thats my new shit, lol.

i think I'm done with dudes that are on par with me on terms of looks and thinking about taking on the below average/average range.

cuz i feel like you know you really like someone when you first see them and be like NAH but after hanging out with them you come around to OK, OK, YEAH.

and while i know that ugly dudes can be just as grimy as good looking dudes, at least when its a wrap you can think to yourself, "you was ugly anyway."

one of my closest friends said the key is finding someone unattractive enough to not get a great deal of attention/competition but attractive enough for you to want to be with them.

i mean when it comes down to it, looks matters very little in the grand scheme of things. if someone takes care of themselves and is healthy, and if they're good to you and can give you what you need rather than what you want, then looks should only be the icing on the cake.

this post is inspired by seeing a pic of dude from my last situationship looking super pretty (and being tickled by it) after hanging out with my new prospect who aint pretty at all.

http://38.media.tumblr.com/a60d16609209348f90da176ee760c6c8/tumblr_n6pkfi7AgD1rfduvxo1_500.gif

fuck you.

and just as superficial. so i can understand why you're saying that.

fuck you.

i feel you...nah but brothas do it all the time..

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i mean, shit.

Not gonna work for you

Besides
Im trying to do every thing I can not to have ugly kids

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i would feel better.

but you right on having unattractive kids. i would just hope my genes overpower.

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>Not gonna work for you

http://i.imgur.com/CMRQA5R.gif

damn... so um... what are you trying to say???

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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

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Its like trying to eat half a sandwich then trying to return it back to the kitchen cuz u didn't like it

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Niggas say you were ugly anyway when a woman spurns their advances
I was comparing this to NikaMandela saying you was ugly any way after breaking up wit a hypothetical dude
Actually hers is far worse...its like saying you little dick nigga!

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you basically saying a dude is going to spurn her advances.

not sure how you don't see this.

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And its stupid then cuz you wasted your time on a subpar nigga

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Because they have trouble with the core concepts

Same applies here

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good for you.

the norm is attractive woman not so attractive, or old, dude
with money or power or stability


this piece though
this is new

http://www.salon.com/2015/09/11/i_have_never_turned_heads_what_its_like_when_youre_not_the_object_of_desire/


dudes deal with not being attractive or considered the attractive one in the relationship constantly they have been conditioned to think it doesnt matter


instead get you a trophy!
jks
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i.e. older/unattractive cat with money/power with the fine ass woman.

but the flip of that is also the norm but not talked about nearly as often except by a few people that might see them out and about (which, incidentally, is going to be the same for people who see the former out).

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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

women as trophy
women valued for their looks is standard and norm


men not so much
unless you're gay

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NEVER fam???

EVER???!!!

I see it all the time across the race/ethnic spectrum. With the whole "cougar" shits being normalized now you really see it a lot these days.

Maybe you not seeing it is an NYC thing?
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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

in books, film, TV

and yes IRL
rich powerful men
the NFL, NBA, MLB, NHL

i'm talking women running for office and the media MUST talk about their clothes and hairstyles


and you are talking about this couple you once saw on the street


dude
smh*

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you acting like the biggun with a good job ain't out here snatching up bruhs left and right.

ok.


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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

my wife be real mad when I take her home and she sees all these niggas with busted white women.

they be proud too..

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start marrying 80 year old women for their wisdom

until then
y'all talking outliers and race/class distinctions

in here sounding like the but what about me? black people picked on me growing up
they racist too!
dummies


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the outliers.

Being an actor, pro athlete, or rapper is a one-in-a-million shot, and there are relatively few of those men out there.

However there's plenty of bruhs out there across the country with a white bremelo on his arm. The numbers just don't support your stance.

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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

why yall whine and cry when these dudes gets divorced
Yall try to live their lives so damn hard it hurts yall feelings regularly on here to see the dollar amount they pay out in the settlements

I didn't tell yall to get so deep in your feeling for those dudes
And aiming for patterning your lives after them

Yall consistently iterate this foolishness

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>why yall whine and cry when these dudes gets divorced
>Yall try to live their lives so damn hard it hurts yall
>feelings regularly on here to see the dollar amount they pay
>out in the settlements

y'all jump up and down when these chicks get divorced. Y'all try to live their lives so damned hard it makes y'all happy regularly on here to see the dollar amounts they pay out like you getting some of that money.


See how this works?



