if an older relative said it to me I'd smile and nod. But I wouldn't walk away thinking I'd just received wisdom from the Oracle at Delphi or som'n.

fuck you.

I agree with you though and broken down like that it makes plenty of sense. My mom was a repeater of that mantra-- and I think it's applicable to work related situations i.e. getting paid, but not much beyond that. Certainly not a deterrent.

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fuck you.

And your whole clinging to this "deterrent"="guarantee" thing is not cute.

There are a lot of people in here shit-talking someone who was closer to the bottom than they ever were and now is way up at the top, geez.

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

catch up.

fuck you.

this shit shouldnt be in the realm of respectability

this is just in the area of do better because generations before us could not take on the opportunities present today

once this discussion opens up then I get a bit paranoid that end result is people thinking that its ok to do nothing because no matter what you still a nigga.


man. fuck that shit. strive.

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however, the notion that if we do better they won't act badly against us is off-base.

fuck you.

>however, the notion that if we do better they won't act badly
>against us is off-base.

We can put ourselves in a position where "they" wont matter as much to us.

The problem I see is that requires self-accountability, something that a lot of people nowadays run from as fast as they can.

it's fantastical, but not off-base.

fuck you.

>however, the notion that if we do better they won't act badly
>against us is off-base.

because you still always have to check a motherfucka
as oprah did, so im surprised she's still on this bullshit
instead they tend to make excuses for why you succeeded. its never because you are a human being as equal to any other successful human being
no, you must be different. exceptional
why is it status quo for everyone except us?
why hold us to a higher standard, if not because you think the default status of being (black) for us, is failure?
and if that is the case, then what do we call that?
we can start with prejudice, and draw the end conclusion of racist

i dont even know why in this day and age
we think excellence will change their minds
no... excellence is not for others, its for us.

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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

the key to happiness is not being rich;
it's doing something arduous and
creating something of value and then
being able to reflect on the fruits of your labor

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dude

What I do has nothing to do with someone else's racial/gender biases. That's something that person holds to varying degrees. They may be receptive enough for my excellence to open their eyes or they may not. Either way, it has little to do with me.

Excellence, in general, can allow a person to overcome their circumstances, but it's far from a guarantee. Further, excellence is something that's rare and shouldn't be the bar for basic ass rights. To accept that as a premise is defeatist as hell.

http://soundcloud.com/forestbrooks

>What I do has nothing to do with someone else's racial/gender
>biases. That's something that person holds to varying degrees.
>They may be receptive enough for my excellence to open their
>eyes or they may not. Either way, it has little to do with me.
>

Agreed
>
>Excellence, in general, can allow a person to overcome their
>circumstances, but it's far from a guarantee.


That's true but if you don't try we already know the results


Further,
>excellence is something that's rare and shouldn't be the bar
>for basic ass rights. To accept that as a premise is defeatist
>as hell.

Depends on how you define it. I just define it as being the best you can be. Doesn't mean. We can't still fight for basic rights, but it's the side I have the most control over.

dude

>Depends on how you define it. I just define it as being the
>best you can be. Doesn't mean. We can't still fight for basic
>rights, but it's the side I have the most control over.
>

I'm pretty sure in this context (gotta be 10x's better than the white folks), excellence is being defined as standing out in relation to others, specifically white folks. I mean, let's be honest, that's the subtext here.

My problem with that premise is that accepting it means accepting that white people are superior. It means proving that I'm 10 x's better just to be treated equally, which may or may not even work.

Ultimately, whether or not someone in a position of influence chooses to recognize my excellence and help me advance is completely out of my control. Obviously, that doesn't prevent me from doing and being my best, because my greatness is within my realm of control to a degree. It still, however, doesn't prevent me from being subjected to racial bias and it's the same for gender bias. Further that mindset is conceding my entire race to a level of inferiority and there's no way in hell I'm giving white supremacists that.

http://soundcloud.com/forestbrooks

White supremacy and the white power structure and structural racism.

It's the mindset of our parents, and grandparents. They knew that the only way you can get what you deserve in a system so stacked against us is to work twice as hard.

Are you saying our forebearers who believed this believed they were inferior to white people?


>
Further that mindset is
>conceding my entire race to a level of inferiority and there's
>no way in hell I'm giving white supremacists that.


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"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

To continue to spread the myth that we can excel our way out of white supremacy is wrong, as there are centuries of evidence to the contrary. We know better.

>It's the mindset of our parents, and grandparents. They knew
>that the only way you can get what you deserve in a system so
>stacked against us is to work twice as hard.

That was a comforting theory, because it still bought into the myth of upward mobility. The truth, however, is that it is the luck of the draw. You improve your chances by working harder, but it's still a toss up.

>Are you saying our forebearers who believed this believed they
>were inferior to white people?

No, I'm saying they believed what they needed to get through life. We know more now. We have a litany of information that tells us that hard work doesn't guarantee equality. The crazy thing is that this is true not only for race and gender, but also socioeconomic class. The vast majority of white people die in the same class their born too. It's all part of the myth of upward mobility that is a crucial element for driving the system of white supremacy. It's what leads them to say, Look at Obama or Oprah or *insert any magical negro here*.

We know better. It's time we stop all the bullshit and demand better.

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