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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

like .1% of people are rappers and actors and politicians.

stop posting with emotion and use that tool on your shoulders

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>like .1% of people are rappers and actors and politicians.
>
>stop posting with emotion and use that tool on your shoulders

"But I seentededed it and it hurt my feeeelings"

Meanwhile facts are women are prized for their looks
Period unarguable ( except for the consistently in your feelings argumentative dudes on this board)
it's history, present and w yall never ever changing mysoginistic attitudes makes it a bound and determined future

Sheeit that's your damn facts
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I had never seen THAT many brothers with busted white women EVER. And I'm from Boston where plenty of bruhs wife up some so so white women.

niggas used to be on that gang shit and have busted milk duds rocking all red or blue bandanas...

it's a different world

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like she wasn't worthy...


I thought it was foul but I think women expected him to be with a model or Halle type instead of a regular Black woman

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other races.

I based this going to school with the corniest plainest white boys who all manage to get dimes as wives (Same for Asians and Indians).

I've got a lot of black female friends who would bring around these good looking guys who I would think would be not marriage material because they unemployed and generally shiftless.

I know it's self serving to say but f it, women shouldn't get too caught up in looks when looking for mates and the happiest ones seem to not to.


This is coming from a guy who has always considered myself good looking enough. Good looking enough that looks have never really been an impediment for me to pull girls but not so good looking that I didn't have to work at pulling girls.





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And its probably a class issue... So far as you better fuck wit a dude on this level

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Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

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Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

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when the coast is clear?



like god damn this shit in entrenched
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For one, I think it's an age thing. Younger women period tend to care more about a man's looks than they do when they get into their late 20's and 30's.

Seeing corny white guys pull dimes has zero to do with Asians/White women not caring about looks, but just that they care more about the stability and income than ANYTHING, which doesn't just include looks, but everything else....their style, attitude/demeanor, sense of humor, etc. etc.

If anything, you could argue the other side..."Black women aren't as materialistic because they will get with someone they're attracted to, versus someone who makes a lot of money...White/Asian women only care about how much money a guy makes." And that would contradict what a lot of Black men seem to think, but they're all just generalizations anyway.

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Pimps now that they older and finally getting play.


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Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

Five Star - https://goo.gl/jBHbVv
Appropriate Behavior - http://goo.gl/isCzTM
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I was with my wife and when they walked past I stopped dead in my tracks and said out loud "HOW IN THEEE FUCK"

and my wife said "you said exactly what I was thinking"

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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Sometimes you have to look reality in the face and say 'No!'
-Ben (Reaper)

If you need any help, don't. Hesitate to ask.

Wife will see some dude she considers "fione" and he's hugged up with some busted loop lookin chick and she'll blurt out "How??? Just How???"

Then I'll remind her that folks prolly said the same shit about me and the "less than attractive" chick I used to fuck with that she STILL clowns me for.


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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

"regular" guys pull pretty women for a number of reasons, hopefully because said women arent dating strictly for looks

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"how did he pull her" rests on the assumption that women should be shallow or that you can tell who a guy is without knowing him

your member since date says 2011. unless you were lurking or you had another name, before you got here some shit happened where OKP (men and women alike) asked like "how did he (me) pull (my ex)?"

get off my dick, that's how

with a spoon

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people have too much time on their hands

That shit real

Black women are superficial and will filter out dudes based on the most ridiculous thing. His ears are too big or he isn't tall enough.

Many of my black single friends are all chasing after the same type of dudes physically.

Most would date a shiftless good looking dude over an accomplished average dude.

My shallow requirements have to do with the penis. Must be long enough, thick enough and have endurance. We can work everything else out.

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>Black women are superficial and will filter out dudes based
>on the most ridiculous thing. His ears are too big or he isn't
>tall enough.
>
>Many of my black single friends are all chasing after the same
>type of dudes physically.
>
>Most would date a shiftless good looking dude over an
>accomplished average dude.
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>My shallow requirements have to do with the penis. Must be
>long enough, thick enough and have endurance. We can work
>everything else out.

There's a number of female posters here that could never admit to this much on here.


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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

and if it is true, then its a black thing rather than a black female thing, because black men are very vocal about their preference for thick girls. yet fat and skinny non-thick girls be booed up.

unattractive black men aren't REALLY suffering in these streets so i dont see how this is a thing.

As people have discussed, I do think it is more of a class thing.





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Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

Five Star - https://goo.gl/jBHbVv
Appropriate Behavior - http://goo.gl/isCzTM
Ma

>My shallow requirements have to do with the penis. Must be
>long enough, thick enough and have endurance. We can work
>everything else out.